Married Men: Do you enjoy 'a bit on the side?'

[WineOh]

Last night I was at a dinner at a friends house.

it was mostly couples, and a few single thai guys.

Everyone at the dinner was Thai except myself.

As the night grew on and the drinks got slung back , the topic of 'mia nois' came up.

 

It turns out that every single Thai guy at that table who was either in a relationship or was married had 'a bit on the side.'

Some had more than a bit on the side 

and some were just downright greedy... ???? 

 

My wife then looked at me and said 'you dont, do you love?'

to which I replied 'of course not darling', but in a very sarcastic way.

 

I suppose what I want to know is if you are married, do you ever play away from home?

Considering the numbers last night and the open admitting in front of their wives, I would say that it is very common in Thailand for the man to fill his boots whenever he gets the chance.

And none of their wives seemed to give a monkeys.

To my mind, if the other person involved says its OK then more power to them I say..

and as for the demographic of the people at the dinner, all of them were well educated with good jobs and good social circles. 

 

What are your thoughts? ???? 

Edited January 23, 2021 by WineOh

[KannikaP]

In English we say What's good for the goose is good for the gander ! (Or the other way round).

So just pose the same question to your other halves and see what they say.

[Pilotman]

No. 

[Crossy]

Plenty of answers in the previous similar thread

 

Do we really need another thread on the same subject?

 

 

[Crossy]

Our OP has asked nicely to re-open this thread as:-

 

"As the main body of my topic is about Thai guys and their 'exploits', I would be interested to see comparisons of that and the western counterparts here on Thaivisa."

 

Let's try to keep in that fairly narrow range.

[WineOh]

Just now, Crossy said:

Our OP has asked nicely to re-open this thread as.

 

"As the main body of my topic is about Thai guys and their 'exploits', I would be interested to see comparisons of that and the western counterparts here on Thaivisa."

 

Let's try to keep in that fairly narrow range.

Thanks Crossy! 

[WineOh]

33 minutes ago, Pilotman said:

No. 

why not?

[Pilotman]

1 minute ago, WineOh said:

why not?

Because I love and fancy my wife, love my house, love my bank account and love my 'men's bits' being located in the place that God intended.  

[WineOh]

35 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

So just pose the same question to your other halves and see what they say.

My wife has no intention of sleeping around.

But she has also hinted to me in the past that she would be OK if I did...

She has never actually come out and said sleep around, but she has said things like 'boys will be boys' and 'men always do anyway' etc.

[WineOh]

1 minute ago, Pilotman said:

and love my 'men's bits' being located in the place that God intended.  

so I take it your mrs wouldn't be too happy if you did then mate?

[Pilotman]

Just now, WineOh said:

so I take it your mrs wouldn't be too happy if you did then mate?

well as it will never happen we don't have to worry about it do we? 

[1FinickyOne]

had a Thai taxi driver one time - he told an amusing story:

 

He had previously had a very profitable business and was sort of run out of it... he has a taxi now and drives when he feels like it, goes out into the forest temples much of the time, maintains a peaceful life... he was 50.

 

His wife told him to find a mia noy as it would motivate him to work again and the 2 wives would split the $ 50/50... 

 

Thai ladies can be practical that way... 

[CraigInBangkok]

8 minutes ago, Pilotman said:

Because I love and fancy my wife

yeah this is enough for me ... no judgement from me but if you need to go out for "bits on the side" you obviously married the wrong woman

[Odysseus123]

Well,the Thai canoodle like buck whiznets (or stoats if you prefer) and that is about it really....rabbits..ferrets..

Edited January 23, 2021 by Odysseus123

[KannikaP]

11 minutes ago, WineOh said:

My wife has no intention of sleeping around.

But she has also hinted to me in the past that she would be OK if I did...

She has never actually come out and said sleep around, but she has said things like 'boys will be boys' and 'men always do anyway' etc.

What a good way she has of covering her tracks!    LOL

[OneMoreFarang]

13 minutes ago, WineOh said:

My wife has no intention of sleeping around.

But she has also hinted to me in the past that she would be OK if I did...

She has never actually come out and said sleep around, but she has said things like 'boys will be boys' and 'men always do anyway' etc.

The big question is will she remember that when you do the boys will be boys part and she finds out...

[Pilotman]

MODS, I think you should close this rather pathetic and uninteresting  post. 

[OneMoreFarang]

31 minutes ago, Crossy said:

Our OP has asked nicely to re-open this thread as:-

 

"As the main body of my topic is about Thai guys and their 'exploits', I would be interested to see comparisons of that and the western counterparts here on Thaivisa."

 

Let's try to keep in that fairly narrow range.

 

I think there is a big difference with what Thai guys do and what many farangs do.

 

As far as I know for many Thai guys having a mia noi is a status symbol. He wants to be seen with his mia noi and he spends money so that the mia noi has i.e. a nice car, apartment, etc. And if he can afford more than one than probably he will have more than one. Sex seems to be not the most important part of those relations to mia nois.

It seems mostly the wife knows. I have no insight about what they think about this.

 

Many farang guys play around. And it does not really matter if they have farang or Thai girlfriends or wives. They do it because they want to have sex with sexy girls. And maybe other sex than with their wives. With a Nana girl you direct your own porn movie - even if you don't make a movie.

Maybe farangs tell their good male friends about their encounters but most definitely don't tell their wives.

I think there are very few guy who want to be seen in public with their sexy girls - because the wife may find out...

Edited January 23, 2021 by OneMoreFarang

[OneMoreFarang]

6 minutes ago, Pilotman said:

MODS, I think you should close this rather pathetic and uninteresting  post. 

You are not required to read any uninteresting thread.

I think there is another thread about farming in Isan. Maybe that is something for you. And if not, then ignore it.

[HashBrownHarry]

I don't have a steady bit on the side, too much hassle.

 

But i will play away from home now and then.....why not?

[Odysseus123]

7 minutes ago, Pilotman said:

MODS, I think you should close this rather pathetic and uninteresting  post. 

Gosh.....!

..and just when it was getting interesting-with or without your posts!

[AlfHuy]

26 minutes ago, Pilotman said:

Because I love and fancy my wife, love my house, love my bank account and love my 'men's bits' being located in the place that God intended.  

They can be re-attached.

Some make it a bit longer or wider.

[RichardColeman]

I've been with my current wife nearly 6 years.

I've had so much sex with other women in my head its unreal. 

NO, I have not and would not cheat on my wife.

That said, I've had some good times with schoolgirls and maids in my 6 years to my wife ????

 

My mind, if you need to have sex with another person whilst married - and you're not both swingers - then you married the wrong person. 

[PatOngo]

1 hour ago, WineOh said:

What are your thoughts?

Loose lips sink ships!

[Odysseus123]

3 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I think there are very few guy who want to be seen in public with their sexy girls - because the wife may find out...

..and cut their cojones off..

 

It is the astonishing level of faithlessness in Thailand that leads to the amazing level of paranoia and the violent crimes against women.

 

A free for all.

[PatOngo]

2 minutes ago, AlfHuy said:

They can be re-attached.

Some make it a bit longer or wider.

Not if they are fed to the ducks!

[Bluespunk]

32 minutes ago, WineOh said:

why not?

It's called doing the right thing

[Pilotman]

5 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

You are not required to read any uninteresting thread.

I think there is another thread about farming in Isan. Maybe that is something for you. And if not, then ignore it.

Unlike some, I'm just not that interested in other peoples sex lives.  But you are right, I don't need to bother to read it, so I won't. 

[Odysseus123]

Just now, Pilotman said:

Unlike some, I'm just not that interested in other peoples sex lives.  But you are right, I don't need to bother to read it, so I won't. 

Good for you!

[Janner1]

31 minutes ago, WineOh said:

My wife has no intention of sleeping around.

But she has also hinted to me in the past that she would be OK if I did...

She has never actually come out and said sleep around, but she has said things like 'boys will be boys' and 'men always do anyway' etc.

Wow! Good understanding wife, mine sharpens her knife everyday and makes sure I see her doing it. 555, 555