How to finance the building of new house?

[RafPinto]

6 minutes ago, falang1969 said:

Exactly, I wouldn't want her going out to work for 30k, let alone 15k! Just not worth it!

 

She looks after the kids fantastically and does EVERYTHING around the house!

Why would I want to change that!? Lol

Many University graduates happy to get a 7/11 job at 12k a month.

[chrisandsu]

8 hours ago, falang1969 said:

My wife is a housewife and mother to our two kids aged 2 and 7! Who would look after them?

 

Why would I want my wife going out just to earn 30k a month? Not worth it!

 

Hasn't caused any issues in the last 9 years! Our relationship is stronger than ever!

 

Why shouldn't I give some security for my kids here? They then will have property in the UK and Thailand when I pop my clogs!

 

 

 

Who’s talking about you ? He said his wife and step son and his wife and kid . He shouldn’t be supporting any of them when they are perfectly able to work and provide for their own blood . 

[falang1969]

1 hour ago, chrisandsu said:

Who’s talking about you ? He said his wife and step son and his wife and kid . He shouldn’t be supporting any of them when they are perfectly able to work and provide for their own blood . 

He quoted MY comment and then made his comment. Who do you think he was talking to? That's why I responded, the comment was to me! 

 

If he was replying to the OP, he wouldn't have quoted me, wouldn't make sense!

 

 

[chrisandsu]

10 hours ago, falang1969 said:

He quoted MY comment and then made his comment. Who do you think he was talking to? That's why I responded, the comment was to me! 

 

If he was replying to the OP, he wouldn't have quoted me, wouldn't make sense!

 

 

Your wife needs a job with regular (not erratic) income every month or a business where she can show her income. 
This is what you wrote …. I can see why he replied to you now . Couldn’t see it before and assumed he had replied to the OP???? 

[Kalorymetr]

On 11/9/2021 at 1:30 PM, falang1969 said:

Exactly, I wouldn't want her going out to work for 30k, let alone 15k! Just not worth it!

 

She looks after the kids fantastically and does EVERYTHING around the house!

Why would I want to change that!? Lol

Whatever works for you. I rather have a partner with near equal salary.

[GaelSchulle]

You can get a mortgage, and it will bring you the sum of money sufficient for your purchase.

[BostonJoe]

If the Bank doesn't approve the loan just rent for a few years until you can get the cash from your IRA out  Lets face it the years go by quickly 

[GaelSchulle]

On 10/17/2022 at 9:31 PM, GaelSchulle said:

You can get a mortgage, and it will bring you the sum of money sufficient for your purchase.

Personally, this was my strategy when I bought my house.

[patman30]

what will the house be for?
sounds like a weekend home

have you considered just building cheaper?

seeing as you got 1.25m that should be plenty

[GaelSchulle]

On 10/17/2022 at 9:31 PM, GaelSchulle said:

You can get a mortgage, and it will bring you the sum of money sufficient for your purchase.

Personally, this was my strategy when I bought my house. Still, you can browse the Internet and look for other ideas. Maybe you will find something even more suitable. For instance, you can check out the https://www.greedyrates.ca/ website. I use it every time I need to inform about anything related to finances. Hope I have answered your question. Wish you the best of luck in finding a solution to your problem.