I just wanted to say something about the sex in Thailand. I was married in the UK for 25 years unfortunately she died in a car crash and I have to say the sex was fantastic she knew exactly what to do and what I liked and over the years it just got better and better and better when she died I was lucky enough to find another lady and we dated, we were together for nine years and again the sex was fantastic it was a good love in both our cases.

 

I have been coming to Thailand off and on for about eight years. Then I retired here three years ago I was with a lady for five years and the sex was okay then we finished.  I found another lady to love .  I was with her for two years and again the sex was okay she loved me deeply I did love her but she had many problems and in the end I had to leave.

I've had sex with some of the ladies of the night and some of the ladies I have met by other means i.e. the Internet ThaiFriendly et cetera , even an escort in Bangkok who demanded 10,000 Bhat for an exclusive service for two hours, I gave her the money and I also gave her some advice about how crap she was and I made sure I reviewed her in several locations on  the Internet.

Overall I have to say the sex here is rubbish I wouldn't pay five hundred baht ….

 

I do not have a high expectation rate about sex.  They have three holes and if they do not want to use one of them I am ok with that.

 

I am fit I am active I am 70 I've been practicing judo all my life so I have quite a good sex drive but what it is, sex can be good and sex can be bad and again I have to say in Thailand it is bad because the ladies they have no feeling they do not really love and that is a missing element.

 

But I have to say the Thai ladies are very sweet and very loving but they can also be a nightmare and I have nothing but admiration and respect for ALL Thai ladies.

 

I am still looking for her……..

Mrs Smith is available.

And therein lies the difference between active participation, a genuine caring, and someone whose just letting you relieve yourself.

 

All too often it's the latter in transactional situations.

 

Perhaps it is time to move on to the ladyboys. 

Just use plenty of lube and relax your sphincter, don’t fight it. 

On 4/30/2025 at 9:20 AM, zzvv said:

sex can be good and sex can be bad and again I have to say in Thailand it is bad because the ladies they have no feeling they do not really love and that is a missing element.

 

I talked to a  Thai girl about her past boyfriends. She had two exes. One Thai and one Farang.. She loved the Farang with all her being. she even said "I think I gave him too much love".

 

So I think you'll find that the usual trajectory is that these Thai girls do fall in love, but only with the first farang who really imprints them. They give him so much love that they regret it when it ends, and susbsequently never give that much love again.

 

Then of course there is the 1950s morality in Thailand, many girls <snip> are not sexually liberated.

 

Finally, there is you, the Farang, yourself. The sex was great when you were  much younger, and that woman was head over heels in love with you, would participate, would do anything to please to you. But once you hit 70 your sexual market value obviously has dropped way down because of age, and almost no young and attractive women will be attracted to you and participate in sex eagerly to please you, simply because they just about manage to stop themselves from vomiting for having sex with you.

 

So yes, you do have a point, Thai women are not avid sex kittens generally, but there are other factors at  play as well.

That's like comparing building your own dream house to a stay in a hotel room.

 

A reciprocal loving partnership where you both really care about each other's feelings can provide great sex in any country, but many relationships out of balance .... Maybe he wants great sex whereas she just wants someone to care for her.

 

An older man in a foreign country may tend to have more asymmetrical relationships than when he was younger and in his own country?

 

1 hour ago, Kinnock said:

Maybe he wants great sex whereas she just wants someone to care for her.

 

An older man in a foreign country may tend to have more asymmetrical relationships than when he was younger and in his own country?

 

Well, he is comparing different timelines. He's talking about great sex 34 years ago. He would have been in his 30s then. His sexual market value was far higher then. Women could have been physically attracted to him then and could have been in love with him then.

 

However, he's now 70. So his sexual market value would have dropped significantly and for a young and attractive woman to fall in love with him and want to particpate in sex to make him happy is almost impossible. He'd have to be a genetic wonder like Chuando Tan, or an ageing actor or singer like Rod Stewart. A normal 70 year old, what young Thai girl would fall in love with him and eagerly participate in sex with him? Highly unlikely.

 

If he was in his 50s, okay, but at 70, even if he looks good for his age, that is end of the road time.

 

His general point is valid though, Thai girls are rarely as good at sex as girls from Europe or the US.

2 hours ago, zzvv said:

I just wanted to say something about the sex in Thailand. I was married in the UK for 25 years unfortunately she died in a car crash and I have to say the sex was fantastic she knew exactly what to do and what I liked and over the years it just got better and better and better when she died I was lucky enough to find another lady and we dated, we were together for nine years and again the sex was fantastic it was a good love in both our cases.

 

I have been coming to Thailand off and on for about eight years. Then I retired here three years ago I was with a lady for five years and the sex was okay then we finished.  I found another lady to love .  I was with her for two years and again the sex was okay she loved me deeply I did love her but she had many problems and in the end I had to leave.

I've had sex with some of the ladies of the night and some of the ladies I have met by other means i.e. the Internet ThaiFriendly et cetera , even an escort in Bangkok who demanded 10,000 Bhat for an exclusive service for two hours, I gave her the money and I also gave her some advice about how crap she was and I made sure I reviewed her in several locations on  the Internet.

Overall I have to say the sex here is rubbish I wouldn't pay five hundred baht ….

 

I do not have a high expectation rate about sex.  They have three holes and if they do not want to use one of them I am ok with that.

 

I am fit I am active I am 70 I've been practicing judo all my life so I have quite a good sex drive but what it is, sex can be good and sex can be bad and again I have to say in Thailand it is bad because the ladies they have no feeling they do not really love and that is a missing element.

 

But I have to say the Thai ladies are very sweet and very loving but they can also be a nightmare and I have nothing but admiration and respect for ALL Thai ladies.

 

I am still looking for her……..

You talk about sex and then talk about love. The 2 are not the same.

Anyone can reproduce, not everyone can have great or even good sex. They don't know what good sex is and you need to train them. Communication is key. 
So far, for me,  they're open to learning. 

I'm 62, always been much more sexually active than most people I know. I have a 30 yr old American wife and we have an active, like daily sex life.
the women I've met here don't even know what they can enjoy

2 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Perhaps it is time to move on to the ladyboys. 

Just use plenty of lube and relax your sphincter, don’t fight it. 

Is that what you do?

3 hours ago, zzvv said:

I am fit I am active I am 70 I've been practicing judo all my life so I have quite a good sex drive but what it is, sex can be good and sex can be bad and again I have to say in Thailand it is bad because the ladies they have no feeling they do not really love and that is a missing element.

If that's a photo of you, you might consider losing some weight.

I wouldn't even look at a Thai lady that weighed over 50Kg, and they might have similar feelings about men.

2 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

plenty of lube and relax your sphincter

Ha, ha, I reckon it's the end of the line once you go down that road. 

 

The one snoozing in my bed right now is 37 kilos. My question is how someone that small takes up so much of a queen size bed.

 

 

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

Only the desperate would go with you.

Thats what 1000 baht notes are for

14 hours ago, zzvv said:

I just wanted to say something about the sex in Thailand.

Only 20 posts under your belt, so you're obviously relatively new to the forum.

 

Watch out for nasty comments that come from frustration in their own lives. 

 

3 hours ago, zzvv said:

am active I am 70 I've been practicing judo all my life so I have quite a good sex drive but what it is, sex can be good and sex can be bad and again I have to say in Thailand it is bad because the ladies they have no feeling they do not really love and that is a missing element.

Why would a hooker love u?

555

 

 

3 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Only 20 posts under your belt, so you're obviously relatively new to the forum.

 

Watch out for nasty comments that come from frustration in their own lives. 

 

Some of us are nasty because we have to be...Thats what I said last night to the huddled shape in my bed: "You like it when daddy is nasty?"

19 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

The one snoozing in my bed right now is 37 kilos. My question is how someone that small takes up so much of a queen size bed.

 

 

That's a dog your talking about ....right

 

regards worgeordie

1 minute ago, Harrisfan said:

Why would a hooker love u?

555

 

 

Cash. But, last night for me it was AC, dinner, wonderful Japanese body wash and a clean bed. Im sure Ill end up doling out some cash though.

1 minute ago, Yagoda said:

Some of us are nasty because we have to be...Thats what I said last night to the huddled shape in my bed: "You like it when daddy is nasty?"

You were talking to a dog ,....

 

regards worgeordie

1 minute ago, worgeordie said:

That's a dog your talking about ....right

 

regards worgeordie

No, your mom. She really shed some pounds from that Ozempic.

23 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

The one snoozing in my bed right now is 37 kilos. My question is how someone that small takes up so much of a queen size bed.

 

 

So you're a queen? I knew it!

2 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

Cash. But, last night for me it was AC, dinner, wonderful Japanese body wash and a clean bed. Im sure Ill end up doling out some cash though.

I gave up hookers. Too meaningless and boring.

9 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Watch out for nasty comments that come from frustration in their own lives. 

Right above.

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1 minute ago, BLMFem said:

So you're a queen? I knew it!

Well Im not a dude masquerading as an unattractive trolling Socialist dyke so I have that

2 minutes ago, Harrisfan said:

I gave up hookers. Too meaningless and boring.

yeah 15 minutes is enough for me.

3 hours ago, zzvv said:

I just wanted to say something about the sex in Thailand. I was married in the UK for 25 years unfortunately she died in a car crash and I have to say the sex was fantastic she knew exactly what to do and what I liked and over the years it just got better and better and better when she died I was lucky enough to find another lady and we dated, we were together for nine years and again the sex was fantastic it was a good love in both our cases.

 

I have been coming to Thailand off and on for about eight years. Then I retired here three years ago I was with a lady for five years and the sex was okay then we finished.  I found another lady to love .  I was with her for two years and again the sex was okay she loved me deeply I did love her but she had many problems and in the end I had to leave.

I've had sex with some of the ladies of the night and some of the ladies I have met by other means i.e. the Internet ThaiFriendly et cetera , even an escort in Bangkok who demanded 10,000 Bhat for an exclusive service for two hours, I gave her the money and I also gave her some advice about how crap she was and I made sure I reviewed her in several locations on  the Internet.

Overall I have to say the sex here is rubbish I wouldn't pay five hundred baht ….

 

I do not have a high expectation rate about sex.  They have three holes and if they do not want to use one of them I am ok with that.

 

I am fit I am active I am 70 I've been practicing judo all my life so I have quite a good sex drive but what it is, sex can be good and sex can be bad and again I have to say in Thailand it is bad because the ladies they have no feeling they do not really love and that is a missing element.

 

But I have to say the Thai ladies are very sweet and very loving but they can also be a nightmare and I have nothing but admiration and respect for ALL Thai ladies.

 

I am still looking for her……..

a lot of $$$$$$$$$$$$$$ and you will have them lining up at your front door

< ruining the guy's thread ...>

3 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

No, your mom. She really shed some pounds from that Ozempic.

You xxxx ,Dead people , my mothers been dead for years now ,

with a defensive reply like that ...it was defiantly a dog ,nothing

to be ashamed of lots of MAGAS do it ....

 

regards worgeordie

3 hours ago, CharlieH said:

And therein lies the difference between active participation, a genuine caring, and someone whose just letting you relieve yourself.

 

All too often it's the latter in transactional situations.

 

 

Charlie is right in that great sex requires participation from her. Why would she  participate and try to please you? Because you look good naked, she's attracted to you, you bring it to the table and she thinks you're the best option she could possibly get.

 

If you're 70, then it's virtually certain that there are hundreds of guys on the street now that she would believe are better options for her, and that probably look better than any 70 year old.

 

The only chance a 70 year old has is if he bonded with the girl when he was much younger, 30s, 40s, 50s, if he did that and a strong attachment resulted, then even a 70 year old can have an enthusiastic participant in bed, provided his finances are good and brings it n terms of lifestyle.

 

If you just start out at 70, the chances of getting a girl attracted to you are slim to none. Transaction road is the only option.