Why Do So Many Men Let Themselves Go Over Here?

[thenervoussurgeon]

I was just thinking about going out tomorrow and i decided that i would wear my new trousers ,when the thought struck me that so many guys over here just seem to let themselves go and slop around in scruffy shorts and singlets sometimes with shoes and black socks and just seem to have given up looking neat ,even when out with their wives, i wonder why have they just given up.?

Edited September 23, 2012 by thenervoussurgeon

[I Like Thai]

I think they would have been the same when living in their own countries.

[Soutpeel]

maybe not a case of giving up, possibly they have always been slobs and the reasons their first western wives left them and they had to come to Thailand to get a sh*g...just a thought

[loong]

I think that these are people that are stuck in "holiday" mode

[robblok]

maybe not a case of giving up, possibly they have always been slobs and the reasons their first western wives left them and they had to come to Thailand to get a sh*g...just a thought

I think nail... head

We do get here some of the worst guys, complete failures ect.

Then again when i go fishing or in and around the house i don't really care how i look. When going out to shop i do change and make myself presentable. So if you meet me around the house you might think im a total slob too.

[mauGR1]

Except some rare nutter, i didn't see many who fit in the description..Where are you living OP ?

[smokie36]

Maybe they spent their working lives wearing suits and cab't bear to wear formal clobber.

Each to his own I say unless its a five star gaff ec....

[travelmann]

Depends if you feel "looking" good is important or not..... even in Thailand.

Main point is to keep cool for me which often means baggy clothes.

The world has become a bit obsessed by"look"

[elliss]

I think they would have been the same when living in their own countries.

i always wear black socks and sandals with,

my ATM , dangling on a medalion .

where u go , hamsum man .

actually , when i was in civi street ,

Edited September 23, 2012 by elliss

[robblok]

Depends if you feel "looking" good is important or not..... even in Thailand.

Main point is to keep cool for me which often means baggy clothes.

The world has become a bit obsessed by"look"

I bet you like to look at sexy girls... or do you want the old ones with all the wrinkles. Looks are important and some nice clothes help a lot.

[473geo]

Depends if you feel "looking" good is important or not..... even in Thailand.

Main point is to keep cool for me which often means baggy clothes.

The world has become a bit obsessed by"look"

I bet you like to look at sexy girls... or do you want the old ones with all the wrinkles. Looks are important and some nice clothes help a lot.

Actually the last head turner/conversation stopper I saw, and I mean every male head in the area without exception, was a japanese mother who strode along in her bikini to join her year old child and husband in the pool

I don't think black socks would have made one iota of difference, and clothes would have not enhanced the effect one bit.

I think for the male farang comfort is important, especially if there is no need to impress. I find that I wear more long sleeved shirts and trousers these days if I am heading into 'civilisation' more to deter mosquitoes and sun than for the smart look

[robblok]

Depends if you feel "looking" good is important or not..... even in Thailand.

Main point is to keep cool for me which often means baggy clothes.

The world has become a bit obsessed by"look"

I bet you like to look at sexy girls... or do you want the old ones with all the wrinkles. Looks are important and some nice clothes help a lot.

Actually the last head turner/conversation stopper I saw, and I mean every male head in the area without exception, was a japanese mother who strode along in her bikini to join her year old child and husband in the pool

I don't think black socks would have made one iota of difference, and clothes would have not enhanced the effect one bit.

I think for the male farang comfort is important, especially if there is no need to impress. I find that I wear more long sleeved shirts and trousers these days if I am heading into 'civilisation' more to deter mosquitoes and sun than for the smart look

There are not many guys in a shape and with looks (me included because im not that special) that can make all the girls head turn. Its easier for girls to make men turn their head. But a guy in moderate shape (no beer belly ect) dressed well looks a lot better to girls then one with flip flops and a t shirt

[Naam]

perhaps they are just like me and care a flying fàrt what others think of their attire?

[arthurwait]

Because money gets them laid and it's too hot to care or they were just always like that.

[transam]

perhaps they are just like me and care a flying fàrt what others think of their attire?

Speak for yourself.

[Payboy]

I noticed people don't care what I wear as long as its got a pocket to carry my cash.

[giddyup]

Certainly being able to dress casually is one of the pluses of living here, and my shirts and shorts are always ironed, but I haven't worn a pair of dress shoes or a tie in 4 years, and can't see me wearing either in the forseeable future. I remember seeing a T Shirt in Pattaya that said "This is as dressed up as I get".

[473geo]

Depends if you feel "looking" good is important or not..... even in Thailand.

Main point is to keep cool for me which often means baggy clothes.

The world has become a bit obsessed by"look"

I bet you like to look at sexy girls... or do you want the old ones with all the wrinkles. Looks are important and some nice clothes help a lot.

Actually the last head turner/conversation stopper I saw, and I mean every male head in the area without exception, was a japanese mother who strode along in her bikini to join her year old child and husband in the pool

I don't think black socks would have made one iota of difference, and clothes would have not enhanced the effect one bit.

I think for the male farang comfort is important, especially if there is no need to impress. I find that I wear more long sleeved shirts and trousers these days if I am heading into 'civilisation' more to deter mosquitoes and sun than for the smart look

There are not many guys in a shape and with looks (me included because im not that special) that can make all the girls head turn. Its easier for girls to make men turn their head. But a guy in moderate shape (no beer belly ect) dressed well looks a lot better to girls then one with flip flops and a t shirt

I find a nice smile saves on the wardrobe costs

[transam]

Certainly being able to dress casually is one of the pluses of living here, and my shirts and shorts are always ironed, but I haven't worn a pair of dress shoes or a tie in 4 years, and can't see me wearing either in the forseeable future. I remember seeing a T Shirt in Pattaya that said "This is as dressed up as I get".

A yob on the forum eh.

[steelepulse]

perhaps they are just like me and care a flying fàrt what others think of their attire?

I've got to agree, I'm not here to impress anyone, especially living on the beach in a tourist area with not a care in the world what other wannabe's think. If I lived in Isaan...................well I'd never live in Isaan.

Edited September 23, 2012 by steelepulse

[transam]

perhaps they are just like me and care a flying fàrt what others think of their attire?

I've got to agree, I'm not here to impress anyone, especially living on the beach in a tourist area with not a care in the world what other wannabe's think. If I lived in Isaan...................well I'd never live in Isaan.

, blasphemer. ................................

We dress correctly here, if a gentleman, then a gentleman's apparel, sadly l am the only one.

[kennedy]

This could be for clothes or women.Many years ago a science teacher asked us boys if we would pick a woman for her ornamental value, or functional value. At this time in my life, I've chosen the later.

[Soutpeel]

perhaps they are just like me and care a flying fàrt what others think of their attire?

I've got to agree, I'm not here to impress anyone, especially living on the beach in a tourist area with not a care in the world what other wannabe's think. If I lived in Isaan...................well I'd never live in Isaan.

, blasphemer. ................................

We dress correctly here, if a gentleman, then a gentleman's apparel, sadly l am the only one.

Am I the only one who dresses in black tie for dinner old chap ?....bloody heathens on TV, no class at all..

[pattayadingo]

What is wrong with shorts? It is a hot country. I wear Diesel sandals too. Usually a shirt or a Polo shirt. I am comfortable wearing these things as, it seems, are many others?

Why wear trousers or jeans when they make you uncomfortable?

[yoslim]

Wearing fancy clothes is for the rich

[HardenedSoul]

I think the main reason is that their own looks, presentation and, perhaps, personalities, are no longer factors in attracting women as they almost certainly were back home since their wallets do the heavy lifting now.

Each to their own but I prefer to be presentable just like I did back in London.

[transam]

What is wrong with shorts? It is a hot country. I wear Diesel sandals too. Usually a shirt or a Polo shirt. I am comfortable wearing these things as, it seems, are many others?

Why wear trousers or jeans when they make you uncomfortable?

So in July/August the UK Royals dine out in shorts and flip-flops.

[Naam]

perhaps they are just like me and care a flying fàrt what others think of their attire?

Speak for yourself.

when i retired 23 years ago i took a holy oath never to wear a suit and a tie again except for funerals or weddings. why any retiree would wear formal cloths in a tropical country is beyond my grasp. i like my shorts, t-shirt and shoes open at the back (no socks!).

of course i wear long trousers (jeans) when travelling abroad. but if the destination is tropical i prefer my t-shirt over a shirt with a collar. and it gives me great pleasure to embarass a flight attendant when boarding by keeping the boarding pass in a back pocket. then when told "sorry Sir, this way please" i answer grinning "OOPS, i had no idea that you switched business and first with cattle class."

[payak]

i like shorts singlet and thongs, other times i dress up, depends onmy mood or where im going.

i really am highly into fashion though, my wife said im worse then a woman, i have 14 pairs of shoes.

[robblok]

I think the main reason is that their own looks, presentation and, perhaps, personalities, are no longer factors in attracting women as they almost certainly were back home since their wallets do the heavy lifting now.

Each to their own but I prefer to be presentable just like I did back in London.

Agreed