Creating a Savings Portfolio for Thai Wife

[gejohesch]

I have been living for nearly 20 years with a charming Thai woman. As I'm getting older (we all do!), I'm gradually getting concerned about the possibility that one day I will be gone, leaving her alone. She is 20 years younger than me, so that is quite a likely situation to happen some time in the future. I would like to find a way to put money away for her to secure her standards of living from that point in time onwards. Something like an in an investment or savings portfolio, say sthg in the order of 1-2 million THB, that she would know of but could only touch once I have disappeared.

 

Why am I asking? Because, as sweet and lovely she is, I still cannot trust her entirely. I would not want to give her the opportunity to cash out while I'm still alive, me not knowing, and who knows what she would do with the money, what sort of silly "project" she would use the money for, "project" that would miserably fail? Most people on this forum know the Thais sufficiently to understand what I'm talking about.

 

I'm aware that I could shop around the banks in Thailand and ask. However, if anyone in this forum could give me some appropriate advise, that would save me time and I would much appreciate it.

 

By "appropriate advise", I mean that please, abstain from unnecessary comments on my personal relationship with my wife. That's not what I need!

[scubascuba3]

Isn't that what a Will is for? keep things in your name, better to prepare a doc detailing accounts, investments, contacts etc, i know someone who prepared a folder for the wife for his death

[GypsyT]

I was going to recommend POD account but Thailand doesn't seem to have them? Maybe you check at your bank?

I have all US accounts like that.

"Thai Bank Accounts - P.O.D.?

While at the bank this morning, I asked the manager about changing the payable on death name on my account. He said they don’t have P.O.D. in Thailand. Admittedly, it has been many years since I opened those accounts so I may not be remembering correctly. The bank manager says it all has to go through the court system in Thailand for someone to collect the funds when someone passes away. Egads."

 

[G_Money]

16 minutes ago, GypsyT said:

I was going to recommend POD account but Thailand doesn't seem to have them? Maybe you check at your bank?

I have all US accounts like that.

"Thai Bank Accounts - P.O.D.?

While at the bank this morning, I asked the manager about changing the payable on death name on my account. He said they don’t have P.O.D. in Thailand. Admittedly, it has been many years since I opened those accounts so I may not be remembering correctly. The bank manager says it all has to go through the court system in Thailand for someone to collect the funds when someone passes away. Egads."

 

Correct . Thailand doesn’t have them.  A will or joint account is needed.

[G_Money]

OP,

 

I would recommend a Thai will.

 

Or a joint savings account but you maintain access until your demise.

 

Another consideration is the money in your account being available for the withdrawal as a lump sum.  Not a good idea IMO.

 
I would consult with a lawyer or the bank to consider the options of withdrawing a certain amount every month after you have passed.

 

Not to be condescending but realistic.

 

Chances are high that family and friends will be in contact with her for a loan or gift once the word is out she has a chunk of money available.  It could be depleted within a short amount of time due to Thai culture of helping everyone.

 

Limited monthly withdrawals would be a better option IMO.

 

 

[GypsyT]

41 minutes ago, G_Money said:

Or a joint savings account but you maintain access until your demise.

She can swipe funds out...

 

[Lacessit]

4 minutes ago, GypsyT said:

She can swipe funds out...

 

Only if she has possession of the bank book, if there is no debit card with it.

[Lacessit]

First step for the OP should be making a will.

 

Then a joint savings account, no cards, he retains possession of the bank book.

 

Alternatively, buy Thai gold bullion. Store in a Thai bank, access his signature only. Probate of his will about 6 months, then she can claim the gold.

 

I actually like the second option better, gold always appreciates in the long term.

[BigStar]

Seems to me that what the OP really wants is a trust she can't cash out soon as he's gone.

 

But no such thing in Thailand, evidently. And his proposed amount is too small for a foreign trust to be worthwhile.

 

In theory a lawyer or some other reliable person could serve as a kind of trustee in a joint account arrangement. But I've never heard of this being done. Obviously a risk.

[gejohesch]

18 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Isn't that what a Will is for? keep things in your name, better to prepare a doc detailing accounts, investments, contacts etc, i know someone who prepared a folder for the wife for his death

Thanks, obviously. I just forgot to say that I'm not legally married - some issues with my past life "back home" prevent me from marrying in Thailand. Any will I could write to the benefit of my "de facto wife" in Thailand would not be legally valid.

[gejohesch]

11 hours ago, G_Money said:

Correct . Thailand doesn’t have them.  A will or joint account is needed.

Ah, maybe that's the way : a joint account. I could check that out with a bank in T...

[gejohesch]

11 hours ago, G_Money said:

OP,

 

I would recommend a Thai will.

 

Or a joint savings account but you maintain access until your demise.

 

Another consideration is the money in your account being available for the withdrawal as a lump sum.  Not a good idea IMO.

 
I would consult with a lawyer or the bank to consider the options of withdrawing a certain amount every month after you have passed.

 

Not to be condescending but realistic.

 

Chances are high that family and friends will be in contact with her for a loan or gift once the word is out she has a chunk of money available.  It could be depleted within a short amount of time due to Thai culture of helping everyone.

 

Limited monthly withdrawals would be a better option IMO.

 

 

Thanks also to you. Indeed, a formula with limited withdrawal amounts would be a good idea. You obviously understand sthg of the Thai culture !  🙂

[gejohesch]

Thanks to all those who responded to my question. It's all been constructive and straight to the point. Really appreciated!

[Scouse123]

I understand you @gejohesch fully, because I am in a similar situation, but my partner would rather not know I was saving for her.

 

She wouldn't be able to resist trying to get her hands on it, as she has a problem with gambling, especially online, which can be controlled when I am physically here........to a degree!!

 

I do have a will in English and Thai, signed and stamped by a correct Thai law office.

 

We also have funds in Cambodia, which can be withdrawn by myself or jointly.

 

I do stress myself sometimes, about life beyond me, but the amazing thing is, they never seem to!

 

I would love to do something whereby on my demise, she was drip fed money each month, enough to live happily on.

 

Most of us know, left to their own devices, and with a gambling habit, it would be gone in double quick time, and the family sharks would be circling before my funeral ashes went out.

 

 

 

 

Edited 2 hours ago by Scouse123

[Thingamabob]

Our two properties are in my Thai wife's name, and I have nominated her to receive my depentent's pension in the likely event that I will pre-decease her.