Why would 50% of men still date a Thai bar girl?

[BritManToo]

5 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

From what you've posted previously, you didn't have BPH. You progressed to the next stage, obstructive prostate. I agree it's no fun being catheterised fully conscious. I have the T-shirt as well.

Off topic,

Don't mind the catheter, but still want to go hiking, cycling, swimming, drinking and bang the gf ........ none of which I can do.

Sitting inside all day isn't really the 'old age' I imagined having, quite frankly death would be preferable to this in the long  term.

Edited May 5, 2019 by BritManToo

[Lacessit]

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Off topic,

Don't mind the catheter, but still want to go hiking, cycling, swimming, drinking and bang the gf ........ none of which I can do.

Sitting inside all day isn't really the 'old age' I imagined having, quite frankly death would be preferable to this in the long  term.

Again off topic. Apologies to others.

Either pharmaceuticals or surgery will be necessary. You don't need a prostate to bang your GF, although as I understand it some patients don't come up well. A lottery.

You can always alleviate the boredom by posting on TV in your usual blunt fashion.

 

[KhaoYai]

2 hours ago, chrisinth said:

This.

 

If being honest, how many of us met our wives or long term girlfriends in a bar or club back in our western societies? OK granted, you likely didn't pay a bar fine for them but at the end of the day meeting partners is how the majority of bars and clubs are setup and have been for the last 40 years in the west.

So you think meeting a girl in a western pub is the same as meeting one in a Thai beer bar? I had absolutely no idea that my English ex wife was in fact a hooker!

[faraday]

1 hour ago, Lacessit said:

From what you've posted previously, you didn't have BPH. You progressed to the next stage, obstructive prostate. I agree it's no fun being catheterised fully conscious. I have the T-shirt as well.

Ah...yes, & having a slim Asian nurse 'fiddling' around there, didn't quite live up to the long held fantasy.

 

 

[pi2005ni]

You are not dating you are paying a prostitute for sex , however the sad and lonely guys out there , and there are a lot of them prefer to think they have scored . Different strokes for different folks .

[a10ams]

I reckon the poll really shows that 50% aren't prepared to own up.

 

[BritManToo]

5 minutes ago, faraday said:

Ah...yes, & having a slim Asian nurse 'fiddling' around there, didn't quite live up to the long held fantasy.

You wouldn't believe how young and pretty the nurse was that did me.

Full white uniform including white skirt, white hat, white gloves, white socks.

Edited May 5, 2019 by BritManToo

[richard_smith237]

19 minutes ago, a10ams said:

I reckon the poll really shows that 50% aren't prepared to own up.

 

I reckon the poll just shows that 50% are not old, fat, sex pests who can comfortably socialise with & date young, attractive, educated, financially independent ladies here or in their home countries.... 

 

Edited May 5, 2019 by richard_smith237

[soalbundy]

why would 50% not ?

[marcusarelus]

49 minutes ago, KhaoYai said:

So you think meeting a girl in a western pub is the same as meeting one in a Thai beer bar? I had absolutely no idea that my English ex wife was in fact a hooker!

I didn't either till one day one of her customers filled me in.  One drunken night she confided in me that between the ages of 18 and 19 she had 80 customers. 

[timendres]

16 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

I reckon the poll just shows that 50% are not old, fat, sex pests who can comfortably socialise with & date young, attractive, educated, financially independent ladies here or in their home countries.... 

Love the judgement here. Like walking up to a paraplegic in a high-tech wheelchair and telling him to climb back in bed where he belongs. Just because an older gentleman wishes to mingle with young, beautiful women, knowing full well they are for hire, does not mean he is a fool. Even at my age, I still get the attention of the occasional "young, attractive, educated and financially independent lady", yet find many of them to be an absolute snooze-fest. Until I find the right one, I will happily rent my fun.

[kekalot]

4 minutes ago, timendres said:

find many of them to be an absolute snooze-fest.

you're not wrong, I'm in mid 30s and meet girls but a lot of them bore me, can't have real conversations with most of them..

you would think it's a language barrier.. but some of them have great English skills, still no interest in anything other than Facebook, Instagram or TV shows

[richard_smith237]

1 minute ago, timendres said:

27 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

I reckon the poll just shows that 50% are not old, fat, sex pests who can comfortably socialise with & date young, attractive, educated, financially independent ladies here or in their home countries.... 

Love the judgement here. Like walking up to a paraplegic in a high-tech wheelchair and telling him to climb back in bed where he belongs. Just because an older gentleman wishes to mingle with young, beautiful women, knowing full well they are for hire, does not mean he is a fool. Even at my age, I still get the attention of the occasional "young, attractive, educated and financially independent lady", yet find many of them to be an absolute snooze-fest. Until I find the right one, I will happily rent my fun.

No judgement... It was a response to a10ams’ comment implying that 50% of posters were lying (that they wouldn’t consider dating a bar girl).

 

There is no criticism whatsoever of those who go into such ‘transactions / relationships’ with eyes wide open. I feel for the guys who think ‘theirs is different’ and get screwed over, although it would appear that there are quite a number of accounts that ‘theirs was in fact different’ and has prove to be a loving and loyal partner. 

 

You hit the nail on the head with ‘snooze fest’... I have found many women in Thailand to have a somewhat ‘cardboard’ personality or just a little bit too crazy and off the rails, but that’s the same as when I was young in the UK.

 

 

 

[hansnl]

12 hours ago, Hayduke said:

 

Renting is better than buying.

 

 

Never a truer word was Said!

[hansnl]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

You wouldn't believe how young and pretty the nurse was that did me.

Full white uniform including white skirt, white hat, white gloves, white socks.

White skin also?

[wgdanson]

4 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Now how long will it take our guy to find the girl he wants inside a bar and how long outside? I have no statistic but I know there are enough guys who met their long time gf or wife in a bar and are happy with her.

You are so right, well in my case yes. 10 years together, house built for a fraction of the UK price, not married, not too expensive, not too much nookie now, but still a better life than in Ashton-under-Lyne and a damn sight warmer !   LOL

Edited May 5, 2019 by wgdanson

[Spidey]

49 minutes ago, marcusarelus said:

I didn't either till one day one of her customers filled me in.  One drunken night she confided in me that between the ages of 18 and 19 she had 80 customers. 

You knew Khow Yai's wife?

[marcusarelus]

18 minutes ago, Spidey said:

You knew Khow Yai's wife?

 

[Lacessit]

1 hour ago, marcusarelus said:

I didn't either till one day one of her customers filled me in.  One drunken night she confided in me that between the ages of 18 and 19 she had 80 customers. 

My son used to say half the girls studying at his university were hooking part-time to help make ends meet. I suppose that balances the 50% of men. I suspect most go on to marry and have children. Fortunately, we've moved on from the moral indignation of "The Second Mrs. Tanqueray".

[BertM]

If you like to eat different kinds of food (using that as an analogy), then renting short-term is the way to go. If you want to eat the same food every day, then having the same girlfriend or being married is the way to go. As for paying ladies for sex versus not paying, you can fool yourself all you want, but in truth, every woman I ever dated (not prostitutes) cost me the more money than any short-term rental ever cost me. And, the one that cost me the most was the one I married because she was legally entitled to one-half of everything I acquired during our marriage even though I paid for everything. I am married to a Thai lady now and I can tell you they all have money needs. Slavery was banned in my home country 150 years ago and I think it's against the law here too so I don't expect my wife to live with me for room & food only.

Edited May 5, 2019 by BertM

[peterb17]

12 hours ago, neeray said:

The above is a serious case of semantics.

 

But Rooster, this will be a long running thread and a fun read.

Is this Rooster - or Dan about Thailand?

 

Are they the same - usually any articles produced by the latter nearly make me throw my IPad into the pool ( I don’t because it’s a reasonably expensive piece of kit.

 

Of course in the wonderful Alpha Male  heterosexual world of Thai Visa - no one asks how do we get on dating the boys ( a lot better and none of that marriage nonsense ) 

[Nyezhov]

12 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I want one that bangs me every night.

Easy for me, just rent one! And if I need to be garbo, just dont go out and rent one! Then I dont need to shave. Wait, why would I shave in the first place, Im renting, sheloooooooooooooooooooooooooves me. 

 

Done. Bye. Time for a sarnie and football

[Nyezhov]

13 minutes ago, BertM said:

Slavery was banned in my home country 150 years ago and I think it's against the law here too so I don't expect my wife to live with me for room & food.

But thats not slavery, thats a fair exchange.

 

Wonder if you can still buy a nice 19 year old in the villages

[Pattayabeerbacon]

14 hours ago, sanemax said:

Been there done that .

Wasnt really intentional , just went to the same bar to watch football and became friends with "the cashier" , get to know her quite well , became friends and saved her from a life of bar work by supporting her , so that she didnt have to work in a bar .

    With the Pound at 55 Baht , we had a great few years , spending like there was no tomorrow .

  My income fell by by 30 % , the Pound went to 40 Baht and I had to cut back on spending , she then <deleted> off back to the bar   

Dont forget " money number one". 

[CharlieH]

errrmmm excuse me gents, isnt there a difference between making love and having sex ? Having sex is mostly self gratification, making love with someone you love, and loves you, is an entirely different thing....isnt it ? I know which one I would prefer, and you dont get it if you rent.

[marcusarelus]

Making love to a 70 year old woman or having sex with a 20 year old woman.  Which would I choose?   Hmmmmmm.

[CharlieH]

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[CharlieH]

7 minutes ago, marcusarelus said:

Making love to a 70 year old woman or having sex with a 20 year old woman.  Which would I choose?   Hmmmmmm.

Guess thats the difference between us, if the 70 yr old was my life long partner I wouldnt even entertain the 20 yr old or any other woman come to that, but hey, thats just me, loyal.

[brokenbone]

bear in mind most men here are above 50 and thusly

has no chance of 'dating' any girl without paying for it.

you were not above 50 and thus couldnt relate

[BertM]

21 minutes ago, Nyezhov said:

But thats not slavery, thats a fair exchange.

 

Wonder if you can still buy a nice 19 year old in the villages

Haha... that's called domestic slavery... and I wouldn't want the type of woman that is so poor that she would be willing to live with someone (for sex & housekeeping chores) for room & food only. A wife is entitled to a portion of the household income by law in my home country, so why would I not treat my wife here in the same manner.

 

Domestic slavery occurs when domestic workers are not paid at all and only receive ‘payment in kind’ such as food or accommodation.