Abduction Of My Daughter, By My Thai Wife

[scott1999]

Don't worry. She'll do it till the day you die!!!

I got it down to looking at him in a certain way with my big blue eyes and he would melt!!!

But, on the other hand. He was strict. To get extra pocket money i had to wash the car, mow the lawn etc.

A couple of years after he died, 10 years ago, i rang my mum up to borrow some cash. She said "I just want you to know, i am not a big softy like your dad was". And added the fact that she knew <deleted> well how my sister and i could manipulate that big ex rugby player to our own means!!

All with a laugh, of course.

Great story Patsycat Great story.

[eezergood]

how long will they keep you in this donkey & coaart nonsense>

[Mario2008]

"Only one reason I can think about, and that is because the mother is Thai . Something I have tried to make clear in my previous posts."

Maybe you are correct JesseFrank, I do not know. It was one crazy meeting. Two hours in this execution office and I showed them every piece of paper. They told me step by step what to do about the condo and car. Then said I need to see a new officer next week at a new location near their office to finalize what to do about my daughter. So I will hold judgement till next week.

Thanks again Boo and JesseFrank.

It is just a simple fact that the execution officer is used to dealing with cases regarding property/money and not regarding returning a child to a parent. That is something normally the police does.

Maybe the execution officer will be happy to write a letter to the police instructing them to locate the girl and return her to her father, so the police can take it from there.

[Boo]

Could also be that they require clarification from the Judge as to what they can do & how to go about it.

[scott1999]

Hi all

I have not posted because I have nothing to add to Fridays bizarre meeting. But they were very kind, and tried their best to give me step by step info on how this all will happen.

My lawyer did say that a letter was sent from the execution office in Phathum tarnee to the execution office in Rama 2. Which is a legal requirement of the enforcement. After 30 to 45 days that will be the end of the matter and enforcement must be carried out.

It sounds like I know what I am talking about, but in truth I am still guessing.

As soon as I have been to the new office of the execution officer I will update.

Thanks again all, for your comments and help in my matters.

By the way the dropped phone calls are increasing to a daily occurrence now. Wow I am frightened of that silence. Ha ha

[FiftyTwo]

Sadly, I think I know what will happen.

You will continue to be given the run around, you will continue to spend money, and nothing will ever change.

Hoping I'm wrong.

But thinking I'm right.

[eezergood]

"Only one reason I can think about, and that is because the mother is Thai . Something I have tried to make clear in my previous posts."

Maybe you are correct JesseFrank, I do not know. It was one crazy meeting. Two hours in this execution office and I showed them every piece of paper. They told me step by step what to do about the condo and car. Then said I need to see a new officer next week at a new location near their office to finalize what to do about my daughter. So I will hold judgement till next week.

Thanks again Boo and JesseFrank.

It is just a simple fact that the execution officer is used to dealing with cases regarding property/money and not regarding returning a child to a parent. That is something normally the police does.

Maybe the execution officer will be happy to write a letter to the police instructing them to locate the girl and return her to her father, so the police can take it from there.

Perhpas a donation of a nice bottle of JW Black could help things along?

[Showbags]

^ agree much...play the game, offer some incentive....10k if your daughter is with you by weeks end or such

[benalibina]

^ agree much...play the game, offer some incentive....10k if your daughter is with you by weeks end or such

Sadly enough....correct most likely....

[eezergood]

^ agree much...play the game, offer some incentive....10k if your daughter is with you by weeks end or such

Sadly enough....correct most likely....

if it gets the job done.......?

[BookMan]

^ agree much...play the game, offer some incentive....10k if your daughter is with you by weeks end or such

Sadly enough....correct most likely....

if it gets the job done.......?

Sadly, sounds like this family would see such an offer as just a starting point for negotiations

[benalibina]

^ agree much...play the game, offer some incentive....10k if your daughter is with you by weeks end or such

Sadly enough....correct most likely....

if it gets the job done.......?

Sadly, sounds like this family would see such an offer as just a starting point for negotiations

Wakey wakey.....the courtofficer was being referred 2. Not the family.

[BookMan]

Wakey wakey.....the courtofficer was being referred 2. Not the family.

oh...

[Showbags]

doh...

Are we allowed to have a fund raising drive here ?

10 x 1k.....I'll start

[Mario2008]

doh...

Are we allowed to have a fund raising drive here ?

10 x 1k.....I'll start

No, you are not allowed to start an appeal to donate money.

[rhodie]

I would go with the 10K donation. How many more curved balls are you going to face? Every corner just seems to have a surprise.

Still, good luck Paul. I hope it all gets resolved soon.

[eezergood]

any updates?

[scott1999]

any updates?

Hi eeergood

No update to mention, only to say my daughter is missing again, the mother's side will not answer the phone or answer text messages.

But my lawyer is back from his holiday today. So I will make contact today or tomorrow. So maybe we can both go and see the execution officer together?

Thanks for you comments eeergood. I soon as I know anything I will post. I am looking forward in learning about this execution officers powers myself

Thanks Mario: agree

[Mario2008]

Be careful what your post. Do consider that the othersiede might be reading what you post.

[jpinx]

for sure the whole family will be reading this topic........

[Puyai]

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for sure the whole family will be reading this topic........

To true! In between episodes of Lakhorn...

[jpinx]

Every move is posted before it's made .... no wonder this isn't resolved yet..........

[benalibina]

Every move is posted before it's made .... no wonder this isn't resolved yet..........

After 3 1/2 years your compassionate words will be a of great significance for the OP.

[scott1999]

Every move is posted before it's made .... no wonder this isn't resolved yet..........

Hi jpinx

You said "Every move is posted before it's made .... no wonder this isn't resolved yet.........."

I think you are correct about me posting too much on Thaivisa, that is why I have slowed down a bit. I do not know if they can be bothered to read this thread even if they have found it. But I have not made a move yet nor will I, as the execution officer is responsible for carrying out the orders from the Supreme Court. From the research I have done over the three and a half years; the Alienating Parent will not stop his/her ways till they are about to get into trouble or it's going to cost them their liberty. Because they are very happy abusing young children that love them dearly and will do anything to be with them. But the cowards will just walk away when the heat gets too much for them. That is when it will be resolved, and I do not post everything on here, as it could be classed as sub judice and come back and bite me in the ass later.

But if they want to try and get the execution officer to listen to them, "be my guest." I'm sure they will try anything so, up to them. This case will finish the moment just before one of those brave hero's is about to be arrested.

As of today I have had zero contact with my daughter since the last day of term. But maybe it is better for her that I just wait now as the first thing the mother's side does is put my daughter in the firing line. Best I wait till she is in a safe place before I try and talk to her.

[jpinx]

You know best who's reading this, but I fully understand your need to "vent" and you just need to only vent about what's happened already -- not about what your intentions are.

Keep plodding on -- you'll get there in the end

[Marcel1]

Any news?

[rhodie]

Hey Paul, I hope you are still hanging in there and holding strong.

Keep fighting mate! Hopefully you will be happy soon.

[slipperylobster]

Some countries only need a court order that the mom is unfit. Get somebody to work on this. Perhaps a child protective service. You need the court to give you custody. It is like that in the Philippines. I had a buddy who lived here that was not married, but was able to get his 2 year old half Thai son on an Airplane out of Chiang Mai. The baby had a Thai and US Passport. He was willing to take the boy to live with his mom and dad in America. This guy was looking out for the baby, as the baby had special needs. The mom was abusive towards both the baby, and my friends son. He pretty much set up the airplane out, put the kid at daycare, then picked the kid up and flew out.....the mom did not know until 4 hours later. I was left holding the bag, however. As far as I knew, he was just going for a via run. She did not pursue the situation, but made me feel awful.

I left my son with his mom (in the Philippines) and now have 16 years of pain. We are very close and I visit him. I did arrange A merican citizenship and a passport, but he desires to finish school in the Philippines. 16 years of support so far, and hardly get to see him. When I do, we are both happy, but I think he has long since been indoctrinated by his mom. I move alot, not good for him.

[scott1999]

Hi all thanks for your thoughts. Sad story slipperylobster. but thank you anyway. I know it is not just me,that this heinous crime against children is happening to. But it sure feels like it sometimes.

Update: Police in England are still looking for the mother. They have said she and the boy friend have gone to ground. But the mother has blocked me on facebook same as the boyfriend (who wanted a meeting with me) and my daughter facebook page have all be blocked from me. I was never friends with any of them, but I could send messages to the mother and boyfriend but not my daughter. But now I have been blocked by them all. This tells me the mother is (pissed) with the police in England looking for her.

Here in Bangkok my lawyer has been back to court and here is a nice bit of information, (where ever the problem is located in relation to a court order you have to use the local execution office.) So for the transfer of title deeds of the condo into my daughters name the and the transfer of the car into my name so it can be sold. The execution office in Prathumthani have been instructed. As for the my daughter getting to the new school of my choice. The central Bangkok execution office has been instructed.

I think the mother's side are never going to give up for many reasons. Here is the conclusion of a letter I wrote to an agency in England that has been helping me.

conclusion

I worry very much that these people (including Mr. ------) can never let my daughter (speak with her own voice.) Because any sexual, physical, or mental abuse that may come out, once my daughter feels safe enough to speak, would put these people in jail for a very long time. These people are trapped by their own web of lies, this is why they will say and do anything to stop my daughter following the Supreme Court orders. Which would place her in a safe environment. I.E. An international boarding school in Bangkok. Where she will be free to see and love both parents, and speak with her own voice.

So I have had no contact with my daughter since October last year. Apart from those phone calls on the eve of the last day of term in March. Which I do believe was not my daughter talking to me anyway.

So the carrot of the condo is gone for them now. At the last court hearing 25,000 bt was logged against the mother in court fees. I know she will never pay but it is a good start. If the family members are summoned and arrest warrant are obtained. That could be up to 500,000 bt just to gain bail for them. 100,000 each, bail money for the five ring leaders. Of course they will never go to prison for their actions unless some bad things has happened to my daughter.

I miss my daughter very much and hope the situation will end soon for all concerned. I will never stop till my daughter is safe and getting the best education I can pay for. Any news I will post straight away

Opps I am late for work sorry for any spelling mistakes

[rhodie]

Thanks for the update Paul. I wish it was a happier Easter for you but have a good one anyway.