How much sin sod for 28 yo single mom of 2 Bangkok suburb (Rangsit)

[simon43]

She should be paying you sinsod!

[transam]

51 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Is this for real?

 

In the unlikely event it is, sin sod is only for virgins. The fact that stupid farangs have been giving them sin sod for non virgins for many years has only meant that they think all farangs will hand over loadsacash for a second hand bride.

 

If the OP tells her he will give nothing, and she dumps him it was only about the money anyway.

Are you saying, all first time Sin-Sod married ladies were all virgins..........?.......

[mokwit]

You should really wait until you have been here longer than 3 posts before getting married. If the parents suspect you are a troll they will up the sinsod.

[LukKrueng]

13 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

She has 2 daughters and agreed to give me a kid.

How old are the daughters that she's willing to give you one for 100k??

[LukKrueng]

47 minutes ago, transam said:

Are you saying, all first time Sin-Sod married ladies were all virgins..........?.......

You can demand a doctor's certificate ☺️

[zepplin]

9 hours ago, flexomike said:

You must have just gotten off the boat.

He left his brain in an airport locker at Swampy ! Do not pay the 100k !

you have a lot to learn ! You have newbie stamped all over you!

[atpeace]

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Paying sinsod for a non virgin is not part of the culture. It was in compensation for the parents losing a caretaker, as girls were ( ?are ) expected to look after their parents. If sinsod was required, it was for the first time she got married.

Well lived here for over 25 years and have seen sinsod payed many times for non virgins.  You lived here for a long time and find it strange you have come to this conclusion.  Two weddings (Thai marrying another Thai) in the last year I went to  where sinsod was paid and she had kids.  Happens all the time and being a virgin has little if any significance.

Edited 4 hours ago by atpeace

[spidermike007]

2 hours ago, thaibeachlovers said:

You got done! I only handed over 50,000 for mine ( which I got back ).

I can always count on you for a contrary opinion, nobody was done. The family got a lot of pride out of this, I got my money back and it was all good. 

[thaibeachlovers]

1 minute ago, spidermike007 said:

I can always count on you for a contrary opinion, nobody was done. The family got a lot of pride out of this, I got my money back and it was all good. 

Actually I consider you to have the contrary opinions. I reckon that most of what I believe is sensible.

I doubt you will accept that, as is your right.

 

IMO paying sin sod for a well used vagina is stupid, but sometimes it's easier to just go with the flow and do what you and I did, and get it back.

The problems are caused by stupid farangs that fall for the "culture" BS and pay up for sick buffaloes and such like nonsense. They wouldn't do it for a woman back home, but we westerners lose our brain when we encounter women that are fun to have sex with. My wife was always going on about "culture" when it benefited her, but not so much when it benefited me. 

I was always compared to a farang that married a cousin and handed over vast amounts of money, to the point the family wanted my wife to divorce me and marry an ATM. They got the divorce, but I doubt she managed to hook another farang.

 

[thaibeachlovers]

45 minutes ago, atpeace said:

Well lived here for over 25 years and have seen sinsod payed many times for non virgins.  You lived here for a long time and find it strange you have come to this conclusion.  Two weddings (Thai marrying another Thai) in the last year I went to  where sinsod was paid and she had kids.  Happens all the time and being a virgin has little if any significance.

Sin sod was compensation for taking a caretaker away from the family. It happened once, but back in the day people didn't get divorced just because they didn't like their partner. Perhaps they do expect a second go around of the money tree for the same daughter now. IMO it's not culture though- just greed.

 

 

[thaibeachlovers]

14 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

I am a 22 yo college graduate from a top western university.

How does a 22 year old guy have a spare 100,000 baht, and what sort of job does the OP have to be living in LOS, or is he going to take her and her two kids back home?

[thaibeachlovers]

1 hour ago, LukKrueng said:

You can demand a doctor's certificate ☺️

For the benefit of the poster you quoted, back when sin sod was started  non married women stayed at home and looked after her parents, and it would have been shameful if she fornicated around.

Moving on, while it may be possible for a woman to have had sex before meeting her hubby to be in the last 50 or so years, it's a sure sign that she ain't a virgin if previously married or has kids.

[steven100]

6 hours ago, Satcommlee said:

2 pigs and a chicken

i love it

[steven100]

16 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

How does a 22 year old guy have a spare 100,000 baht, and what sort of job does the OP have to be living in LOS, or is he going to take her and her two kids back home?

you are either very naive or AI bot ..

 

 

Edited 2 hours ago by steven100

[illisdean]

14 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

I am a 22 yo college graduate from a top western university.

see if you can get a refund from top western U....

[BangkokReady]

Troll.

[soalbundy]

14 hours ago, thainomad3 said:

How much sin sod for 28 yo single mom of 2 Bangkok suburb (Rangsit)?

She has 2 daughters and agreed to give me a kid. She is requesting 100k baht.  

I am a 22 yo college graduate from a top western university.

None, she is obviously no longer a virgin, the payment was to mark the ending of that state.

[BangkokReady]

9 minutes ago, soalbundy said:

None, she is obviously no longer a virgin, the payment was to mark the ending of that state.

 

Funnily enough, with the slow infection of Western feminism, it seems many Thai girls to want to remove the virginity/submission side of sin sod (what the guy gets), but keep the money side (what the girl gets).  🙄

[soalbundy]

1 minute ago, BangkokReady said:

 

Funnily enough, with the slow infection of Western feminism, it seems many Thai girls to want to remove the virginity/submission side of sin sod (what the guy gets), but keep the money side (what the girl gets).  🙄

Sin sod money was for her parents.

[BangkokReady]

2 minutes ago, soalbundy said:

Sin sod money was for her parents.

 

So it has no benefit to the girl?

[john donson]

ZERO BAHT... she already got sin money

 

no reply in many hours, from OP... so yet another troll account

 

that other dude with less then 100 might be his colleague

Edited 1 hour ago by john donson

[connda]

Two kids?  Absolutely nothing.  Zero zip nada.

[kingstonkid]

5 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

I apologize if you thought my post was serious.

 

On here you can never be sure. 

 

Thanks 

[0ffshore360]

2 hours ago, LukKrueng said:

You can demand a doctor's certificate ☺️

Or go with the biblical definition of immaculate  oopsies !

[atpeace]

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Sin sod was compensation for taking a caretaker away from the family. It happened once, but back in the day people didn't get divorced just because they didn't like their partner. Perhaps they do expect a second go around of the money tree for the same daughter now. IMO it's not culture though- just greed.

 

 

I have no idea and just passing along what I see.  It makes me feel uncomfortable ( odd to be expressing openly that you're paying for your wife regardless if the money is returned ). Actually almost all the money was returned but I have no doubt it won't fully returned in the coming weeks.  

[JamesPhuket10]

 

"Top Western university"

 

Which one, Oxford, Cambridge, LSE, Harvard, MIT, Stanford, Princeton ......... ?

 

I doubt it was any one of them, either you are very stupid or this is just a spoof email that a lot of people are taking seriously, so maybe you are not that silly after all.  🤪

 

And why would any Western man ever pay sinsod (I think it is called) I had never heard of it. 

[Kinok Farang]

Nice first try but when trolling try and make it a tad believable.

[soalbundy]

41 minutes ago, BangkokReady said:

 

So it has no benefit to the girl?

No but she wouldn't be allowed to get married to her suitor if he (usually his parents) didn't pay sin sod, basically it was an assurance that he could afford a wife and the payment was also recompense to her parents for bringing her to adulthood and as payment for losing her contributing work to the family. These days the money is usually symbolic, it would be laid out for show at the ceremony only to be collected again by the groom but more importantly gold ornaments would be given to the bride and her mother. My wife has been buying gold bit by bit for the distant future wedding of our 17 year old son. My wife owns a lot of rice fields and because my son has a falang father and is well educated my wife has told me that a few mothers have already told her that if he marries one of their daughters they wont ask for sin sod, my son says fvck marriage and after seeing what we go through with my wife's  grand kids he says no way is he having children.....yeah right, who hasn't said that as a teenager.

[transam]

10 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

"Top Western university"

 

Which one, Oxford, Cambridge, LSE, Harvard, MIT, Stanford, Princeton ......... ?

 

I doubt it was any one of them, either you are very stupid or this is just a spoof email that a lot of people are taking seriously, so maybe you are not that silly after all.  🤪

 

And why would any Western man ever pay sinsod (I think it is called) I had never heard of it. 

You've just arrived then.........🤗

 

I can tell you sin-sod is alive and well, I am talking Thai marry Thai.

I have been to many sin-sod 'parties', some with a huge amounts of money involved, even our lad had to cough up, no, not me..........😊

[1FinickyOne]

9 hours ago, spidermike007 said:

it was strictly a face-saving measure

glad to hear they still have their faces