You may have taken easy road.

 

How about trying a Thai who's business woman, educated in the US, hi ranking military officer etc.

I've had pleasure to get to know all above types.

 

You'll find out it ain't easy and they will not beg anything or spread their legs that easy. Until they genuinely like/love you and you are up to THEIR standards.

 

24 minutes ago, GypsyT said:

Until they genuinely like/love you and you are up to THEIR standards.

You really expect them to scrape the bottom of the dating barrel, with farangs, when there's plenty of better Thais in their peer group ... 

2 hours ago, KhunLA said:

............. when there's plenty of better Thais in their peer group ... 

Define better?

 

2 hours ago, GypsyT said:

You may have taken easy road.

 

How about trying a Thai who's business woman, educated in the US, hi ranking military officer etc.

I've had pleasure to get to know all above types.

 

You'll find out it ain't easy and they will not beg anything or spread their legs that easy. Until they genuinely like/love you and you are up to THEIR standards.

 

 

My first Thai gf that I met in Canada was a daughter of someone someone in very hiso circles. She dumped me because I wasn't up to standards.

 

My current wife is Chinese with MBA working remotely for international company. Previous wife was working for Siemens BTS project.

 

I dunno if I can go as high as your standards, but I am assuming if they opened their lega for you, they would probably open for me too.....

 

 

9 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Define better?

Someone not 65 yrs old, not a drunk, didn't come to TH because they can't afford to live in home country or can only pay to have female company.

 

Plenty of Thai men, that don't fit the above.  Have a home, nice car, nice jobs, treat woman right, equal education and social status ... and they speak Thai.

 

Professional in her or his peer group, don't look for the lowly farangs to socialize with, unless they are also an equal in their peer group.  A professional, have home/condo, car, job or nice retirement income  / fund.  Very few here, if this forum is anything to go by.

 

Forum discussions;

... how to use agents to skirt IMM requirement

... bars open when & how long

... bar girls

... check that, more about ladyboys

... TH sucks

... Thais are stupid

... Thais are lazy

... Thai mistreat woman

... Thais can't drive

... Thais are scammer

... IF I could afford to live elsewhere, I would 

 

What profession chickie wants to hang around with that lot, let alone, introduce them to family & friends.

 

38 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

Plenty of Thai men, that don't fit the above.  Have a home, nice car, nice jobs, treat woman right, equal education and social status ... and they speak Thai.

Nearly all have mia nois and hit women from what I've seen.

As for education, not many Thai educated people can match a western high school diploma.

And many that went to western university just cheated their way through, Yingluck being a prime example.

On 11/14/2023 at 2:48 PM, giddyup said:

What about his libido?

Maybe he means labia.

11 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Nearly all have mia nois and hit women from what I've seen.

As for education, not many Thai educated people can match a western high school diploma.

And many that went to western university just cheated their way through, Yingluck being a prime example.

We obviously travel in different circles.  

29 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

We obviously travel in different circles.  

Or one of us is more perceptive.

I certainly don't view other forum members as the losers you appear to believe they are.

16 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Or one of us is more perceptive.

I certainly don't view other forum members as the losers you appear to believe they are.

Losers is harsh.  Uneducated & economically challenged.  Some with some social skill issues.   But they all seem to be functional and harmless.

 

That many are here by thought, instead of consequences, puts more than a few up on the ones they left behind in the mother land.  Free thinking, risk takers are good traits to have.  

 

I'm sure there are many more expats here/TH, not on AN, that would make many a Thai lass happy. 

 

Aside from the non expats, past expats, wanna be expats, and the stranger ones, never been here, or visited once or twice, and seem to know it all.  Throw in the ones that left years ago, wouldn't recognize the place, but still think they are experts.  It's certainly is a mix here on the forum.

 

Not forgetting the extremely intelligent (not me) and or wealthy (again, not me) that grace the forum.

 

Perceptive ... I've lived in the village, and seen the worst that the locals can be.  Left that type of village, and realized, there's a lot more to TH, than all that negativity.  So not that ignorant, or bias and closed minded any more.

"I dunno if I can go as high as your standards, but I am assuming if they opened their lega for you, they would probably open for me too..... "

 

I'm not qualified for;

"How about trying a Thai who's business woman, educated in the US, hi ranking military officer etc.

I've had pleasure to get to know all above types."

 

I couldn't stay with any of them. I just thought maybe you could... and get more happy life with them.

Clearly you already had so called "quality" women but walked out.

 

I like wild, free spirit, rebellious and sexy woman. Not a slut but "like a slat" in private with me -:)

I also like they are neat, take care of house and finances and hopefully learn very good English and Net banking etc. That's my security in retirement. I don't count for any government programs etc.

 

 

On 11/14/2023 at 6:56 PM, Celsius said:

Looking at woman's body does not excite me anymore. I thing they are hidrous creatures. No matter the age, race or body type I just  now see them as living organisms with open mouths.

Can I suggest some medical intervention is required, unless you are happy to be so. I wish I had been so all my life as I'd be happier, wealthier and possibly wiser.

 

Personally, I still find some females attractive, but mainly Asians of the far east ie Japan, and SEA, though Chinese are also included.

Western women, especially those of the larger dimensions are a complete turn off.

11 hours ago, KhunLA said:

Someone not 65 yrs old, not a drunk, didn't come to TH because they can't afford to live in home country or can only pay to have female company.

 

Plenty of Thai men, that don't fit the above.  Have a home, nice car, nice jobs, treat woman right, equal education and social status ... and they speak Thai.

 

Professional in her or his peer group, don't look for the lowly farangs to socialize with, unless they are also an equal in their peer group.  A professional, have home/condo, car, job or nice retirement income  / fund.  Very few here, if this forum is anything to go by.

 

Forum discussions;

... how to use agents to skirt IMM requirement

... bars open when & how long

... bar girls

... check that, more about ladyboys

... TH sucks

... Thais are stupid

... Thais are lazy

... Thai mistreat woman

... Thais can't drive

... Thais are scammer

... IF I could afford to live elsewhere, I would 

 

What profession chickie wants to hang around with that lot, let alone, introduce them to family & friends.

 

Your points 2,3,4 are interesting, unlike "where can I find a pizza".

 

For 5 on one wonders why they even bother to live in LOS if they hate the people so much.

 

6,7,9 could apply to people in every country I've been in and I've lived in quite a few

7 hours ago, GypsyT said:

I like wild, free spirit, rebellious and sexy woman. Not a slut but "like a slat" in private with me -:)

I also like they are neat, take care of house and finances

In other words, no living woman, as who could fit all those specifications?

9 hours ago, KhunLA said:

I've lived in the village, and seen the worst that the locals can be. 

You must have been unlucky. In my wife's village I experienced none of the "worst". Most that I had occasion to interact with were pleasant to know.  I liked that they were normal people uncontaminated by toxic city life, and while I didn't know many of them, none were unfriendly towards the only farang in the village.

 

12 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

My first Thai gf that I met in Canada was a daughter of someone someone in very hiso circles. She dumped me because I wasn't up to standards.

 

My current wife is Chinese with MBA working remotely for international company. Previous wife was working for Siemens BTS project.

 

I dunno if I can go as high as your standards, but I am assuming if they opened their lega for you, they would probably open for me too.....

 

 

I've never found that educational level or employment category had a bearing on personality, though I had noticed there was a high correlation between managers and bullies, though by no means universal.

 

IMO though, the lower the status of a woman within the organisation ( referring to educated women, many with degrees but by no means the majority ) the higher the positive personality traits.

 

I speak as one that worked with thousands of women over a very long nursing career ( worked with could mean just one shift ), and got to know some hundreds well, so I have some insight into the subject, though I do not profess to be an expert on females by any means.

14 hours ago, GypsyT said:

How about trying a Thai who's business woman, educated in the US, hi ranking military officer etc.

I think any of those "qualifications" would make me steer clear of such. I wanted to live in LOS to meet women that were NOT contaminated by western "feminism".

Military officer of the female variety, LOL.

On 11/14/2023 at 8:57 PM, KhunLA said:

Female companionship is OK, but TBH, without a couple, a few warm, wet holes to poke and have fun  with, I'm not really sure they are necessary.  And I actually consider myself a 'romantic' 

I craved female companionship all my life and still do, but I learned the hard way that meeting a compatible women is at best blind luck, and I have as much chance of finding Miss Right as winning the Euro multi million lottery.

"Military officer of the female variety, LOL."

 

Actually she was one of the best!

Very trim n fit and liked long hard hikes like me. She had taken an early retirement w good pension and started her catering company to rich snobs. Very successful and run it w her terms.

Only thing I didn't like was her request me to dress "properly". She even offer to buy me nice clothes.

No hope, I'm California beach bum style and stay like that till I die...

 

To find a perfect fit you have to try and try till you find her. Luck doesn't cut.

 

3 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

You must have been unlucky. In my wife's village I experienced none of the "worst". Most that I had occasion to interact with were pleasant to know.  I liked that they were normal people uncontaminated by toxic city life, and while I didn't know many of them, none were unfriendly towards the only farang in the village.

 

That was wife #3, Thai wife #1, and horrible family, and seemed to extend to the whole village.  Really strange.  #4 is great, the whole family, extended family and all friendships.  Same poor roots, village folks, but all educated and or self made successes, personally & financially.  

 

Complete counter to first Thai wife's family & village, and the stereotype expressed by many on AN.

3 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Your points 2,3,4 are interesting, unlike "where can I find a pizza".

 

For 5 on one wonders why they even bother to live in LOS if they hate the people so much.

 

6,7,9 could apply to people in every country I've been in and I've lived in quite a few

Agree, and not exclusive to TH.   Some folks just love to complain, and seem misery loves company.  Almost feel sorry for the woman that are in relationships with them.  Constant ragging and negativity has got to wear on your partner's opinion of you and strain a relationship.

 

Certain doesn't give a pass to some woman ... as met a few that deserved all of their bad rep.

3 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I craved female companionship all my life and still do, but I learned the hard way that meeting a compatible women is at best blind luck, and I have as much chance of finding Miss Right as winning the Euro multi million lottery.

I gave up on compatible and settled for compliant/co-operative.

2 hours ago, GypsyT said:

Only thing I didn't like was her request me to dress "properly". She even offer to buy me nice clothes.

No hope, I'm California beach bum style and stay like that till I die...

 

Oh, very important.

 

When my gf in Canada set up a date to meet some of her friends she ordered me to buy some Polo shirts. In Canada they were a bit expensive, so I told her to f off. The next day she rented a car and took me to Buffalo for outlet shopping.

Do you travel much? I find them boring when I hang in one place for too long. By boring I generally mean character. Women I find are generally not very interesting or amusing, but never have a problem in being bored admiring the female form.

On 11/16/2023 at 1:33 PM, BritManToo said:

I gave up on compatible and settled for compliant/co-operative.

They always rebel, in my experience. My compliant/co-operative Thai wife turned into the harpy from hell once she thought the money tree died.

On 11/16/2023 at 3:13 PM, daveAustin said:

Do you travel much? I find them boring when I hang in one place for too long. By boring I generally mean character. Women I find are generally not very interesting or amusing, but never have a problem in being bored admiring the female form.

Back in the day, when people advertised in newspapers to find a partner, women always included that the man had to "have a sense of humour", but a female sense of humour differs from the male sense of humour, and like most things female varies according to their mood at the time.

 

I could look at attractive females for hours at a time ( strip clubs and Gogo bars etc ), but I learned the hard way that look but don't touch is safer. Hugh had the right idea.

I never had any overweening desire to discuss serious subjects with the female of the species.

On 11/16/2023 at 3:11 PM, Celsius said:

 

Oh, very important.

 

When my gf in Canada set up a date to meet some of her friends she ordered me to buy some Polo shirts. In Canada they were a bit expensive, so I told her to f off. The next day she rented a car and took me to Buffalo for outlet shopping.

The only episode of Sex in the City I ever watched involved one of the women having a boyfriend that didn't dress up. She even bought him a suit for some occasion, but when he refused to wear it she dumped him. Sadly for her, she realised too late that he was the guy that was her Mr Right. Her loss.

On 11/16/2023 at 12:17 PM, GypsyT said:

"Military officer of the female variety, LOL."

 

Actually she was one of the best!

Very trim n fit and liked long hard hikes like me. She had taken an early retirement w good pension and started her catering company to rich snobs. Very successful and run it w her terms.

Only thing I didn't like was her request me to dress "properly". She even offer to buy me nice clothes.

No hope, I'm California beach bum style and stay like that till I die...

 

To find a perfect fit you have to try and try till you find her. Luck doesn't cut.

 

If she retired early, she wasn't one of the variety that I scorned. I was in the military, but definitely not a military man. The usual complaint about me was that i didn't dress to an acceptable standard.

I couldn't stand those that lived only to serve.

 

One of the most intelligent military men I knew said that only idiots stayed in the military. Both he and I found better things to do with our lives. That's not to say it was a waste of time serving. I traveled and saw a lot of the world thanks to the military, but one had to know when to get out of the machine.

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

They always rebel, in my experience. My compliant/co-operative Thai wife turned into the harpy from hell once she thought the money tree died.

Never let your donkey eat the carrot!

5 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

My compliant/co-operative Thai wife turned into the harpy from hell once she thought the money tree died.

That shouldn't be a surprise to anyone when the relationship is based on money