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Do expats in Thailand see relationships differently over time?

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9 minutes ago, Nick Carter icp said:

Ex bargirls who are forced to settle down because a lack of customers often take a while to adjust to a normal quiet life

Mine was more a 'total lack of any financial sense' and needed a 'Dad' to manage her life in a more cost effective way.

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Just now, BritManToo said:

Mine was more a 'total lack of any financial sense' and needed a 'Dad' to manage her life in a more cost effective way.

She was just 13 at the time, they do need a Dad at that age

1 hour ago, IsmeUno said:

Back with your mad posts again? It's just your imagination. Again, ego, as you are not capable of a discussion without your emotions taking over and then holding a grudge. You should learn to practice what you preach. You wrote about your exes and not speaking bad about them once things were over. Seems that was just words..

I thought that you said that you had enough for today. So again not even a man of your word.

As for me, I'm preparing a snack of Organic Rye bread and smoked salmon with a creamed horseradish garnish and spicy pickled cucumber.

Do you find it strange that I can write completely normally to you about a subject whilst disagreeing with you on another? Is that Jekyll and Hyde syndrome to you or are you merely limited? Your dysfunctional brain, as you put it?

Accept there are different perspectives or struggle on in your confusion. Up to you.

I do not think I owe you an explanation when there has been no real acknowledgment of wrongdoing, only excuses. The way you present yourself sometimes feels inconsistent, and you often come across as though you believe you know better than everyone else because you have been here longer.

Your mood also seems quite up and down lately. I think it would be best to take a step back and approach this more calmly.

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

So why do you end up mocking people on internet ? What is your drive to play these controlling games, compete, repeat, what is your motivation? Boredom?

You constantly searching for weakness in other people, and I suspect you need the feeling of being superior to others to feel good about yourself, and your own weaknesses.

Why would you even reply to that grub. He is nothing but a wind up merchant. He is the lowest member on the whole site.

On 3/23/2026 at 8:15 AM, Gottfrid said:

It´s simple Freddy. If you want your life private as you said so many times. Number one rule is to not post about it in an open forum and after fight with everybody who doesn´t believe the story is like you are telling it. That´s just dumb!

As a second, you are telling that you know how it went down and you are telling the true story. Yeah, you are saying that. We haven´t heard what your ex has to say about you and her opinion about things. As long as that is a fact, you can try to convince the world about your story. You know, the one-sided story.

So, as a result you push on with that everyone is wrong and you are right. That makes you present yourself as a superior oracle. Anyway, I am not as long-winding as you, as I don´t need to convince anybody about anything. To sum it up: You are telling your story, in an open forum, for everyone to read and discuss. Some people will have sympathy and blindly believe your story. That comes from two human versions. The first one is the naive type, and the second one is the male chauvinist, that always blame the other sex for their mistakes and misery.

On the other side, you have the more awake part of the population on planet earth, that are the ones who are critical to one-sided information and always likes to fact check things. The ones who also get more critical when a person tries and tries over and over again to convince people about a one-sided story.

What it all comes down to Freddy, is that you are telling us that we don´t have any evidence of the contrary. Ok fair, but do you have any evidence that there is no contrary. So, now read and learn. Go back to number one rule and think hard about that one! That was the one you forgot, and therefore the one that could have saved you.

There is no everyone besides a couple here , known as trolls, who are the ones who are taking this over the edge.I told the truth. They didn't like the truth, so they'll keep it going, but I won't any longer.My having custody of all my children speaks volumes to anyone who understands what that means. Of course anything said here can be disbelieved, but again, some take it way too far.

On 3/23/2026 at 9:50 AM, IsmeUno said:

Again, you are describing yourself. More and more people are seeing it for themselves. You try to deflect by calling them Trolls and morons etc The gaslighting is obvious. It's you who displays the symptoms.

As to people accusing you of lying...who has done that? Point them out and I will chastise them for you. 😊

My belief is that you have actually convinced yourself that you are blameless in all of these situations. So for you it is not a lie.

My question is simple. Can you accept that your behaviour might have contributed to the deterioration of your relationships?

I'm not stating categorically that is what happened, but can you accept that maybe you are not as easy to live with as you would like people to imagine?

Something else that you are unable to process, is the concept of how you behave here. You see it as 'defending yourself'. That's fine, but it is the way that you do it. The abuse, the name calling, the labelling. Not due to any evidence, but to your heightened level of emotion. Can you accept that people will make judgements after seeing that kind of behaviour literally hundreds of times, if not thousands?

Can you reply to this post intelligently and cogently, in the style you would in person?

But again, you have all along displayed the symptoms of a true narcissist. Gaslighting and deflecting yet again. If you really did some research, you wouldn't comment, as I display no symptoms of a narc, seeing I've always treated my women and children very well, and staying in a country I dislike until I can re-establish back home with my daughter further proves my intentions, along as being the opposite of a narc, which you again fail to understand, or better yet, are the narc and still will keep coming back and deflecting once more.

Narcissists use everyone they can, cheat, lie, deflect, gaslight and abuse. I do none of these, while you at the very least do three, seeing you said you had a girlfriend for 11 years but still date other women and make them pay your way.

I treated my women very well, as I mentioned, so no, my behavior was as a good man should treat his partner. I was a good man from the start, not wanting to use anyone, learning this at home in a loving environment, and learned more, especially after my first divorce, reading all I could on relationships and the psychology of women and what they need.

A narcissist doesn't care to read, nor research anything about how to treat women well, as his only agenda is again, to use them and leave.

There is no concept how I behave here. I suffer the fools, you being one of them, a troll that does this to most everyone that disagrees with you. You don't just disagree, but attempt to pick them apart, trying to sound superior, deflect when they tell you the truth about themselves, and then bring up the past from other topics, and actually try to psychoanalyze someone who's far above your level of intelligence.

Assumptions are made by people who try to change the narrative, to make themselves feel better, their low self esteem and inferiority complex having them attempting to make others look lower , at least in their eyes, and will continue to do this forever, as they can't see their own sad lives falling apart year by year, so they think they can bring others down with them. Doesn't work here, as I've known all about your kind for decades, and now most everyone else here will also.

Don't bother to reply, as you're ignored, seeing you've done exactly the same thing once again, and it's getting old little man. Troll elsewhere, like you've always done.

Aaahhh... @fredwiggy has arrived to stalk me with his thumbs down obsession. 😊

I won't be reading your latest mad rant, but I'm glad if it helps you to get the rage out of your system.

You'll be glad to know that your friend @Hummin has run a ChatGPT analysis on your behaviour. I'm sure he'll be happy to share it with you privately.

10 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

There is no everyone besides a couple here , known as trolls, who are the ones who are taking this over the edge.I told the truth. They didn't like the truth, so they'll keep it going, but I won't any longer.My having custody of all my children speaks volumes to anyone who understands what that means. Of course anything said here can be disbelieved, but again, some take it way too far.

Some keep on going, but you won´t any longer???? Didn´t you just do?

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