Go on my hands and knees to my Thai husband? I'd rather "graap" a dog.

 

Image: Sanook

 

A Thai language teacher who went online to say how proud she was to go on her hands and knees every month to her husband got a lot more than she bargained for from modern Thai netizens. 

 

The Thai language teacher in Sakon Nakhon said that ever since she was married she had "graap-ed" (performed obedience and respect) on her hands and knees to her husband on every Buddhist holy day (Wan Phra).

 

She felt this showed her love and devotion to her husband. 

 

Very quickly the post on Monday was shared 13,000 times. 

 

While some said it was a lovely thing to do in line with Thai culture some men said that when they suggested it, their wives turned on them.

 

The Thai men were told in no uncertain terms that they were good for nothing and not deserving of such a high level of respect. 

 

Some, according to Sanook's headline, even said they would rather "graap maa" or show their respects to a dog rather than their wastrel Thai husbands. 

 

Source: Sanook

 

 

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15 minutes ago, rooster59 said:

wastrel

well,  at least i learned a new word today.    how to use, hmmmm.   "look, you little wastrel, i told you i don't get on my knees" !   

Sounds like a decent all round girl. And in all fairness its very refreshing to see this kind of thing knowing full well just how rampant infidelity is in Thailand.

I just hope for her sake that the hubby is what she hopes he is

1 minute ago, z42 said:

very refreshing to see this kind of thing knowing full well just how rampant infidelity is in Thailand.

hey, that's what i came here for !     ok ok   I am a changed man now  ?

Dopey Cow !

Am I the only one that was thinking about some other hands and knee activity? 

Hey I like a girl on her hands and knees occasionally!  but, to be serious, she is a product of Thai suppression with a sprinkling of the submissive in her.  I love submissive girls but not acting like they are pathetic to some Thai husband 'Boss'.

Having never heard of "graap" before, I have just asked my wife about it.

 

She was thrilled that I'd asked about it and immediately insisted on preforming the act on me.

 

She gathered some gear from her Buddah shrine, seated me and knelt before me. Several wais, bows and words of gushing gratitude ensued for a good few minutes. When she'd finished she was beaming and asked how it was for me. I replied that I didn't think she was finished as the article said that the culmination of the "graap" was a BJ.

 

Her face changed and all I got was the finger.

It's already well enshrined in the Nan household's mantra, has been since day one.

 

"Give us this day our daily graap"

 

Is this really news?

1 hour ago, NanLaew said:

It's already well enshrined in the Nan household's mantra, has been since day one.

 

"Give us this day our daily graap"

 

Is this really news?

Yes. A fascinating insight into your daily life.

2 hours ago, Jingthing said:

Am I the only one that was thinking about some other hands and knee activity? 

yes.. can't understand how they forgot to print all of it... the thai me. said get on your hands and knees and say ahhh.. that's why they were refused 

Quite right too, women worldwide should be made to grovel to the superior sex. You can't buck nature ?

....an English teacher?

4 hours ago, rumak said:

well,  at least i learned a new word today.    how to use, hmmmm.   "look, you little wastrel, i told you i don't get on my knees" !   

 

Hahaha see ? you didn't ru as mak as you tought then !

 

 

5 hours ago, rooster59 said:

She felt this showed her love and devotion to her husband. 

What it shows is her blind obedience to the idea of kowtowing to him.

Why is his hand stuck up in the air? How? Me Tonto?

1 hour ago, Yann55 said:

 

Hahaha see ? you didn't ru as mak as you tought then !

 

 

I ru that i can always learn ......much different than thinking i  ru mot .

maybe rumak is my polish name...kinda like kojak  ?

No wonder this country's still struggling to escape the 1950s! Everyone has to grovel to someone else ... No concept of equality, human rights, reward for effort, merit principle, leadership by example ...

7 hours ago, Jingthing said:

Am I the only one that was thinking about some other hands and knee activity? 

And while  having that thought did it  avoid facial recognition or  was it  simply weeding  the garden  sort of  thing?

it's only because he's older than her

 

mrs does it each of her elder siblings... it's no different really!

 

 

she even (later admitted losing face in ) saying to me she should even Wai to me the falang, because I am elder than her

9 hours ago, Jonmarleesco said:

Why is his hand stuck up in the air? How? Me Tonto?

I do the same gesture at my house to make the bi_ch sit. But then - she is an American staffy.?

14 hours ago, mfd101 said:

No wonder this country's still struggling to escape the 1950s! Everyone has to grovel to someone else ... No concept of equality, human rights, reward for effort, merit principle, leadership by example ...

are you on LSD ?

Nothing wrong with showing a partner love and appreciation. But it should be mutual and a spontaneous act, not a duty performed as part of a patriarchal faith-based religion.

4 minutes ago, Krataiboy said:

Nothing wrong with showing a partner love and appreciation. But it should be mutual and a spontaneous act, not a duty performed as part of a patriarchal faith-based religion.

Go home!

Just now, BritManToo said:

Go home!

Good idea, your record's stuck.

4 minutes ago, Krataiboy said:

Nothing wrong with showing a partner love and appreciation. But it should be mutual and a spontaneous act, not a duty performed as part of a patriarchal faith-based religion.

I would have completely agreed with you before I came to Thailand. It's deeper than their religion though, it's in the DNA.

 

Here, a man's duty is to provide for his family, and the wife's duty is to run the home and do everything she can to please her man. The biggest compliment you can pay a Thai wife is to tell her that she makes you very happy.

 

It may be a Neolithic concept to us, but accept it, absorb it and not only will your wife be very happy, you will too!

52 minutes ago, Spidey said:

I would have completely agreed with you before I came to Thailand. It's deeper than their religion though, it's in the DNA.

 

Here, a man's duty is to provide for his family, and the wife's duty is to run the home and do everything she can to please her man. The biggest compliment you can pay a Thai wife is to tell her that she makes you very happy.

 

It may be a Neolithic concept to us, but accept it, absorb it and not only will your wife be very happy, you will too!

Thank you for advising my wife and I on how to enjoy successful marriage. If only we had known all this before we spent 16 years raising five kids together!

 

Are you, by any chance, a reincarnation of Marjorie Proops? If so, I take back anything naughty I may have said about religion.

 

If the man pays the bills, as most farang do here, I think it is ok as telling the maid what to clean and going shopping............. and cheating from time to time, is hardly work

How many women actually do this?
Can't believe this is the norm....

1 minute ago, CLW said:

How many women actually do this?
Can't believe this is the norm....

It's becoming the norm for me. Since my last post, I had the "big conversation" with my wife.

 

Graap now has a BJ for the finale. Happy graaping!