3 minutes ago, Thai Ron said:

Oh stop it

I wasn't loaded in London - it didn't stop me having insane numbers of women.

You don't need to have loads of partners to learn "technique"

Just an adventurous partner who actually fancies you is all you need.

Of course, if your just banging hookers, it's more likely that they're just telling you they fancy you, isn't it?

Silly post.

Not everyone lived in London or any other city where they were all gagging for it. When I was a young fella I didn't know any girls that did it, as nice girls didn't back then, and I only knew nice girls.

38 minutes ago, Thai Ron said:

Of course, some will raise the matter of dinners, cinemas, holidays etc but they're assuming all men hung around with financially challenged women who can't pay their own way.

If a woman could pay her own way

1. Why would she choose to be with you?

2. Why are you in Thailand?

 

Just wondering you understand ........

1 hour ago, bazza73 said:

Oh wow. Thai Ron is a stud. Who would have thought it? I'm going back to believing in the tooth fairy.

Nah not a stud; just an ordinary fella who didn't carry preconceptions about gender roles or money into conversations with women.

Talked to them like mates, told a joke or two and never came over like I all I was after was a leg over.

 

Millions of blokes play it the same way and have no issues when it comes to women.

You guys just didn't have any game

1 hour ago, MaeJoMTB said:

If a woman could pay her own way

1. Why would she choose to be with you?

2. Why are you in Thailand?

 

Just wondering you understand ........

What am I doing in Thailand?

I'm raising my three year old daughter, not catting around with hookers.

I got all that nonsense out of my system in London, Ibiza, Paris and Prague thanks.

Great times but they're in the past.

 

Oh and "why would she choose to be with me" if she could pay her own way?

 

Because I had a personality, mate and they enjoyed my company.

Even though that's perfectly normal, that will probably sound like a brag to you so let's see the flames

 

 

You come at it from the point of view that all P4P sex is without genuine emotion, passion or enjoyment, in fact you have swallowed hook line and sinker the lie that prostitutes dislike all their customers, which is just BS. 
Either you never had a good experience with P4P or you never had P4P. Sex is sex, and not to be confused with "love", even though people that "love" each other have sex.
Coming to Thailand on holiday and spending a few weeks on a nice Thai beach with a beautiful, healthy woman that enjoyed sex can't be beaten, IMO, regardless of if paid for or not. 

Quite. The former..

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2 hours ago, Thai Ron said:

No, we don't all pay in one way or another.

That mentality only applies if all you want from a woman is sex and, predictably enough, it's the mentality most at work among the bitter men on this forum who've been divorced or otherwise burned.

Of course, some will raise the matter of dinners, cinemas, holidays etc but they're assuming all men hung around with financially challenged women who can't pay their own way.

 

They're dead wrong

 

And western women are paid also in one way or another.  They rarely marry down and in many places especially Australia and the USA, apart from Texas, they get the money and the kids even if they precipitated the divorce.  Thanks but I dont need a mormon/catholic preacher telling me, about sex, love , marriage and P4P.  They are dead wrong. 

Just now, The manic said:

And western women are paid also in one way or another.  They rarely marry down and in many places especially Australia and the USA, apart from Texas, they get the money and the kids even if they precipitated the divorce.  Thanks but I dont need a mormon/catholic preacher telling me, about sex, love , marriage and P4P.  They are dead wrong. 

Sorry I couldn't hear you 

Your bitterness was making too much of a racket

1 hour ago, Thai Ron said:

What am I doing in Thailand?

I'm raising my three year old daughter, not catting around with hookers.

I got all that nonsense out of my system in London, Ibiza, Paris and Prague thanks.

Great times but they're in the past.

 

Oh and "why would she choose to be with me" if she could pay her own way?

 

Because I had a personality, mate and they enjoyed my company.

Even though that's perfectly normal, that will probably sound like a brag to you so let's see the flames

 

 

You are too modest.

5 hours ago, Thai Ron said:

What am I doing in Thailand?

I'm raising my three year old daughter, not catting around with hookers.

I got all that nonsense out of my system in London, Ibiza, Paris and Prague thanks.

Great times but they're in the past.

 

Oh and "why would she choose to be with me" if she could pay her own way?

 

Because I had a personality, mate and they enjoyed my company.

Even though that's perfectly normal, that will probably sound like a brag to you so let's see the flames

 

 

Let’s be honest, if some of the people on TV are as dull and boring in real

life as they are on here they would struggle getting in their own undies let alone a Thai females. 

4 hours ago, Thai Ron said:

Sorry I couldn't hear you 

Your bitterness was making too much of a racket

A child puts his ear to a sea shell and thinks he hears the sea. A unsophisticated, unworldly, provincial person hears words of wisdom and hears bitterness.  Yes the truth is sometimea unpalatable but i am the opposite of bitter.  I enjoy my life to the full and have travelled to over 60 countries.  Any idiot in any country in the world can get caught up in a relationship and have a kid and have the delusion they are doing something special but its nothing other than smug hypocrisy and fear of being free.  An uttter waste of time if you are doing it in Thailand.  I tried to listen to your reply but your regret and self doubt obsfucated by insults just drowned out the same cliche ive been hearing for 3 decades here. Ive heard it all before. Good luck brother.  

10 hours ago, Thai Ron said:

Because I had a personality, mate and they enjoyed my company.

Even though that's perfectly normal, that will probably sound like a brag to you so let's see the flames

You sound like HardenedSoul, but without all the 'stipend' talk.

1 hour ago, MaeJoMTB said:

You sound like HardenedSoul, but without all the 'stipend' talk.

It's said there is nothing more self-righteous than a reformed smoker or reformed alcoholic. I think I'll have to add reformed lecher to those.

2 hours ago, MaeJoMTB said:

You sound like HardenedSoul, but without all the 'stipend' talk.

What's Hardenedsoul?

1 hour ago, bazza73 said:

It's said there is nothing more self-righteous than a reformed smoker or reformed alcoholic. I think I'll have to add reformed lecher to those.

Yeah, whatever old man. Just keep on paying

7 hours ago, The manic said:

A child puts his ear to a sea shell and thinks he hears the sea. A unsophisticated, unworldly, provincial person hears words of wisdom and hears bitterness.  Yes the truth is sometimea unpalatable but i am the opposite of bitter.  I enjoy my life to the full and have travelled to over 60 countries.  Any idiot in any country in the world can get caught up in a relationship and have a kid and have the delusion they are doing something special but its nothing other than smug hypocrisy and fear of being free.  An uttter waste of time if you are doing it in Thailand.  I tried to listen to your reply but your regret and self doubt obsfucated by insults just drowned out the same cliche ive been hearing for 3 decades here. Ive heard it all before. Good luck brother.  

I don't think I've done something profoundly meaningful by having a child - far from it - but I'm doing my duty as a parent to give her the best start I can.

How is that "smug hypocrisy"?

I'm perfectly free - my daughter's mother and I aren't together - I do what I like, when I like and with whom i like.

What the hell does it matter if it's done in Thailand?

 

You say you've been to 60 countries - well going on some of the stuff I've seen you post, you're a poster child for the "wherever you go, there you are" idiom.

I hear your blanket generalisations about Western women and divorces blah blah and I don't think "well-travelled", "enlightened" or "worldly".

Quite the opposite

Frankly, I'm not sure you even like women very much.

12 hours ago, The manic said:

A child puts his ear to a sea shell and thinks he hears the sea. A unsophisticated, unworldly, provincial person hears words of wisdom and hears bitterness.  Yes the truth is sometimea unpalatable but i am the opposite of bitter.  I enjoy my life to the full and have travelled to over 60 countries.  Any idiot in any country in the world can get caught up in a relationship and have a kid and have the delusion they are doing something special but its nothing other than smug hypocrisy and fear of being free.  An uttter waste of time if you are doing it in Thailand.  I tried to listen to your reply but your regret and self doubt obsfucated by insults just drowned out the same cliche ive been hearing for 3 decades here. Ive heard it all before. Good luck brother.  

Well said.

Having a child is the easiest thing to do in the world, as 7 billion of us attest.

It's the bringing up of said child that is the difficult thing and most humans are abysmal failures at that, from all the revolting spoiled brats that I've unfortunately met.

For myself, my life was way better for not having had children- more interesting, more travelled, more enjoyable, more affordable.

Other than sometimes regretting that I have no one to pass on my photo and book collection to, I have no reason to believe I made a mistake.

In fact, not having had children with my wife saved me from a world of disaster, so a very good thing for me.

2 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Well said.

Having a child is the easiest thing to do in the world, as 7 billion of us attest.

It's the bringing up of said child that is the difficult thing and most humans are abysmal failures at that, from all the revolting spoiled brats that I've unfortunately met.

For myself, my life was way better for not having had children- more interesting, more travelled, more enjoyable, more affordable.

Other than sometimes regretting that I have no one to pass on my photo and book collection to, I have no reason to believe I made a mistake.

In fact, not having had children with my wife saved me from a world of disaster, so a very good thing for me.

Me too.  I made my decision not to have kids when i was very young.  I sometimes feel the breeders are selfish and soaking up environmental resources. 

Just now, The manic said:

Me too.  I made my decision not to have kids when i was very young.  I sometimes feel the breeders are selfish and soaking up environmental resources. 

I remember going into town when we used to have Friday night shopping and seeing all the young unmarried mothers in the square talking to each other. I always said to myself that I was paying for all those kids that were going to grow up to be criminals and mug me when I was older.

39 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I remember going into town when we used to have Friday night shopping and seeing all the young unmarried mothers in the square talking to each other. I always said to myself that I was paying for all those kids that were going to grow up to be criminals and mug me when I was older.

555

On 11/28/2017 at 7:39 PM, ToS2014 said:

my take, a majority of the women here have been on a paid holiday far too long.  It's OUR fault as we have ingrained this into their thinking.  It took a long while and several 'conversations' to get past 'all my other friends get salary from boyfriend....' with mine, but it still comes up.  A real job to a Thai lady here (with a Western BF) is  a loss of face due to all their 'friends' sitting at home getting paid, and/or just looking for the (next) ATM... good luck and hope it works out.  The 'can you get a job to help support us' is truly foreign to them as WE are 'supposed' to do all the supporting....in my humble opinion

Bingo !!!    Face book has killed the girls here.  They now get to compare there hiso life that Farang's give them.  I hear about a wife that gets 50,000 baht a month,  for what ?  That must be some golden p.......   Farang's have done a great job of screwing up the Thai women.

Meh....I simply don't believe in this great sex for baht with Thai women.

 

Thai amateur porn on xhamster is pretty telling. 

 

9 hours ago, theguyfromanotherforum said:

Meh....I simply don't believe in this great sex for baht with Thai women.

 

Thai amateur porn on xhamster is pretty telling. 

 

Well, if you're going to base your belief on what you see on xhamster, it's not surprising you would form that opinion.

IMHO there's no difference between sex for baht and sex in a longer term relationship. You pay for both, the latter just takes a bit longer. And in both classes, there are women who are lousy at sex, and some who enjoy it.

3 minutes ago, bazza73 said:

Well, if you're going to base your belief on what you see on xhamster, it's not surprising you would form that opinion.

IMHO there's no difference between sex for baht and sex in a longer term relationship. You pay for both, the latter just takes a bit longer. And in both classes, there are women who are lousy at sex, and some who enjoy it.

 

I'm not paying for anything now or in the future.

 

I enjoy being in a relationship and living a simple and worry free life.

 

 

 

 

2 minutes ago, theguyfromanotherforum said:

 

I'm not paying for anything now or in the future.

 

I enjoy being in a relationship and living a simple and worry free life.

 

 

 

 

So you keep telling this forum. Not something that will ever require proof.

5 minutes ago, bazza73 said:

So you keep telling this forum. Not something that will ever require proof.

 

Not fair.

 

I believe most of you guys when you say you are paying for sex.

 

Most TV posters have a problem paying a salary to their GF or wife (some even call them hookers) well IMO a hooker gives sex for money to multiple men, in fact she doesn’t even care who it is..
For me, I pay my GF a salary for the past 17y and I enjoy to see how she spend the money and I enjoy it even more what she gives back to me. Besides the sex and kindness, you should see her cooking in the evening with a sexy jeans short and a braless top and..man the food is just great!
A friend once told me if you want to play on the stock exchange or spend money on a woman, do it with “cold” money meaning money you don’t really need. If you can do that, life is fun. If you can’t, you will hit the wall one day that’s for sure..because wether their love is real or not you will never now.



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13 minutes ago, luk AJ said:

Most TV posters have a problem paying a salary to their GF or wife (some even call them hookers) well IMO a hooker gives sex for money to multiple men, in fact she doesn’t even care who it is..
For me, I pay my GF a salary for the past 17y and I enjoy to see how she spend the money and I enjoy it even more what she gives back to me. Besides the sex and kindness, you should see her cooking in the evening with a sexy jeans short and a braless top and..man the food is just great!
A friend once told me if you want to play on the stock exchange or spend money on a woman, do it with “cold” money meaning money you don’t really need. If you can do that, life is fun. If you can’t, you will hit the wall one day that’s for sure..because wether their love is real or not you will never now.



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Very good post, and I hope your happiness continues.

Most TV posters have a problem paying a salary to their GF or wife (some even call them hookers) well IMO a hooker gives sex for money to multiple men, in fact she doesn’t even care who it is..
For me, I pay my GF a salary for the past 17y and I enjoy to see how she spend the money and I enjoy it even more what she gives back to me. Besides the sex and kindness, you should see her cooking in the evening with a sexy jeans short and a braless top and..man the food is just great!
A friend once told me if you want to play on the stock exchange or spend money on a woman, do it with “cold” money meaning money you don’t really need. If you can do that, life is fun. If you can’t, you will hit the wall one day that’s for sure..because wether their love is real or not you will never now.



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Most blokes around the world have a problem paying a salary for a girlfriend...

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39 minutes ago, luk AJ said:

For me, I pay my GF a salary for the past 17y and I enjoy to see how she spend the money and I enjoy it even more what she gives back to me. Besides the sex and kindness, you should see her cooking in the evening with a sexy jeans short and a braless top and..man the food is just great!

 

Great employee

God help you if her salary's late.

 

 

She is not my “employee”
The salary is my appreciation, she won’t leave me if her salary would be late, but even if she does, who cares? You think that because you don’t pay salary you have a better chance? With your attitude...?


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