6 hours ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Butter: If consumed in moderation, especially from grass-fed sources, is a good choice for those who prefer natural products and can tolerate saturated fats.

this is a sex thread. 

take it outside, please. 

2 hours ago, MangoKorat said:

Lets put this in perspective - I know of a young girl (22) at the moment who is 'bang at it' and she sees nothing wrong with it (in her case I do but I'll come to that later).

 

She is currently on a well known 'Thai 'dating site that is very 'Friendly'.

 

In the past 2 weeks she's been dating/sleeping with:

 

Her ex boyfriend from Canada (over 50).

(She was thinking of getting back with him because he provided her with a good lifestyle which she's missing ($$$) but she can't accept the fact that he's been seeing  someone else whilst they were apart)

 

A guy who she describes as 'White Hair Man' who lives in the Sukhumvit area (over 50).

(She's not too happy with this one because he got angry because she's still on the dating site - not that unhappy though as she's seeing him twice per week)

 

A guy from New Zealand (37) who she says is just a friend but she sleeps with him anyway.

(This guy wants more from her but she doesn't want a relationship)

 

A guy who lives in Khlong San and took her to The Penninsula for lunch.

(Another one who wanted her to himself - she didn't)

 

A young guy 26) from Poland who has just arrived to work in Thailand.

(She spent the entire first night with this guy - because she liked him. She told me she was really going to try with him because he was young and good looking. Apparently though when she asked about meeting again he seemed to be busy quite often - she doesn't like that.

 

The latest is 'Tim' from the USA (over 50) who hasn't met her yet (arriving soon) but he's sent her flowers, a Teddy Bear and so far, 18,000 baht.  If you're reading this Tim - for christ's sake wake up!

 

She sees nothing wrong in what she's doing and in some ways- there isn't anything wrong with it - she tells them all that she doesn't want a boyfriend (apart from the ex who's 'payroll' she'd have glady been back on if she hadn't learned he'd been seeing someone else whilst they were apart). She admitted though, that even if they made up, she would not have been faithfull to him - she's enjoying herself too much.

 

What is wrong with it is that although she wants to be able to meet other guys - the guys she's seeing cannot. If there's 'sniff' of another woman around, she dumps them.  I put it to her that she was incredibly selfish and she just said 'I know'. She says that she has to be the absolute focus of the guy's attention - she even gets jealous if they have kids. She wasn't too happy when I told her that a hell of a lot of guys that live in Bangkok, inculding the ones she's seeing (especially in Sukhumvit) see/sleep with several girls regularly - jeez its Thailand!!!

 

She also says she's not a freelancer and that she hates them - she wasn't too happy when I suggested that she wasn't much different. The Yank has sent her 18K and most of the others give her 'taxi money'. 

 

This girl has just turned 22 and the above took place over just 2 weeks - there may be more that she hasn't told me about.....................I blame the dating sites 😁😁😁.

 

Am I seeing her?  She refused because I told her I see other girls. I also told her that no matter how nice these guys were to her, they just wanted to get into her pants - well, what else is a 50+ year old going to have in common with a kid? (I don't think she liked that).  The Yank is the craziest in my opinion - if you know 'Tim' please tell him you don't need to do all that - real freelancers are around 2-3000 and you can change horses whenever you want.

 

Whatever this girl thinks of herself, she's not much different to a hooker and she certainly has some sort of personality disorder.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Horrific as this story is, it illustrates how easy it has become for girls with dating apps, social media etc, to monetize their vaginas. There is one silver lining though, as it is all done via the phone, this is their achilles heel.

 

Once you have suspicions always make sure you see the phone, by any means necessary. It will all be there. Girls even have a habit of showing off with their illicit affairs to their sisters and friends and send them videos.

 

This is how I caught them both times. One even gave me her phone with sang froid as if she had nothing to hide, thinking I would not be thorough enough to find the video of her kissing another guy.  

 

Always insist to see the phone. If they refuse, they have something to hide and do not care about you. If they show it, by God, make sure you check it thoroughly. The last  one who showed her phone had this affair and came back to me, and if i had not found the video in her phone, it would have gone on for a while yet.

4 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Such a deep and philosophical question. It's both really, isn't it? You can rightly expect your current partner stays loyal to you. That's a fair expectation. If that is not met by her cheating, she is the one causing the pain, but yes, it is also our attachment to a common standard, fidelity, that plays a part.

 

Yes, for girls in particualr relationships can be games, they want to see how much they can get, how far the wonderland goes. This is another reason why a man should hold back on his feelings until he is certain of the girl's commitment. However, it is hard to be certain, I had a girl move in with me, sleep with me, make me breakfast, make an effort to remind me of work deadlines, do dishes, play with my 7 year old daughter, give <deleted> out of herself, you would have thought this girl is all in after one year. But no, she cheated. 

 

Same here, the  juice is worth the squeeze, the pleasure a woman can give, I don't just mean sex, is something no man wants to live without. And if it means going through the valley of pain, then off we go.

Not for one second you blaim men who use girls for fun and then dump them for a new one. Men who promised them a future, used them, broke their hearts.

 

Several here who have described how easy it is to puck upn7/11 and factory girls for fun. 

 

Girls become who they are because of experience and loose their respect for men in general.

 

What goes around comes sround

38 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Not for one second you blaim men who use girls for fun and then dump them for a new one. Men who promised them a future, used them, broke their hearts.

 

Several here who have described how easy it is to puck upn7/11 and factory girls for fun. 

 

Girls become who they are because of experience and loose their respect for men in general.

 

What goes around comes sround

 

Because I look at it from my perspective, and I don't date men. However, I understand your point and it is correct, a woman may cheat because she was cheated on before.

 

However, that is not the only reason, she may cheat because of revenge, love, sex, a sense of adventure, shopping around, boredom, the list is endless.

 

It's not just "what comes around goes around".  Sometimes it just "happens".

6 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

It's really a case by case scenario with thousands of possibilities, a woman can cheat for a long list of motives, some related to the man, others not at all.

 

Whilst of course those women who want kids and a family try to settle down around age 31 to 32 at the latest, usually earlier, this also is not an ironclad rule. The statistics, in any event, say that older women cheat more than younger women.

 

In terms of Korea and Europe, what surprises me is how clueless Thais and Filipinas are, Romanians, Ukrainians, Albanians, Russians, all these Balkan and East Europeans are top quality white males to them, but I've seen young girls in their twenties choosing black guys and all kinds. They're not exactly clued in what a top shelf male is.

 

Of course the female's own sense of self esteem is a huge factor, if she was treated very poorly by her family she may well have low self esteem, despite being attractive, and even in her 20s will be loyal to one man. However, the same problem, low self esteem can also go the other way, that she over compensates and thinks she's too good for everyone, but jumps from low quality male to low quality male.

 

It's hard to make iron clad rules in this area.

 

Normally speaking if you do things right, within 6 weeks she should be in love with you, but there are girls who are not capable of love in the sense of open affection due to childhood issues. As a man you assume if she comes to be with you then she is attracted to you, if she has sex with you and enjoys it. I purposely avoid to give huge amounts of money now to avoid any notion of "sugar daddy".

 

Of course geniuine attraction is the ideal, but we are men, we will bed any woman that offers the opportunity almost. If you notice that genuine attraction is not there, it is indeed better to break it off.

 

That's some Amerobabble of no substance right there.

20 hours ago, Cameroni said:

This notion that you have to be especially gifted yourself, I supppose the counter arguments are Johnny Deep, Cary Grant, Elvis Presley, the list of exceptionally gifted and exceptionally handsome, rich and famous men who were left by their spouse is endless. I don't think being especially gifted, handsome, rich, famous etc is even a protection against a woman cheating. 

 

And then in turn people like Andrew Tate and some serial killers have women stick by them through trials and tribulations. It's an enigma wrapped in a riddle.

LOL. The men you listed are "good men" that women like, till they marry them.

 

Women really go for bad men, which is why gangsters are never short of women.

10 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Because I look at it from my perspective, and I don't date men. However, I understand your point and it is correct, a woman may cheat because she was cheated on before.

 

However, that is not the only reason, she may cheat because of revenge, love, sex, a sense of adventure, shopping around, boredom, the list is endless.

 

It's not just "what comes around goes around".  Sometimes it just "happens".

They get bored with wimpy guys that treat them right.

16 hours ago, MangoKorat said:

Lets put this in perspective - I know of a young girl (22) at the moment who is 'bang at it' and she sees nothing wrong with it (in her case I do but I'll come to that later).

 

She is currently on a well known 'Thai 'dating site that is very 'Friendly'.

 

In the past 2 weeks she's been dating/sleeping with:

 

Her ex boyfriend from Canada (over 50).

(She was thinking of getting back with him because he provided her with a good lifestyle which she's missing ($$$) but she can't accept the fact that he's been seeing  someone else whilst they were apart)

 

A guy who she describes as 'White Hair Man' who lives in the Sukhumvit area (over 50).

(She's not too happy with this one because he got angry because she's still on the dating site - not that unhappy though as she's seeing him twice per week)

 

A guy from New Zealand (37) who she says is just a friend but she sleeps with him anyway.

(This guy wants more from her but she doesn't want a relationship)

 

A guy who lives in Khlong San and took her to The Penninsula for lunch.

(Another one who wanted her to himself - she didn't)

 

A young guy 26) from Poland who has just arrived to work in Thailand.

(She spent the entire first night with this guy - because she liked him. She told me she was really going to try with him because he was young and good looking. Apparently though when she asked about meeting again he seemed to be busy quite often - she doesn't like that.

 

The latest is 'Tim' from the USA (over 50) who hasn't met her yet (arriving soon) but he's sent her flowers, a Teddy Bear and so far, 18,000 baht.  If you're reading this Tim - for christ's sake wake up!

 

She sees nothing wrong in what she's doing and in some ways- there isn't anything wrong with it - she tells them all that she doesn't want a boyfriend (apart from the ex who's 'payroll' she'd have glady been back on if she hadn't learned he'd been seeing someone else whilst they were apart). She admitted though, that even if they made up, she would not have been faithfull to him - she's enjoying herself too much.

 

What is wrong with it is that although she wants to be able to meet other guys - the guys she's seeing cannot. If there's 'sniff' of another woman around, she dumps them.  I put it to her that she was incredibly selfish and she just said 'I know'. She says that she has to be the absolute focus of the guy's attention - she even gets jealous if they have kids. She wasn't too happy when I told her that a hell of a lot of guys that live in Bangkok, inculding the ones she's seeing (especially in Sukhumvit) see/sleep with several girls regularly - jeez its Thailand!!!

 

She also says she's not a freelancer and that she hates them - she wasn't too happy when I suggested that she wasn't much different. The Yank has sent her 18K and most of the others give her 'taxi money'. 

 

This girl has just turned 22 and the above took place over just 2 weeks - there may be more that she hasn't told me about.....................I blame the dating sites 😁😁😁.

 

Am I seeing her?  She refused because I told her I see other girls. I also told her that no matter how nice these guys were to her, they just wanted to get into her pants - well, what else is a 50+ year old going to have in common with a kid? (I don't think she liked that).  The Yank is the craziest in my opinion - if you know 'Tim' please tell him you don't need to do all that - real freelancers are around 2-3000 and you can change horses whenever you want.

 

Whatever this girl thinks of herself, she's not much different to a hooker and she certainly has some sort of personality disorder.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

She's only doing what most men want to do, have loads of sex with lots of different women ( it's genetic imperative ).

The difference is that she doesn't have to pay the men or buy them gifts to get them into her knickers.

 

It's pure hypocrisy to say shes a slut when that is what most men would be if they could.

4 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

They get bored with wimpy guys that treat them right.

In thailand you have to tread between being boring and not disrespecting them. American women love being disrespected

25 minutes ago, mdr224 said:

In thailand you have to tread between being boring and not disrespecting them. American women love being disrespected

 

What took me time to understand, you have to provide drama. Entertainment. If they don't get drama, they will look for it.

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

What took me time to understand, you have to provide drama. Entertainment. If they don't get drama, they will look for it.

Create it more like. How they revel in the monthly "emergency."

16 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Another horrific story. This one is really bad though, that woman is an out and out whore. There is a lot wrong with what she's doing, she is taking money from guys by lying to them and giving them hope that she'll be their girl.

 

Of course you can bang her, but no man in his right mind would want a relationship with her. The problem is she'll lie to all of them she's had 2 boyfriends and will love them long time. They won't know what she's really like. How did you find out?  Qute a feat.

 

 

Couldn't agree more.....could you ever imagine a man being so disgusting as to be in more than one 'relationship' at a time....never happens.......it's only ever these b****y women.....disgusting.

Just now, Will B Good said:

 

 

Couldn't agree more.....could you ever imagine a man being so disgusting as to be in more than one 'relationship' at a time....never happens.......it's only ever these b****y women.....disgusting.

Thats true in the west for the most part. The men are cucked

1 hour ago, Will B Good said:

 

 

Couldn't agree more.....could you ever imagine a man being so disgusting as to be in more than one 'relationship' at a time....never happens.......it's only ever these b****y women.....disgusting.

So Will, if you found a video of your girl kissing and hugging another guy, how would you react? 

On 10/15/2024 at 6:39 PM, KannikaP said:

Why bring HIM into it? Did his Mum cheat on Joseph with God?

Because Jesus loves good, decent men and he will be rewarded at the Pearly Gates.

 

That is why he will be saving him a seat in the afterlife 

 

24 minutes ago, G_Money said:

Because Jesus loves good, decent men and he will be rewarded at the Pearly Gates.

 

That is why he will be saving him a seat in the afterlife 

 

Ah, so it is Jesus now, not his Dad, God? 

I am a good, decent man, but NOT Christian, so will I be going to a different set of gates than your God's.

1 hour ago, KannikaP said:

Ah, so it is Jesus now, not his Dad, God? 

I am a good, decent man, but NOT Christian, so will I be going to a different set of gates than your God's.

Sounds like a personal problem.

22 minutes ago, G_Money said:

Sounds like a personal problem.

Sorry Mr G, but it is YOU who has the personal problem, relying on a 2000 year old fantastic story to give you comfort. imagining that there is something after death.

But if that's how you want to believe, then, to quote a very familiar Thai phrase, it's up to you.

Now, back on topic to these 18 - 32 year old Thai girls.  

2 hours ago, KannikaP said:

Sorry Mr G, but it is YOU who has the personal problem, relying on a 2000 year old fantastic story to give you comfort. imagining that there is something after death.

But if that's how you want to believe, then, to quote a very familiar Thai phrase, it's up to you.

Now, back on topic to these 18 - 32 year old Thai girls.  

I just made a generic statement when I posted that. I couldn’t care less.

 

Afraid it’s you l with personal problems over religion.  That’s why you responded accordingly.

 

 

8 minutes ago, G_Money said:

I just made a generic statement when I posted that. I couldn’t care less.

 

Afraid it’s you l with personal problems over religion.  That’s why you responded accordingly.

 

 

Because Jesus loves good, decent men and he will be rewarded at the Pearly Gates.

That is why he will be saving him a seat in the afterlife 

 

You call that a generic statement. I took it as being very specific. 

But, hey, who cares, certainly not me. Had a good life with no religion to interfere with it. What happens after I kick it does not worry me. 

2 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

Because Jesus loves good, decent men and he will be rewarded at the Pearly Gates.

That is why he will be saving him a seat in the afterlife 

 

You call that a generic statement. I took it as being very specific. 

But, hey, who cares, certainly not me. Had a good life with no religion to interfere with it. What happens after I kick it does not worry me. 

Appears my sarcasm went way over your head.  

1 minute ago, G_Money said:

Appears my sarcasm went way over your head.  

It certainly did, you sounded SO genuine and truthful.

So you are joining me in Hell, OK?

 

Genuine is key. The more genuine you are, the more women will be drawn to you.

26 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

It certainly did, you sounded SO genuine and truthful.

So you are joining me in Hell, OK?

 

 
If you insist.

33 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Genuine is key. The more genuine you are, the more women will be drawn to you.

A genuin bad boy attracts younger girls, as well the more generous ones, while more mature women is attracted to those men with jai dee. 

 

At least I felt privileged to choose one who almost ticked all my boxes, and I think by experience you can find a good woman who will fit you and your lifestyle if you are patient enough.

 

I have to add, I really didn't believe I would end up with the one I'm married with today, but as we went, she proved herself. 

7 hours ago, Cameroni said:

So Will, if you found a video of your girl kissing and hugging another guy, how would you react? 

find another girl ASAP to get over this one. 

fortunately, thailand is the land of plenty. so it's not a major issue.

you just need a bit of resilience. 

9 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

She's only doing what most men want to do, have loads of sex with lots of different women ( it's genetic imperative ).

The difference is that she doesn't have to pay the men or buy them gifts to get them into her knickers.

 

It's pure hypocrisy to say shes a slut when that is what most men would be if they could.

Where did I say she's a slut?

 

I just think she's kidding herself in claiming she's different to freelancer - she sleeps with them and as far as I know, they've all given her money.

 

There's nothing at all wrong in having multiple partners - I do it.  But I don't get upset if they are also seeing someone else.  This girl was actually seething that her ex invited her to discuss getting back together and she learned that he'd been seeing someone else.  They broke up 8 months ago!! I asked her if she would have stayed faithfull to him if they had got back together - no.  That's normal in your book is it?

 

Its also not about her being horny - she told me she's only ever had one orgasm.  You didn't talk to her buddy - I did and this girl has a slate loose.

On 10/16/2024 at 11:33 AM, Will B Good said:

 

 

Why does that not surprise me?

 

 

Stop trying to be a smartarse and explain your hypocracy accusation.  As far as I can see there's no such content - unless you've misunderstood.

25 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

find another girl ASAP to get over this one. 

fortunately, thailand is the land of plenty. so it's not a major issue.

you just need a bit of resilience. 

The best thing is to take a brake and reflect about what went wrong. What is the rush to do the same mistake over and over again and again? 

 

I have a few people I frequently socializing with, and they jump from whan runaway train to another and never manage to understand what they doing wrong, choosing the same type of women again and again

46 minutes ago, Hummin said:

A genuin bad boy attracts younger girls, as well the more generous ones, while more mature women is attracted to those men with jai dee. 

 

At least I felt privileged to choose one who almost ticked all my boxes, and I think by experience you can find a good woman who will fit you and your lifestyle if you are patient enough.

 

I have to add, I really didn't believe I would end up with the one I'm married with today, but as we went, she proved herself. 

 

That's almost always how it goes, sometimes they surprise us and overperform, other times they fall short.

 

I think the reason why the bad boy is so attractive to women, is they think "If I'm with him nobody will mess with me".

 

That's how it should be, you should only be with a woman ticks all the boxes, the question is will she do something bad that detracts from all she brings to the table, or not.