5 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

I applaud the alternative lifestyle experiment.

 

Do you not feel you're missing out on a few things though?

I'm missing out on sleeping with a 70yo woman!

8 minutes ago, 0ffshore360 said:

I remember reading many years back that it is generally accepted by those who study human traits that females have mostly developed whatever traits they will present in future life is fairly fixed by age 35.

For males that increases to 45.

That obviously is a generalized situation but could go a long way in explaining the frequent "pairing" of couples with around at least 10 years of age difference.

"She" is in the last years of prime child bearing stage and "He" is past the "one of the party boys" stage.

That despite the bar stool denials from bitter divorcees who ran away from a marriage at 25 that crashed at 30 with at least one "accidental" child keeping them poor.

 

 

I think there is definitely an argument to be made for women of 24 not being fully formed yet. They want to experiment. Sexually too.

 

They may not realise the importance of honesty, loyalty. Those traits can develop later.

9 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I'm missing out on sleeping with a 70yo woman!

 

That's definitely one to avoid for as looooong as you can, hence my preference for the 18 to 24 age range. But clearly that carries its own special set of challenges.

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

I'm missing out on sleeping with a 70yo woman!

 

You know, speaking of looks, I came across an interesting phenomenon, that a real 10, an unspeakably beautiful woman, will have sex with a man who is not even close to good looking. I presume this is because she feels nobody can come close to her level of looks, so looks are not key to her? What is your view on this strange phenomenon, as a documented expert?

12 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

You know, speaking of looks, I came across an interesting phenomenon, that a real 10, an unspeakably beautiful woman, will have sex with a man who is not even close to good looking. I presume this is because she feels nobody can come close to her level of looks, so looks are not key to her? What is your view on this strange phenomenon, as a documented expert?

They don't care about the appearance of their money source. Sure they'll shag the buff pool boy a time or two, but he doesn't have the money to support their desired lifestyle.

Just now, BritManToo said:

They don't care about the appearance of their money source. Sure they'll shag the buff pool boy a time or two, but he doesn't have the money to support their desired lifestyle.

 

But if she went with him not for money, but for thrills, as just an adventure? Why would she do that, she must get DMS from good looking guys all day long, but she goes for a bald guy who looks like nothing special? Why?

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Well for instance a deep emotional connection with a woman

Not sure many guys get that, maybe not reciprocated 

9 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

But if she went with him not for money, but for thrills, as just an adventure? Why would she do that, she must get DMS from good looking guys all day long, but she goes for a bald guy who looks like nothing special? Why?

Money, no other reason, but i have noticed thai girls have poor taste, they like young, even a dork, bogan, chav

On 10/14/2024 at 10:44 PM, still kicking said:

I do believe you I have been married for over 20 years she never cheated on me

Was the Flexispy app available 20 years ago?

15 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

I think there is definitely an argument to be made for women of 24 not being fully formed yet. They want to experiment. Sexually too.

 

They may not realise the importance of honesty, loyalty. Those traits can develop later.

 

I meet a fair few girls who claim that they are 24. I don't try to make them my girlfriend, so don't need to explore the honesty/loyalty question. Rather to just enjoy the company. They are usually 'Russian' and on holiday. No P4P.

14 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

But if she went with him not for money, but for thrills, as just an adventure? Why would she do that, she must get DMS from good looking guys all day long, but she goes for a bald guy who looks like nothing special? Why?

 

Are you referring to yourself here?

4 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Money, no other reason, but i have noticed thai girls have poor taste, they like young, even a dork, bogan, chav

 

Hmmm..

4 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Not sure many guys get that, maybe not reciprocated 

 

They don't get that if the hole is their goal. 

14 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

But if she went with him not for money, but for thrills, as just an adventure? Why would she do that, she must get DMS from good looking guys all day long, but she goes for a bald guy who looks like nothing special? Why?

 

Experience....

1 hour ago, NowNow said:

 

They don't get that if the hole is their goal. 

If big age gap and money basically buys the relationship, it's unlikely

1 minute ago, scubascuba3 said:

If big age gap and money basically buys the relationship, it's unlikely

 

You are writing about a specific type of relationship. That's all some people know. Paying to play.

But if you are accustomed to mutual relationships based on shared values... the kind of relationship you describe looks very much like Sugar Daddy prostitution.

 

19 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

You know, speaking of looks, I came across an interesting phenomenon, that a real 10, an unspeakably beautiful woman, will have sex with a man who is not even close to good looking. I presume this is because she feels nobody can come close to her level of looks, so looks are not key to her? What is your view on this strange phenomenon, as a documented expert?

 

Still would like to know the details of this phenomena. Where? When? 😊

On 10/25/2024 at 12:35 PM, Cameroni said:

 

Well for instance a deep emotional connection with a woman.

 

Support on all kinds of levels, household work, emotional presence and small daily things.

 

Achieving shared goals.

 

 

Been there, done that - on several occasions.  As I pointed out before, there comes a time when you just don't want to go through the motions and watch it all fall apart again.

 

However, I'm only  speaking for myself but now I've got used to it, I acually prefer this lifstyle.

 

Being part of a couple isn't everything you know?

13 minutes ago, MangoKorat said:

Been there, done that - on several occasions.  As I pointed out before, there comes a time when you just don't want to go through the motions and watch it all fall apart again.

 

However, I'm only  speaking for myself but now I've got used to it, I acually prefer this lifstyle.

 

Being part of a couple isn't everything you know?

 

Yeah, I tend to agree. 

 

If relationships work well, they can bring a lot of benefits.

But if they have problems or fall apart, they can bring a lot of misery.

 

Maybe in some stages of life, it's best to be single and sleep around and not got entangled in a serious commitment. 

 

Everyone should decide for themselves. I've been out of relationships for a while because it was too taxing emotionally. 

 

7 hours ago, save the frogs said:

 

Yeah, I tend to agree. 

 

If relationships work well, they can bring a lot of benefits.

But if they have problems or fall apart, they can bring a lot of misery.

 

Maybe in some stages of life, it's best to be single and sleep around and not got entangled in a serious commitment. 

 

Everyone should decide for themselves. I've been out of relationships for a while because it was too taxing emotionally. 

 

I've said already probably but being single is great, free to do what you want when you want, also no one dependent on me for money.

 

But when you get to an age you need a girlfriend, wife or carer.  In the meantime teeing up a couple of girls who could step in and help in the event of illness

2 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

I've said already probably but being single is great, free to do what you want when you want, also no one dependent on me for money.

 

But when you get to an age you need a girlfriend, wife or carer.  In the meantime teeing up a couple of girls who could step in and help in the event of illness

 

Yeah, but that's just another form of selfishness.

 

Ideally, you help someone for many years and then maybe they reciprocate by helping you with illness.

 

So you need to get hitched up and actually GIVE a lot first. 

 

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

Yeah, but that's just another form of selfishness.

 

Not really as it doesn't effect anyone else. People in relationships can be selfish for sure

On 10/26/2024 at 2:08 PM, save the frogs said:

Everyone should decide for themselves. I've been out of relationships for a while because it was too taxing emotionally. 

 

For me the decision came when I began a new, what was looking like, long term relationship. The feeling of security just wasn't there but I doubt it would have been with anyone. I'd probably through too much already and although I'd given it time, I couldn't help but have reservations.

 

The crunch came when I used her pick up to collect some parts from Bangkok.  I had to wait for them to arrive and decided to listen to some music on Youtube which meant connecting my phone to the music system through Bluetooth. Up came a list of names who were already connected and amongst them was a clearly foreign (Western) first name.  She'd previously told me she'd never had a foreign boyfriend so when I took the truck back I asked her to confirm that.  Had she ever lent the truck to a foreigner? - no, only to family once or twice. Did anyone in her family have any foreign friends?- no. I then told her why I was asking and showed her the name in the list of connections. Of course she'd never heard that name before and couldn't think of any reason why the foreigner's phone had been connected to the truck. She'd had the truck from new by the way.

 

This particular music system gives a code that has to be entered on your phone to complete the pairing so you would have to be physically sat in the truck to carry out the connection. I can't think what it could be but there was, I guess, a slight possibility of an innocent explanation.  However, I wasn't having any of it and I just simply said bye bye. That was it and I was amazed at how easy it was.  I really liked this girl but I'd been there before, committing to someone, giving them my time, making plans - only for it all to fall apart when I discovered wrong doings. No, I wasn't going through all that again.

 

For the next month or so, she kept on pleading with me but still offering no explanation - in the end I had to block her.  Even then, about 6 months later she found a way to contact me.  I stuck to my guns, I'd been through several bad relationships and didn't want anymore.

 

One serial sh*gger.

 

One that as it turned out, had a Thai boyfriend when the relationship began and fell pregnant to him during our relationship.

 

At least one, possibly two, who's only thoughts were on the financial gain they could take from the relationship. 

 

Another that outright ripped me off which resulted in our break up and a court summons being issued before she saw sense.

 

Its a matter of time - by that I mean, just how much time do you committ to trying to find ' the right one'? Time is finite, its not unlimited for any of us. Perfection? I doubt it exists and I have never been naive enough to expect it.  What I do expect however, is for my partner to be with me for the right reasons, not for what they can get, keep their knickers on when I'm away and not to steal from me.

 

There came a point, the girl with the truck, when I just decided enough is enough - I'm not prepared to go though all the motions and stages of a relationship anymore.  This latest one could just possibly have had an explanation (very doubtful) but I was having none of it.  I was out and I'm staying that way.  I'm not prepared to go though my life not trusting my partner or wondering what they are doing when I'm not around. On other words, I'm not going to waste any more time.

 

Yes, it takes a bit of getting used to but it also has a lot of plus points when you do.  And I'm not only talking about a variety of bed partners.  I thought by the way, that even that would eventually dwindle until I saw a local 74 year old foreigner that I know 'dating' a 30 year old.  Of course she wasn't with him for love and well he knew it but who cares? I'm pretty sure he was getting what he wanted - as was she.  I'm nowhere near that age but it gives me hope that I'll be 'having fun' for many years yet. 😁

 

So to measure this against the OP - most of the above ladies were very attractive and between 18 and 32 so I'd have to say that in my experience, they are not at all loyal or trustworthy.  I'll add a caveat to that though by saying, I'm convinced that yout chances of finding a good one are very much affected by your choice of 'hunting ground'.  In my opinion, places like the 'friendly' dating website are just cesspits full of hookers and gold diggers.  Some of them are even getting brave enough to say it - hat's off to them.

 

On 10/26/2024 at 9:54 PM, scubascuba3 said:

But when you get to an age you need a girlfriend, wife or carer

 

I've already had one serious illness that may well return at some point so that has already been anticipated and taken care of.

As slippery as an eel for very attractive women.2timing and extremely devious until they reach 30 when they realise time has run out. And look for a regular meal ticket

When my expat neigbors are out of town their wives come to my front door and give me titty rubs ,they’re young and tasty !

4 minutes ago, 3NUMBAS said:

When my expat neigbors are out of town their wives come to my front door and give me titty rubs ,they’re young and tasty !

titty rubs now, really

14 hours ago, Hummin said:

titty rubs now, really

I think he lives on Yellow Brick Road.

On 10/28/2024 at 12:39 AM, MangoKorat said:

So to measure this against the OP - most of the above ladies were very attractive and between 18 and 32 so I'd have to say that in my experience, they are not at all loyal or trustworthy.  I'll add a caveat to that though by saying, I'm convinced that yout chances of finding a good one are very much affected by your choice of 'hunting ground'.  In my opinion, places like the 'friendly' dating website are just cesspits full of hookers and gold diggers.  Some of them are even getting brave enough to say it - hat's off to them.

 

If we look at the divorce rate in the  USSR, at around 70% or more iniated by women, it is clear that women are not loyal. Nor are men, but women definitely are not. That's of course a generalisation and there are exceptions, however, on the whole loyalty is in short supply, but  especially in Asia. It's not a Thai thing, Filipinas are even worse.

 

Even on Thaifriendly there are some decent girls, however, they also get exposed to very base experiences by poor quality guys and this in turn has an effect on their behaviour too.

 

It's just so depressing to think you have to be alone because you cannot find a person that is loyal to you. How sad is that. I am not talking about you personally, but all of us.

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

If we look at the divorce rate in the  USSR, at around 70% or more iniated by women, it is clear that women are not loyal. Nor are men, but definitely are not. That's of course a generalisation and there are exceptions, however, on the whole loyalty is in short supply, but  especially in Asia. It's not a Thai thing, Filipinas are even worse.

 

Even on Thaifriendly there are some decent girls, however, they also get exposed to very base experiences by poor quality guys and this in turn has an effect on their behaviour too.

 

It's just so depressing to think you have to be alone because you cannot find a person that is loyal to you. How sad is that. I am not talking about you personally, but all of us.

 

You think you get that by having sex with them on your first meeting? Low standards.

1 minute ago, NowNow said:

 

You think you get that by having sex with them on your first meeting? Low standards.

 

Nothing speaks against sex on a first date if both parties are attracted to one another.

 

What's wrong with it?