In this odd social cohort , based  girls are always victims or victimizers.

I just see them as sex workers, instead of sneaker factory workers. Not a lot of great Incomeopportunities here For low income, low education women Between those two poles

 

10 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

I immediately donated money to the charity !!!!!! 

I’m sure this donation will be well spent.

4 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

In this odd social cohort , based  girls are always victims or victimizers.

I just see them as sex workers, instead of sneaker factory workers. Not a lot of great Incomeopportunities here For low income, low education women Between those two poles

 

Either way, they have to bend over one way or the other. Education and family is power in low income countries. Even poor families manage one or more of their kids to complete higher education, or manage to get a proper position.

 

But some is not suited for A4 life, most isn't, but many suck it up, and do what is expected of them

Y'all want to see old men with ladies young enough to be their granddaughters, go to FKK Sharks in Darmstadt, Germany on  Wednesday when there is reduced admission. 

4 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Yes, the Soi 6 girls are a bit plump these days, they are living the dream.

Elderly foreigners have lots of money, these girls receive this money and live the high life, otherwise they'd be living in the village giving it for free to Somchai

Who is exploiting who?  It’s more of a symbolic relationship, but if they had better opportunities the women would choose a different path.

13 hours ago, Hummin said:

You have to separate between fantasies and real life. Even you fantasy about something, doesn't mean you will do it in real life. 

 

 

 

How many women have fantasized about being paid for sex by strange men? 

Since we don't have data, let's make up a number. 15% ? 

And maybe 0.5% act on it? 

 

I tried to explain in a previous post that one girl quit her job because it was "boring".

She's not forced to be there. She's looking for adventure.

And some of these girls go through a cyclical phase.

Once she gets it out of her system, if you meet her in one year, she will give you a sob story about how she's trapped there and needs help. 

 

2 grand

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26 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

How many women have fantasized about being paid for sex by strange men? 

Since we don't have data, let's make up a number. 15% ? 

And maybe 0.5% act on it? 

 

I tried to explain in a previous post that one girl quit her job because it was "boring".

She's not forced to be there. She's looking for adventure.

And some of these girls go through a cyclical phase.

Once she gets it out of her system, if you meet her in one year, she will give you a sob story about how she's trapped there and needs help. 

 

 

Let's say 90% of the women comes from dysfunctional homes, and how many of them do you think in the western world would been labeled with a mental health issue of they where screened for a diagnosis?

 

Still normal girls do have dirty fantasies they never live out in real life. Fantasies Normal couples role play when getting bored with in and out.

 

Can start reading here

https://www.healthyplace.com/sex/psychology-of-sex/womens-top-ten-sexual-fantasies

 

 

19 minutes ago, Hummin said:

 

Let's say 90% of the women comes from dysfunctional homes, and how many of them do you think in the western world would been labeled with a mental health issue of they where screened for a diagnosis?

 

Still normal girls do have dirty fantasies they never live out in real life. Fantasies Normal couples role play when getting bored with in and out.

 

Can start reading here

https://www.healthyplace.com/sex/psychology-of-sex/womens-top-ten-sexual-fantasies

 

Money is #1 here.

 

Western women have crazy high body counts too, but they do it for fun.

 

In Thailand, fun ain't free, as they say and there's no shame in commercial sex here, just like paying a dowry to buy a bride. 

 

It is a cultural thing. 

2 minutes ago, FruitPudding said:

 

Money is #1 here.

 

Western women have crazy high body counts too, but they do it for fun.

 

In Thailand, fun ain't free, as they say and there's no shame in commercial sex here, just like paying a dowry to buy a bride. 

 

It is a cultural thing. 

Depends if you look at it from the bar stool perspective or from another perspective. You are free to believe what you want, but most girls working in the industry, doesn't come from educated middle class parents. Freelancers, might be a different scene, but,,, 

1 hour ago, Celsius said:

2 grand

 

Few would admit that is what they do. Hence no reaction to your post at all. It ain't love, but just an arrangement.

4 hours ago, saakura said:

That could be an excuse which men use to lessen the feeling of guilt.

why don't you support some in their education so they have better choices

4 hours ago, soalbundy said:

You mean women's families, the title 'ladies' is for those a cut above the general herd.

Have you been to Thailand before? they are often referred to as ladies, lady bar etc

14 hours ago, Hummin said:

 

Let's say 90% of the women comes from dysfunctional homes, and how many of them do you think in the western world would been labeled with a mental health issue of they where screened for a diagnosis?

 

Still normal girls do have dirty fantasies they never live out in real life. Fantasies Normal couples role play when getting bored with in and out.

 

Can start reading here

https://www.healthyplace.com/sex/psychology-of-sex/womens-top-ten-sexual-fantasies

 

 

 

Ok, good point.

We'll chalk it up to dysfunctional homes.

Sorry, no time to get a Phd in psychology.

 

PS. Can you psychoanalyze the OP? He's been to Pattaya 20 times and he has started 200 threads on here portraying Pattaya in a negative light.

 

Is it because he has some kind of issue where part of him wants to partake in the bar scene due to a dysfunctional upbringing, but at the same time his Christian upbringing prevents him and then he has cognitive dissonance so needs to start a bunch of threads bashing Pattaya on here to justify his conflicted psyche? 

 

 

12 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

why don't you support some in their education so they have better choices

 

That's what I am doing with a massage woman.

I thought the price of the course was 15K baht though, but I had her contact the school and it's a lot more than that. But still a lot cheaper than a monthly allowance, which I will not do. 

 

She put the guilt trip on me. The sob story, crying, etc .... so I didn't want to be a heartless ahole.

 

And this good deed will partially make up for all the bad deeds I've done at least. 

 

Al Pacino, who has never been married, has four children to three different women. The most recent child was born in 1983, when Pacino was 83, to his 30 year old girlfriend. I haven't heard of any criticism of him. Everyone has free choice, even the bar girls in Thailand.

19 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

That's what I am doing with a massage woman.

I thought the price of the course was 15K baht though, but I had her contact the school and it's a lot more than that. But still a lot cheaper than a monthly allowance, which I will not do. 

 

She put the guilt trip on me. The sob story, crying, etc .... so I didn't want to be a heartless ahole.

 

And this good deed will partially make up for all the bad deeds I've done at least. 

 

They always seem to want more

12 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

They always seem to want more

 

I may have got myself into a corner.

She might come after me for more and more. 

Best to donate anonymously. 

 

19 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

I may have got myself into a corner.

She might come after me for more and more. 

Best to donate anonymously. 

 

Learn to say no, make excuses if you have to, they are ruthless and skilled at getting more money

12 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Learn to say no, make excuses if you have to, they are ruthless and skilled at getting more money

yeah, thanks for the tip.

 

1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

 

Ok, good point.

We'll chalk it up to dysfunctional homes.

Sorry, no time to get a Phd in psychology.

 

PS. Can you psychoanalyze the OP? He's been to Pattaya 20 times and he has started 200 threads on here portraying Pattaya in a negative light.

 

Is it because he has some kind of issue where part of him wants to partake in the bar scene due to a dysfunctional upbringing, but at the same time his Christian upbringing prevents him and then he has cognitive dissonance so needs to start a bunch of threads bashing Pattaya on here to justify his conflicted psyche? 

 

 

I think you summarized it well 😉 

2 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Have you been to Thailand before? they are often referred to as ladies, lady bar etc

Yes and men are often referred to as gentlemen which is generally missing the mark.

1 hour ago, soalbundy said:

Yes and men are often referred to as gentlemen which is generally missing the mark.

You  are referring to Gentleman Clubs which would be better described as monger clubs i agree 

Haven't been to Soi 6, or Pattaya for that matter, in some years. Some 20 years ago, there were really good looking bar girls everywhere. Is that still the case? I'd be surprised. In Bangkok, Soi Cowboy was going down hill for years in that department and I guess most attractive young women on the game these days are arranging 'dates' online. No need to stand on a stage or drink every night. Easier money and they can be more selective.  Maybe the old blokes haven't figured out how to hook up with the better looking women online. Hence the tik-tok display. I also doubt that trafficking is an issue (unless they are from another country, then maybe that's possible).

I donate to the girls personally.

On 11/11/2025 at 8:22 AM, saakura said:

That could be an excuse which men use to lessen the feeling of guilt.

or cannot get it off because they are members of the ugly fat bellied brigade.

On 11/11/2025 at 11:43 AM, FruitPudding said:

 

Money is #1 here.

 

Western women have crazy high body counts too, but they do it for fun.

 

In Thailand, fun ain't free, as they say and there's no shame in commercial sex here, just like paying a dowry to buy a bride. 

 

It is a cultural thing. 

Is there really any member of this forum who has or would actually pay a dowry? Maybe a topic on this would be interesting.

On 11/11/2025 at 1:58 PM, vincent13 said:

Al Pacino, who has never been married, has four children to three different women. The most recent child was born in 1983, when Pacino was 83, to his 30 year old girlfriend. I haven't heard of any criticism of him. Everyone has free choice, even the bar girls in Thailand.

Pacino was 83 years old in 1983? 

52 minutes ago, farangkinok said:

Pacino was 83 years old in 1983? 

A simple error.

He last fathered a child in 2023, aged 83.