No pleasure sensation from oral sex, Circumcision to blame?

[tonray]

12 hours ago, Bonobojt said:

Can you get this mental illness or any other mental illness through head trauma? I did land on my head hard when I flipped off my bicycle going down hill on a rocky stone road, I was wearing a helmet but it cracked open and I was very dizzy after the impact, or maybe it came from childhood or I was born with it, I don't know but I'm not normal mentally so I'm curious how I became like this.

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Seeing a psychotherapist is really the only way to find the core cause of your issues and how to develop coping strategies to make them less intrusive in your life.

[taiwanatoa]

It's just something personal with you apparently. Circumcision has nothing to do with it. All boys should get circumcised. Americans in the 20th century, and Jews &Muslims for many centuries, have had the intelligence to know this. The rest of the world are still savages in this department. But you should Consult a dermatologist.


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[i claudius]

I was circumcised as a baby.it was done to all kids then. I loved all kinds of sex especially oral. So i dont think its that. And its much cleaner being circumcised

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[Briggsy]

Even though we all know the OP specialises in these kinds of thread and it is something of a work of fiction, I found this thread the funniest thing I have read all day.

[tutsiwarrior]

On 12/1/2017 at 7:03 AM, scubascuba3 said:

Ok hands up, I'm circumcised and i really enjoy blow jobs but it does vary with the girl plus how turned on i am changes all the time, its not a straight line. My recommendation is don't rush it trying to cum but take longer, up to 30 mins cha cha if you can take that long. If it feels average don't worry about it, it might feel great next year be patient.

 

 

yew take 30 minutes to come with a bar girl or a lolitas 'attendant' and they might have something unpleasant to say about that...

 

 

[Bonobojt]

Update: maybe I spoke too soon about the masturbating thing as it has felt pretty good recently, but I had oral sex from the same girl again couple of weeks ago and still nothing, and I have issues maintaining an erection sometimes (which can be related to excessive porn use)

 

So I called it off with the girl, she wasn't really my type anyway as I prefer slim girls but it's shame to have these problems at my age. I've had issues maintaining erections before in Bangkok and I noticed if I stay away from the porn my erections get better when with real women. But I'm addicted to porn so basically I'm screwed. 

[scubascuba3]

 
yew take 30 minutes to come with a bar girl or a lolitas 'attendant' and they might have something unpleasant to say about that...
 
 

You have to choose your girl carefully

[happy2]

7 hours ago, Bonobojt said:

she wasn't really my type anyway as I prefer slim girls

This might be the problem 

[Rhys]

On 12/12/2017 at 9:58 PM, tutsiwarrior said:

 

yew take 30 minutes to come with a bar girl or a lolitas 'attendant' and they might have something unpleasant to say about that...

 

 

..pay a little extra...works fine...

[scubascuba3]

It's just something personal with you apparently. Circumcision has nothing to do with it. All boys should get circumcised. Americans in the 20th century, and Jews &Muslims for many centuries, have had the intelligence to know this. The rest of the world are still savages in this department. But you should Consult a dermatologist.


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Plus the added bonus of lower risk of HIV

[poanoi]

the girl itself can be the off turning attribution,

i have found that i get turned off and depressed when she dont take a firm grip

at the root and shove it down the throat first thing she see it.

if she doesnt show she means business right away, then the odds of me having an orgasm or even maintaining erection takes a jump off the cliff

 

Edited December 25, 2017 by poanoi

[ThaiFelix]

First of all I am circumcised and I have a penchant for oral sex.  I have had a lot of sex partners and I can tell you I have had to train most of them because I get the feeling all men are different.  Many times I have had a sex partner who I felt has been useless to the point that I'm thinking "do you really think this is exciting me??"  "Did this really turn on your previous partner?"  I have come to the conclusion that all men are built different and therefore we dont all get turned on by the same method.  Try to instruct your partner in what feels good for you without making her feel inadequate.

 

If your history portrayed by a few of the previous posts is correct I would  also suggest you dont go reading medical journals etc.  In the past I was one who was always worried about my health due to family history and would, in my mind, seem to have every symptom of every disease or ailment known to man after looking in those books or online.  I wont go near them now and live a happy healthy life.

[Sheryl]

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[Bonobojt]

After recently receiving oral sex from some Thai ladies I've come to the conclusion that the girls performance / technique is an important factor 

 

Staying away from porn is important and I still think circumcision has some negative effects sensitivity wise for some men, not all. 

 

And masturbating less often helps a little too I think. 

 

Make sure your eating healthy and getting enough nutrition to support your sexual hormones and nervous system. For some reason my orgasm is better when I eat animal products like eggs and some meat, maybe because of the cholesterol which controls your sexual hormones, and when I eat a more vegan diet my orgasms are weaker, could be because I'm doing the diet wrong, but definitely noticed a difference when I started eating eggs and sometimes meat again. 

[The manic]

Surgical sexual abuse. FGM or MGM should be illegal except when a medical necessity. It's a life ruined for men and women. A barbaric custom.