1 minute ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

But if I recall it wasn't that she caught you secretly contacting the woman as such as you had actually given her access so she knows that you knew she might see it - so it is a bit bad but that is not sufficient for her to have a free pass or hall pass, if you will, to do what she likes for 6 weeks.

No she did catch me. I didn't give her access. She saw me typing my code in the phone, and then when she was alone she checked my phone. So it's pretty bad. Like finding your gf texting her ex every day.

2 minutes ago, Fat is a type of crazy said:

it won't be the same even if she comes back tomorrow

My concern would be that she can't get passed that, and would always hold that against me. Very hard to not keep thinking of a betrayal like that. It takes just one drop of ink to ruin a pristine glass of water. She could always refer to that incident in our later relationship. And use it to get her way.

7 hours ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

Cameroni is insisting that it's a Duck billed platypus. To be fair, in the picture he posted, she does look like one. So he might be on to something there.

😆

I have not seen the picture in the almost 200 pages of replies so far, the claim so far is she is good looking ?

If he is having us on about all of this then he is good at it, if not then he is extremely naive and in for many shocks to come.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

No she did catch me. I didn't give her access. She saw me typing my code in the phone, and then when she was alone she checked my phone. So it's pretty bad. Like finding your gf texting her ex every day.

My concern would be that she can't get passed that, and would always hold that against me. Very hard to not keep thinking of a betrayal like that. It takes just one drop of ink to ruin a pristine glass of water. She could always refer to that incident in our later relationship. And use it to get her way.

It's *past, Mr Highly Educated Lawyer 😊

11 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

Let's call a spade a spade...if he were a decent sort, he wouldn't be seeking out cheap sl*ts women via the Internet in the first place.

Does he imagine that her finding that he was chatting to another woman forced her into 'cafe' work?

Twenty four year old girl with extensive plastic surgery and who admitted that her favourite things were "sex and money"... Hmmm...let me think about it. 🚮

Yes, good comment, it is all so blatantly obvious.

But his ego will not let him see the truth.

I have come across many guys like him, an old bloke with a young woman on his arm, wearing so much gold they look like Christmas trees, the guy with an expression on his face saying look what I have pulled.

They seem to forget any one of us older blokes could do exactly the same if we wanted to.

10 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

😆

I have not seen the picture in the almost 200 pages of replies so far, the claim so far is she is good looking ?

If he is having us on about all of this then he is good at it, if not then he is extremely naive and in for many shocks to come.

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On 1/13/2026 at 2:26 PM, Cameroni said:

That looks to be increasingly the case. Though she still texts every day and yesterday wanted me to go to Phuket with her, her texting is almost non existent, no calls, not acceeding to what I ask such as location shares.

If she can send a text then she can also send a text with a map of where she is which you can open and see on your smart phone, why are you not asking yourself the question of why you are getting texts but not one with a map, it is became she does not want you to know where she is and at the same time dangling you on a hook.

12 minutes ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

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I personally can not tell if the lips are natural from the picture but she looks more like 34 than 24.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

What are you talking about, she did nothing wrong. I was the one who acted wrong.

So get on a plane and go and see her tomorrow, you can still see her on a daily basis after work if that really is the case.

How does she know her heart will not be still be 'broken' after a certain date in February, does that not raise a suspicion, that is probably the date her current punter goes back home leaving her free.

Right I had better get back to 'work', I have had an extended skive on this blog today, but it is a bit of a laugh.

15 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

So get on a plane and go and see her tomorrow, you can still see her on a daily basis after work if that really is the case.

Two problems with this: 1) I do not what cafe she works at 2) I have only an approximate address from her.

I really need her to send a Google maps location share to be sure where she is, so I can go there and find her.

45 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

If she can send a text then she can also send a text with a map of where she is which you can open and see on your smart phone, why are you not asking yourself the question of why you are getting texts but not one with a map, it is became she does not want you to know where she is and at the same time dangling you on a hook.

Yes, it could be that. Or it could be that she's really angry with me and doesn't want to do anything for me.

1 hour ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

I personally can not tell if the lips are natural from the picture but she looks more like 34 than 24.

They aren't natural. But why would a twenty four year old do that to herself? She's selling herself on her perceived looks. Cammy is buying. They just cannot agree on a price. She knows that she can make much more working in a 'cafe' in 'Chonburi, 'that Cammy Boy is going to give her. When he's close to revealing her secret, she throws a 'guilt trip' on him about being upset, so he doesn't go there. But he can see her again, after she's finished her business.

He's not THAT stupid. He understands this. But he's needs to create enough 'plausible deniability' so as to create the illusion that he is not waiting for his turn with a prostitute working girl.

Even if he coughs up enough to get her to give it up...he knows.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

Yes, it could be that. Or it could be that she's really angry and doesn't want to do anything for me.

For the sake of 10,000 baht, jump on a plane and go to Chonburi/Pattaya, book into a cheap hotel for a couple of nights and put the feelers out.

Alternatively login to Thai Friendly'or Thai Cupid or Badoo and have a look around.

Stop stressing and go, you might find a diamond in the rough just cruising around.

1 hour ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

She knows that she can make much more working in a 'cafe' in 'Chonburi, 'that Cammy Boy is going to give her.

In fact hardly any guy can provide as much or more cash than a string of customers. It only works if the girl wants out and wants to settle down. Allowances like 25k thb per month sound good considering average salaries, even in compare to good jobs after an university degree. Surely enough to take care of a whole family in rural Isaan. But an attractive, successful and clever girl in her prime can make almost tenfold that in the business. I remember a well-off friend of mine, totally in love with a Bangkok Agogo girl. He offered her crazy 50k thb per month to move in and become his faithful trophy gf. He was in his late 30ies and a rather good looking chap. She 19 and a true stunner.

She declined. Her friends told me back then that she actually liked him but she could make much more money with all her STs, LTs plus multiple boyfriends sending money regularly. They talked about up to 200k per month. I was speachless - that was more than I made at the time. Well, this was about 25 years ago without all the social media and dating apps. Should be even easier now for busybodies to juggle things and make this kind of money.

On 1/12/2026 at 2:51 PM, JamesPhuket10 said:

I have never heard a woman say that before re men and dogs,

That's because you don't speak Thai.

Somehow I was thinking of you Cam watching this :D

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1520101989287680/?fs=e&fs=e

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Two problems with this: 1) I do not what cafe she works at 2) I have only an approximate address from her.

I really need her to send a Google maps location share to be sure where she is, so I can go there and find her.

If she gives an approximate, go to Google Earth and visit there virtually.😄

47 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

For the sake of 10,000 baht, jump on a plane and go to Chonburi/Pattaya, book into a cheap hotel for a couple of nights and put the feelers out.

Yes, I have to go to Chonburi City and do a Sleepless in Seattle style search for her.

It could go two ways, either she thinks I'm a stalker and withdraws even more, or she thinks it proves I really care for her.

But not much else can be done.

Just now, CharlieH said:

If she gives an approximate, go to Google Earth and visit there virtually.😄

The thing is she gave me the mangled row of words that don't quite fit a condo or hotel, but approximately sound like two condos. However, I do have a street, which again is approximate on google maps, not exact. Usual Thai transcription issues I guess. She wrote it in Thai.

34 minutes ago, mangkut70 said:

In fact hardly any guy can provide as much or more cash than a string of customers. It only works if the girl wants out and wants to settle down. Allowances like 25k thb per month sound good considering average salaries, even in compare to good jobs after an university degree. Surely enough to take care of a whole family in rural Isaan. But an attractive, successful and clever girl in her prime can make almost tenfold that in the business. I remember a well-off friend of mine, totally in love with a Bangkok Agogo girl. He offered her crazy 50k thb per month to move in and become his faithful trophy gf. He was in his late 30ies and a rather good looking chap. She 19 and a true stunner.

She declined. Her friends told me back then that she actually liked him but she could make much more money with all her STs, LTs plus multiple boyfriends sending money regularly. They talked about up to 200k per month. I was speachless - that was more than I made at the time. Well, this was about 25 years ago without all the social media and dating apps. Should be even easier now for busybodies to juggle things and make this kind of money.

I spent a few sessions with a girl from a bar in soi Nana a few years ago. 40 years old and not bad looking.

.

She told me she wanted 40 K a month as well as a HIV test to do anything serious. I gracefully declined.

Went back to the bar a couple of weeks later, there she was with an older farang, you know the picture, bald not in the best of shape, she had her two daughters with her and all good. Saw her wedding photos on line.

Good for her and my best wishes, she was a lovely lady from Khon Kaen.

5 hours ago, Cameroni said:

More likely she's still angry looking at the photos she took of my convos with the ex. Hence no calls, no location share etc. Doesn't mean she's "up to something" at all.

She has sent you many texts you say and messages, just enough to keep you on the hook.

She could in fact go to another part of the town she is staying at and send you the map link to that place without giving away her actual location so you can not just turn up.

She is willing to tell you where she is but will not send a map link as proof.

4 hours ago, FrankieGoesToHolly said:

They aren't natural. But why would a twenty four year old do that to herself? She's selling herself on her perceived looks. Cammy is buying. They just cannot agree on a price. She knows that she can make much more working in a 'cafe' in 'Chonburi, 'that Cammy Boy is going to give her. When he's close to revealing her secret, she throws a 'guilt trip' on him about being upset, so he doesn't go there. But he can see her again, after she's finished her business.

He's not THAT stupid. He understands this. But he's needs to create enough 'plausible deniability' so as to create the illusion that he is not waiting for his turn with a prostitute working girl.

Even if he coughs up enough to get her to give it up...he knows.

I agree, no one can be that dim, it is pure denial on his part.

I think his very first message about her which was almost 100 years ago (😁) he was calling her a slut or something similar, had to pay money to get her to see him etc, now she is just a sad upset little girls working in a 'cafe' somewhere in the world.

6 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

I agree, no one can be that dim, it is pure denial on his part.

I think his very first message about her which was almost 100 years ago (😁) he was calling her a slut or something similar, had to pay money to get her to see him etc, now she is just a sad upset little girls working in a 'cafe' somewhere in the world.

No!!! It's true love!(

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

That's because you don't speak Thai.

I speak enough Thai to understand if a woman was calling a guy a dog, I don't speak Isaan though.

I know an Australian who owned a bar (dead at 49 with a heart attack due to getting pished up every night for years) his Thai wife owned it and ran it but he paid for it.

He went to a language school to learn Thai as that is what he based his visa on, he said after a few years his Thai was good but it was a waste of time in his bar as he Issan wife and the bar girls all spoke Isaan to each other, I did laugh.

2 hours ago, emptypockets said:

I spent a few sessions with a girl from a bar in soi Nana a few years ago. 40 years old and not bad looking.

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She told me she wanted 40 K a month as well as a HIV test to do anything serious. I gracefully declined.

Went back to the bar a couple of weeks later, there she was with an older farang, you know the picture, bald not in the best of shape, she had her two daughters with her and all good. Saw her wedding photos on line.

Good for her and my best wishes, she was a lovely lady from Khon Kaen.

Yep, the older the farang the better, that way when he pops his clogs she will have his state pension, private pension and his assets.

9 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

No!!! It's true love!(

It really is.

It's funny you know. I've been in love with 8 women in life. If you'd told me a few years ago, the one i'd be thinking of today is a girl from Sisaket,...I would have said you're crazy.

But there's always a new better woman, that comes along. Life is a wonderful ride.

23 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

She has sent you many texts you say and messages, just enough to keep you on the hook.

She texted me just know. She's a real waitress now, taking orders and serving food. She's tired as hell.

Poor girl.

See, it's not over. She's still texting.

2 hours ago, Cameroni said:

The thing is she gave me the mangled row of words that don't quite fit a condo or hotel, but approximately sound like two condos. However, I do have a street, which again is approximate on google maps, not exact. Usual Thai transcription issues I guess. She wrote it in Thai.

So just forget it for now, do not play her game, go silent re creating text messages but reply to hers, wait until whatever date in February to happen and see what happens then, now you can out on the town and get pissed up.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

It really is.

It's funny you know. I've been in love with 8 women in life. If you'd told me a few years ago, the one i'd be thinking of today is a girl from Sisaket,...I would have said you're crazy.

But there's always a new better woman, that comes along. Life is a wonderful ride.

If this woman is better than the rest it does not say much for the rest.

Right that was my last comment of the day now, 'work' finished, time to go out for a few beers and a laugh.

3 minutes ago, JamesPhuket10 said:

go silent re creating text messages but reply to hers

That's what I always do anyway.

So you don't think I should go to Chonburi to go to see her?

23 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

She texted me just know. She's a real waitress now, taking orders and serving food. She's tired as hell.

Poor girl.

See, it's not over. She's still texting.

Did she provide a picture to proof she is working as waitress? Ask her again where exactly she works. Tell her, you are really hungry and want to eat (at) her (place). That you want to come over and give her a huge tip. 💸 💰 💰 Worth the try 🤞 Mentioning of money you are willing to pay her should at least prompt a reaction 😁