Do you fall in love with women?

[Chris.B]

2 hours ago, connda said:

What fun is that.  For 2000 THB, all I want is smiles and a ..............................

Is that the price nowadays?

 

Edited October 17, 2022 by Chris.B

[Sparktrader]

Is that 2000 plus bar fine?

[Kwasaki]

1 minute ago, Sparktrader said:

Is that 2000 plus bar fine?

500 bar fine take girl to hotel mostly, 1000 short time,  2000 to stay all night until morning is usual. 

[Sparktrader]

Ask the hipster

 

[1FinickyOne]

Tends to last longer w/dogs... but I like women. 

[Sparktrader]

1 minute ago, 1FinickyOne said:

Tends to last longer w/dogs... but I like women. 

Too much info. Ask your gp why.

[still kicking]

No only lady (Boys)????

[1FinickyOne]

8 minutes ago, Sparktrader said:

Ask your gp why.

general practitioner? 

[Lucky Bones]

Mostly I fall in love with their "bits".

 

[bobbin]

1 hour ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

Do you have a extra large penis ?

For the inexperienced, farang normal is scary enough..

 

????

[Kwasaki]

2 hours ago, connda said:

"Love" in many ways is a hormonal secretion the purpose of which is the propagation of the species.  I've "loved" many women in my youth.  It was just so much humpin' and pumpin', then suddenly you're face with the realities of who the person really is.  Then <poof>.  Love is over.

I'm not a cynic.  I do know couples who stay deeply in love for decades.  It's not the norm, but it is a beautiful thing to see.  It transcends "humpin' and pumpin'," which nowadays in this venal society seems to be the exception and not the norm.

Now?  Hell.  I won't elaborate. 

Do I "love" women (as I am 100% hetero)?  No.  I have compassion and mutual respect for those who have the same for me.  You can call that "Love" if you wish.

Made me think early on, i would say i loved them in my way. 

 

Then i met someone and married after the hell's bells and poetry period which i found is about 3 months. 

 

I did use a saying from a film that a man can't live with the same woman for more than 20 years it just ain't natural. 

 

I been married now 19 years my wife says do you still luv me, I say of course i do i wouldn't be here otherwise and no way will i leave her now at my age. 

 

I still find that i need time to spend with a Mia noi on the side secretly of course and being very careful it can be platonic or otherwise for as long as it lasts,  getting hard to do though these days or more like unable to get hard. ????

 

 

 

[Walker88]

I tend to fall in lust with women, at least in Thailand. I have homes in two other countries, and I rarely if ever fall in lust there. I do like my homes, however, even if I mostly live a platonic life there. Thailand, however, brings out the dopamine in me.

 

Get a good intake of pheromones, coupled with a pleasing form and lovely eyes, and I get a nice dopamine rush. If I connect with my lust target, I get the oxytocin boost, then if we spoon after the fact, vasopressin makes me somewhat attached. Nature and biochemistry are wonderful things.

 

The high from a connection, especially if the vasopressin does its job, lasts about 3 months. Scientists have measured the effect in controlled settings.  After that, it is possible that one habituates to the woman, in which case 'having her' becomes a biochemical need. Have lots of sex and post-coital spooning, and the oxytocin and vasopressin additionally solidifies the 'love'. "Love" does waver, however, and we don't always feel it even in a long relationship. It ebbs and flows with our hormone levels. We fight an internal battle between the instinct that drives us to spread our seed far and wide, and fidelity to one person to whom we have made a commitment and who might be a co=protector of our already-propagated gene pool.

 

Clinically it's not very romantic, but it is what it is, and we are good at deluding ourselves into thinking love is something spiritual or magical, when it really is just chemicals and pulsing neurons and instinct.

 

Though @jerrymahoney might come and correct me here, I believe it was Oscar Wilde who said, "Love is a gross exaggeration of the difference between one person and everybody else."

[Mac Mickmanus]

16 minutes ago, Walker88 said:

I tend to fall in lust with women, at least in Thailand. I have homes in two other countries, and I rarely if ever fall in lust there. I do like my homes, however, even if I mostly live a platonic life there. Thailand, however, brings out the dopamine in me.

 

Get a good intake of pheromones, coupled with a pleasing form and lovely eyes, and I get a nice dopamine rush. If I connect with my lust target, I get the oxytocin boost, then if we spoon after the fact, vasopressin makes me somewhat attached. Nature and biochemistry are wonderful things.

 

The high from a connection, especially if the vasopressin does its job, lasts about 3 months. Scientists have measured the effect in controlled settings.  After that, it is possible that one habituates to the woman, in which case 'having her' becomes a biochemical need. Have lots of sex and post-coital spooning, and the oxytocin and vasopressin additionally solidifies the 'love'. "Love" does waver, however, and we don't always feel it even in a long relationship. It ebbs and flows with our hormone levels. We fight an internal battle between the instinct that drives us to spread our seed far and wide, and fidelity to one person to whom we have made a commitment and who might be a co=protector of our already-propagated gene pool.

 

Clinically it's not very romantic, but it is what it is, and we are good at deluding ourselves into thinking love is something spiritual or magical, when it really is just chemicals and pulsing neurons and instinct.

 

Though @jerrymahoney might come and correct me here, I believe it was Oscar Wilde who said, "Love is a gross exaggeration of the difference between one person and everybody else."

Basically, in a word, you feel horny , get bored, then move on to the next one who makes you feel horny 

[Sparktrader]

7 minutes ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

Basically, in a word, you feel horny , get bored, then move on to the next one who makes you feel horny 

What do you do?

[jerrymahoney]

30 minutes ago, Walker88 said:

Though @jerrymahoney might come and correct me here, I believe it was Oscar Wilde who said, "Love is a gross exaggeration of the difference between one person and everybody else."

https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/george_bernard_shaw_106574

[CharlieH]

Used to fall in lust, for a short time. No such thing as "love" its just a bad habit and you get used to someone and they get used to you and  it becomes "comfortable"  thats all. ????

 

[Mac Mickmanus]

31 minutes ago, Sparktrader said:

What do you do?

In regards to Females ?

Nothing at the moment, more than happy and content being single

[bbi1]

I fell in love with Mrs Palmer and her 5 daughters

Edited October 17, 2022 by bbi1

[SenorTashi]

2 hours ago, Joinaman said:

2.000 baht ?

you get discount for being Hansum man ?

3.000 seems to be the rate around here , so m told 

???? Jeez Louise, I've been out of the game for a long time.

[bbi1]

 

1 hour ago, Chris.B said:

Is that the price nowadays?

 

 

1 hour ago, Sparktrader said:

Is that 2000 plus bar fine?

Yes, if you are Indian or and old fugly dude. Normal dudes pay 1k max.

[Sparktrader]

12 minutes ago, Mac Mickmanus said:

In regards to Females ?

Nothing at the moment, more than happy and content being single

What about ladyboys?

[Sparktrader]

5 minutes ago, bbi1 said:

 

 

Yes, if you are Indian or and old fugly dude. Normal dudes pay 1k max.

I think it depends on location, nothing to do with looks. Samui and Phuket tourists have more money.

Edited October 17, 2022 by Sparktrader

[Hummin]

4 hours ago, Sparktrader said:

How long does it take? 1 week? 1 month?

All my life I have falled in love in women and all of them in the very first minutes. Some I had the pleasure to get to know, most not. 

 

Easier to to get distracted by women you are not in love with, than those you get in love with. First thing I had to learn as very young was to stay cool, and not show my desperation. 

 

 

[Boomer6969]

4 hours ago, pgrahmm said:

Beats the alternative choices ....

As far a I am concerned there is no alternative.

[Lacessit]

1 hour ago, CharlieH said:

Used to fall in lust, for a short time. No such thing as "love" its just a bad habit and you get used to someone and they get used to you and  it becomes "comfortable"  thats all. ????

 

Comfortable suits me, I quite enjoy being used as a hot water bottle by my GF at 4 or 5 am when it is winter in Chiang Rai.

[Mac Mickmanus]

1 hour ago, Sparktrader said:

What about ladyboys?

No, I don't particularly like lady boys , don't like them at all TBH

[proton]

Na, they always want something

[In the jungle]

Define love.

 

 

[Adumbration]

I love my Thai GF. 

[Baron Samedi]

I did when I was younger but not anymore.

Probably hormonal...

40 yo marks the beginning of the end ????

 

More seriously, women are too boring for me to invest time on them. Very low energy with odd interests in life.

 

I can superficially fancy on woman but really love her (whatever that means anyway). Nope.

Edited October 17, 2022 by Baron Samedi