9 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

To suggest every girl that comes from Isaan is a sex worker is highly offensive and obviously untrue.

 

If I build a house on her huge tract of land, it would o fcourse be a good deal for me, as I would not have to purchase the land. I wanted to build anyway.

 

And btw, there are some magnificent cows in Thailand, which do cost a lot of money. Obviously nobody in their right mind would raise NZ or Australian cows in Thailand, they probably wouldn't survive.

Many cattle are bought in Australia and shipped to Thailand to improve the herd.

9 hours ago, Hummin said:

 

You know you come out as an A-hole when you bashing every Isaan girl there is, but it is easy to turn it around. I have met a few who with same attitude as you, bragging about the self made lady they got, and there was a reason why they had several houses, land plots, juveniles, cars, motorbikes and businesses. It is a rough down the road for most men who trying to clean themselves. 

 

Every thai lady who search out foreigners, have a reason why so! 

 

With an Isaan lady, it is either heaven or hell, or something between, and the same goes for any woman on earth, and it is how we experience it personally that matters. No need to step on everybody else, because you think you have found gold. 

 

Merry Christmas and happy new year! 🎈 

 

Excellent post.

7 hours ago, angryguy said:

The girls on dating apps in 2025 are in an alternate reality. Im 38 and cant handle that drama. In your 50s i would think youd be searching for something wholesome

 

Indeed I was looking for a wholesome girl with integrity, loyalty and values. After a lot of drama, I think I found her now, but time will tell of course.

7 hours ago, Hummin said:

Always better to meet face to face and haven built up any expectations yet, and just see where it takes you. 

 

Meeting through friends or activities have always been my best pick up methods, or jeg meeting someone at a night club out dancing worked well to, but I never had a long term relationship to anyone I met at a night club to be honest. 

 

I did have a 12 year relationship with a 24 year old whom I met at 17 in a nightclub, and that was a mistake. 

 

The only advantage when you meet a girl face to face is that you can sometimes have feedback about her from friends, but not always. For instance with the English girl I met at a nightclub this was not the case.

 

It's probably always a long process of taking a leap of faith initialy and seeing if you bet on the right horse or not. Sometimes you win, other times you lose.

2 hours ago, emptypockets said:

Many cattle are bought in Australia and shipped to Thailand to improve the herd.

 

Ok, that makes sense. There are some serious cattle raising operations in Thailand, not just the hands-off herds one often sees.

So on what figure have you settled @Cameroni? She's not staying with you for free. You've just decided to leave that part of the negotiation out. So...how much?

19 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

So on what figure have you settled @Cameroni? She's not staying with you for free. You've just decided to leave that part of the negotiation out. So...how much?

 

She still got 1500 Baht. The other day I didn't take out cash, and she gave me 1000 in cash for at the market. I gave it back to her yesterday and she later gave it all back to me saying "No I don't want cash, I want transfer".

 

Still early days. She's mentioning she needs creams and a few things. I expect after I get paid there will be clarity on this.

 

Of course no woman will be with you for free, you have to solve her problems. I'm still waiting to see the true magnitude of her problems.

No @Cameroni Stop this silly fallacy of having to pay for women. There's not even a single girlfriend that I've ever had wherein I had to support them financially, buy their creams and make up, clothes or anything. That is not a relationship, but financial dependency. The SOLE reason why she is with you. She has no other means of support than sponsors. Your claims of her turning down 97k per month were based on a offer of US$100 for a session. That's it. It clearly was not an offer for every day. She turned it down, as a one-off it not worth her while. She wants/needs a regular income. To send to her mum for the kids and something for herself. You are simply the replacement for the Austrian. Currently you are both testing the waters to see if you can tolerate each other. But in reality it's just a business transaction. Stop this nonsense of having to pay for women. Pretty much every girl I have been with, spent more on me than I did on them. You are choosing women who are desperate. They aren't attracted to you. They simply are making do.

6 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Indeed I was looking for a wholesome girl with integrity, loyalty and values. After a lot of drama, I think I found her now, but time will tell of course.

 

Wholesome : Check.... (those lips are more wholesome than a cross-channel raft for illegal immigrants)...

Integrity : Check.... (She's honest enough to let you check her negotiation with other men)...

Loyalty : Check.... (loyal towards monetary reward - will do anything for the 'readies')...

Values : Check.... (places great values on 20,000 baht per-month)...

 

Absolute winner, I'd say !!!... 

6 hours ago, Cameroni said:

I did have a 12 year relationship with a 24 year old whom I met at 17 in a nightclub, and that was a mistake. 

 

The only advantage when you meet a girl face to face is that you can sometimes have feedback about her from friends, but not always. For instance with the English girl I met at a nightclub this was not the case.

 

It's probably always a long process of taking a leap of faith initialy and seeing if you bet on the right horse or not. Sometimes you win, other times you lose.

 

A closer reality is that they get feedback about you. Which likely explains why you’re so convinced you must always pay - because without money, you’re out of the game....

 

You think you’ve backed the right horse and somehow “won by a nose”.... More accurately, you’ve won by a lip.

 

Just be mindful of atmospheric pressure. Ascend slowly if you ever go scuba diving, and exercise extreme caution on flights - sudden decompression could turn that margin of victory into a full-blown incident.

1 minute ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

A closer reality is that they get feedback about you. Which likely explains why you’re so convinced you must always pay - because without money, you’re out of the game....

 

You think you’ve backed the right horse and somehow “won by a nose”.... More accurately, you’ve won by a lip.

 

Just be mindful of atmospheric pressure. Ascend slowly if you ever go scuba diving, and exercise extreme caution on flights - sudden decompression could turn that margin of victory into a full-blown incident.

You seem very interested in Cameroni's adventures.

And very bitter.

I wonder how much the Thai girl took you for.

6 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

She still got 1500 Baht. The other day I didn't take out cash, and she gave me 1000 in cash for at the market. I gave it back to her yesterday and she later gave it all back to me saying "No I don't want cash, I want transfer".

 

Still early days. She's mentioning she needs creams and a few things. I expect after I get paid there will be clarity on this.

 

Of course no woman will be with you for free, you have to solve her problems. I'm still waiting to see the true magnitude of her problems.

 

The true magnitude of her 'problems' will be 20,000 baht on the nose !!! (or rather on the smackers !!)..

... she's already told you that from the offset... 

 

As far as your problems thats whole other ball game and far more entertainment for us to come.......   

.... the amusement is sure to continue...   There's definitely a sick-buffalo, an unwell mother on the horizon, discovery of a brother or cousin who hangs around in the background, and the and kids who strangely call auntie"mâe" instead of "náa"...   oh, throw in a stolen motorcycle too (that she has to continue paying off for some reason)...

\

... Then on a trip away... lost phone !!! - can't contact you... You'll of course send her money to buy a new phone so you can contact each other !!!

5 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

You seem very interested in Cameroni's adventures.

And very bitter.

I wonder how much the Thai girl took you for.

 

Au contraire - I’m highly entertained by the sheer naivety and gullibility on display.

 

I started out sympathetic, offering measured advice. He argued against it, then escalated into accusing all women of being “the equivalent of prostitutes”, among other gems that did little to paint him as a paragon of moral balance.

 

I don’t enjoy kicking a man when he’s down - but he isn’t down. He’s scrambling around blind, loudly claiming superiority while parading a hooker as the moral and social equal of everyone else’s respectable wives.

 

That’s the point at which any sympathy evaporated and the sardonic humour surfaced. And if I’m being honest, I’ve rather enjoyed it.

 

I hardly watch television, so this will do nicely - AN own's version of Love Island...  or rather, ThaiFriendlyFailures... 

 

 

 

 

8 hours ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

There's not even a single girlfriend that I've ever had wherein I had to support them financially

 

Yes, and also when you buy Christmas presents at Walmart they gave them to you for free. Because you're very likeable.

 

8 hours ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

The SOLE reason why she is with you.

 

No, I'm also dynamite in the bedroom.

 

8 hours ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

She has no other means of support than sponsors. Your claims of her turning down 97k per month were based on a offer of US$100 for a session. That's it. It clearly was not an offer for every day.

 

No, the old guy wanted her for 30 days and agreed to 3250. She never accepted his offer, as she's not freelance.

 

Incidentally, since you're interested, I ended up agreeing give her 5000 Baht so she can send money to her mother, and to buy her creams. which I suspect will be 1000 baht. So she'll have got a grand total of 7500 baht.

 

Which means I got a discount on account of my outstanding sexual performance.

2 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

Au contraire - I’m highly entertained by the sheer naivety and gullibility on display.

 

I started out sympathetic, offering measured advice. He argued against it, then escalated into accusing all women of being “the equivalent of prostitutes”, among other gems that did little to paint him as a paragon of moral balance.

 

I don’t enjoy kicking a man when he’s down - but he isn’t down. He’s scrambling around blind, loudly claiming superiority while parading a hooker as the moral and social equal of everyone else’s respectable wives.

 

That’s the point at which any sympathy evaporated and the sardonic humour surfaced. And if I’m being honest, I’ve rather enjoyed it.

 

I hardly watch television, so this will do nicely - AN own's version of Love Island...  or rather, ThaiFriendlyFailures... 

 

 

 

 

So she you took you for a lot.

And you now feel it is important to share your experiences with everyone else.

No worries, it happens to a lot of suckers. Seems to be the 50 plus contingent from the UK with little real life experiences.

 

2 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

while parading a hooker as the moral and social equal of everyone else’s respectable wives.

 

I have to take issue with this Richard, as I think Phuket Girl is significantly more attractive than you wife, and most likely a lot better in bed. I would never dream of saying she's the equal of your wife in anything, thankfully.

 

Furthermore she's neither a hooker nor a freelancer, kindly stop accusing women of your fantasy prostitution.

Personal insults were removed. @Celsius and @richard_smith237 please be polite when you talk to people, or about people. Thank you. 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

Furthermore she's neither a hooker nor a freelancer, kindly stop accusing women of your fantasy prostitution.

 

 

Of course not. She is just a bee hopping from flower to flower, tasting to see which one yields the most honey.

3 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Incidentally, since you're interested, I ended up agreeing give her 5000 Baht so she can send money to her mother, and to buy her creams.

 

It's been a week and you are already getting creamed....

 

"Everyone pays for it" 🤣 😂 

 

2 hours ago, Celsius said:

 

 

Of course not. She is just a bee hopping from flower to flower, tasting to see which one yields the most honey.

Reminds me of a line from The King and I. King Mongkut  (Yul Brenner) to Anna Leonowens (Deborah Kerr) ...

Because it is natural. It is like old Siamese saying. A girl is like a blossom, with honey for just one man. A man is like a honey bee and gather all he can. To fly from blossom to blossom a honey bee must be free. But blossom must not ever fly from bee to bee to bee.

36 minutes ago, chickenslegs said:

Reminds me of a line from The King and I. King Mongkut  (Yul Brenner) to Anna Leonowens (Deborah Kerr) ...

Because it is natural. It is like old Siamese saying. A girl is like a blossom, with honey for just one man. A man is like a honey bee and gather all he can. To fly from blossom to blossom a honey bee must be free. But blossom must not ever fly from bee to bee to bee.

You forget an important thing, women is all about making babies with the strongest and best genes, while finding a good care taker for her children. Most men do not have the best genes for survival and good care takers from nature. Both have important skills, but not easy to combine. Today, the western world is a bit different, and Thailand seems a bit different from other cultures with a bit more challenging climates. 

 

Not only men who from nature side was intended to fly from flower to flower! There is a reason why cuckolding is a thing from nature side, since societies where dependent on strong men for protection and hunting. 

@Cameroni There are no Walmart stores in my home country. Again, it seems that you merely describe commercial transactions. You state that Phuket Girl is not freelance, but failed to explain on what basis her encounters, when she admitted to having sex with other men on Phuket. Were they freebies?

You really appeared to be describing a woman who had sex for money. Now, you seem to be attempting a bit of a whitewash. That's why no one here is taking you seriously. It's obvious that the girl is in a bit of a fix. The Austrian has washed his hands of her. To her it seems, a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. Your ego doesn't want to accept that, so you are doing your best to pretend that it's a real relationship. Perhaps it is. two people who thoroughly deserve each other 

 

22 hours ago, Cameroni said:

I did have a 12 year relationship with a 24 year old whom I met at 17 in a nightclub, and that was a mistake. 

I don't quite understand your timeline. You met her when she was 17, or did you mean 5 o'çlock? 

Then you had 12 years with her, bringing her up to 29. where does the 24 come into it please?

Much like the OP, I always had/have a pipeline. But i have not ever paid a girl a salary. Not Thai. Not foreign. Not ever.

These guys all have theories that they read somewhere that they think fits with the way they want to see themselves. But the reality is that if they stop paying, 'their' women will be out of there.

23 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

Much like the OP, I always had/have a pipeline. But i have not ever paid a girl a salary. Not Thai. Not foreign. Not ever.

 

You're unlikely to change his mind. Deep down, he knows he can't offer anything more compelling than just paying up and he fully buys into whatever stories these women feed him.

 

I find it somewhat offensive that it is permitted to say "everyone pays for it," as that phrase directly insults numerous hardworking Thai women who have never asked for even a single baht from their partners. 

 

This is actually the only issue I have with this clown.

47 minutes ago, Celsius said:

You're unlikely to change his mind. Deep down, he knows he can't offer anything more compelling than just paying up and he fully buys into whatever stories these women feed him.

I'm happy to pay for women, I'm not broke, and have little else on which  to spend my money.

19 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I'm happy to pay for women, I'm not broke, and have little else on which  to spend my money.

 

You are literally broke. You are paying Arab and Indian rates in Thailand. 

4 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

You are literally broke. You are paying Arab and Indian rates in Thailand. 

I'm not so broke I need to send my woman out to work in a Canadian care home, changing other old guys adult nappies.

Someone tell me how to block a thread. This one is ridiculously long.