Advice on a Thai Girl

[In a heartbeat]

Hi guys,

 

Last week I met a Thai girl on Tinder and we started texting each other, first on the dating app and then on Line. She was really nice to me, I send many pictures of myself to her, she did the same, and it seemed we liked each other. After two days of texting, she asked if we could make a call (she said she wanted to hear how my voice sounds like) and we ended up talking for 4 hours!! The next 2 days, again we called each other and, this time, I could see her for real since we made a video call. Also in these circumstances, we talked still a lot, like 3-4 hours in average (really insane), and the topics were really widespread, from her life, past boyfriends, university studies and hobbies to her current job, future plans and so on. And then she started saying things like "I feel really comfortable talking to you" or "I don't know why I feel I know you for long time". Moreover, she was always the first asking for a call, if I was busy etc. But then something changed after these days. In particular, one day, I was waiting for her to ask me a call but since I did not receive her message I asked first this time. She was willing to do it even though she said first she had some work to do, anyways she called me. But this time I felt like I was "stealing" much of her time since we talked just for an hour and she was sleepy. Hence, the following days I didn't want to "disturb" her so I didn't ask her again for a call and I just waited for her to be the first. She didn't ask me for a call but she kept texting me like "Good morning", "How are you doing?", "How was your day?", "I'm going to the bed, goodnight". But, apart from this, we don't talk that much now. And this weekend, I didn't reply to her for one day and, once I did, she read the messages and didn't text me back. I waited for a day, and then I texted her asking if everything was fine. She replied me relatively fast saying she was fine and asking me about my work. But I wanted to know why she was silent the day before so I sent this kind of message "I thought you got bored with me...but maybe you were just busy" and her reply was " Yes I am so busy"....still I can't interpret this. 

 

I don't know if you guys have ever had a situation like this, but probably you have more experience than me in terms of girls (I'm young, just 24, and I know I need to grow up and wake up if the girl was just joking). The impression she gave to me is mixed. I think I like her (not only her look but also how she thinks), she is 3 years older than me and she is well educated (she went to university and she is working in Thailand for a foreign company) even though she comes from the countryside. I really don't know what to think of her and probably this post is too long. But I hope you guys may have some insights or share similar experiences. Thank you so much.

[BritManToo]

Wordy troll back looking for love with Thai hookers working from ThaiFriendly.

 

If by some chance your post is real, she probably couldn't talk 'cos she was banging a paying customer.

Send her some money by Western Union, and she'll talk for an hour or two.

Edited May 11, 2020 by BritManToo

[NCC1701A]

meet her in person.

don't give her any money.

have a nice time.

try not to be too possessive or insecure.

 

what is happening your brain was receiving pleasure endorphins and then got cut off. 

the withdrawal can be difficult.  

 

i knew this one girl, she was worst than cigarettes.  

 

Edited May 11, 2020 by NCC1701A

[PaulieAUS]

Mate, don't worry about her and don't invest in any one of them for too long as it's highly likely they are full of sh1.t, have debts needing to be paid off, a thai bf in the background or any number of issues you don't want to have to deal with.

 

There's an endless conveyor belt of them anyway. Play the volume game and prune as necessary.

[PaulieAUS]

7 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Wordy troll back looking for love with Thai hookers working from ThaiFriendly.

 

If by some chance your post is real, she probably couldn't talk 'cos she was banging a paying customer.

Send her some money by Western Union, and she'll talk for an hour or two.

I am currently on ThaiFriendly and Thai Cupid working through the factory.

 

Thai Friendly is loaded with freelancers. Some of them are OKAY and told me they don't do the freelancing job regularly (yeah, whatever honey) and said when I am in BKK to party with them on their days off (if there's such a thing as a day off for a freelancer). I am more interested in seeing whether I can score a freebie, it's possible. 

 

Thai Cupid seems to have the more genuine ladies looking for real love (nice ATM with no limit). 

[Oldie]

Whatever... Perhaps you should use some pictures of her and do some Google image search. Google for Google image search to understand how it works. Perhaps it is a fake user. If not don't invest anything - at least not until you are absolutely sure that you will not suffer because of any losses. See it as a kind of entertainment. And entertainment is not always free. 

[kingofthemountain]

31 minutes ago, In a heartbeat said:

Hi guys,

 

Last week I met a Thai girl on Tinder...

hi

it seems you are not in Thailand at the moment

ask yourself the good question. what are your plans with this girl?

I mean do you want something serious? She seems to have a good job in Thailand so are

you ready to move permanantly here to be with her?

You are young, so the visa can be a problem and for the money how can you manage it?

Anyway at the moment nobody can enter thailand from abroad, the girl knows it, so she is not

in a hurry, plus during your long chitchat she has probably asked you the good questions and

her conclusion is ''you are not the best candidate for her actual plans'' then she is actually busy

to talk with others males potentials candidates.

She still answer to you, so you are still in the run, but you can be sure you are not the only one.

Good luck

Edited May 11, 2020 by kingofthemountain

[Puchaiyank]

Another wide-eyed lamb to the slaughter...

[finnsk]

A lot of thai girls is "fishing" on the net, finding boyfriends to get money from.

Many thai girls think that love is gold, they know nothing about love as we know it.

 

A thai girl you must meet and check out in real life. The thai culture is to live from day to day, if you are not there to "love" or support her she will go on the net again and find other boyfriends.

 

Do not believe you can make a long relationship on the net where you meet her 2 weeks at your summervacation and then go home again. She will forget you if you do not send money/love.

 

If you want a thai girl, you must be at the location, to find a reliable girl.

 

[Misab]

Most Thai girls are very good actors, and they are there only for the money.

 

[jadee]

Are you in Thailand, if so, suggest meeting up. Just don't get sucked in. 

[norfolkandchance]

4 minutes ago, jadee said:

Are you in Thailand, if so, suggest meeting up. Just don't get sucked in. 

Or off.

[2long]

She probably has a male chicken.

[Logosone]

You talked too much. 

 

Like your post.

 

So she saw you were needy. That's a huge turn off for a girl.

 

You're 24 so none of this matters. Just have fun. The most important thing to remember is Do not get married. Do not, under any circumstances get married. At 24.

 

And also, do not give any money, for any reason, except the usual paying for meals and drinks.

[timendres]

She smelled pay dirt. But there was too much work involved.

[talahtnut]

Mate, it easier and more fun to meet

wimmins the old fashion way, and it

cuts out most of the BS and faff.

[mr mr]

what's her line contact ?

[2long]

Meet up, have fun and bang it into next week!

[Grumpy one]

To save yourself any heart ache from a broken relationship.

Take her out to dinner, take her home and then

simply buy her a house and leave.

She will always love you for it 

[DaRoadrunner]

I nearly fell asleep reading your post and I guess she has too! Too much talk. Get to the point, make a date, take her out, keep it light and fun and then bang her brains out.

[Kwasaki]

For fling sake another newbie wanting to be clever. ????

[Lacessit]

Isn't TV wonderful, threads like these make a cynic's carnival almost daily.

[AlexRich]

Bring all your money to Thailand, buy her land and start building a house. Many have done this and I don’t know any who have regretted it. It’s a no brainer really. 

[Relocated]

It is like a Christmas gift. 

You will get the most excitement when you see it wrapped with pretty paper with picture.

You open it gradually and then you see the real thing, 'what the hell is this?'.

And you say thank you with fake smile. 

That is coming from my experience and I am 70.  

 

By the way, take a class of technical writing. Would you?

Edited May 11, 2020 by Retarded

[2 is 1]

If like think your txt , coming mind you can't be over 15 years old!

Or if you are here, don't go date like this guy!

 

[tribalfusion001]

If you are in Thailand then meet her asap and if you are not in Thailand, then forget it and find something else to do. Seeing as tourists are banned at present, it's a totally pointless talking to a girl in a foreign country that you have never met.

[Davo369]

My advice, get married.....

[samsensam]

 

haha from the title i just knew it was one of those 'newbie' posts. troll, click bait. come on mods... and while you're at it get rid of that annoying pop up

[White Christmas13]

Another first time poster

[bluesofa]

4 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Wordy troll back looking for love with Thai hookers working from ThaiFriendly.  {snipped}

Not just a wordy troll, but one who can talk for ten minutes without pausing for breath.

If you want to draw us in to read it, at least use some paragraphs to break it up and space them out a bit.

 

4 hours ago, In a heartbeat said:

probably this post is too long

Agree entirely.