1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

She knew I was in her Instagram! To add her ex on purpose, nobody could be that stupid.

She thinks you are!

Or simply does not care what you think.

24 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

She thinks you are!

Or simply does not care what you think.

 

If she didn't care what I think she wouldn't have deleted these two guys. And blocked them. She immediately said she'd do that  and swore she did not talk to either guy, and would never get back with her ex.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

If she didn't care what I think she wouldn't have deleted these two guys. And blocked them. She immediately said she'd do that  and swore she did not talk to either guy, and would never get back with her ex.

You are acting and sounding like a teenager.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

If she didn't care what I think she wouldn't have deleted these two guys. And blocked them. She immediately said she'd do that  and swore she did not talk to either guy, and would never get back with her ex.

53 and acting like you are 18, quite the laugh.  

8 minutes ago, marin said:

53 and acting like you are 18, quite the laugh.  

 

What he said doesn't make sense. If she didn't care what I think, why would she delete her ex and this other guy from her Insta?

 

You're both talking infantinle nonsense, which doesn't even make any sense.

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

If she didn't care what I think she wouldn't have deleted these two guys. And blocked them. She immediately said she'd do that  and swore she did not talk to either guy, and would never get back with her ex.

When i talked thai in the reception in my regular hotel in Bangkok another foreigner stood next to me with his thai wife.She asked the lady in the reception who i was..and she just smiled and said im a regular guest there.

About 15 minutes later the thai lady knocked on my door asked if she could get my number.I gave it and after a while she started texting me saying she wanted to see me in another place for fun.I said ok and the next day we meet in another soi and went to a cheap hotel and had fun.She wasn't a young girl..she was a beautiful mature lady.

She still msg me on WhatsApp on weekly bases wondering when we can meet again.So what i mean is if they want to cheating u they do it in the front of ur eyes if u don't speak thai.

 

 

1 minute ago, norsurin said:

When i talked thai in the reception in my regular hotel in Bangkok another foreigner stood next to me with his thai wife.She asked the lady in the reception who i was..and she just smiled and said im a regular guest there.

About 15 minutes later the thai lady knocked on my door asked if she could get my number.I gave it and after a while she started texting me saying she wanted to see me in another place for fun.I said ok and the next day we meet in another soi and went to a cheap hotel and had fun.She wasn't a young girl..she was a beautiful mature lady.

She still msg me on WhatsApp on weekly bases wondering when we can meet again.So what i mean is if they want to cheating u they do it in the front of ur eyes if u don't speak thai.

 

 

 

You went to mess with a girl who had a husband? You immoral bounder!

32 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

If she didn't care what I think she wouldn't have deleted these two guys. And blocked them. She immediately said she'd do that  and swore she did not talk to either guy, and would never get back with her ex.

Have you seen her other phone?

3 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

Have you seen her other phone?

 

If you delete two guys from your Instagram account, they'll be deleted, on either phone, genius.

1 hour ago, norsurin said:

When i talked thai in the reception in my regular hotel in Bangkok another foreigner stood next to me with his thai wife.She asked the lady in the reception who i was..and she just smiled and said im a regular guest there.

About 15 minutes later the thai lady knocked on my door asked if she could get my number.I gave it and after a while she started texting me saying she wanted to see me in another place for fun.I said ok and the next day we meet in another soi and went to a cheap hotel and had fun.She wasn't a young girl..she was a beautiful mature lady.

She still msg me on WhatsApp on weekly bases wondering when we can meet again.So what i mean is if they want to cheating u they do it in the front of ur eyes if u don't speak thai.

 

 

Dreamer

50 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

If you delete two guys from your Instagram account, they'll be deleted, on either phone, genius.

It doesn't delete the Thai friendly, Thai Cupid and Badoo accounts though. Especially when they are all in different names. You have a lot to learnm

2 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

It doesn't delete the Thai friendly, Thai Cupid and Badoo accounts though. Especially when they are all in different names. You have a lot to learnm

 

I've already been there and got the T-shirt. She's not on Thaifriendly, nor ThaiCupid and Badoo. She's so hot, she gets 20 messages a month on Tik Tok anyway. 

 

If she really wants to cheat you'd never be able to stop her anyway.

 

However, given her reaction on these two guys in Instagram, and deleting and blocking them, I'm satisfied there was no malice, probably. 

 

Time will tell anyway, if she comes I'll feel what her real interest level is in being here long term.

But that won't be necessary anymore. Yesterday has brought clarity.

 

At 2.20 pm yesterday I enquired about car cleaning. I was told 200 baht to clean the outside and inside. Can you pick up my car from my residence? Of course Sir. Within 10 minutes  they came to pick up my car. I prepared for the date. At 4.20 pm the car was delivered to my door. Perfectly clean, inside and out. 200 baht. Only in Thailand. I put a last touch, vanilla air freshener, and lavender pillow spray to scent the inside pleasantly. Just as I'd put white lavender talcom powder, body spray and cologne. Belts and braces.

 

As expected she had confirmed our date. I arrived to pick her up by car at her house, fashionably late 11 minutes. This time I got  out of the car and waited for her as she walked towards me. That way I could embrace her warmly and kiss her as she arrived. "You look amazing, please come in", I open the door for her. She looked even more amazing than last time. This time she wore an elegant minimalist very long black evening gown with barely there spaghetti straps over the sholders. Hair held back with a Louis Vuitton fabric, bow tied at the back. Normally this hair style is not my favourite, but it worked wonders for her. Oh the car smells nice! Yes, I just had it cleaned.

 

Leann Rimes was playing in the car, a soft and slow love song nobody knows, from my personal collection. Immediately the conversation flowed, "What's it like to live with your sister?" I had prepared some questions as queues and let her talk. She's an intelligent and natural conversationalist. We both start to feel comfortable and at ease already. The drive is smooth, my worries that Sunday market would affect the trip were wholly unwarranted.

 

As I pulled into the driveway of this world famous hotel chain, lit with lights, I was lucky to get fantastic parking that was very close to the entrance. We go in, I ask where the sky bar is, 21st floor, and we walk up to the sky bar.

 

People are clearing up and most people are leaving. The rain just started again,. Unfortunate, but this bad weather would become my ally later. We stood there for 5 minutes, looking around a bit as the restaurant was still closed for 5 minutes. I ask, "Oh the restaurant is open", Wonderful, we go down to the restaurant. The table is magnificent, overlooking a floor to celing window of the cityscape. Very comfortable chairs not facing opposite but at right angles. Perfect.

 

The menu came with a tablet and real menus. Nice. We ordered by the pictures on the tablet. Cinnamon burnt rice and lamb and hot and sour soup with pork ribs for starters. The former in particular was superb, but she loved the soup more. The flavours were curated perfectly. As main course Hang lay in the form pork belly and with potatos and pickled vegetables, a unique version, and stir-fried noodles with pork.

 

She impressed at dinner. When the drinks came,  I'd ordered a Gingler ale, which came in a can. Before the waitress could open it, she had taken my can and attempted to open it for me. She couldn't but the waitress helped her. She poured my drink for me. Put a straw in it. She was going to order a cocktail but suddenly asked "Will we go to the sky bar after dinner?" When I said Yes, she said, just water then. A considerate girl.

 

Again the conversation flowed, she only drinks water. What is love for you? Her answer was stunning and true. Then, out of herself, she shared 3 sides that are bad sides. What are your three bad sides? I say I'm too trusting. Do you have trust issues? No. We skipped dessert. The people from the hotel come down to advise us that due to heavy rain it is not advisable to go to the sky bar now.

 

That's not a problem I say. I made reservations at a bar nearby. We can go there, it's inside. "Oh you have a plan B" she says surprised with a delighted smile on her face. Yes  I did, I anticipated with this rain we may not be able to sit at the Sky bar.The reservation is for 8 pm. "Oh you reserved?" Another delighted smile and a thumbs up. So we go down, i read a sign by the elevator in loud theatrical Spanish, we arrive downstairs and realise it is absolutely pishing down. After using the restrooms I tell, please wait here. I brought two rain jackets, two baseball caps and a large umbrella, I will bring them and we'll walk to the bar, which is just across the street.  But you'll get wet, she says, I say yes, I don't mind.

 

I really don't. I bring the gear, we suit up. And arm and arm we go under the big umbrella in rain hats and baseball caps through the storm. We arrive at the door of the bar in no time. It is one of the 20 best bars in Thailand, but I'm not wowed by the seats. However, turned out they were perfect, opposite the musicians stage and next to each other. 

 

Cocktails were spectacular. I ordered a watermelon black pepper cocktail and she went for a truffle cocktail. One was leagues better we both agreed. Next I had a cream cheese strawberry sparkling wine cocktail, she had a gin with spices and blueberry. Again mine was better. At the end she ordered an oolong tea cocktail with seaweed. I again went with the watermelon. 

 

The music started playing. The band was a piano player, a base player and a drummer plus singer.

 

I'd told her my father was a drummer. And she mercilessly teased me, because the drummer was older, aah don't cry this will remind you of daddy. I didn't tease her enough. 

 

She said she had cold hands and kept putting her hands in my hand. Look how cold my hands are. Obviously this was a real concern for me, I regularly checked how cold her hands were by holding them. She warmed up. 

 

They played only Brazilian jazz. Girl from ipanema, so nice, Mais que nada. I was in heaven. 

 

We left. I suggested movie at my place. She said its too late, just home. So I said no problem. Before she got out, I said you're so beautiful, could I get a photo of you. She agreed. "Oh for daddy, huh"?

 

It was my ploy to give her a hug. I made the photos, then big bear hug , " I  said you are so beautiful" and she left. I drove home, she lives only 17 minutes from me. Ironic, everything considered.

 

As I arrive home and relax. A text. From her. "Home safe?". I reply "No, I lost my heart". She replies "Oh no". I text "Yes, I'm in grave danger". 

 

What a woman. What a night. My search is over. Phuket girl texted, I was disappointed it wasn't her. Not even interested in BKK girl coming anymore.

 

My search is over now. My choice is made.

 

 

22 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

What he said doesn't make sense. If she didn't care what I think, why would she delete her ex and this other guy from her Insta?

 

You're both talking infantinle nonsense, which doesn't even make any sense.

 

Because you are paying her. You haven't stopped her salary like you stated you would. I don't even need to ask if you did, as I know you have not.

This is not a complicated script. It's only you complicating it in your mind. You've invested so much, that it's hard for you to let go. 

These girls are no good for you, but it's your own fault.

18 minutes ago, BatteringRam said:

 

Because you are paying her. You haven't stopped her salary like you stated you would. I don't even need to ask if you did, as I know you have not.

This is not a complicated script. It's only you complicating it in your mind. You've invested so much, that it's hard for you to let go. 

These girls are no good for you, but it's your own fault.

That's all irrelevant now. See above. 

 

I found her. 

 

BKK girl, Phuket, girl, the Filipinas and Nakhon Phanom will be phased out gently now. 

 

All my resources will be focused on one girl in the near future. The one I met yesterday. 

25 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

That's all irrelevant now. See above. 

 

I found her. 

 

BKK girl, Phuket, girl, the Filipinas and Nakhon Phanom will be phased out gently now. 

 

All my resources will be focused on one girl in the near future. The one I met yesterday. 

Brilliant!

Great decision making - All my resources will be focused on one girl in the near future. The one I met yesterday.

30 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

That's all irrelevant now. See above. 

 

I found her. 

 

BKK girl, Phuket, girl, the Filipinas and Nakhon Phanom will be phased out gently now. 

 

All my resources will be focused on one girl in the near future. The one I met yesterday. 

 

Clickbait.

On 10/29/2025 at 1:59 AM, fredwiggy said:

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Most women leave because they aren't being listened to, respected or neglected. Nothing to do with sex. Sex is one indication how the relationship is going, although many like sex and will have it even if they don't necessarily like their partner. Again, you need to have had a normal relationship before you guess how one goes. 

 

Finally, a confession.

1 hour ago, ravip said:

Brilliant!

Great decision making - All my resources will be focused on one girl in the near future. The one I met yesterday.

 

It is a good decision. She just agreed to a third date. She's highly intelligent. Speaks fluent English. From a good family, with money, both parents still together. And a Christian girl. A loyal girl who never cheated on anyone, she says.

 

Funny, likes to joke. And beautiful, slim. Skin like a Korean film star.

 

What a night it was yesterday.

 

It was written in the stars
What was written in the stars shall be
It was written in the skies
That the heart and not the eyes

Shall see.

2 hours ago, BatteringRam said:

 

Because you are paying her. You haven't stopped her salary like you stated you would. I don't even need to ask if you did, as I know you have not.

This is not a complicated script. It's only you complicating it in your mind. You've invested so much, that it's hard for you to let go. 

These girls are no good for you, but it's your own fault.

 

I have not paid BKK girl any money this month. And I won't going forward. I will let her go. 

 

The date with CM girl yesterday showed this girl is leagues ahead of any other. A quality no other can match, even more beautiful. I will focus on CM girl going forward.

 

She is my choice. The others will all be phased out gently as things with CM girl progress.

35 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

It is a good decision. She just agreed to a third date. She's highly intelligent. Speaks fluent English. From a good family, with money, both parents still together. And a Christian girl. A loyal girl who never cheated on anyone, she says.

 

Funny, likes to joke. And beautiful, slim. Skin like a Korean film star.

 

What a night it was yesterday.

 

It was written in the stars
What was written in the stars shall be
It was written in the skies
That the heart and not the eyes

Shall see.

I hope you will not see stars soon in the daytime!

7 minutes ago, ravip said:

I hope you will not see stars soon in the daytime!

 

Too late. When she just agreed to a third date stars and fireworks all at once.

 

This is the one. Finally, I found her.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Too late. When she just agreed to a third date stars and fireworks all at once.

 

This is the one. Finally, I found her.

Please do come back and tell us the story in a months time...  waiting eagerly.

 

10 minutes ago, ravip said:

Please do come back and tell us the story in a months time...  waiting eagerly.

 

 

Yes, it's not a done deal, obviously. When she texted me after the date yesterday night "Home safe?" I knew she was interested. That's why I felt confident to reply in a playful way "No, I lost my heart". Her reply "Oh no" I then replied "Yes, I'm in grave danger". She replied to day "How so?" and I replied "I don't know if it's safe with you. So shen the replied "I don't know either".

 

Her way of telling me "Don't think this is in the bag buster, I have a lot of options". She is so beautiful after all. And I'm not exactly a dream catch, even at 43. 

 

However, she agreed to a third date. So the worst is averted. However, there is a lot of work ahead, and there's no guarantee. She may still jump on another branch. Let's see.

 

I will phase out the others slowly, only if things progress positively with CM girl. However, the Phuket girl visit is on hold now obviously. I told her I'm getting a cold.

10 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, it's not a done deal, obviously. When she texted me after the date yesterday night "Home safe?" I knew she was interested. That's why I felt confident to reply in a playful way "No, I lost my heart". Her reply "Oh no" I then replied "Yes, I'm in grave danger". She replied to day "How so?" and I replied "I don't know if it's safe with you. So shen the replied "I don't know either".

 

Her way of telling me "Don't think this is in the bag buster, I have a lot of options". She is so beautiful after all. And I'm not exactly a dream catch, even at 43. 

 

However, she agreed to a third date. So the worst is averted. However, there is a lot of work ahead, and there's no guarantee. She may still jump on another branch. Let's see.

 

I will phase out the others slowly, only if things progress positively with CM girl. However, the Phuket girl visit is on hold now obviously. I told her I'm getting a cold.

I thought you said you were 54.

6 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

I thought you said you were 54.

 

I am. But you can't tell that to a 25 year old girl.

 

To them I'm 43.

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I am. But you can't tell that to a 25 year old girl.

 

To them I'm 43.

So chronologically you are 54

Appears to be 43 to a 25 year old 

Emotionally 14 to everyone else.

4 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

So chronologically you are 54

Appears to be 43 to a 25 year old 

Emotionally 14 to everyone else.

 

Pretty much yeah. And sexually 25....