Popular Post bangon04 Posted March 9, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted March 9, 2023 6 hours ago, blueCloud888 said: I hope there is a Russian version too. And on a humourous note our most critical faux pas could be our last "pas", when crossing a road in Thailand. Russian version is that everyone seated at the table has to propose a toast, immediately followed by gulping the contents of/emptying your vodka glass (sometimes throwing it in the fireplace) OK if there are 4 at the table. Not so easy if there are 10+ at the table. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Spock Posted March 9, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted March 9, 2023 5 hours ago, BritManToo said: Hardly any western guys wear a crucifix. Don't think I've ever seen one while in Thailand. Russians do! 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post wealthychef Posted March 9, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted March 9, 2023 20 hours ago, proton said: Misses out the importance of music in Thai culture, as usual and no mention of the common faux -pas- the wai, biggest mistake. What possible faux pas could be made around the importance of music in Thai culture? Being too quiet? Not liking driving backbeats? Failure to dance like nobody's watching? 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post poskat Posted March 9, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted March 9, 2023 when i first started working here, I committed many cultural faux pas, such as expecting colleagues to arrive to meetings on time, and to plan out things for the future. I also mi-stepped by suggesting that done right is better than done fast. Expecting students to think critically, and not just repeat facts, and not plagiarize the work of others in their projects was also described to me as being unreasonable. 4 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 20 hours ago, ThailandRyan said: If you can't tell someone how something needs to be corrected to cook it rigght or do it right how can they ever learn how to do it right is what I meant. Not the point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lamyai3 Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 18 hours ago, Neeranam said: Else is Lese's sister. Think she was the one in Bride of Frankenstein. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rimmer Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 A personal attack and a reply have been removed 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Speedhump Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 "Else Majesty" ???????????????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Speedhump Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 9 hours ago, hotchilli said: No misunderstandings down Walking street. Just check 'down under' before agreeing a takeaway. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Speedhump Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 9 hours ago, ericthai said: What about western guys that wear a crucifix on their necklaces? Are they primitive too? Don't they believe wearing a crucifix or some other religious medal is going to protect them? No, it's sometimes just jewellery, sometimes a display of their faith. Not an amulet. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotchilli Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 37 minutes ago, Speedhump said: Just check 'down under' before agreeing a takeaway. The "Crocodile Dundee handshake"? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paulikens Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 And be aware they almost everything is a loss of face in their weird world. the most ridiculous things going, which are no connection to a loss of face will be to them. and they are only buddhists when it suits them. apart from that Thais are the same as us???? ???? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post paulikens Posted March 9, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted March 9, 2023 (edited) And the most infuriating part of their culture is telling you/leaving everything to the last minute. you're not really aware of this till you start working with them. And by god ! it can wind you up. Edited March 9, 2023 by paulikens 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slip Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 6 hours ago, proton said: It can be argued a feudal society is primitive and Thai society is certainly feudal. Add to that the widespread belief in ghosts, spirits and magic and it's little more than primitive with a veneer of concrete and neon. I disagree, though I can see your comment drew approval from members in the same way as my original one drew emoji condemnation. Thai society is developing and I don't disagree that some elements of feudalism still exist. I think you can see feudal elements in some of the societies we would hold up to be 'non-primitive'. There are also quite primitive individuals in Thailand, but there are plenty who are not, again like any 'non-primitive' culture. Is Thailand lower on the curve than some other places? For sure, but isn't that why we love it? It seems to me that the concrete veneer you mention is essential for any country these days to be even considered as non-primitive, but it is there in Thailand- decent roads, water, electricity, some form of social security and health care and so on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ54 Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 Face is somewhat understandable… but for me “Face” has its limits… if you deserve to be on the hook your in it… Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GinBoy2 Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 The food thing in restaurants is funny It appears the lower you are the less likely you are to say 'Box it up, I'll take it home' The HiSo's have no problem with this. My wife straddles the two, low so birth birth but ended up as a teenager in the US, and experienced the lack of the nonsense of Krang Jai culture She'll happily box up leftovers to take home. As she's says "I paid for it, I'll eat it where I want" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 2 hours ago, Slip said: I disagree, though I can see your comment drew approval from members in the same way as my original one drew emoji condemnation. Thai society is developing and I don't disagree that some elements of feudalism still exist. I think you can see feudal elements in some of the societies we would hold up to be 'non-primitive'. There are also quite primitive individuals in Thailand, but there are plenty who are not, again like any 'non-primitive' culture. Is Thailand lower on the curve than some other places? For sure, but isn't that why we love it? It seems to me that the concrete veneer you mention is essential for any country these days to be even considered as non-primitive, but it is there in Thailand- decent roads, water, electricity, some form of social security and health care and so on. My Thai son straddles all of these 'points'. He won't aske questions in BIg C/Homepro about washing machines, TV's etc because that would be admitting he doesn't have knowledge of these items - sever loss of face. But with a group of foreigners he behaves like a farang (he speaks excellent English). Or put this another way; he can be 100% Thai or be 100% farang, as needed. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 23 minutes ago, scorecard said: My Thai son straddles all of these 'points'. He won't aske questions in BIg C/Homepro about washing machines, TV's etc because that would be admitting he doesn't have knowledge of these items - sever loss of face. But with a group of foreigners he behaves like a farang (he speaks excellent English). Or put this another way; he can be 100% Thai or be 100% farang, as needed. '...Thai society is developing ...' Sure but I suggest it's developing at a different rate in different locations. . - Many Thai folks in BKK are nowadays more 'international'. - Many Thai folks in the remote / not so totally remote 'upcountry' areas still live in ancient times, with ancient behaviors and their knowledge of the bigger world is close to zero. Even to the point of on a couple of extreme occasions: - But don't go too far away from home - you might fall off the end of the world. - One family member who is adamant that the country just above thailand is Germany. He's also adamant that German people only eat Thai food, several meals every day. Thai folks living in Germany don't have to obey the laws of Germany. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaosLover Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 Back in the Lonely Planet days, they were always exhorting you not to rub a monk's bald head. I have spent 25 years+ trying to come up with a scenario where that might come up. Also: 25+ with a nagging desire to really, really rub a monk's bald head -once they put the possibility in my head. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalasin Jo Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 On 3/8/2023 at 6:30 PM, proton said: Go to the cinema these days and see how many people stand up at the start! Have they stopped doing this? Ages since I went to the cinema here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalasin Jo Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 4 hours ago, paulikens said: And the most infuriating part of their culture is telling you/leaving everything to the last minute. you're not really aware of this till you start working with them. And by god ! it can wind you up. Or living with them! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalasin Jo Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 On 3/8/2023 at 7:43 PM, NoDisplayName said: Gosh, that's just as bad! ???? Elsewhere I've read, and am inclined to agree, that over ordering in a restaurant then leaving alot of it touched but uneaten is done to convey that one can afford to do this or rather the one picking up the tab is. I'm talking food here, all alcohol ordered is always consumed! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissman53 Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 I can not understand, that so many critics still stay in this country, if it is soooo bad. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
proton Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 25 minutes ago, Kalasin Jo said: Have they stopped doing this? Ages since I went to the cinema here Last time I went to see Top Gun 3 people stood up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post richard_smith237 Posted March 9, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted March 9, 2023 9 minutes ago, swissman53 said: I can not understand, that so many critics still stay in this country, if it is soooo bad. Is this a new version of ‘if you don’t like it go home’ ??? Nowhere is perfect and Thailand, Thai Culture, Thai people have their faults, foibles, faux-pas, enigmas..... just like anywhere else... Its ok to discuss them. Entering such discussions does not mean those discussion hate all facets of Thailand. People are here because they like it more than where they were before, I think some people are unable to reconcile this idea in their minds and live in this dreamworld where everything is supposed to be wonderful - this highlights an absence of realism, 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoDisplayName Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 16 hours ago, ericthai said: What about western guys that wear a crucifix on their necklaces? Are they primitive too? Don't they believe wearing a crucifix or some other religious medal is going to protect them? Don't know if it's still a thing, but long ago back in the states, my relatives had St. Christopher medals hanging on the rear-view mirror. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lorry Posted March 9, 2023 Share Posted March 9, 2023 People posting here should read the guides to exotic cultures (Germany, Japan, US...) written for Thais. Whenever Thais ask me for an example of hard-to- understand farang culture I tell them how we would get angry at a drawer that won't open (or car that won't start, a vending machine that doesn't work etc). I have yet to find a single Thai who understands why anybody would shout at a drawer, kick a car or beat a vending machine. Have you ever told a Thai how many Americans and Europeans seriously believe in immaculate conception? Obviously, farang are "primitive societies which mix animism and magic with" lack of scientific understanding of furnitures, machines, and human biology, as another poster said. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikebell Posted March 10, 2023 Share Posted March 10, 2023 On 3/9/2023 at 7:58 AM, quake said: It all depends on how big your Horn is, now days. Mine is only adequate. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fusion58 Posted March 10, 2023 Share Posted March 10, 2023 On 3/8/2023 at 4:50 PM, snoop1130 said: Thailand is a predominantly Buddhist country, and Buddhism is deeply ingrained in its customs and traditions. You could have fooled me. In all my years of living in Thailand, all I’ve seen is “Bahtism.” 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quake Posted March 10, 2023 Share Posted March 10, 2023 30 minutes ago, fusion58 said: You could have fooled me. In all my years of living in Thailand, all I’ve seen is “Bahtism.” +1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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