PhonThong Posted March 16, 2018 Share Posted March 16, 2018 When I was younger maybe just 30 years ago even. Parents would give their kids a spanking or a whooping if you will. I am not talking about child abuse. Just a good old smack on the backside if warranted. But, alas along comes the government telling parents how to raise their kids. This is what you get. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted March 16, 2018 Share Posted March 16, 2018 (edited) Is that VDO for real? Who was using the camera? I don't doubt that it happens, but that looks like a set up. Every day I thank the deity I never had any children. One catastrophe I managed to avoid, more by good luck than any plan. When the government starts telling parents they can't smack their children it's time to either not have any or hand them over to the government to raise. NB smacking is not cruel and unusual punishment, it is child training. Assault is what they used on us at school when I was young, and it is right that they stopped it. Edited March 16, 2018 by thaibeachlovers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted March 16, 2018 Share Posted March 16, 2018 (edited) If you think the linked VDO is bad, watch the one about the 6 years old being rude to grandparents. I had to stop watching as it's so bad, but the child's mother is a good reason for introduction of permits to breed, IMO. Edited March 16, 2018 by thaibeachlovers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MuntyC0re Posted March 16, 2018 Share Posted March 16, 2018 agree a good punch calms the kid much better than words Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thongkorn Posted March 16, 2018 Share Posted March 16, 2018 I like children. I went to school with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted March 16, 2018 Share Posted March 16, 2018 9 minutes ago, Thongkorn said: I like children. I went to school with them. I like children but I couldn't eat a whole one. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted March 16, 2018 Share Posted March 16, 2018 16 minutes ago, MuntyC0re said: agree a good punch calms the kid much better than words If they cry, just beat them until they learn better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackcab Posted March 16, 2018 Share Posted March 16, 2018 I have to say I disagree with smacking children - and I have two children of my own. When I look back at my childhood I had the living daylight beaten out of me on numerous occaisions. It didn't do any good at all, other than to show me that being violent to children doesn't work. If beating children does work, why do you have to keep doing it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gracas Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 13 hours ago, StreetCowboy said: If they cry, just beat them until they learn better. When I was a young kid I can always remember my mother saying "If your going to cry I'll give you something to cry about". That usually was enough to shut me up. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robblok Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 10 hours ago, blackcab said: I have to say I disagree with smacking children - and I have two children of my own. When I look back at my childhood I had the living daylight beaten out of me on numerous occaisions. It didn't do any good at all, other than to show me that being violent to children doesn't work. If beating children does work, why do you have to keep doing it? Ah some people think about the good old days.. when everything was better. Anyway I don't agree with beating children it certainly never helped me.. real punishment like taking away computer time or other stuff was far worse. A beating (and my parents never went over the top) was done the moment the beating ended.. real punishment lasted longer and it kept me better in line. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samran Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 16 hours ago, Thongkorn said: I like children. I went to school with them. I too went to school with children but nothing much to like. Many were bullying thugs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaibeachlovers Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 11 hours ago, blackcab said: I have to say I disagree with smacking children - and I have two children of my own. When I look back at my childhood I had the living daylight beaten out of me on numerous occaisions. It didn't do any good at all, other than to show me that being violent to children doesn't work. If beating children does work, why do you have to keep doing it? From my childhood, the good kids didn't get beaten, the naughty ones did. While it wasn't pleasant, children were on the whole far better behaved back then than they are now. Pendulums and all that. It's gone from corporal punishment and polite kids to no corporal punishment and feral kids behaving badly. There has to be a balance somewhere. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
habanero Posted March 18, 2018 Share Posted March 18, 2018 I myself don't condone beating a child. But, a tap on the butt is a good reminder that their behavior isn't acceptable. I too believe punishment is the way to go. The video isn't showing any type of parenting. It is showing the kids making the rules. Totally unacceptable. Most Asian families don't condone spanking children either. But, I can a attest from personal experience that it does happen. Though never violent and never did me any harm. My parents were strict disciplinarians. But, a punishment was their favorite tool. Someday these children will be running the world. Hopefully, it is not a world without boundaries. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torrzent Posted March 18, 2018 Share Posted March 18, 2018 On 3/16/2018 at 12:35 PM, thaibeachlovers said: Is that VDO for real? Who was using the camera? I don't doubt that it happens, but that looks like a set up. Every day I thank the deity I never had any children. One catastrophe I managed to avoid, more by good luck than any plan. When the government starts telling parents they can't smack their children it's time to either not have any or hand them over to the government to raise. NB smacking is not cruel and unusual punishment, it is child training. Assault is what they used on us at school when I was young, and it is right that they stopped it. The gene pool thanks you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tagaa Posted March 18, 2018 Share Posted March 18, 2018 As W. C. Fields once said, "I love children. Boiled, fried or fricasseeeed." 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
franckfranck Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 If you want to know whats wrong with the kdis these days, analyze where they came from. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kannot Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 On 3/18/2018 at 9:39 AM, torrzent said: The gene pool thanks you. And extinction you 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justfine Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 3 hours ago, franckfranck said: If you want to know whats wrong with the kdis these days, analyze where they came from. Awful parents. Kids are like dogs. They behave based on training. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torrzent Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 2 hours ago, kannot said: And extinction you were you elected as the proxy mouthpiece for the person the reply was made to? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rwdrwdrwd Posted March 21, 2018 Share Posted March 21, 2018 (edited) So far as I'm aware, the British government doesn't tell people not to discipline their children physically. I'm a Brit, and if that was my kid, she'd have got a smack in full view of the general public - to be honest it wouldn't *be* one of my kids, because they already would have known this behaviour is way across the line. I'm not talking a 'beating', just a swift sharp clip across the calves or across the knuckles - I think I've done it probably less than 5 times in total and my kid wouldn't even get *close* to this sort of behaviour. My five year old has smacked my knuckles more times, usually for my potty mouth. Edited March 21, 2018 by rwdrwdrwd Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
franckfranck Posted March 22, 2018 Share Posted March 22, 2018 14 hours ago, Justfine said: Awful parents. Kids are like dogs. They behave based on training. 14 hours ago, Justfine said: They behave based on training. To be accurate, in many instances non-training at that. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
franckfranck Posted March 22, 2018 Share Posted March 22, 2018 9 hours ago, rwdrwdrwd said: So far as I'm aware, the British government doesn't tell people not to discipline their children physically. I'm a Brit, and if that was my kid, she'd have got a smack in full view of the general public - to be honest it wouldn't *be* one of my kids, because they already would have known this behaviour is way across the line. I'm not talking a 'beating', just a swift sharp clip across the calves or across the knuckles - I think I've done it probably less than 5 times in total and my kid wouldn't even get *close* to this sort of behaviour. My five year old has smacked my knuckles more times, usually for my potty mouth. Ever think what they will do to you when you are old , weak, grumpy and ill? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rwdrwdrwd Posted March 22, 2018 Share Posted March 22, 2018 (edited) 10 hours ago, franckfranck said: Ever think what they will do to you when you are old , weak, grumpy and ill? No, and it's a very daft question. I've had a clip round the ear from most members of my family at one point or another in my life, and we all get along just fine. We also don't end up in situations like the family in the video. Edited March 22, 2018 by rwdrwdrwd Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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