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You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

Tell them the truth or make up a story? 37 members have voted

  1. 1. You are marrying a prostitute. Do you tell your family and friends back home the truth or do you make up a story?

    • Yes, honesty is the best policy.
      8%
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    • No way can I tell mum that I am marrying a prostitute from a poor SEA country.
      91%
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2 minutes ago, olongapo said:

That's the problem many men don't see them as they are ie prostitute's 

I see them as no different to any other woman.

But maybe, as a wife, they put out more often.

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22 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Need to first look for a rent to own, in the right area, right price. Then ship everything I have, which is needed in that house. Then buy a truck, get her enrolled in school, then start again. It's not easy to move when you have to do all of these things with a kid involved. You also don't leave behind almost everything you own, which is worth a lot more than you realize. She'll be okay, and able to fit in, as long as I get her into school before she's 10.

The first time I dumped a family and moved overseas, it was a bit hard.

The second time it'll be a lot easier.

No point dragging baggage along with you!

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

The first time I dumped a family and moved overseas, it was a bit hard.

The second time it'll be a lot easier.

No point dragging baggage along with you!

Children are baggage? Then why not tie a knot in it and not make any? 

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Children are baggage? Then why not tie a knot in it and not make any? 

I worry about my immortal soul.

Contraception is a mortal sin.

3 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

The first time I dumped a family and moved overseas, it was a bit hard.

The second time it'll be a lot easier.

No point dragging baggage along with you!

I thought 2 of your UK wives had dumped you & taken you to the cleaners? Wifeys ended up picking up the baggage (children)? Gotta pay for your virility.🙃🙃

10 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

It's very unfair you calling these girls prostitutes.

 

If Thailand had a welfare system similar to the west we wouldn't see these girls selling their bodies.

 

I'm sure most of these young mothers would much prefer to be living in the village with their newborns, having a good time with their loving family and friends 

 

Then how do you explain all the prostitution in the west, seeing many can get help from the government? It's more than that actually, as there are reasons they go into prostitution, and it's not just about poverty. In this country, some are forced by their parents, the lowlife's actually making their girls sell their bodies so they profit by it. Many are forced by traffickers, all over the world, but especially in SE Asia, where they take girls from all the countries and sell them all over, getting them addicted and forcing them also by fear. Many are abused in childhood, by people they should have been able to trust, and seeing it as normal, think little of going into the trade, leaving their kids behind as money means more for survival. Many hookers rarely see their children, even though they live a day's bus ride home or shorter. 

8 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I worry about my immortal soul.

Contraception is a mortal sin.

Why, you said God was a figment of our imagination. 

15 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

The first time I dumped a family and moved overseas, it was a bit hard.

The second time it'll be a lot easier.

No point dragging baggage along with you!

Thought they dumped you and took you for a lot of money.

34 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Need to first look for a rent to own, in the right area, right price. Then ship everything I have, which is needed in that house. Then buy a truck, get her enrolled in school, then start again. It's not easy to move when you have to do all of these things with a kid involved. You also don't leave behind almost everything you own, which is worth a lot more than you realize. She'll be okay, and able to fit in, as long as I get her into school before she's 10.

What in the house could possibly be worth shipping except for pics and kid's things? Buy everything new in Texas. 

1 minute ago, EVENKEEL said:

What in the house could possibly be worth shipping except for pics and kid's things? Buy everything new in Texas. 

50K cd's, 2K movies, Computer and accessories, tools, mower, 10K of fishing tackle, 12 mounted fish and deer. 60 sets of antlers. Much of which are very old, antiques, and very hard to replace, if not impossible.

28 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I see them as no different to any other woman.

But maybe, as a wife, they put out more often.

Mentality is different. Morality is different. How they look at men is different. How they look at themselves is different. How they look at any children is different. Yes, they'll put out more because they have to to get paid, but if you treat your wife very well, and listen to her, she would surprise many men who think they hate sex after the first year. Depression aside, women like sex, as much as men, but they give it for different reasons.

3 hours ago, emptypockets said:

Like any other run of the mill monger. Nothing special.

 

Exactly. All very standard.

 

 

Which is why I was not bragging.

 

 

Except I have more money than your average monger. 😊

2 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

 

Exactly. All very standard.

 

 

Which is why I was not bragging.

 

 

Except I have more money than your average monger. 😊

Ok

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

Then how do you explain all the prostitution in the west, seeing many can get help from the government? It's more than that actually, as there are reasons they go into prostitution, and it's not just about poverty. In this country, some are forced by their parents, the lowlife's actually making their girls sell their bodies so they profit by it. Many are forced by traffickers, all over the world, but especially in SE Asia, where they take girls from all the countries and sell them all over, getting them addicted and forcing them also by fear. Many are abused in childhood, by people they should have been able to trust, and seeing it as normal, think little of going into the trade, leaving their kids behind as money means more for survival. Many hookers rarely see their children, even though they live a day's bus ride home or shorter. 

I think a lot of what you are saying about the parents is no longer true in 2025. Maybe in 1975. Or if you listen to the NGO's who generally have no clue.

I think the trafficking is far worse into western Europe from eastern European nations. No shortage of eastern European hookers in Thailand.

 

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9 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

I don't have to tell you anything. It's plainly obvious. Not agreeing with me isn't a problem. Talking trash because they do is. Assuming you know others from a few posts in an online forum is ignorance. How you really are is shown with more of your replies, and following others in their attacks also shows what you are. I haven't said anyone here wasn't smart. Only that a few are very disturbed, and everyone else also agrees. Again, answer me, and not for others. You have a reputation here as a troll, and that's not on me. Before you back anyone here, look at what most others are saying about them. 

Gee Fred, can you stay on topic.

Nobody wants to hear your nonsense about yourself.

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7 hours ago, transam said:

I see you're still putting your feelers out, but really is taking you a loooooooooong time to choose a soulmate...🙄....:coffee1:

This forum has taught me that I don’t want to end up like you.

Border runs to Laos with long queues standing outside under an umbrella waiting for hours. 
There are better ways.

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7 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Please ask yourself this question, again. How would you know what anyone has or does outside this forum. C'mon, I know you can do it. You answer here quick, most of the times too quick, so you either read fast or just skim. You've likely never met anyone here, so how would you know what they're doing 24/7, 365 days a year, all their lives? I would be willing to bet, with the way you act here, that you have very few real friends. I have many, in many countries and states. Some I've known over 50 years.

So are you coming to the Xmas party?

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2 hours ago, Liverpool Lou said:

What did you tell your mum and family when you hooked-up with your Thai "massage" girl from the brothel that you posted about here?

I lied and told them she wasn’t a prostitute.

It would break her heart if she knew I was that desperate.

 

How about you?

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7 hours ago, connda said:

You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

 

What I can't understand is your morbid fascination with bar-girls.  

Are you claiming that you never have indulged?

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2 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

50K cd's, 2K movies, Computer and accessories, tools, mower, 10K of fishing tackle, 12 mounted fish and deer. 60 sets of antlers. Much of which are very old, antiques, and very hard to replace, if not impossible.

So basically a bunch of outdated crap.

And you are putting that crap before your daughter’s education. 
And it would take about a day to pack all that crap and send it.

 

Stop procrastinating and making excuses.

Go tomorrow.

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

I lied and told them she wasn’t a prostitute.

It would break her heart if she knew I was that desperate.

 

How about you?

What makes you think that I married a prostitute?

No problems for me, my mother passed away in 1986, and I have been married to a Thai (non-bar worker) for 22 years.

16 hours ago, phetphet said:

You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

 

Mum. Please don't leave her alone with dad. 😀

 

 

 

 

 

Beg her to increase your weekly/monthly allowance.

 

 

7 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

So basically a bunch of outdated crap.

And you are putting that crap before your daughter’s education. 
And it would take about a day to pack all that crap and send it.

 

Stop procrastinating and making excuses.

Go tomorrow.

The first thing you need to learn is not to tell others far more advanced in life and family matters what to do, as you have no experience.

 

It might be crap to as person who doesn't like music, movies, and fishing but they're necessities to those who do. Again he comments on a person's raising of a child and never having one, knows nothing about it. My moving happens when it's the right time to get a house in the right area, near a school and my other family, which is also something a single player wouldn't understand. I'm thinking you left your mom's house and went straight to Thailand, so you never had the chance to learn what makes a family, being a mama's boy.

 

My daughter can start at 12 in the US and would still succeed, as a father who teaches his daughter and spends time with her is more important than the 3rd or 4th year in school.

 

Another thing you wouldn't understand, not having any children, is that kids learn fast in that age group, and she's already learning more when she's at home with me than any child would in Thailand in school, especially the lack of learning she gets in her school now.

7 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

So are you coming to the Xmas party?

Why, to see you, Harrisfan, Gottfrid, and maybe 2 others like you drunk? And then all drive off drunk into the sunset. Why would you think I would be interested in something no other normal members here would bother going to? Unless of course to see you in person to further emphasize what type of character you really are. Not on a bet.

8 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

Gee Fred, can you stay on topic.

Nobody wants to hear your nonsense about yourself.

Then you and those dolts stop commenting about me when I ask someone like you a legitimate question, which you never answered. And answering for others doesn't work, as no one in their right minds thinks like you or would join your drivel, especially against one way above you're personal insanity level.Do you actually believe you are more than a circus clown to the majority here?

 

There's no real 100% way to gauge another's intelligence in an online forum, as there are lies, exaggerations, misspellings, mistakes in grammar and the like, and people can copy and paste, as some do, along with quoting another's writings and appear intelligent, but one way is to have someone make you look the fool on a daily basis, yet see you keep coming back again and again, saying much the same things, even though everyone else has seen evidence on my truths, and have you completely forget what I said in the past, or twist it around because of that bad memory or simply having an antagonistic, anti-social personality because no one ever taught you different. 

7 hours ago, emptypockets said:

I think a lot of what you are saying about the parents is no longer true in 2025. Maybe in 1975. Or if you listen to the NGO's who generally have no clue.

I think the trafficking is far worse into western Europe from eastern European nations. No shortage of eastern European hookers in Thailand.

 

Trafficking is everywhere, and Thailand is a major hub, seeing their look the other way thinking about prostitution. Many girls and boys come from neighboring countries easily, especially as they look much alike and can blend in easier, and the amount of corruption here is a lot higher than in Europe or the US. Being a poor country, it's also more likely some parents will sell off their girls for their own greed, girls looked at as secondary here already. They're trying to stop it, but until most or all the corruption stops, the money is a lot stronger than morality..https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_trafficking_in_Thailand

7 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

This forum has taught me that I don’t want to end up like you.

Border runs to Laos with long queues standing outside under an umbrella waiting for hours. 
There are better ways.

You couldn't end up like him nor most anyone else on this forum, as your way of thinking borders on criminal, especially after you've told us how you took advantage of unconscious women weekly.

15 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

No, it's not about hacking it. If I wanted to waste my daughter''s future in a Godless, misogynist place and let her be the victim of a poor schooling system, with the large possibility of a  future with a loser who would use here and leave, not support any children born, and the high possibility of her also being in a scooter or car accident, a future making maybe 500 baht a day, in a very boring, for the most part, country with a dull future of being like most of the other students here, I would stay.

 

I'd much rather give her a thousand fold better chance of a good, productive future, like my other children already have, with a good paying career, a much better chance of finding a more suitable partner that, if they would split, would still pay for any children's needs, in a country with better driving, more opportunities, better weather, and a lot more things to do. Some people here just can't see what's right in front of them, nor the future of any children they create, which is a lot more important than your own life you've already mostly lived.

 

No, Thailand's definitely not for me, nor my daughter. If I was single without any dependents now, I would still move on, as there are many other places on earth with better weather year round, and pretty women I didn't have to purchase, along with hunting and much better fishing. 

Little Freddy! I guess you aren't so smart after all. You just went to a country, totally clueless. That tells volumes about your character. Now we all know who you are. You are a person, who just got on the midnight train, like Boston was singing. You didn´t know that it went nowhere. Suddenly you found yourself in Thailand, and without any thoughts, you just found a woman, you didn´t have to purchase, just because you were so handsome. After that, you made a lovely baby with her. Fast forward! Now Freddy has woken up and thinks he understand Thailand.

He thinks it´s no possibility for a good life here. He thinks his child has no future if he stays in Thailand. He also can´t drive a motorbike, because he thinks everyone dies on it. Moreover, he has found out that Thailand is a boring country, and he also say he can´t raise his daughter to be a responsible woman who don´t let every boy f***k her and make babies. Freddy´s daughter, according to him, is going to let every loser use her and throw her away for the next one to feel the dome of pleasure in.

 

If all that happens, Freddy, then you have failed as a father! Don´t you dare to blame a whole country for your shortcomings. 

17 hours ago, newbee2022 said:

@fredwiggy, I follow you on this thread and I see you always defending yourself. I can't see any reason to do so when having in mind who initiated this thread. Once he told me to do it as click baits and to get the next reward, the crown here on AN. 

You seem to be very honest in what you're writing. It will not be honored on AN. I suppose it makes you feeling angry or sad. But the level here on AN seems to be very low. Just answer where it makes sense. Not in this thread.

I think Freddy should had "just answered where it makes sense".
 

17 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

I asked him why he started this thread, and was he thinking about marrying a bar girl. He never answered me, but him and the two usual suspects came back and brought up the usual things, lies and twisted thoughts, about my past, which I've been totally honest about. It's a mental illness when you feel the need to bring up other things when the topic is about something completely different. Most of the members here are fine, but seeing it's a public forum, and weirdo can join and stir up trouble, mainly because they themselves aren't happy in their own lives, so feel the need to try and bring others down, which doesn't work, as it's amusing to point them out daily. 

@newbee2022 As you can read here, he needed to defend himself against your post too. Guess he didn´t understand you were supporting him. 

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