2 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

That's what she told you. She may also work in the bars. 

"Does nothing" is another red flag.

 

 

I considered that as well. Particularly, as she always disappears from 10 to 2 am. She may well be a bar girl as well, which would be the end of it. But none of her social media indicates that.

 

 

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I'm still tempted of course. She's just that hot.

 

But I really doubt if she's worth it. Also her English is virtually non-existent. This coupled with her carousel agenda makes her now a rather lower  target on my scale. After all I am now dating a beautiful local girl, and the supermodel from Samut Prakan could come in a few days too. It's not like I'm desperate to jump on anyone. I was just trying to give another attractive race horse a chance, but I am quite taken aback by her atittude now.

Can I fly down and claim to be you?

Just now, Prubangboy said:

Can I fly down and claim to be you?

 

She's seen me on video call, so you'd need a very talented plastic surgeon.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I considered that as well. Particularly, as she always disappears from 10 to 2 am. She may well be a bar girl as well, which would be the end of it. But none of her social media indicates that.

 

 

Have you ever seduced a super good girl and then very masterly introduced her to filth?

 

If not, get on that plane and tell yourself a story.

11 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

I considered that as well. Particularly, as she always disappears from 10 to 2 am. She may well be a bar girl as well, which would be the end of it. But none of her social media indicates that.

 

 

 

well, she probably is. or maybe she likes partying. 

 

but you remind me of those girls are only into the "bad boy" type, but in reverse.

these types of girls are the worst ones to be in relationships with.

 

maybe head down to pattaya and sleep with a bunch of bad girls in the bars to get it out of your system and then look for a "good girl" to settle down with. 

 

 

It's all making sense now. She disappeared for so long in between texts. Much longer than any other girl. Clearly she's writing to a whole gaggle of guys and will just pick rationally which one gives her the best deal in terms of "fun".

 

I get it now. I wondered why she's not more invested and taking such long breaks in between texts. Now it all makes sense. She's not even look for any serious relationship. She's a fun seeker, running tests on various guys.

1 minute ago, Prubangboy said:

Have you ever seduced a super good girl and then very masterly introduced her to filth?

 

If not, get on that plane and tell yourself a story.

 

I have. But she's not a good girl! She's the opposite. 

 

She's already told me "no anal", guess why, because she's done anal with other guys and didn't like it.

 

The more I think about her, the less attractive she gets.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

Have women no shame anymore at all? I mean it's one thing to say you want to fornicate with a carousel of guys just for the fun of it. But it's quite another tell each of those guys that's what you will actually do!

 

Lol.

 

I mean, they just don't care anymore. There's so many thirsty guys, they are sure if one says no, there's 20 others willing to pay for her trip. It's astounding, it really is.

shame on the guys who ride the carousel LOL

 

at least she is honest about it.

3 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

well, she probably is. or maybe she likes partying. 

 

but you remind me of those girls are only into the "bad boy" type, but in reverse.

these types of girls are the worst ones to be in relationships with.

 

maybe head down to pattaya and sleep with a bunch of bad girls in the bars to get it out of your system and then look for a "good girl" to settle down with. 

 

 

 

I slept with the bad girls, and it's not out of my system, sadly. Don't know why it doesn't work for me. I just like attractive girls. I thought everyone does?

 

She definitely likes partying, no doubt about that. Not sure if she's a bar girl though.

1 minute ago, stupidfarang said:

shame on the guys who ride the carousel LOL

 

at least she is honest about it.

 

You're making a false equivalency between males and females that does not exist in real life. If you think it's the same for a guy, you're delusional.

Frog-person got it right: She wants a different kind of man to hand over that ass to. Different is sort of diplomat-speak.

 

And then there's the part where you keep speculating about her with other men.

 

It could be a slippery slope into cuckoldry and findom. Please, turn away from the darkness.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

She doesn't know that, she thinks I'm 43. I look that good.

she was honest and you lied? That sums it up lol

 

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

 

 

She's already told me "no anal"

 

 

Artificial scarcity.

 

Marketing 101.

Just now, Prubangboy said:

Frog-person got it right: She wants a different kind of man to hand over that ass to. Different is sort of diplomat-speak.

 

And then there's the part where you keep speculating about her with other men.

 

It could be a slippery slope into cuckoldry and findom. Please, turn away from the darkness.

 

Yes, her strict rule of "no anal" was an immediate red flag to me as well.

 

I saw her Insta, she has heavily tatooed steroid guys in there, perhaps I'm not her type, it's hard to believe, but it does happen on occasion.

 

Well, exactly, nobody wants a gal that messes with other guys, that would be insane.

2 minutes ago, stupidfarang said:

she was honest and you lied? That sums it up lol

 

 

No way she didn't lie. She almost certainly lied about the number of boyfriends, claiming only 7, and she could be lying about not being a bar girl. Claims her sister gives her 200 baht.

 

 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

It put me right off, I have to say. I mean what does she think, I will bankroll her trip to CM, pull out all the stops so she has "fun", and then just say Ok, when she wants to move on to sit on the Johnson of another guy?

 

I mean what are these girls thinking? Seriously?

What's with you, carousels and Johnsons? Tough childhood?

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

I don't even know this girl, I've never met her. I just know from her Instagram photos and what she sent me, and a few video calls, that she's incredibly hot and attractive. So I was willing to pay the 10000 to 15000 to fly down to Phuket and then bring her to CM for two weeks to "sound her out", to see what character she had.

 

But this seems redundant now, because she's told me to my face that her sole intention is to go on a carousel of penises, and there is zero chance she will be tied down, as she wants her freedom to do what she wants, ie have sex with as many guys as possible.

 

Whilst I commend her honesty, and clearly her honesty level is very high, the substance of what she wants to do, and her shameless in announcing this openly, surely disqualify her as any kind of long term prospect?

 

I certainly don't intend to pay 140000 baht to bring her to CM, then another 10000 to have "fun" and then have her turn around and jump on some other guy's Johnson.

 

I mean that would literally be insane.

You have never met her...yet........................she told you to your face. 

A few misunderstandings here.

Sounds a bit like Andrew Windsor talking.

This bird sounds like the crazy kitchen knife type OP... sure she's hot, I believe you, but so are thousands of others out there too. Better to rent than buy on this one and generally apply the 3-day rule. So many of these hot women are, as you eliquently put it, "riding the carousel"... bet she's scamming a bunch of deluded guys.

The fact that she just tossed that in your face, and assuming that other meaning of being "tied down" doesn't apply if you are refering to being kinky (ha ha)... then that's massive red flag. Say "fine, up to you" as you might just have dodged a 50 cal BMG bullet on this one. So many young Thai women on the scam these days in the touristy places... need to careful man. She sounds like trouble.

54 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

What are you talking about, that's exactly what she said, not in so many words, but she's basically saying she wants to retain her freedom to fornicate with as many men as possible!

 

So she should enjoy life to its fullest by jumping on a carousel of penises? She wont' regret that when she looks back on it in 25 years and realizes she was a cheap nasty slut? Maybe your moral compass is a bit off too.

Nah, she'll snag someone with real money eventually and enjoy herself sorting the wheat from the chaff.

Face it, she's just not into you, regardless of your self described Adonis like good looks.

55 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

That's just it! She's not a prostitute. She said her sister is a bar girl but she doesn't want to do that and can't bear to see her sister with men. 

 

Why is she on a dating site, if it's not for a serious relationship? What has the world come to? Now we don't just have to weed out the bona fide whores, but also girls who made it their mission to jump on a carousel of penises? Who wants to deal with women like that?

Me. Send me her username.

1 minute ago, Sir Dude said:

This bird sounds like the crazy kitchen knife type OP... sure she's hot, I believe you, but so are thousands of others out there too. Better to rent than buy on this one and generally apply the 3-day rule. So many of these hot women are, as you eliquently put it, "riding the carousel"... bet she's scamming a buch of deluded guys.

The fact that she just tossed that in your face, and assuming that other meaning of being "tied down" doesn't apply if you are refering to being kinky (ha ha)... then that's massive red flag. Say "fine, up to you" as you might just have dodged a 50 cal BMG bullet on this one. So many young Thai women on the scam these days in the touristy places... need to careful man. She sounds like trouble.

 

She does sound like trouble, which is why I liked her, but it does seem like the trouble maybe weighing heavier than the payoff, for me I mean, which is the issue here.

 

That and her insistence I come to Phuket, which is a massive headache, and for what? If she just wants to come for a week or two for fun? I mean sure, the sex could be great, but I had great sex, I'm not that desperate for it. I was kind of hoping she was an intelligent, honest and attractive girl. She is all that. But sadly she's also a bit of a promiscuous serial dater. So that's a problem.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

So I'm writing for over 2 months now with this Thai girl, 25 years old, extremely attractive. First she agreed to come stay with me in CM, now she demands I go to Phuket for the weekend and says then she will join me in CM. But guess what she just told me? Just to be clear, she does not want to be "tied down", she only wants to have fun and is not ready to be tied down with anyone. "I am afraid to lose my freedom" (freedom to fornicate at will I suspect).

 

This is the first time a Thai girl has literally told me to my face "I want to ride the carousel, yes I'll come have fun with you, but don't have any hopes that I'll stay with you, because I intend to just have fun and ride the carousel until I'm ready to be tied down".

 

I mean I was well aware that girls do this, ride the carousel just to have fun, but to be so shameless about it and tell you to your face, that kind of took my breath away. Has anyone else had a Thai girl be this completely shameless?

Just pay her less.

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

Me. Send me her username.

 

I can't, she's so honest, she used her real name, the crazy trout.

1 minute ago, brewsterbudgen said:

Just pay her less.

 

Yes, that's what I'm leaning into as well, I think I'll tell her "look, I was going to come, when I thought you could be a serious long term prospect, but now you say you just want to have short term fun, I think my best offer is I'll pay you a plane ticket to come here, but I'm not going to Phuket".

 

She'll probably say "no", but I don't see myself self blowing 15-000 or 25000 on her, for some short term "fun". I'm not a cheap hooker. I love you long time.

17 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I have. But she's not a good girl! She's the opposite. 

 

She's already told me "no anal", guess why, because she's done anal with other guys and didn't like it.

 

The more I think about her, the less attractive she gets.

You are getting into Georgegeorgia level of fantasy now.

Not every TG is the need a man type anymore. They are getting smarter and more independant. If that's not what you want, just move on.

she was upfront and honest

14 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, her strict rule of "no anal" was an immediate red flag to me as well.

 

I saw her Insta, she has heavily tatooed steroid guys in there, perhaps I'm not her type, it's hard to believe, but it does happen on occasion.

 

Well, exactly, nobody wants a gal that messes with other guys, that would be insane.

You really ask women if they want anal sex by text.

You are one sick puppy.

Just now, Trippy said:

Not every TG is the need a man type anymore. They are getting smarter and more independant. If that's not what you want, just move on.

 

Ain't that the truth. It's sad, but that is indeed what is happening. They're outgaming us.

 

I probably will have to move on from her. This sorry incident just illustrates one more time how important it is to run a full stable of girls, I'm lucky I have several options on the go, so that will help me over this. But imagine, I spent 2 months wasting time with her, and only now she disclose what a slut she  is. If I'd put all my eggs in her basket, what a sorry time I would have now. Luckily me eggs are all over the place.

2 minutes ago, emptypockets said:

You really ask women if they want anal sex by text.

You are one sick puppy.

 

Of course not, I never ask, I just assume she will do it, so when we engage in dirty sex talk I raise that her ass will get some attention. This prompted this girl to make a big fuss out of "no anal" and how that is an iron rule for her. Obivously because she's done anal with other guys and doesn't like it.

 

So she told me she's done a porno with her Thai ex and wants to sell that to me for 5000 baht, and how she  plans to ride the carousel of penises, but I'm the "sick puppy". Talk about double standards.