On 10/27/2025 at 5:47 PM, emptypockets said:

She's been on Thai friendly for a while.

she does 2k short time in Pattaya on the weekends.

Just now, Ralf001 said:

she does 2k short time in Pattaya on the weekends.

 

Very funny, just because her sister is a bar girl, you tar her with the same brush. She's very honest, if she were a prostitute, she would say so.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Very funny, just because her sister is a bar girl, you tar her with the same brush. She's very honest, if she were a prostitute, she would say so.

Am talking bout the lass you put up the picture of.

 

Tomoz I wil dig up my Thaifriendly messages with her.

6 minutes ago, Ralf001 said:

Am talking bout the lass you put up the picture of.

 

Tomoz I wil dig up my Thaifriendly messages with her.

 

That's impossible. You're confusing her with someone else.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

That's impossible. You're confusing her with someone else.

if you say so.

1 minute ago, Ralf001 said:

if you say so.

 

Yes, I say so. That girl works as a seamstresss from noon to  night. I do video calls with her and she texts me every day. I've known her for 2 years plus. There is no way she is on TF now.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, I say so. That girl works as a seamstresss from noon to  night. I do video calls with her and she texts me every day. I've known her for 2 years plus. There is no way she is on TF now.

if you say so.

1 minute ago, Ralf001 said:

if you say so.

 

Bull<deleted>ter.

So she just advised me that she has to go to the dentist.

 

I said what's wrong, she said "everything"."But I don't like going to the doctor". As a joke I quipped "Don't worry, I'll hold your hand"..

 

She replied "That doesn't help. Instead of holding hands, better you pay".

 

So, like with BKK girl I'm looking at a major dentail bill, on top of all the other expenses.

 

 

9 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

She says she's not a prostitute, Celsius. And she just openly admitted to banging two guys in two months. This is an honest girl!

 

She's very honest and controlling just like.....wait..... those pesky western women.

 

 

3 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

She's very honest and controlling just like.....wait..... those pesky western women.

 

 

 

Her radical honesty is more Western, I'm more concerned about her body count now, it's suddenly gone up to 8, and I'm not counting the other guy she banged, as he was her Ex, but that was really also a fresh mating in the last 2 months, so her body count is almost approaching the Western average of 12..

 

She has said there is no chance in hell of having sex with her ex again, but clearly he's still in the mix .Women don't move on so fast.

 

But let's not go nuts, no  25 year old Western woman would hop on a plane  and spend two months with a 43 year old man and ask for only 260 USD. Her demands, though higher than normal, are still below Western demands. And no doubt she's far more attractive than the average Western woman.

 

Controlling, we'll have to see, but yes, the initial signs are not encouraging "come to Phuket first" "no anal" "11000 cash"!, but that's something you can only judge after some time.

 

I'm worried her teeth are another money drain. Like BKK girl, she will need major dentistry work done. What a nightmare.

 

On the plus side she already offered to cook for me and be useful around the house, unlike a Western woman, but again, that will be judged over time.

 

It's almost like I a found a total curiosity, an honest Thai woman, an honest woman full stop. It would be madness not to investigate this curiosity. I will fly her in. Depsite, all the many, many red flags and problems. This integrity of hers, her honesty, would be more important I think, and trumps a slightly high body count, a pesky ex, and a tendency to play Bonobo monkey, which let's face it, we all have.

11 hours ago, Ralf001 said:

Am talking bout the lass you put up the picture of.

 

Tomoz I wil dig up my Thaifriendly messages with her.

 

So where are these Thaifriendly messages with her?

 

Have they miraculously disappeared then?

 

 

50 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

But let's not go nuts, no  25 year old Western woman would hop on a plane  and spend two months with a 43 year old man and ask for only 260 USD

Get your story together, you have admitted to being over 50, but often post that you are 43. Sort of negates all credibility. 

1 hour ago, marin said:

Get your story together, you have admitted to being over 50, but often post that you are 43. Sort of negates all credibility. 

 

No, it only negates your ability to read English and remember basic facts.

 

Upthread you will find a post where I explain that I told Phuket girl I was 43. The sentence you quote is obivously a Gedankenexperiment from her perspectivve.

All is up to you. She told you 2 guys, but you already know, she is doing so.

Other women may not even tell. The knowledge now, she was doing 2 guys, makes you doubt(?)

You pay, she is prostitute, at least to you. Paying for sex is prostitution.

You know all those women can have had sex in the last days, as money pays food and other things.

You never know, there are also women, having sex while married and husband doesnt know.

You come home and say "Honey , im really horny, let me have you"

The wife says honestly "Sorry dear, but the milkman just left and had me. Im not in the mood now"

Hahahaha.

Again I dont see the problem. You know all. Her honesty now scares you?! 

If you pick up a girl in Pattaya for 400 baht, then there is no problem? 

Though she doesnt tell you, you know 2 hours (or so) before she could have had sex.

Maybe even 10 minutes ago. But it is money.

 

Had to think about a mate of mine, he is really into sex.

So he scored a woman and was really ready to go, until he smelled her pussy.

From attack mode to running away. Hahahaha.

I lmao.  

10 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

So where are these Thaifriendly messages with her?

 

Have they miraculously disappeared then?

 

 

 

Am, looking at them right now.

But your name calling, very child like and as the messages are not PG rated I will refrain from sharing.

1 hour ago, Ralf001 said:

 

Am, looking at them right now.

But your name calling, very child like and as the messages are not PG rated I will refrain from sharing.

 

You fantasist bounder!

Phuket girl is different.

 

We agreed on a date and flight and she insists she will book it herself. A first. normally all other girls want me to book the flight.

 

The girl booking the flight herself, never happened before.

 

She seems to have a big need for control.

 

Not sure if this is a good or a bad sign.

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Phuket girl is different.

 

We agreed on a date and flight and she insists she will book it herself. A first. normally all other girls want me to book the flight.

 

The girl booking the flight herself, never happened before.

 

She seems to have a big need for control.

 

Not sure if this is a good or a bad sign.

 

Did I miss what happened to your Bangkok option? When is she arriving? Did she take your money and run?

This is actually quite a sad story. But at least you are putting a brave face on it.

1 minute ago, BatteringRam said:

 

Did I miss what happened to your Bangkok option? When is she arriving? Did she take your money and run?

This is actually quite a sad story. But at least you are putting a brave face on it.

 

She is supposed to come on the 7th, and will leave just before Phuket Girl arrives. Indeed, a very sad story. When she lived with me for a year after about 5 months I caught her writing to her ex. I  told her it was not acceptable and she can never do it again. She said she blocked him and would never contact him again. Yesterday I saw she added this ex to her Instagram again. Plus another guy. She doesn't know I'm monitoring her Instagram..

 

For one year she's been telling me she will come back, kept coming to visit me for 2 weeks, I would go to BKK to see her. And now she's again talking to her ex, and adding other guys. Cheaters and liars really don't change. When she wrote to her Ex the first time I should have sent her home.

4 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

She is supposed to come on the 7th, and will leave just before Phuket Girl arrives. Indeed, a very sad story. When she lived with me for a year after about 5 months I caught her writing to her ex. I  told her it was not acceptable and she can never do it again. She said she blocked him and would never contact him again. Yesterday I saw she added this ex to her Instagram again. Plus another guy. She doesn't know I'm monitoring her Instagram..

 

For one year she's been telling me she will come back, kept coming to visit me for 2 weeks, I would go to BKK to see her. And now she's again talking to her ex, and adding other guys. Cheaters and liars really don't change. When she wrote to her Ex the first time I should have sent her home.

 

But you are still receiving her on the 7th. To get your money's worth or do you hope to salvage the relationship?

1 hour ago, BatteringRam said:

 

But you are still receiving her on the 7th. To get your money's worth or do you hope to salvage the relationship?

 

Well, she's still A Grade female, and she has sex with me. So at this point I will see her, but demote her to f-buddy status. It is clear her dishonesty, cheating, playing the field and general lack of attraction toward me are problems that cannot be overcome. I tried for a year, but it was futile. I will focus my attention on the Chiang Mai girl in particular, and then Phuket Girl is coming  and after her a Filipina so it will all resolve itself. The cream will rise to the top. Even if BKK girl was the best looking by far, that is useless without a character that includes loyalty, trustworthiness and reciprocation. Yes, she comes and sees me and has sex with me, but she does not want to be tied down to me, clearly. So that's fine, I will focus on the others. CM girl is also very attractive, and Phuket girl even more so. A shame about the rapport that was built up over 2 years with BKK girl, but she's again talking to her ex, and even some other guy. It's hopeless.

22 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well, she's still A Grade female, and she has sex with me. So at this point I will see her, but demote her to f-buddy status. It is clear her dishonesty, cheating, playing the field and general lack of attraction toward me are problems that cannot be overcome. I tried for a year, but it was futile. I will focus my attention on the Chiang Mai girl in particular, and then Phuket Girl is coming  and after her a Filipina so it will all resolve itself. The cream will rise to the top. Even if BKK girl was the best looking by far, that is useless without a character that includes loyalty, trustworthiness and reciprocation. Yes, she comes and sees me and has sex with me, but she does not want to be tied down to me, clearly. So that's fine, I will focus on the others. CM girl is also very attractive, and Phuket girl even more so. A shame about the rapport that was built up over 2 years with BKK girl, but she's again talking to her ex, and even some other guy. It's hopeless.

 

She's not Grade A. Deceitful. Cheats. Poorly educated. Is your criteria; poor, young and reasonably attractive? Grade A means something else to anyone serious.

I give her E for Effort.

As to what I have read about the others, are you really this desperate? 

Just like dogs can smell fear, these girls can smell your desperation. You keep dropping any standard or principles you pretend to have, just for some kind of ego boost.

I don't want you to feel that I am dissing you. But it's a similar feeling to when I see someone who needs my help.

Trying to keep up a pipeline of girls in order to fill the void. I would do the same was a teenager. Just collect girls and numbers to feel good about myself.

Reading how you felt good just with her flirting with you via text. It's so little and you are paying for that.

You seem trapped in a cycle. You are going to have to break out of it if you want a real relationship.

You are the only person in Thailand wasting energy on prostitutes. Ask yourself if 1000 Indians and Arabs beforehand did the same?

 

I haven't wasted this much energy on real relationships since I was born. If I had to pay anyone to have sex with me that relationship would be purely transactional without any drama involved.

 

Period.

2 hours ago, BatteringRam said:

 

She's not Grade A. Deceitful. Cheats. Poorly educated. Is your criteria; poor, young and reasonably attractive? Grade A means something else to anyone serious.

I give her E for Effort.

As to what I have read about the others, are you really this desperate? 

Just like dogs can smell fear, these girls can smell your desperation. You keep dropping any standard or principles you pretend to have, just for some kind of ego boost.

I don't want you to feel that I am dissing you. But it's a similar feeling to when I see someone who needs my help.

Trying to keep up a pipeline of girls in order to fill the void. I would do the same was a teenager. Just collect girls and numbers to feel good about myself.

Reading how you felt good just with her flirting with you via text. It's so little and you are paying for that.

You seem trapped in a cycle. You are going to have to break out of it if you want a real relationship.

 

She just called me on video. I asked why her ex and this Iranian guy are in her Insta list.

 

She  was shocked and said she did not add them. They must have added her, and she accepted without checking who it was.

 

When there was an incident 8 months ago I insisted on her adding one my  Insta alias accounts  in her Insta. I thought she forgot or something. But that doesn't make sense. She must have known I was in there. So to add her ex and this Iranian guy knowingly, it would be strange.

 

Maybe she did add these two guys carelessly, not checking who they were. But  yes, her effort is not sufficient. She texts me every day, and she also comes to see me for a week or two. But it's not enough.

 

I will focus more on a few other girls now. We sort of cleared the air, she agreed to immediately delete these two guys and put them on a block list. She swore she would never go back with her ex and never talked to the Iranian. But given her past behaviour doubt remains. It's not satisfactory. So others will get a chance. This is why it's so important there are  5 other girls. If I only had Bangkok girl, this would be a much worse situation. Now I can focus on others without a bad conscience. The pipeline is not to fill a void. It's a necessity.

 

 

16 minutes ago, Celsius said:

You are the only person in Thailand wasting energy on prostitutes. Ask yourself if 1000 Indians and Arabs beforehand did the same?

 

I haven't wasted this much energy on real relationships since I was born. If I had to pay anyone to have sex with me that relationship would be purely transactional without any drama involved.

 

Period.

 

None of these girls are prostitutes.

 

And all relationships are transactional, with very, very few exceptions.

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

None of these girls are prostitutes.

 

And all relationships are transactional, with very, very few exceptions.

 

They are prostitutes. Money for sex. You don't have anything in common with them. The fact that they would travel to meet  and have sex with an old man who offers them money, tells you everything you need to know. You seem to be in denial. These girls are the dregs. If you can buy them with money, they are not worth anything at all. 

Have you not heard of the term, priceless?

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

They must have added her, and she accepted without checking who it was.

 

Seriously? Is your middle name Gullible? 

10 hours ago, BatteringRam said:

 

Seriously? Is your middle name Gullible? 

 

She knew I was in her Instagram! To add her ex on purpose, nobody could be that stupid.

10 hours ago, BatteringRam said:

 

They are prostitutes. Money for sex. You don't have anything in common with them. The fact that they would travel to meet  and have sex with an old man who offers them money, tells you everything you need to know. You seem to be in denial. These girls are the dregs. If you can buy them with money, they are not worth anything at all. 

Have you not heard of the term, priceless?

 

Phuket Girl, I assume, you're talking about, she was willing to meet without any money. She just insisted I come to Phuket first, so to avoid this, I offered to give her the money I would have spent travelling to Phuket, as an enticement that she give up her requirement I go to Phuket. 

 

It worked.