1 hour ago, Celsius said:

I can assure you one thing. No one here is jealous of you. The girls you are paying are not attractive.

 

Of course you are. You're stuck in a long term rel with a menopausal 40 or 50 something, who's nearing the end of pleasant co-habitation. You wish you could go out and get a hot 24 year old like mine. But you can't because you're arthritic and stuck in Canada and in a long term rel with an aging woman.

 

I get it. It's frustrating.

 

So you not only denigrate those guys who can live the dream you can't, but also the highly attractive women we get, because you have to make yourself feel better since you're with an aging 2.

 

It's understandable.

 

1 hour ago, Celsius said:

That's the thing. Only Indian would be gloating about this.

 

Are you indian?

 

I have no idea what you're talking about? Indian? I like Indian food...but no.

5 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Fair enough, not all, only 99.96% of them..

That is the percentage of the women you are attracted to. The type of women who make their money on their backs.  Get out of your rut and meet some women who are educated and have a good job and you would be surprised. But those types dont appeal to you because they are smart, something you are very fearful of in a woman. 

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

11 hours ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

What is funny is he says all women lie and cheat yet he tells us how much they say they fancy him etc, that is super contradictory. 

 

 

Not at all. Attraction is not a choice. Women can't help look at a guy they're attracted to. That doesn't mean they don't lie.

 

You know nothing about women clearly.

 

And I made clear not "all" women, just a fair number.

That one went right over your head. If you say all women lie and cheat, then when women say that they fancy you, they must be lying. 

19 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Fair enough, not all, only 99.96% of them..

 

However, lying is the female default. It's astounding the depth of deception they go to.

Agree. These girls are cunning 

 

I've got an old phone of an ex-girlfriend, I bought her a new phone, the old phone was placed in the wardrobe, she forgot to take it with her when she left me. In a living relationship I insist on having their phone pin/pass code. 

 

Anyway, she left me because she wanted a Thai boyfriend.

 

On her old phone I have access to her messenger, Facebook, Gmail, Instagram etc. accounts. 

Most of her male friends are on messenger, she's got 2 lovers (boyfriends), she's been in a long distance relationship with 1 guy for a few months, who she has never met, he works in Bangkok, sends her a few hundred baht each month. 

She's got another boyfriend, this guy is a total LOSER (she asks him for 50 baht every now and then, he never gives her money), in her home town who travels for work interstate but when he's in town he is shagging her. 

 

 

Most days she's saying I love you to up to 5 different guys every day, most are sending her money, not much, dribs and drabs. 

 

 

9 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

In a living relationship I insist on having their phone pin/pass code. 

 

You are not joking 😄

 

oh my, if I had to insist to do so, there would not be a relationship or marriage. I have no interest in what she do on her phone, and the reason is, you would know one way or the other if there was something. 

 

If my wife hiding something, she is doing a good job. Without 100% trust, I couldn’t live with her. 

30 minutes ago, marin said:

That is the percentage of the women you are attracted to.

 

Far from it. I'm extremely selective. I'm attracted to maybe 1% of women.

 

30 minutes ago, marin said:

The type of women who make their money on their backs. 

 

This whole "ladies" vs "prostitutes" worldview is very outdated now. Yes, in the previous century it had some relevance, but today it is really not applicable anymore.

 

31 minutes ago, marin said:

and meet some women who are educated

 

I did. CM girl was highly edcuated. One of the worst deceivers and liars I ever met.

 

32 minutes ago, marin said:

But those types dont appeal to you because they are smart, something you are very fearful of in a woman. 

 

No, I like intelligence in a woman. What I don't like is deception. And the more intelligent the more deception. It's inevitable.

26 minutes ago, ColeBOzbourne said:

That one went right over your head. If you say all women lie and cheat, then when women say that they fancy you, they must be lying. 

 

No, a woman does not lie ALL the time, obviously. However, just because they are truthful one second doesn't mean they won't lie the next.

 

This is  a fact which obviously escaped you.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

No, a woman does not lie ALL the time, obviously. However, just because they are truthful one second doesn't mean they won't lie the next.

 

This is  a fact which obviously escaped you.

Do you lie to women?

26 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

In a living relationship I insist on having their phone pin/pass code. 

 

Most decent girls actually will offer this out of themselves to give you comfort they're not cheating. Phuket Girl did this.

 

It's extremely necessary to check their phones now and then.

 

27 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Most days she's saying I love you to up to 5 different guys every day, most are sending her money, not much, dribs and drabs. 

 

Yes, women are very adept at spinning plates, it's astonishing.

 

Loyalty is extremely rare nowadays. Dying out it seems. So we have to become like them and spin plates. It's terrible.

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Do you lie to women?

 

Never. 

 

Over text, maybe,. 

 

And only if it's really unavoidable.

 

To spare their feelings.

 

If I lie to them, then out of compassion for them.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

Loyalty is extremely rare nowadays. Dying out it seems. So we have to become like them and spin plates. It's terrible.

Very time consuming option, to do what they do. 

 

I spend very little time on the keyboard, I reckon most of my hours are spent on AN Forum's, yes how sad 😞

 

Anyway, I just haven't got the time. 

 

1 minute ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Very time consuming option, to do what they do. 

 

I spend very little time on the keyboard, I reckon most of my hours are spent on AN Forum's, yes how sad 😞

 

Anyway, I just haven't got the time. 

 

 

Yes, it takes time. You can keep it to a minimum, spend 30 minutes or so in the morning building pipeline, and then twice at midday and night. 

 

However, of course, you have to interact, when you get girls worthy of being in the pipeline. It can get a bit much.

 

Which is why I'm glad I can now focus on Phuket Girl. I still write to BKK girl and Filipina virgin, and Nakhon Phanom vrigin, but only out of risk management.

 

It does take a lot of time away from work, your'e not wrong.

20 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

 

If I lie to them, then out of compassion for them.

Exactly

 

and if to valuable the good guys always says the truth right? Do the girls or men wants the truth? 

 

Dating is a game, but also all about being smart, because the less you say, to more you make yourself interesting, and the gullible seems to be hurt all the time. Normal when not matured yet, but the older you get, you should have learned something that will make you a stronger dating partner who do not think to much, but rather know whats going on, and what to share or not. 

 

Less is more, always 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

Then why do they go on dates with me? I've had career women who had their own business come on dates. I just don't like those women.

 

That is normal, no big deal in that, going out for dinner or something is easy.

 

But a twenty five year old beauty as a girlfriend, not a chance unless there is money involved.

 

6 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Exactly

 

and if to valuable the good guys always says the truth right? Do the girls or men wants the truth? 

 

Dating is a game, but also all about being smart, because the less you say, to more you make yourself interesting, and the gullible seems to be hurt all the time. Normal when not matured yet, but the older you get, you should have learned something that will make you a stronger dating partner who do not think to much, but rather know whats going on, and what to share or not. 

 

Less is more, always 

 

Very true.

 

Like Napoleon said, "In love and war, all's fair".

 

If you think honesty is overrated though, you won't have any problems in today's dating environment.

11 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 

That is normal, no big deal in that, going out for dinner or something is easy.

 

But a twenty five year old beauty as a girlfriend, not a chance unless there is money involved.

 

 

I don't think so. I mean over and above the normal resources provision which EVERY girl will expect.

 

Young women can prefer older men. And not just in Thailand:

 

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/lifestyle/article-3463429/Couple-33-year-age-gap-share-details-sex-life-honest-YouTube-series.html

 

I'm not saying a good porion of young girls will not only want younger guys up to age 26, 35 or some such, those girls do exist.

 

However, girls who prefer older men also exist.

 

It depends on what attraction archetype the girl was imprinted with.

 

Take Phuket girl for instance, her first bf was a Thai guy who was not old but he was unattractive. So she had no problem to opt for an older Farang, who actually may have looked better than ther unattractive Thai guy. For her, "a good heart" and other characteristics were more important, age not so much, looks not so much. 

17 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Very true.

 

Like Napoleon said, "In love and war, all's fair".

 

If you think honesty is overrated though, you won't have any problems in today's dating environment.

 

Honesty is one thing, but you know what Im talking about when it comes to dating. Even you juggling or jiggling with multiple girls, and then when you find someone interesting you try her out, but for the girls, they keep looking until they get all their check boxes ticked. Nothing is real before you make a commitment, and thats just how it is. You have to prove yourself, and thats where most fails. 

 

Men have an eternity of time to find someone interesting, girls have a limited window before they get screwed, and you describes it very well in this tread. To many partner, she is screwed, to boring, she is screwed, to old she is screwed, so why do you think girls lies? It is quite simple when tinking about your attitude in this tread and your expectations. 

 

 

Just now, Hummin said:

 

Honesty is one thing, but you know what Im talking about when it comes to dating. Even you juggling or jiggling with multiple girls, and then when you find someone interesting you try her out, but for the girls, they keep looking until they get all they check boxes ticked. Nothing is real before you make a commitment, and thats just how it is. You have to prove yourself, and trats where most fails. 

 

Men have an eternity of time to find someone interesting, girls have a limited window before they get screwed, and you describes it very well in this tread. To many partner, she is screwed, to boring, she is screwed, to old she is screwed, so why do you think girls lies? It is quite simple when tinking about your attitude in this tread and your expectations. 

 

 

 

Excellent points. 

 

And of course, for a girl today to give up her options by giving you a commitment she must get an awful lot in return, because her options with social media are amazing if she's an attractive girl. I'm talking millionaires in Dubai, guys with boats in Phuket, footballers, anyone from the entire globe can offer a girl something today via social media.

 

So for a girl to give that up and have a sole commitment to one guy, she really needs to be compensated an awful lot.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

Of course you are. You're stuck in a long term rel with a menopausal 40 or 50 something, who's nearing the end of pleasant co-habitation. You wish you could go out and get a hot 24 year old like mine. But you can't because you're arthritic and stuck in Canada and in a long term rel with an aging woman.

 

I get it. It's frustrating.

 

So you not only denigrate those guys who can live the dream you can't, but also the highly attractive women we get, because you have to make yourself feel better since you're with an aging 2.

 

It's understandable.

 

 

I have no idea what you're talking about? Indian? I like Indian food...but no.

 

 

Many of us could do it, hang on I will just check....... yep, there is 1.2 million baht sitting in my Thai bank account at the moment, that is my spending money, I could buy one or two girls with that I think. 

 

I live in Phuket, there are lots of 24 year old up for grabs at the drop of a hat if the money is right as is the case with your young girls as you have stated many times.

 

My long term partner goes away for a few days each month to check on her houses she has rented out and the land where she has crops growing near Surat Thani where she is from, they are under management but she likes to keep an eye on them,  a self made woman.

 

I have been there with her a few times but small places with not much going on is boring compared to international Phuket so I give it a miss usually. 

 

I could easily nip out and buy a 24 year old during those periods, it's as easy at buying a pint of milk at 7/11.

 

When they tell me I am sexy and all the other <deleted> would I believe them at my age, erm no I am not stupid enough to do that, twenty five years ago maybe but not now, we are not good looking in the eyes of 24 year old girls.

 

A friend comes over a few times a year, he had a really good looking girl of about 26 for a month, she loved him etc, paid her a lot of money, he nipped back over to Thailand to surprise her once and found she was with another old bloke.

 

He was relieved he had found out now rather than later, now he sees things as they really are and just has a laugh with them and believes nothing they say. 

 

 

 

 

 

1 hour ago, marin said:

That is the percentage of the women you are attracted to. The type of women who make their money on their backs.  Get out of your rut and meet some women who are educated and have a good job and you would be surprised. But those types dont appeal to you because they are smart, something you are very fearful of in a woman. 

 

And you are forgetting if they are very smart and also 24 years old they would not want to go anywhere near old people like Calamari. 

11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Excellent points. 

 

And of course, for a girl today to give up her options by giving you a commitment she must get an awful lot in return, because her options with social media are amazing if she's an attractive girl. I'm talking millionaires in Dubai, guys with boats in Phuket, footballers, anyone from the entire globe can offer a girl something today via social media.

 

So for a girl to give that up and have a sole commitment to one guy, she really needs to be compensated an awful lot.

 

Smart girls is either one way or the other, but good girls gets screwed over again, and again, and they learn, or they learned from tik tok and also how to do it. 

 

Same as gullible men, they also falls in to the traps, and you see many of them starts to hate women, and also afraid of women, 

 

find someone who appreciates you for who you are, and what you do, but if you are just another foreigner who have no interests or any future prospects, you might continue to go in circles for how long? 

 

Easy to find decent women in the gyms today, and never seen so many young good looking girls at the gym before as now, and farming is popular to, so where do you want to be in 10 years, and what kind of life can you offer? 

30 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I don't think so. I mean over and above the normal resources provision which EVERY girl will expect.

 

Young women can prefer older men. And not just in Thailand:

 

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/lifestyle/article-3463429/Couple-33-year-age-gap-share-details-sex-life-honest-YouTube-series.html

 

I'm not saying a good porion of young girls will not only want younger guys up to age 26, 35 or some such, those girls do exist.

 

However, girls who prefer older men also exist.

 

It depends on what attraction archetype the girl was imprinted with.

 

Take Phuket girl for instance, her first bf was a Thai guy who was not old but he was unattractive. So she had no problem to opt for an older Farang, who actually may have looked better than ther unattractive Thai guy. For her, "a good heart" and other characteristics were more important, age not so much, looks not so much. 

 

I do not take what happens on YouTube as a reflection on real life.

 

But keep on paying for it when it comes to young women, you have obviously convinced yourself they are attracted to you, no one else believes you.

 

But keep on with the stories you come out with as it is entertaining for some of us.

 

 

11 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

I could buy one or two girls with that I think.

 

Maybe some sex workers, but not the girls that I get.

 

12 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

there are lots of 24 year old up for grabs at the drop of a hat if the money is right

 

Only sex workers. Phuket Girl is not a sex worker though.

 

12 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 a self made woman.

 

Translation: Old, menopausal and unattractive. And I wish I could get someone younger and hotter.

 

13 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

I could easily nip out and buy a 24 year old during those periods, it's as easy at buying a pint of milk at 7/11.

 

Only if you're buying a sex worker. You wouldn't be able to get with a 24 year old girl that's not a sex worker. Simply by virtue of being in a long term rel too long.

 

14 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

A friend comes over a few times a year, he had a really good looking girl of about 26 for a month, she loved him etc, paid her a lot of money, he nipped back over to Thailand to surprise her once and found she was with another old bloke.

 

That happens a lot, with girls and guys of all ages, I think you'll find.

 

11 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

And you are forgetting if they are very smart and also 24 years old they would not want to go anywhere near old people

 

You're quite wrong. A surprising number of girls in their 20s want to get with me. But hey, you live your long term rel with your self-made woman. Of course you don't want a hotter, younger woman. Clearly.

12 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

Smart girls is either one way or the other, but good girls gets screwed over again, and again, and they learn, or they learned from tik tok and also how to do it. 

 

Same as gullible men, they also falls in to the traps, and you see many of them starts to hate women, and also afraid of women, 

 

find someone who appreciates you for who you are, and what you do, but if you are just another foreigner who have no interests or any future prospects, you might continue to go in circles for how long? 

 

Easy to find decent women in the gyms today, and never seen so many young good looking girls at the gym before as now, and farming is popular to, so where do you want to be in 10 years, and what kind of life can you offer? 

 

Yes, it is partly about the lifestyle you offer. Clearly. 

 

Everybody gets screwed, who has various relationships, man or woman. And yes, they all learn from it. But for women it is worse. No one ever said "She's had a lot of experience, I respect her for having had a lot of men". Men don't want an "experienced" woman, despite protestations to the contrary on here by men who have to say that to dull their own pain at realizing they're stuck with women nearing a very old age.

8 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

But keep on paying for it when it comes to young women, you have obviously convinced yourself they are attracted to you, no one else believes you.

 

 

I'm quite certain you've paid a lot more for your "self made woman" than I ever paid to Phuket girl.

 

Lol.

 

And yah, she's attracted to me. Jealous even, who I talk to online.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Maybe some sex workers, but not the girls that I get.

 

 

Only sex workers. Phuket Girl is not a sex worker though.

 

 

Translation: Old, menopausal and unattractive. And I wish I could get someone younger and hotter.

 

 

Only if you're buying a sex worker. You wouldn't be able to get with a 24 year old girl that's not a sex worker. Simply by virtue of being in a long term rel too long.

 

 

That happens a lot, with girls and guys of all ages, I think you'll find.

 

 

You're quite wrong. A surprising number of girls in their 20s want to get with me. But hey, you live your long term rel with your self-made woman. Of course you don't want a hotter, younger woman. Clearly.

 

Erm you did say Phuket Girl would only come and visit you if you gave her money, if that is not a sex worker then that means sex workers do not exist.

 

Also you waffled on about her going to see other guys for money etc and called her a slut and the rest, would I want a girl like that, erm no thanks they are meant for people like you.

 

I could buy a hot young woman any time I like as most other guys could and as you do and then pretend she is not a sex worker.

 

I see it happening all the time, no one is convinced, the old guy is laughed at, the young woman does not care as she is used to it. 

 

You are just full of contradictions, no money involved , then money involved and multiple guys, she is a slut, she is educated, she is a liar as all women are, she then tells you she fancies you and the rest, but you just said all women are liars yet you rely on what she says as part of your evidence.

 

So funny.

 

No one is convinced but you are entertaining, keep up the good work. 👍

 

Right that is my skive time over with for the day, back to 'work' for me.

 

 

 

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, it is partly about the lifestyle you offer. Clearly. 

 

Everybody gets screwed, who has various relationships, man or woman. And yes, they all learn from it. But for women it is worse. No one ever said "She's had a lot of experience, I respect her for having had a lot of men". Men don't want an "experienced" woman, despite protestations to the contrary on here by men who have to say that to dull their own pain at realizing they're stuck with women nearing a very old age.

 

When you are together with an woman that grows older with you, there have to be more to it than just despise for wrinkles. And the menopause you constantly mention, how bad is it? I had women older than me before, and they where great sex partners, and often better than the younger ones. One of the last relationships I had in Norway was with women in their 40ies up to 50, and the only difference, was the forplay, and of course the quality of the sex and the timing as well performance. Anyway, I have been lucky to always finding women in their thirties and older more interesting out of numerous reasons, such as less complicated especially if you travelling a lot, and come and go as the time schedule requires. 

 

Menopause can also be handled with treatment, but it doesnt help much if you start despise your partner or wife. Seems menopause is more of a problem for you, than the potential partner you will one day have. 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

This is  a fact which obviously escaped you.

I've only read a tiny fraction of your 131 page tirade, but am convinced that there are no 'facts' here at all...and that's a fact!

6 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

Erm you did say Phuket Girl would only come and visit you if you gave her money, if that is not a sex worker then that means sex workers do not exist.

 

She came and I didn't give he rmoney. Apart from airfare and travel. She's not a sex worker.

 

You seem to be confused as to what a sex worker is. A sex worker is not in a committed relationship with one person alone, and shares the intimacies of life with that person over a long term. 

 

A sex worker only has a short exchange of sex for money.

 

8 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

 her going to see other guys for money

No, I said other guys gave her an allowance.

 

8 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

I could buy a hot young woman any time I like as most other guys could

 

No, you could only buy a hot sex worker. A real woman, of age 24, you would be unlikely to get in a relationship with.

 

 

On 10/27/2025 at 3:39 PM, simon43 said:

And how about you Cameroni?  No doubt you are happy to stick your tackle in as many young women as possible?

 

what's good for the goose is good for the gander....

What you mean is what's good for the gander is good for the goose!