Is it better to be single or attached in Thailand?

[still kicking]

2 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

She's playing the long game, property?

I better not answer because I don't won't to get banned 

[FruitPudding]

21 minutes ago, Dmaxdan said:

People who embrace commitment and are happy to put another person's feelings ahead of their own are generally attached.

Men have an attachment, but it doesn't last much longer than a few minutes.

 

Nature made it that way.

 

[JensenX]

2 hours ago, bignok said:

What are the pros and cons of both? Does location make a big difference? Is being single on Samui way better than Chiang Mai or Nakhon Nowwhere? Could you shag your way across small cities without using bargirls?

You need to stay single (or get single) no matter where you live. You'd be doing the female population a big favour.

[bignok]

25 minutes ago, still kicking said:

I better not answer because I don't won't to get banned 

I agree with you for once. Not all women are bad.

[bignok]

24 minutes ago, JensenX said:

You need to stay single (or get single) no matter where you live. You'd be doing the female population a big favour.

Ive never you but i bet im better looking and stronger. Most women like me. Sorry they don't think much of you. 

[transam]

Just now, bignok said:

Ive never you but i bet im better looking and stronger. Most women like me. Sorry they don't think much of you. 

Try writing that again, get your degree in gear................????

[Nick Carter icp]

If you want to be a in a relationship with someone , then be in a relationship with someone .

    If you want to be single, then be single .

Just do what you want to do and don't be concerned about anyone else 

[Jeff the Chef]

4 hours ago, bignok said:

What are the pros and cons of both? Does location make a big difference? Is being single on Samui way better than Chiang Mai or Nakhon Nowwhere? Could you shag your way across small cities without using bargirls?

Well I could because I am a handsome man, who can breathe through his ears and have a long tongue.

[Moonlover]

2 hours ago, still kicking said:

2 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Women are generally looking for an ATM and yes they prefer some ATMs over others, but why be one? so stay single and see different women as required

 

2 hours ago, still kicking said:

Absolute nonsense I have been married for 20 years and I never paid a cent for my wife she pays her own way and sometimes she is the ATM

Whilst I do not completely agree with Scuba's comment above, you @still kicking are very much in the minority as regards fiscal arrangements with your spouse. So calling his comment 'absolute nonsense' is a bit of a stretch. Most of us married folk here are, indeed the 'bread winners', whether we work for it or not.

 

I'm not complaining about that. It's the situation that I've been in for much of my adult life, so I'm no stranger to it.

 

However regarding the topic itself, I wouldn't be living in Thailand if I wasn't married to a Thai, neither would I choose to. I actually meet my wife outside of the country and became 'entangled' with her first, the country came later when things got a bit fretful in Egypt where we were living.

 

But I have no regrets. I prefer being in a relationship and ours is working quite well. 

[bignok]

2 minutes ago, Moonlover said:

 

Whilst I do not completely agree with Scuba's comment above, you @still kicking are very much in the minority as regards fiscal arrangements with your spouse. So calling his comment 'absolute nonsense' is a bit of a stretch. Most of us married folk here are, indeed the 'bread winners', whether we work for it or not.

 

I'm not complaining about that. It's the situation that I've been in for much of my adult life, so I'm no stranger to it.

 

However regarding the topic itself, I wouldn't be living in Thailand if I wasn't married to a Thai, neither would I choose to. I actually meet my wife outside of the country and became 'entangled' with her first, the country came later when things got a bit fretful in Egypt where we were living.

 

But I have no regrets. I prefer being in a relationship and ours is working quite well. 

You are correct but thats because guys let women run them. You don't have to agree to pay a women anything. You get what you settle for. 

[4MyEgo]

Is it better to be single or attached in Thailand?

4 hours ago, bignok said:

What are the pros and cons of both? Does location make a big difference? Is being single on Samui way better than Chiang Mai or Nakhon Nowwhere? Could you shag your way across small cities without using bargirls?

To answer you're question to the heading: I believe attached, otherwise you could find yourself spending too much time on forums, no names mentioned ????

 

Really you want to know the pros and cons. As for shagging across small cities, why bother, your partner should accommodate you at least 3 times a week, and when it's that time of the month, you can go up the road if you like a bit on the side.

 

You have this thing for bar girls don't you, been bitten have you ????

 

 

[bignok]

Just now, 4MyEgo said:

Is it better to be single or attached in Thailand?

To answer you're question to the heading: I believe attached, otherwise you could find yourself spending too much time on forums, no names mentioned ????

 

Really you want to know the pros and cons. As for shagging across small cities, why bother, your partner should accommodate you at least 3 times a week, and when it's that time of the month, you can go up the road if you like a bit on the side.

 

You have this thing for bar girls don't you, been bitten have you ????

 

 

Not my cup of tea. Guys on here admit to using bargirls. Why pretend otherwise? Of course it exists. Or we can just pretend otherwise if it makes you feel better. If you are sensitive about it sorry about that. 

[transam]

3 minutes ago, bignok said:

You are correct but thats because guys let women run them. You don't have to agree to pay a women anything. You get what you settle for. 

The voice of experience, aren't we lucky..............

[RanongCat]

14 minutes ago, transam said:

The voice of experience, aren't we lucky..............

Why?????

[transam]

Just now, RanongCat said:

Why?????

Oh hello, RC, why, well I thought it obvious, sorry but, I can't add to it.

????

[RanongCat]

Just now, transam said:

Oh hello, RC, why, well I thought it obvious, sorry but, I can't add to it.

????

Oh . Just another  ocd  reaction then?

 

[transam]

1 minute ago, RanongCat said:

Oh . Just another  ocd  reaction then?

 

If you say so................

[bignok]

2 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

She's playing the long game, property?

Westerners play the inheritance game including men, women and kids. If someone is married for 20 years they should get something.

[bignok]

3 minutes ago, RanongCat said:

Oh . Just another  ocd  reaction then?

 

Don't try to understand the old Ubon guy. None of his posts make sense. Just drivel followed by ......

[RanongCat]

2 minutes ago, transam said:

If you say so................

Pity.

[transam]

1 minute ago, bignok said:

Don't try to understand the old Ubon guy. None of his posts make sense. Just drivel followed by ......

....by, now come on, bring your degree in to play, go for it................ 

[RanongCat]

1 minute ago, bignok said:

Don't try to understand the old Ubon guy. None of his posts make sense. Just drivel followed by ......

I enjoy trying to provide him with some small degree of relevance.

[transam]

2 minutes ago, RanongCat said:

Pity.

Thanks for your concern.............????

[bignok]

3 minutes ago, RanongCat said:

Pity.

Four words followed by dots and silly tennis emoji. Kind of sad isn't it? Very strange for a 70yo to communicate like this. Obviously 5 beers short of a 6 pack.

[bignok]

1 minute ago, RanongCat said:

I enjoy trying to provide him with some small degree of relevance.

Yes helping the poor and needy so to speak. Charity work. He needs to use emojis and dots to feel important.

[transam]

Just now, RanongCat said:

I enjoy trying to provide him with some small degree of relevance.

And it is most appreciated..............????

[RanongCat]

1 minute ago, bignok said:

Four words followed by dots and silly tennis emoji. Kind of sad isn't it? Very strange for a 70yo to communicate like this. Obviously 5 beers short of a 6 pack.

I have been told he  won a POTY award a long time back. I think it was based on  number of posts rather than content merit. Perhaps in an evolving state of dementia  he fancies a renewed state of recognition ?

[transam]

2 minutes ago, bignok said:

Four words followed by dots and silly tennis emoji. Kind of sad isn't it? Very strange for a 70yo to communicate like this. Obviously 5 beers short of a 6 pack.

I am not 70, now you, a man with a degree should by now have worked that out, I have told you enough times.......????

 

I don't have a degree like yourself, but I find it strange that you look at things calculated by tins of beer, is that normal, an Aussie thing..?  

 

????

[transam]

4 minutes ago, RanongCat said:

I have been told he  won a POTY award a long time back. I think it was based on  number of posts rather than content merit. Perhaps in an evolving state of dementia  he fancies a renewed state of recognition ?

Aaaaaah, me winning POTY, strange you should bring that up, now don't keep pondering over it, it will not do you any good at all, just cheer up, chap..........????

[RanongCat]

2 minutes ago, transam said:

Aaaaaah, me winning POTY, strange you should bring that up, now don't keep pondering over it, it will not do you any good at all, just cheer up, chap..........????

I have noticed you mention it at times you might consider an advantage to status of opine or something. That and some other irrelevant historical periods of blue collar occupation. It is not that I ponder, just note.

I do however ponder a little over the condescending iteration of Chap, Stand  down etc in some presumption of superior class.

I am generally in good cheer thanks anyway and  not in need of assistance . Pip pip and all that Mr Mannering.