Seen this a few times.

Monger falls for a bargirl with kids up in Issan that she might visit once a year and has left the child raising to relatives or the biological fathers family.

Despite having very little interest in these kids she decides she wants another one with you now.

 

Go for it and make her happy while tying you to her for life or get a vasectomy?

No kids

Do like I did, get a vasectomy, no anchor ATM babies.

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

A bit of a sensitive issue for some for sure.

But my last thread has been the most popular of the week on this forum. 
 

You got any kids? Has your girlfriend/wife?

They will whinge no matter what u say

1 minute ago, MalcolmB said:

But my last thread has been the most popular of the week on this forum. 
 

You got any kids? Has your girlfriend/wife?

Wow, another one like Harris fan, "the most popular". Congratulations. My wife and I have twin daughters who are 27 living in California and very successful. We are proud. How about you?

Just now, marin said:

Wow, another one like Harris fan, "the most popular". Congratulations. My wife and I have twin daughters who are 27 living in California and very successful. We are proud. How about you?

You're a legend

Just now, Harrisfan said:

They will whinge no matter what u say

I understand that for those who have already bred with Thai prostitutes who have kids with different fathers this subject will be confronting.

It's important to follow the Vasectomy on Arrival signs at the airport

Have 5 or 6 kids, Thailand needs them.

Flame posts and responses, and other off-topic remarks, were removed.

 

1. Bargirl wants a kid. Give her one or not.

__ Have a kid.

__ Don’t have a kid.

__ Seek psychiatric assistance to get to the root cause of OP's obsession with bargirls.   

Old adage: - If it flies, floats, or f**ks - Rent!!

 

Of course you could also go for one of the more "mature" ladies: - They don't tell, they don't swell, and they're grateful as hell!

 

Relative ages of the couple?

 

I voted no kid, but as with all these things it's entirely Up2U.

 

I went to the vet long before I first came to Thailand!

 

1 hour ago, Harrisfan said:

twin daughters who are 27

Nice.

Are they single?

What's you fascination with bar girls ,have you ever had one,

and how long will this saga go on for ,what's next OK we now

have a kid and she wants 5 more , what to do ......

 

regards worgeordie

1 minute ago, worgeordie said:

have you ever had one,

More than 1.

More like 100.

 

How many have you had?

I know of a foreigner who has recently married an ex bargirl who has 4 kids to 4 different fathers and she is now expecting baby number 5, his. He is in his 60’s. Considering his situation for a very brief millisecond I voted “No kids”. Who the hell in their right mind would want to put up with sh*tty nappies and a screaming infant at his age. Up to him but I know for sure I couldn’t tolerate it.

Get the vasectomy.

Then agree with her about having a kid. Enjoy reams of rawdog sex.

 

In a while, she may catch on and realize that you are shooting blanks. OR, she may somehow wind up pregnant anyway, which can lead to a whole other entertaining drama.

 

Her: "honey, I have baby soon!!"

You: "congrats. Who is the father?"

Her: "It you! We make baybee!"

You: (hand her vasectomy papers and proof of sterility)

Her: "don't mind, you pay!"

4 minutes ago, Utalk2mutt said:

4 different fathers

She sounds like a bit of a tart.

Just now, MalcolmB said:

She sounds like a bit of a tart.

Not going to disagree with that. He sought advice from a few friends  with respect to marriage ie do I or don’t I (you know already what we advised)and he chose to do his own thing anyway. His choice, his life and whammo along came number 5. He’s made his bed and doesn’t he know it. Now all we get is she’s spending this, wants that etc etc.

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33 minutes ago, Hanaguma said:

Get the vasectomy.

Then agree with her about having a kid. Enjoy reams of rawdog sex.

 

In a while, she may catch on and realize that you are shooting blanks. OR, she may somehow wind up pregnant anyway, which can lead to a whole other entertaining drama.

 

Her: "honey, I have baby soon!!"

You: "congrats. Who is the father?"

Her: "It you! We make baybee!"

You: (hand her vasectomy papers and proof of sterility)

Her: "don't mind, you pay!"

Just love this 😁

This is how most of us get manipulated into supporting their insurance against us leaving, keeping us on a short leash...  babies and puppies.

37 minutes ago, Utalk2mutt said:

I know of a foreigner who has recently married an ex bargirl who has 4 kids to 4 different fathers and she is now expecting baby number 5, his. He is in his 60’s. Considering his situation for a very brief millisecond I voted “No kids”. Who the hell in their right mind would want to put up with sh*tty nappies and a screaming infant at his age. Up to him but I know for sure I couldn’t tolerate it.

Tony Robbins had four fathers; he used to call them his forefathers.

38 minutes ago, Hanaguma said:

Get the vasectomy.

Then agree with her about having a kid. Enjoy reams of rawdog sex.

 

In a while, she may catch on and realize that you are shooting blanks. OR, she may somehow wind up pregnant anyway, which can lead to a whole other entertaining drama.

 

Her: "honey, I have baby soon!!"

You: "congrats. Who is the father?"

Her: "It you! We make baybee!"

You: (hand her vasectomy papers and proof of sterility)

Her: "don't mind, you pay!"

You: (hand her vasectomy papers and proof of sterility)

Her: Why you do that to me? why? Waiiii ? you bad falang, hab no good heart 🤣

Get a Vasectomy fill them up all you want.

Tell her if she's okay to sign a contract to waive all and any financial claims relating to the child she can have it.

It's a trap... bar girls/hookers are not for long-term relationships or marriage and kids, just for having fun with. You have no idea of their history, body count, or duplicity... better to rent than buy on this one.

7 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

More than 1.

More like 100.

 

How many have you had?

Been here a long time ,stopped counting at about 300 ,  and you say you have had 100 

and you still don't understand them ,I thought by now all your questions would be answered.

 

keep counting ....

 

regards woreordie

No problem having kids here. Cheap as chips they are. If get tired, just leave. 

5 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Tell her if she's okay to sign a contract to waive all and any financial claims relating to the child she can have it.

I believe Thai law actually states that if the woman is not married.

 

It is a smart law that stops gold diggers from getting themselves pregnant.

7 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I believe Thai law actually states that if the woman is not married.

 

It is a smart law that stops gold diggers from getting themselves pregnant.

 

Seriously? If that is the case, then we can sow our wild oats...