Word Association (2024)

[Celsius]

I mean announced on internet that you are leaving, but 1 - changed your mind, 2 - never meant to leave and were just trolling or 3 - left and returned for whatever reason?

 

Me the combo of all the above around 7-8 times that I can think of.

 

The replies were the usual....don't let the door hit you in derriere, this isn't the airport, poor sap ran out of money, enjoy the winter and fat women, etc ....

 

 

[OneMoreFarang]

Zero

Where should I go where it is better? 

Obviously not all is perfect in Thailand. But there is no place on this world where it is perfect.

 

[Ralf001]

Zero.

I did go home  6 years ago when I was made redundant with no plans to return.... then I was offered a new job so came back.

[Hummin]

1 time so far this spring, but still travelling for a month or two once and awhile. Been one month after, and coming back next month for 2 or 3 months. Will keep my retirement visa as long it fits with renewal while Im there. 

[Baht Simpson]

Never. I can't understand why people who intend to leave feel it necessary to leave a suicide note on here.

[Nemises]

8 times a year!
 

4 to the homeland (just me) and 4 with the TGF for holidays to other countries.
 

Life is good 👍 

[Upnotover]

14 minutes ago, Nemises said:

8 times a year!
 

4 to the homeland (just me) and 4 with the TGF for holidays to other countries.
 

Life is good 👍 

Indeed, but you didn't really read the question.

[Nemises]

Just now, Upnotover said:

Indeed, but you didn't really read the question.

You are wrong I did read the question. I answered similar to how others before me answered. 

[Upnotover]

3 minutes ago, Nemises said:

You are wrong I did read the question. I answered similar to how others before me answered. 

Apologies.  You did read the question but answered a completely different one.

[Nemises]

1 minute ago, Upnotover said:

Apologies.  You did read the question but answered a completely different one.

The first 3 or 4 posters also answered a completely differently one also, so I followed their lead. You didn’t quote them for some reason. Interesting. 

[Upnotover]

1 minute ago, Nemises said:

The first 3 or 4 posters also answered a completely differently one also, so I followed their lead. You didn’t quote them for some reason. Interesting. 

Apologies, I was hoping to stem the tide of incorrectly answered questions.

[Nemises]

Just now, Upnotover said:

Apologies, I was hoping to stem the tide of incorrectly answered questions.

Trying to stem tides of AN threads? Good luck with that 😂

 

[spidermike007]

Considering the fact that I do not have a fortune, I will stay. There are many issues to consider. Going back to the US is not an option. I would not want to live there now, unless I was being paid over a million dollars a year, and then I would only do it for 3 years, and then leave. For me, it is about quality of life, and my level of fulfillment on a daily basis, which I seem to have here in abundance. A big factor here, is the relatively light hearted attitude of the people. You just do not find that in the US, where most seem bitter, disenchanted, unfulfilled, and heavy hearted. 

 

This is an entirely subjective topic, of course. But some of us live very good lives here. Some of us have been fortunate enough to find an outstanding woman, who is delightful to be around, on a daily basis, always has our back, and is fun, smart, and lovely. For me, that likelihood of finding that back in the US, would be very low. So, that is a big factor for me. The second factor is just the quality of life. Sure, I miss alot of the culture back home. The theatre, independent film (which I can download here with no issues at all, and a super fast 1 gbps fiber optic connection, at under 700 baht per month!), stand up comedy, live jazz, etc. But I have a lovely home that I rent, for about 10% of what I would pay in California, I live very well on an income which is not huge, have access to great health care, at a tiny fraction of what it costs in the US, and do not have to put up with alot of the aggravation that I had to when I lived back there.

 

Frankly I have given it some thought, and I really don't think that I have a realistic alternative to Thailand. 

[nickmondo]

not enough

[4MyEgo]

I did think about it once or twice, but when I look at what it costs to rent in the old country, before even thinking about the cost of food etc etc, is enough to turn me off.

 

What I have learnt in the decade that I have lived here is, that you can't live back in the old country the way you would live here, e.g. to live in the house that I built my Mrs on her land, e.g. 5 beds, 3 baths, on 1,000 square metres with a 20 metre frontage, yes up country, would cost me 60 million baht vs 2.5-3.0 mil baht that it cost me to build it here.

 

To rent say a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom 100 square metre 2000 built condo where I would want to live would set me back 18,000 baht per week, yes week.

 

Thailand is not perfect by far, and you can call me a racist if you like, but I'm not, the thing is, I only see the same faces here (Thai's), over and over again, vs a failed multi-cultural society back in the old country.

 

Would I go back, what would be perfect for me would be to spend 3 months here, 3 months there, or 6 and 6 but it's hard with kids, so you bite the bullet, but when the kids do finish school, I will seriously look at returning for them, because work and working conditions here is the pits from what I have been told.