She has started asking for money

[save the frogs]

15 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, there are the odd diamonds and exceptions. It's certainly nice to hear these true positive accounts and of course very happy you found a good woman. But if you had not had the funds to buy her a house, retire in Thailand, how long do you think this woman would have stayed with you? Clearly she is of good character, from what you have said, but don't you think your resources and willingness to buy her a house contributed to her happiness, and thus to her staying with you?

 

most women will want property as a sign of commitment. its a sign that the man will stick around for the long haul. 

 

the word whore gets used a lot. actually, some of these girls are struggling to support a child without a father and do want to stay with one man who will support them. one girl had expectations of commitment from a foreign guy, but she found him cheating. this side of the story doesn't get mentioned on here. and they don't all have a bunch of guys they're getting money from. only some of them do that. 

 

[NorthernRyland]

52 minutes ago, short-Timer said:

There is absolutely nothing wrong with whatever amount of money she asks for.
 

She is just being good at her job, which is to extract as much money as possible from foreign men in exchange for the occasional use of her three inches of real estate. 

 

I actually agree with this.

 

The game she's playing is: If I put out can I seduce the guy and get some money or do I get pumped and dumped? It can go either way.

[Cameroni]

19 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

most women will want property as a sign of commitment. its a sign that the man will stick around for the long haul. 

 

the word whore gets used a lot. actually, some of these girls are struggling to support a child without a father and do want to stay with one man who will support them. one girl had expectations of commitment from a foreign guy, but she found him cheating. this side of the story doesn't get mentioned on here. and they don't all have a bunch of guys they're getting money from. only some of them do that. 

 

 

Yes, that's true. Not all women have a multitude of sponsors. But even if she does not, it does not mean she will not cheat behind your back. Particularly if you do not offer her a financial reward. Even if you give her a comfortable life, women have a treasure chest mentality, they want to fill that chest with gold. For them.

 

As you VERY, VERY, VERY correctly state, most women want to buy a house. I have lost count of the amount of women who wanted to buy a house. Literally all of them.

 

If you don't do that, even  if you give them a comfortable life, she will be unhappy. She wants that treasure chest filled. She is thinking about the future, her family, her child, etc etc. So, the smart move is to not buy the house for a loooong time. Cause once you do, what can you offer her then?

[Boulderman]

Dude dont give her any money. You barely know this chick. Move on buddy, plenty of other fish in the sea.