8 hours ago, GypsyT said:

That's the whole point!

She got you now by the balls...

 

 

Unfortunately she's displaying very little interest in them.  We finally agreed on how to handle the impasse over the family dinner and bf visit calendar clash.  However, she did not seem enthused to come to my hotel in the morning, go to the dinner together and then back to the hotel.

 

The waking up at 5 am and working 12 hours is taking a toll on her nice side. It's concerning. I even noticed a reduction in her daily texts on the way to and from work, however, on Messenger she's texting her sister. I obviously raised it, but it's unlikely to help the situation.

 

 

 

8 hours ago, marin said:

You are becoming more of clueless sex tourist by the day.  Sad indeed. 

 

That's what I thought today, I'd got a reply from a gal on the app and transferred to Line. I as usual offered to fly her to to CM and she seemed interested but then came  out with "How much do I get"? Imagine my shock, after she'd said she works in an office.

 

Just for fun I haggled a bit, but obviously I have to ignore her, professionals are such a turn off.

So I have branched out and am now on Bumble as well. By far the worst disgusting dating app I've ever used. Thankfully the calibre of women on it is superior to TF and many women are smart enough to use their IG details in their bio. So despite the sexist and anti-man policies of Bumble, where you can't text girls, you actually still can because most put their IG profile.

 

In this way I managed to get two very promising attractive ladies to start IG conversations, even called one just now. 

 

I have a very bad feeling with Miki, we're supposed to meet this Sunday, but she's not giving me "glad to see you" vibes at all. It's time to replace her I have to sadly admit. I tried, but you can't make good wine from bad grapes.

So I'm in an Insta convo with this chick from Bumble, whom I already talked to on the phone, where she had told me her real name.

 

She asks me to add her on Whatsapp, so I ask her what's her real name again? Get this, she refuses to give her real name! Gives me some ludicrous English nickname, that was so dumb I said, no really, give me your real name again. She refused.

 

So in the end, we parted ways because she would not say her real name. Is it me? These 27 year olds are crazy. I get they've been jerked around a lot by guys and cheated on, but not to say your real name?  This is controversial now?

 

On the plus side I found another good way to weed out the difficult ones.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

So I'm in an Insta convo with this chick from Bumble, whom I already talked to on the phone, where she had told me her real name.

 

She asks me to add her on Whatsapp, so I ask her what's her real name again? Get this, she refuses to give her real name! Gives me some ludicrous English nickname, that was so dumb I said, no really, give me your real name again. She refused.

 

So in the end, we parted ways because she would not say her real name. Is it me? These 27 year olds are crazy. I get they've been jerked around a lot by guys and cheated on, but not to say your real name?  This is controversial now?

 

On the plus side I found another good way to weed out the difficult ones.

Reminds me of a hot girl i chatted to on TF, we had video call and she was hot, English was very good, she could have easily been Filipino, anyway she started talking about working in some finance job, doing crypto stuff, anyway i picked up quickly her knowledge was

pi ss poor so i decided to bin her before it led into some scam attempt, i wonder how many guys she scammed

On 10/25/2024 at 7:46 PM, Cameroni said:

Best ideas for dates in Bangkok 

Check out the chicks working massage shop, they're always sat out the front.

 

A few years back, I picked up a chick working massage parlour. Hot, Hot, Hot, what a babe, we lived together for some time, she was the cutest young woman, only 19yo. Sex was at times an obstacle (like most woman) but after some hard work we do the nasty, if she didn't want sex I would play with her, she would just lie there for hours while I was masturbating her, pussy juice everywhere, I loved that Woman. 

 

I was living with her for a while, she told me that she would masturbate her customers for 500 baht, her phone messages were constant , she said she would have 4 customers everyday. 

 

Anyway, she was young, had the softest hands, played with my testicles, not a better feeling, I ended up dumping her, it messed with my mind what she was doing on that massage table. 

 

 

cameroni & gang - come to Isan to help me. There farmer gals are tough.

I'm on 4th in 4 days, getting exhausted....

Oh well, if I go I go smiling 🙂

 

1 hour ago, scubascuba3 said:

Reminds me of a hot girl i chatted to on TF, we had video call and she was hot, English was very good, she could have easily been Filipino, anyway she started talking about working in some finance job, doing crypto stuff, anyway i picked up quickly her knowledge was

pi ss poor so i decided to bin her before it led into some scam attempt, i wonder how many guys she scammed

There had to be an ulterior motive why she doesn't give her real name. You really can't be too careful. Even if she's just a fruitloop who doesn't want to give her real name, she showed she's difficult, non-compliant and a pain in the ass. Good riddance. I already replaced her with a new girl. 

20 minutes ago, GypsyT said:

cameroni & gang - come to Isan to help me. There farmer gals are tough.

I'm on 4th in 4 days, getting exhausted....

Oh well, if I go I go smiling 🙂

 

That's ma boy! Go fertilize these fruitful fields... I really need to go to Isan. But I don't like insects so much... Lol

1 hour ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Check out the chicks working massage shop, they're always sat out the front.

 

A few years back, I picked up a chick working massage parlour. Hot, Hot, Hot, what a babe, we lived together for some time, she was the cutest young woman, only 19yo. Sex was at times an obstacle (like most woman) but after some hard work we do the nasty, if she didn't want sex I would play with her, she would just lie there for hours while I was masturbating her, pussy juice everywhere, I loved that Woman. 

 

I was living with her for a while, she told me that she would masturbate her customers for 500 baht, her phone messages were constant , she said she would have 4 customers everyday. 

 

Anyway, she was young, had the softest hands, played with my testicles, not a better feeling, I ended up dumping her, it messed with my mind what she was doing on that massage table. 

 

 

Yah, it's the age old problem we need loyalty even if they're good in many ways. If they're not loyal we can't put our heart into it. 

So I'm in Bangkok again. I just happen to enter a BTS station skywalk and this gorgeous white skinned beauty with a perfect body and film star facial and hair (though not epic hair like Miki) is just standing there. 

 

So I approach her with my tried and tested line. Unbelievably she speaks some English. And even more encouraging, she's interested. Asks me questions where I'm from, what I do in Thailand, where I'm going. When I ask for her Insta she enthusiastically agrees. Looking at her dance videos on Insta is almost unbearable, she's unbelievably hot. At least a 9. 

As I say I'm going, since she told me she's about to go to start work, she tells me to write her on Insta. 

 

Unbelievable luck on my last day in Bangkok. 

 

I arranged to meet with Miki earlier Despite me making clear that she come as soon as she wakes up and we go to breakfast together, as I arrived at 7 am and could not get my hotel room til 1. 30 pm, she only showed up at 3pm. So we lost 6 hours. And we had to go to the dinner with her family at 5pm. 

 

As always Ms Party Girl knew what's on, there was a festival in Lumpini park. So we went there. She loves Bingo, shooting balloons and lotteries. But it wasn't all that great, too many people again. But nice food. 

 

Then back to the hotel and no time for anything as we had to rush to the dinner. 

 

This was a spectacular sea food buffet with live prawns and crabs with. Korean bbq concept. Actually a nice dinner. The family was coolish but nice. I made clear to Miki she had to pay for the taxi and dinner as she had arrived 6 hours late. To her credit Miki treated me like a King at the dinner, cutting up my squid, peeling my prawns and getting me drink refills. I think the mother ordered her to do it. Anyway, given my superstar treatment I decided to pay for my dinner, but not hers. But I picked up the taxi back to the hotel.

 

I got an awesome suite with a large bathtub. Miki had the genius idea to take a bath, so I joined her and we Titanic going on for a while. I still see her washing her Tahitian hair. After that a very hot session ensued, when we were both primed. I asked her if she finished she replied "so much" and I could tell she really did. But I couldn't. I kept imagining her with the guy in Phuket but it was more the not sleeping due to the long bus ride which stopped me from finishing. I went on so long that Miki begged me to finish already and I finally had mercy on her. She did not stay the night as she had to go to work, but still stayed an hour. It was 11.45 when she left. So she would have gone to bed at 12.45 to get up at 5 am. 

 

Of course the physical intimacy made us get feels again but, ah well..

 

How is it possible that a girl that peels your prawns, cuts your squid and gets you 3 drink refills without asking, who can be so attentive, who enjoys sexual intimacy so much, who texts you every free minute she has almost... can be so cold and only show up at 3pm when you agreed to go for breakfast? Can still not give you a firm date when she comes back?

 

She's in but not all in? All because I threw her out? She cheated! How can she hold that against me? 

On 10/25/2024 at 10:27 PM, OneMoreFarang said:

When you meet them ask them for a BJ. Look how they react. And then continue from there. 

 

Just curious.

What do you THINK might be the reaction if you did this, during the first five minutes, assuming this were a first date from a top uni in Thailand?

 

I haven't a clue.

But, I am still quite curious.

Just for educational purposes, only.

 

 

10 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

Just curious.

What do you THINK might be the reaction if you did this, during the first five minutes, assuming this were a first date from a top uni in Thailand?

 

I haven't a clue.

But, I am still quite curious.

Just for educational purposes, only.

 

 

Context is everything. Of course if you walk up to her in the uni canteen and ask for a BJ you'll get a hasty retreat, but to be fair to One Farang that's not what he was talking about. He meant in the context of having met the girl and being in an intimate setting with her. Even a top uni girl could then be amenable, I'm talking to an uni girl who loves giving BJ, however, depends on the girl, other's won't. That's the beauty of it, life's like a box of chocolates. You never know if you'll get a BJ. And if you do, will it be good? Will it be long enough? 

10 hours ago, Cameroni said:

I'm talking to an uni girl who loves giving BJ

After switching to date only "farang virgins" I have been busy teaching that and other things. They have no clue...

Uni gals no how to watch porn with VPN. Regular Thais can't.

Also, farang virgins are unshaven. Luckily they like to be "modern" and want to try bald eagle style when I tell my dislike to be Luis & Clark and Livingston bush whacking may way to love tunnel.

 

Most work is ahead, though.

 

 

2 hours ago, GypsyT said:

After switching to date only "farang virgins" I have been busy teaching that and other things. They have no clue...

Uni gals no how to watch porn with VPN. Regular Thais can't.

Also, farang virgins are unshaven. Luckily they like to be "modern" and want to try bald eagle style when I tell my dislike to be Luis & Clark and Livingston bush whacking may way to love tunnel.

 

Most work is ahead, though.

 

 

 

I think the common problem in SE Asia is lack of stamina, you wouldn't think so since Asians have tremendous stamina. Maybe it's more laziness, but I often find the duration is not really long enough. 

 

I certainly also found that on the whole the skill is rare and most are clueless.

 

Funnily I'm also a clean shaven fan, that's one of the disappointments with Miki last Sunday, she was always clean shaven when she was living with me, but now does not bother. She does work 12 hour shifts of course, but I'll have to correct a few things if she comes back. Not just one.

23 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

I feel bad because I've actually set 3 dates this weekend, two with bare 5s and one cancelled. 

 

Not a single one is close to Miki in looks at least.

 

Good looks are hard to come by.

On 12/16/2024 at 6:52 PM, Cameroni said:

How is it possible that a girl that peels your prawns, cuts your squid and gets you 3 drink refills without asking, who can be so attentive, who enjoys sexual intimacy so much, who texts you every free minute she has almost... can be so cold and only show up at 3pm when you agreed to go for breakfast? Can still not give you a firm date when she comes back?

 

She's in but not all in? All because I threw her out? She cheated! How can she hold that against me? 

Because she is likely doing the same thing to others. It may feel great that these girls freely give up their contact, but keep in mind that they are doing so with other men. You are not special. 

3 hours ago, daveAustin said:

Because she is likely doing the same thing to others. It may feel great that these girls freely give up their contact, but keep in mind that they are doing so with other men. You are not special. 

 

Well, she did once, going behind my back for a 7 day (as I now found out) fornication holiday in Phuket. 

 

But now she is working in a factory 12 hour shifts. She texts me religiously. i insist she sends video of her surroundings if she goes anywhere.

 

Right now my only concern is that she is again on some online app lininig up someone. I saw she is on Insta, and followed someone two days ago. But she never told me she is on Insta or added me there. When she comes in two days I will do a full phone check and anything of concern will be revealed.

Miki comes to Chiang Mai for Christmas

 

On 24th Miki finished work at 5 pm went home and then took a flight to Chiang Mai to see me for Christmas. Obviously on the first night she was still exhausted, got some boat noodles and we just went to bed to sleep. The next morning intimacy took place and I had researched a hotel for a Xmas brunch. 

 

After brunch I took her to a waterfall, I had taken a blanket and two cushions. I knew she was still physically exhausted from her 12 hour job and getting up at 4.30 am. She promptly fell asleep and so did I. 

 

We had to go to Central next because Miki had brought a truckload of presents for my two daughters and she needed reams of wrapping paper. It also meant I had to get my daughter, so she was with us for a while. Miki finally finished wrapping all the presents and we had time for ourselves again. 

 

I took her to Nimman One and we sampled the market stalls and walked around Nimman. Then went home and made love. The next morning I told Miki that nothing that would be revealed would  make me angry but I had to be sure about her and asked to see her phone. 

 

Before she gave it to me, she said she had to exit her game, as I came closer to look she hid the phone from me, and it was clear she was hiding something. By the time I got the phone there was no Instagram on it. However, I'd been monitoring her Insta and I knew she followed someone a few days ago. So I asked where it was. She then installed it. The reason why she pretended to exit her game, was to delete Instagram. I saw she had added 8 guys on Insta. However, the one from Phuket was not there. And not a single guy she had any convo with. Most likely she deleted the convos as well. But worse was to come.

 

Going through her Messenger I found some photos of Miki all dressed up in a sexy long black dress, clearly about to go on night out. I asked her about it. She admitted she went on a date with a guy at the end of November. So when we were discussing getting back together. She said she did not have sex, only went on the date. There was also a part of the convo with her sister where Miki says she will be travelling on 5th and 6th of November. The sister asked with whom, and she said "The same people I went to the rooftop bar with".  I asked her and she admitted she went on a date with a different guy to a roof top bar but did not have sex, and the trip on 5th and 6th Nov did not happen. 

 

It was impossible to gauge to what extent her statements were lies or truths, but it became clear to me that Miki had again betrayed me, was not honest about what she was doing, was still a liar and the likelihood of a good relationship with her went down dramatically. Nevertheless, I had booked a hotel in Bangkok and a resort in Pattaya. We went to a wonderful restaurant in Chiang Mai. It was one of the worst dinners I ever had. I was hurt and uncomfortable. And so was she. We flew together to Bangkok in the evening.

Pattaya and Bangkok

 

We arrived in Bangkok and were fortunate with the hotel. I had booked the best suite and it was a very nice environment. Still, we just slept as we had to get up at 5.45 in the morning. I had to go to Pattaya on business. 

 

Miki had protested she had to go help her mother to move house. I insisted she come with me, as we had planned to go together first. In the end she relented and came with me.

 

I was done quickly in Pattaya and once again I lucked out with the resort. A lovely room and in a quiet area. We started by just walking around, getting breakfast and the excitement of being in Pattaya seemed to make our troubles go away for a bit. I took Miki to the the supposedly best Chinese restaurant in Pattaya, in another resort. Miki then wanted to see Walking Street. She had a curious interest in seeing the prostitutes and also pushed me to walk ahead of me to see for fun if some of the working girls would hit on me.

 

We went to a nice market overlooking the see after seeing Walking Street and went home. We got intimate and things seemed to be getting better. The next day I took Miki to the best French cafe in Pattaya. My baguette and scrambled eggs were perfect, but she said her Pad Krapao was too salty. Anyway, we then headed to one of the malls which was a let down and a mistake. Pattaya does not have nice malls. We ended up going to the big market Thepperasit, and it was more interesting. Then hit another market close to our resort which was the best place by far. It seemed like it would be a very good night. Then Miki's mother got in touch. She insisted Miki come back to help with moving. She guilt tripped Miki by saying what did she have children for if they don't help. So Miki was close to tears sitting there upset and the night was ruined. I said some harsh things about her mother, which later had some consequences.

 

Anyway, back at the resort we made up and made love, but it became clear to me that her family was a big problem. I saw a convo with her sister on Messenger, which was not so much a convo as a never ending stream of requests for money by the sister.

 

To cap it all, I had to cut our holiday in Pattaya short and wake up at 4.30 the next day to leave at 5.30 am.  Just because a cousin of Miki's was performing some Isaan ceremony to apologise for not being married and Miki had to be part of it. I made sure to get the early tickets and we made it back to Bangkok by 7.30 am.

Meeting Miki's family 

 

We dropped our bags in the hotel we were at previously and got a taxi to the place Miki grew up. It was a bit like a Korean drama, a wholesome working class Bangkok neighbourhood far from any BTS station but vibrant with life. The welcome of the mother and aunts was very cold. I could see where Miki's lack of warmth came from. She herself was treated so coldly by her own family.

 

I sat down. Since nobody offered me anything to drink or any food I eagerly took up Miki's offer to hit the market again. Clearly we had arrived way too early. The cousin wasn't even there, and she would not arrive until 10.45 am. As we headed out the mother made sure to ask that Miki buy Longan. She sees Miki as purely an asset to exploit. In Pattaya she had also written that she wanted Miki to send some money to help with moving since she was not there to help. 

 

Miki wanted me to pay for the Longan but I flatly refused as I thoroughly disliked her mother by now. We went back to the den of cold unwelcomeness. I could barely stay awake, having gotten up at 4 .15 am. The cousing finally arrived and a ludicrous spectacle took place, where the cousing placed 20000 Baht in a bowl, plus gold chains. the aunt, ie her mother, sat on the couch like a Queen and the cousing bowed and knelt before her asking her forgiveness for not marrying but living together with a man. To compensate the Queen the cousin gave her 20000 Baht. Before I knew it Miki herself had gotten money and gave her own mother 500 Baht and asked her forgiveness, as well as the other aunts. The overweight boyfriend of the cousin was just sitting there staring at his phone the whole time, trying to make it through the silliness just like me.

 

Some 7 hours later I was informed that mother had decided to go to a restaurant. The aunts were clearly flush with money and eager to spend. Being almost comatose with sleep deprivation at this point I agreed. There was no other option except running for your life and I did not have the energy. So we drove an hour to some God forsake place with some outdoor restaurant on the river. The aunts had taken the taxi we had waited for and therefore arrived earlier. They already had 3 giant beer mugs in hand and drinking away. As was Miki's sister.

 

I told Miki let's just leave from the restaurant. But in this remote God forsake place there was no Grab or Bolt to be had. So all the women were bundled in the cousin's boyfriend's van and I got the coveted side seat and we drove to the den of unwelcomeness again. Again I was made to endure "relax time". I turned to Miki and impolored her that I wanted to leave. It had been  8 hours. She relented and we finally took a taxi back to the hotel. All we could to was go to bed and try to sleep.

New Year in Bangkok

 

We got up at around 7 and I researched the best restaurant in our area. And this really was a fanastic place, superb food and service, even if it was a mass restaurant in the Chinese style. We ate well and headed back to the hotel.

 

Rather than make love Miki wanted to watch a movie on my laptop. Part of the punishment for refusing to agree to yet ANOTHER family dinner the next day. The family said they weren't doing anything for new year and if I could join them all for dinner the next day. Given the previous dinner I declined. I wanted to spend time with Miki alone.

 

The next morning I wanted to eat breakfast at this great bakery cafe, but I made the misake of not calling ahead. Turned out they'd closed for Christmas. So instead we headed straight to Icon Siam. A long trip to get there, and when we finally did it turned out to be one of the worst malls I'd ever seen. The food stalls were so crammed with people and there was far too little sitting space for all the people. Poor Miki got a noodle soup and had to carry the hot plate for 30 minutes until we finally secured a table. I got a cheese roti and regretted my decision to go to Icon Siam. Miki was not enjoying Icon Siam at all. We went to see Gladiator 2 in the cinema at her request.

 

Going back meant queuing up like for a Michael Jackson concert, the mass of people was unbelievable. We got the tickets and went to Asiatique. This was even worse. A tourist trap that was so overpriced it was ridiculous. At least the lunch was decent and eatable. But we quickly took a taxi back home. We stocked up with supplies of kanom at 711 and hit the bed.

 

I was coming down with a terrible sinus cold thanks to getting up at 4.15 am and probably some virus. Miki also got it later and blamed me for it. We again watched a movie on the laptop, far too exhausted for anything else.

 

The next morning we went to True Digital Mall for breakfast. A really nice new mall. Got a Pretzel for breakfast but Miki wanted Som Tum. As we sat there she noticed something. Miki got up and retrieved 4200 baht in a clip from the floor. She went straight to information to hand the cash in. I tried to stop her and said "just take the money, it's yours, you found it. Finder's keepers". She shook her head, and said "No, I'm good person, besides there are cameras". No amount of arguing how useless Thai police are could change her mind. She made a big deal of how good a person she was to hand in the money.

 

I said  "Yeah, you don't want to hurt the feelings of the total stranger who lost the 4200 Baht, but when it comes to cheating on me and <deleted> another guy secretly for 7 days in Phuket, you have no problem with that, good person".  She didn't take it well. We just went back to the hotel. At least we had great sex, despite both of us having colds. It was time for dinner. I had scoped a place called Lay Lao, supposedly one of the best Isaan food places, specifically for her. In the end we had to take a long trip on BTS and as we came out of the Skywalk I went down and noticed Miki did not want to follow me but continue on the Skywalk. This really annoyed me, because I know a woman in love follows and notices her man. I got annoyed and told her just to follow me and stop arguing. She was right of course, the Skywalk would have been more comfortable, but anyway, we made it to Lay Lao. Only a terrible table was available. And the food was ordinary. Miki was sulking mostly due to the Skywalk incident.

 

I told her after dinner I had to walk to a hotel where I'd stayed before to retrieve my expensive Barbour jacket I forgot there.

She hated the walking of course, but I was happy to get my jacket back. We were faced with a choice of going to CentralWorld and wait for two hours in a mass of people for fireworks or to go back to the Hotel room. We were both sick as parrots and opted for the latter. So we saw in the new year with Kraven the Hunter, some vodka blueberry and some great sex. 

 

The next day Miki was loving and sweet. But we decided to cancel our Rayong leg of the vacation and I just headed home at 2 pm. We left on very good terms.

 

 

Return to Chiang Mai

 

As I headed back to Chiang Mai I got a text from Miki saying that I was still doing things that made her uncomfortable. So I asked her what she meant. She raised the incident in Pattaya when her mother ruined our night by insisting Miki go home to help with moving and I had suggested perhaps mother should get better at planning her moving schedule.

 

"I saw how the man I loved made fun of my mother and my family and I realised I can't be with that man". So I asked her if that meant she was not coming back in March now. She said "No I just want you to stop talking harshly with me". 

 

Even though I insisted that I had cut my Pattaya holiday short specifically for her family, went to their family dinner, none of that made any difference. I had spoken harshly about her mother, the selfish rotten exploitative bitch.

 

Anyway, much worse was to come. Of course Miki's money grabbing sister decided to go to Mookata before she left. Miki updated me fantastically, sending videos and photos and texts non-stop. Then she got home. I called her. She was short and said she'd have to go to laundry and shower.  I did not hear from her for two hours and it was midnight. I knew she had to work the next day and get up at 4.15 am. So not knowing if she went out or just to bed without saying a word I texted asking if she was still doing laundry. She called me and I declined the call. She said she did laundry and left her phone charging at home. We had an argument and I reminded her that I need her to make sure I'm comfortable with her so she has to make sure I know where she is. After all she was dating other guys secretly behind my back.

 

At that Miki replied that now she knows she cannot be with me, because I cannot forget what she did and it hurt her so much every time I talk about it. So a bit like someone cutting off your legs and then telling you you can't hurt them, considering what she did. Anyway, I told her she is still withholding the truth from me, not telling me the names of the guys she betrayed me with, and only if I know the truth could I let it go. That I needed her to be honest and open, and to update me. So she suggested it's better that we break up. So I said fine, up to you.

 

Just now I got a text sayiing she got fired from her job because she took too many days off over Christmas, and of course she blames me. But we're arranging when she comes back to Chiang Mai now.

 

Hell, Sartre said, is other people. But he was wrong. It's actually woman.

On 1/3/2025 at 5:20 PM, Cameroni said:

 

 

Hell, Sartre said, is other people. But he was wrong. It's actually woman.

 

 

Hell is walking syphillis 

On 10/26/2024 at 1:46 AM, Cameroni said:

So I'm flying to Bangkok to meet with 3 attractive ladies, consecutively obviously, and as you know I'm not local to Bangkok. Have you been on dates in Bangkok that were exceptional, if so send your ideas here for fun things to do in Bangkok. One is 24 and a Uni grad working at 711, one is a Filipina of 20 years old and one is an Isan uni student of 24. I'm fit and into sports, but don't come up with sky diving.

Why mess around. Cut to the chase and ask them how much, and off for a great "date".

 

After all, it's the money they are after. I doubt they give a monkeys how fit you are, as long as you have a big bulge in your back pocket.

On 1/3/2025 at 11:20 PM, Cameroni said:

Return to Chiang Mai

 

As I headed back to Chiang Mai I got a text from Miki saying that I was still doing things that made her uncomfortable. So I asked her what she meant. She raised the incident in Pattaya when her mother ruined our night by insisting Miki go home to help with moving and I had suggested perhaps mother should get better at planning her moving schedule.

 

"I saw how the man I loved made fun of my mother and my family and I realised I can't be with that man". So I asked her if that meant she was not coming back in March now. She said "No I just want you to stop talking harshly with me". 

 

Even though I insisted that I had cut my Pattaya holiday short specifically for her family, went to their family dinner, none of that made any difference. I had spoken harshly about her mother, the selfish rotten exploitative bitch.

 

Anyway, much worse was to come. Of course Miki's money grabbing sister decided to go to Mookata before she left. Miki updated me fantastically, sending videos and photos and texts non-stop. Then she got home. I called her. She was short and said she'd have to go to laundry and shower.  I did not hear from her for two hours and it was midnight. I knew she had to work the next day and get up at 4.15 am. So not knowing if she went out or just to bed without saying a word I texted asking if she was still doing laundry. She called me and I declined the call. She said she did laundry and left her phone charging at home. We had an argument and I reminded her that I need her to make sure I'm comfortable with her so she has to make sure I know where she is. After all she was dating other guys secretly behind my back.

 

At that Miki replied that now she knows she cannot be with me, because I cannot forget what she did and it hurt her so much every time I talk about it. So a bit like someone cutting off your legs and then telling you you can't hurt them, considering what she did. Anyway, I told her she is still withholding the truth from me, not telling me the names of the guys she betrayed me with, and only if I know the truth could I let it go. That I needed her to be honest and open, and to update me. So she suggested it's better that we break up. So I said fine, up to you.

 

Just now I got a text sayiing she got fired from her job because she took too many days off over Christmas, and of course she blames me. But we're arranging when she comes back to Chiang Mai now.

 

Hell, Sartre said, is other people. But he was wrong. It's actually woman.

Nice story. You should write a book.

On 1/3/2025 at 10:00 PM, Cameroni said:

We arrived in Bangkok and were fortunate with the hotel. I had booked the best suite and it was a very nice environment.

Nice touch. She needs something with a nice ceiling to look at.

On 12/23/2024 at 5:21 PM, Cameroni said:

When she comes in two days I will do a full phone check and anything of concern will be revealed.

Soooo, you are in the habit of looking at people's private communications. Isn't there a law against that?