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You have decided to marry a bargirl. So what do you tell mum?

Tell them the truth or make up a story? 37 members have voted

  1. 1. You are marrying a prostitute. Do you tell your family and friends back home the truth or do you make up a story?

    • Yes, honesty is the best policy.
      8%
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    • No way can I tell mum that I am marrying a prostitute from a poor SEA country.
      91%
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28 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Little Freddy! I guess you aren't so smart after all. You just went to a country, totally clueless. That tells volumes about your character. Now we all know who you are. You are a person, who just got on the midnight train, like Boston was singing. You didn´t know that it went nowhere. Suddenly you found yourself in Thailand, and without any thoughts, you just found a woman, you didn´t have to purchase, just because you were so handsome. After that, you made a lovely baby with her. Fast forward! Now Freddy has woken up and thinks he understand Thailand.

He thinks it´s no possibility for a good life here. He thinks his child has no future if he stays in Thailand. He also can´t drive a motorbike, because he thinks everyone dies on it. Moreover, he has found out that Thailand is a boring country, and he also say he can´t raise his daughter to be a responsible woman who don´t let every boy f***k her and make babies. Freddy´s daughter, according to him, is going to let every loser use her and throw her away for the next one to feel the dome of pleasure in.

 

If all that happens, Freddy, then you have failed as a father! Don´t you dare to blame a whole country for your shortcomings. 

Why do you keep calling me little Freddy? I'm neither little nor lacking adult sense, so curtail your ignorant replies as they make you look worse every time.

 

You guessing I'm not smart shows you aren't that bright yourself, as smart people can easily spot others like them, which leaves you out.

 

Before you reply again, try fully comprehending what others write, as you and a few others here have very short memories, especially regarding what others here do, and trying to insult them with your lack of a memory shows just how dense you really are.

 

I came to this country to see Thailand. That I met a woman here and ended up marrying her is what most other expats end up doing, so calling all of us clueless also shows your lack of common sense and restraint.

 

I understood Thailand decades before I moved here. That all I heard and read about it came true after moving here was obvious. I knew all about what the women here went through, as Buddhism has been around long before we were. My child would have a future here, but not near as good as she will have in the US. That you don't understand why is obvious.All my children are doing well, as this one will, because I am a good father, so calling someone who's done most of the raising of his children a failed father shows just how stupid you really are. We know nothing about you, so you could also be a pack of lies like a select few here.

 

You don't know me, so how would you assume I can't drive a motorbike. I've had motorcycles all my life, very fast ones, and the only accident I've ever had out of a million miles on any of them was when someone here cut in front of me, so stop assuming because you weren't there.

 

You thinking any girl here isn't looked at as a victim here to be used and tossed aside, which happens daily since time began, also shows your naivete, and hopefully your daughters, if you have any, aren't victims because of your unaware ideations and ego. You obviously know nothing about how boys here operate, even after 27 years, so God help your children, because their father is as clueless as a man can be. I raised 4 other daughters to not be victims, even though many boys tried, and they're all strong, smart and aware women who know all about the kind of scumbags many "men" can be , and are with good, decent men who take good care of them. try not responding, as you make yourself look more ignorant with every reply.

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36 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

I think Freddy should had "just answered where it makes sense".
 

@newbee2022 As you can read here, he needed to defend himself against your post too. Guess he didn´t understand you were supporting him. 

Why do you bother replying to anything I say? You are one of the most ignorant members here, actually thinking you're some kind of expert because you've lived here 27 years, yet your replies show a person who likely rarely leaves the house, too scared to see what Thailand is really about.

 

That I have to defend what I say shows just what kind of person  some members here really are. They, you included,  attack others because they are anti socials, sad little men with low self esteem that is only boosted by trying to put others down. Mostly from jealousy, a personality disorder, a childhood with no guidance or more likely an abusive one, where they feel they need to turn their hidden anger against innocent people who have better lives they they possibly could ever achieve.

 

Thinking I'm not aware of what others say is also ignorance, so answer for yourself and stop assuming what others do, or how they live their lives, as you obviously have no idea. Or keep on, showing your serious lack of restraint and intelligence. 

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Why do you bother replying to anything I say? You are one of the most ignorant members here, actually thinking you're some kind of expert because you've lived here 27 years, yet your replies show a person who likely rarely leaves the house, too scared to see what Thailand is really about.

 

That I have to defend what I say shows just what kind of person  some members here really are. They, you included,  attack others because the are anti socials, sad little men with low self esteem that is only boosted by trying to put others down. Mostly from jealousy, a personality disorder, a childhood with no guidance or more likely an abusive one, where they feel they need to turn their hidden anger against innocent people who have better lives they they possibly could ever achieve.

 

Thinking I'm not aware of what others say is also ignorance, so answer for yourself and stop assuming what others do, or how they live their lives, as you obviously have no idea. Or keep on, showing your serious lack of restraint and intelligence. 

Sure Freddy! 

No, I don´t need to show, that I am any kind of expert. You are posting that I am unaware. That's why it led to that I presented I´ve lived here long time. You are the one that creates the responses.

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8 hours ago, Liverpool Lou said:

What makes you think that I married a prostitute?

Everyone thinks you're single!

Cos nobody could put up with your nonsense.

Just now, Gottfrid said:

Sure Freddy! 

No, I don´t need to show, that I am any kind of expert. You are posting that I am unaware. That's why it led to that I presented I´ve lived here long time. You are the one that creates the responses.

That you keep coming back after I've shown how ignorant you really are speaks volumes, and won't be ignored by other members. You have absolutely no idea who you're talking to, but I guess that's how you've always been, a victim of your past and a product of your caregivers neglect. 

15 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

That I have to defend what I say shows just what kind of person  some members here really are. They, you included,  attack others because the are anti socials, sad little men with low self esteem that is only boosted by trying to put others down. Mostly from jealousy, a personality disorder, a childhood with no guidance or more likely an abusive one, where they feel they need to turn their hidden anger against innocent people who have better lives they they possibly could ever achieve.

Not narcissists?

Just now, BritManToo said:

Not narcissists?

That's the exact definition of one.

15 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Why do you keep calling me little Freddy? I'm neither little nor lacking adult sense, so curtail your ignorant replies as they make you look worse every time.

 

You guessing I'm not smart shows you aren't that bright yourself, as smart people can easily spot others like them, which leaves you out.

 

Before you reply again, try fully comprehending what others write, as you and a few others here have very short memories, especially regarding what others here do, and trying to insult them with your lack of a memory shows just how dense you really are.

 

I came to this country to see Thailand. That I met a woman here and ended up marrying here is what most other expats end up doing, so calling all of us clueless also shows your lack of common sense and restraint.

 

I understood Thailand decades before I moved here. That all I heard and read about it came true after moving here was obvious. I knew all about what the women here went through, as Buddhism has been around long before we were. My child would have a future here, but not near as good as she will have in the US. That you don't understand why is obvious.

 

You don't know me, so how would you assume I can't drive a motorbike. I've had motorcycles all my life, very fast ones, and the only accident I've ever had out of a million miles on any of them was when someone here cut in front of me, so stop assuming because you weren't there.

 

You thinking any girl here isn't looked at as a victim here to be used and tossed aside, which happens daily since time began, also shows your naivete, and hopefully your daughters, if you have any, aren't victims because of your unaware ideations and ego. You obviously know nothing about how boys here operate, even after 27 years, so God help your children, because their father is as clueless as a man can be. I raised 4 other daughters to not be victims, even though many boys tried, and they're all strong, smart and aware women who know all about the kind of scumbags many "men" can be , and are with good, decent men who take good care of them. try not responding, as you make yourself look more ignorant with every reply.

So, now we should not respond, because little Freddy has said something and then it stands, right?

It was still you that wrote everything that I replied to. You showed that you were afraid of that men would use your daughter. You are afraid of that she might have an accident. You also post it´s a Godless, misogynist place where people become victims of a poor schooling system. I just reply to what you post.
 

  • No need to become a victim of poor schooling, if you as a father had the money to put your child in a good school. You need to know that when you move to Thailand.
  • No need for accident, if you drive careful. Most people avoid accidents during their lives.
  • If you raise your child as a responsible father, they avoid becoming victims of bad boys.

I guess you just need support of something you see as a better country to achieve that, as you just can´t hack it in Thailand.

16 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

So, now we should not respond, because little Freddy has said something and then it stands, right?

 

  • No need to become a victim of poor schooling, if you as a father had the money to put your child in a good school. You need to know that when you move to Thailand.

You must obey the word of god!

 

As for 'good schools' my studious daughter had no problems in Thai government school.

My disinterested son (14) has no problems in his Thai government school, we did need to hire a private tutor for a while to improve his Thai reading and writing because he normally reads and writes in English.

11 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

That you keep coming back after I've shown how ignorant you really are speaks volumes, and won't be ignored by other members. You have absolutely no idea who you're talking to, but I guess that's how you've always been, a victim of your past and a product of your caregivers neglect. 

Did you just insult my parents, as well? You went a bit too far there. Just tell me how we solve that.

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

You must obey the word of god!

Yeah, somebody seems to think that.

3 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Did you just insult my parents, as well? You went a bit too far there. Just tell me how we solve that.

@fredwiggy You became very quiet. Did you run and hide now? The question still stands. How do we solve that?

I am open to any idea you might have.

11 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Why do you keep calling me little Freddy?

Psychological tactic. Belittle the opponent. 

 

1 hour ago, Gottfrid said:

So, now we should not respond, because little Freddy has said something and then it stands, right?

It was still you that wrote everything that I replied to. You showed that you were afraid of that men would use your daughter. You are afraid of that she might have an accident. You also post it´s a Godless, misogynist place where people become victims of a poor schooling system. I just reply to what you post.
 

  • No need to become a victim of poor schooling, if you as a father had the money to put your child in a good school. You need to know that when you move to Thailand.
  • No need for accident, if you drive careful. Most people avoid accidents during their lives.
  • If you raise your child as a responsible father, they avoid becoming victims of bad boys.

I guess you just need support of something you see as a better country to achieve that, as you just can´t hack it in Thailand.

No, please keep responding. I'm not afraid of anything, let alone some scumbag that would try to victimize any of my daughters. They wouldn't do it again. I'm thinking you really don't understand Americans.

 

When I moved to Thailand, it was because I then trusted my now ex. I made a mistake, like millions of others here do, and what others will eventually see. Now that I know what she really is, it had me thinking about moving earlier, as I always was going to bring my daughter to the US for a better future.

 

Again, it's not that I can't hack it in Thailand. Its that the US is a much better place to live, and if you think you have freedom like the west has here, think again. I know exactly what Thailand is, and it's a good place if it has what you want, and aren't too concerned with your children's futures. Many expats send their children to the west for schooling. There are good reasons for that you might not understand.

6 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Did you just insult my parents, as well? You went a bit too far there. Just tell me how we solve that.

What I see in you and a few others here, came from your past, as all behavior starts in childhood, but it's not something people like you will ever admit, and has nothing to do with me.

10 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

No, please keep responding. I like seeing you act the fool over and over. I'm not afraid of anything, let alone some scumbag that would try to victimize any of my daughters. They wouldn't do it again. I'm thinking you really don't understand Americans.

Scary 68 year old guy .......... act your age dude, almost anyone under 50 could slap you down, man or woman. Learn to run away like the rest of us old folk!

Just now, fredwiggy said:

What I see in you and a few others here, came from your past, as all behavior starts in childhood, but it's not something people like you will ever admit, and has nothing to do with me.

Yes, now it has to do with you personally, as you insulted my parents. I want and open excuse for that.

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

No, please keep responding. I like seeing you act the fool over and over. I'm not afraid of anything, let alone some scumbag that would try to victimize any of my daughters. They wouldn't do it again. I'm thinking you really don't understand Americans.

 

When I moved to Thailand, it was because I then trusted my now ex. I made a mistake, like millions of others here do, and what others will eventually see. Now that I know what she really is, it had me thinking about moving earlier, as I always was going to bring my daughter to the US for a better future.

 

Again, it's not that I can't hack it in Thailand. Its that the US is a much better place to live, and if you think you have freedom like the west has here, think again. I know exactly what Thailand is, and it's a good place if it has what you want, and aren't too concerned with your children's futures. many expats send their children to the west for schooling. There are good reasons for that you might not understand.

No, your mistake was to insult my parents.

 

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Scary 68 year old guy .......... act your age dude, almost anyone under 50 could slap you down, man or woman.

Saying that without ever meeting someone shows ignorance, or can't you see that? 

1 minute ago, Gottfrid said:

Yes, now it has to do with you personally, as you insulted my parents. I want and open excuse for that.

How a person treats others, especially those they know nothing about, insulting them in an online forum, trashing foreigners when they're a foreigner, showing prejudice, thinking they know how others live their lives, are all faults that come from childhood, and again, you won't understand this as you're deep in it.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Saying that without ever meeting someone shows ignorance, or can't you see that? 

I am not so ignorant. I can meet you, to get a better picture of you.

10 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Saying that without ever meeting someone shows ignorance, or can't you see that? 

Not really, old age brings many physical limitations.

At 68 your judgement, balance, speed, eyesight, hearing, bone density will all be radically reduced.

Even falling over could break your hip or arm.

 

Happens to all of us, nothing can stop the aging process.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

How a person treats others, especially those they know nothing about, insulting them in an online forum, trashing foreigners when they're a foreigner, showing prejudice, thinking they know how others live their lives, are all faults that come from childhood, and again, you won't understand this as you're deep in it.

That was not an excuse Freddy.

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Not really, old age brings many physical limitations.

At 68 your judgement, balance, speed, eyesight, hearing, bone density will all be radically reduced.

Even falling over could break your hip or arm.

 

Happens to all of us, nothing can stop the aging process.

True, but some aren't as fragile as those who've never worked out for 50 years, and it's not just about that but attitude, which you obviously aren't taking into account. People who've rarely exercised don't understand what a lifetime doing it achieves. I've lost only strength, and that strength wasn't anywhere near what you could imagine, especially if you only ride a bicycle.

5 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

That was not an excuse Freddy.

What you need to do is go back and think hard why you came to this topic at first, and felt the need to respond to me. maybe you'll understand your mistake. If you don't , what I said is spot on,and why people do what they do always comes from how they were raised. You have no idea who you're talking to, but you think you do, which is assuming.

10 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

No, your mistake was to insult my parents.

 

What are you 8 yrs old? You insulted my parents .....apologize bwahahaha

12 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

True, but some aren't as fragile as those who've never worked out for 50 years, and it's not just about that but attitude, which you obviously aren't taking into account. People who've rarely exercised don't understand what a lifetime doing it achieves. I've lost only strength, and that strength wasn't anywhere near what you could imagine, especially if you only ride a bicycle.

My bicycle can help me run away faster, but I also walk 4Km most mornings which will also help me run away. A 68yo boasting about how strong they are is really sad.

Must be that time of the month again. :whistling:

Just now, EVENKEEL said:

What are you 8 yrs old? You insulted my parents .....apologize bwahahaha

What 8 years old? If family is not important to you, then I accept that. I expect the same from you.

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