6 hours ago, connda said:

Why are so many AN members obsessed with bargirls 

I prefer these obsessed bargirl guys, they're much preferred than the grumpy, old, miserable, moaning members here  

3 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I prefer these obsessed bargirl guys, they're much preferred than the grumpy, old, miserable, moaning members here  

 

Hmmm..

 Because only the dichotomy exists in a binary world, right ? 

 

A person is either obsessed with BG's or miserable... 🤔

53 minutes ago, mordothailand said:

i didnt mention prises of lady drinks, i said what i paid for a beer, which at the time was 60 baht, and when my friend forced me to go to a bar, it was 90

 

 You didn't get a bottle of Leo for 60 baht in a GoGo, what you got was a draft beer during happy hour, and even that was ages ago

2 hours ago, Bday Prang said:

Once the urge to have sex has diminished due to low testosterone and other age related conditions there will no arousal, so  why on earth would anybody want an erection?

 

Two reasons I can think of 

1) It's a barometer of general cardiovascular health. 

2) Brandishing a boner always amuses the missus. 

The problem in Thailand is that in public, any foreigner who will see a western guy with a thai lady will usually think that the guy need to pay her for company and the rest of the sleezy stuff. Of course this is not always true, but unfortunately that's how the looks of others are over here in Thailand. 

How about that: Especially males are not made for "monogamy". Generally.

 

Some observative Farangs have discovered that in the long run short term encounters with Bar Girls are less expensive than marriing one of them. Not only cheaper but also enriching life with "variety".

 

In opposition with the above? Then look at the sub-forum "Marriage and Family" here. Dwarfing any Shakespearing Drama.

4 hours ago, CallumWK said:

 

 You didn't get a bottle of Leo for 60 baht in a GoGo, what you got was a draft beer during happy hour, and even that was ages ago

now im not gonna tell you where to get a leo in a gogo for 60-80 baht

10 minutes ago, mordothailand said:

now im not gonna tell you where to get a leo in a gogo for 60-80 baht

 

Please, I'm so desperate for a Leo. 

BTW, on Soi Buakhow I usually pay 70 - 80 baht for a Leo, and cheaper during happy hours

9 hours ago, CallumWK said:

12 hours ago, Harrisfan said:

They are bored

 

You don't say

 

 

I have no such trouble... 

 

2 minutes ago, mordothailand said:

now im not gonna tell you where to get a leo in a gogo for 60-80 baht

 

Because you don't want to get called 'liar liar pants on fire' ???

 

 

While it is not always the case, it seems the chat about bargirls and ladyboys is dominated by the fans of the current US regime.  

Just saying.  Let each reader draw their own conclusions/implications.

 

6 hours ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

Hmmm..

 Because only the dichotomy exists in a binary world, right ? 

 

A person is either obsessed with BG's or miserable... 🤔

Good point! I'm disinterested or impartial.

5 hours ago, lamyai3 said:

 

Two reasons I can think of 

1) It's a barometer of general cardiovascular health. 

2) Brandishing a boner always amuses the missus. 

Where did you get the idea that cardiovascular health is a barometer of libido?

 

 You can have excellent cardiovascular health while still showing a general disinterest in sex. 

 

This evening I burned over 1000 kcal at the gym, and the last thing on my mind after that was sex LOL.

1 hour ago, JensenZ said:

Where did you get the idea that cardiovascular health is a barometer of libido?

 

 You can have excellent cardiovascular health while still showing a general disinterest in sex. 

 

This evening I burned over 1000 kcal at the gym, and the last thing on my mind after that was sex LOL.

 

Morning erections (or the absence of them) is often an early warning sign of heart disease and diabetes, indicative of a narrowing of coronary arteries. Many articles on this nowadays.

 

This isn't about libido, rather NPT - the nighttime erections that happen during REM that we wake up with.

 

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/health-fitness/health-news/this-morning-symptom-in-men-can-be-a-silent-indicator-of-heart-blockage/articleshow/115804985.cms

1 hour ago, lamyai3 said:

Morning erections (or the absence of them)

You're describing 100% of the male population 

because nobody else will touch it?

 

_{kidding, I'll take..} 

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9 hours ago, lamyai3 said:

Brandishing a boner

 

This is correct usage of the word brandishing, very nice sir.

9 hours ago, SingAPorn said:

The problem in Thailand is that in public, any foreigner who will see a western guy with a thai lady will usually think that the guy need to pay her for company and the rest of the sleezy stuff. Of course this is not always true, but unfortunately that's how the looks of others are over here in Thailand. 

That is not "the problem"  but  it is generally (99%) a safe assumption

12 hours ago, SingAPorn said:

The problem in Thailand is that in public, any foreigner who will see a western guy with a thai lady will usually think that the guy need to pay her for company and the rest of the sleezy stuff. Of course this is not always true, but unfortunately that's how the looks of others are over here in Thailand. 

It's a problem on this forum too, where know-it-alls assume that every member with a younger partner or wife has bought her. 

4 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

It's a problem on this forum too, where know-it-alls assume that every member with a younger partner or wife has bought her. 

Most here had moms and at least grandmas who where housewives, with part time work if any. 

7 minutes ago, JensenZ said:

It's a problem on this forum too, where know-it-alls assume that every member with a younger partner or wife has bought her. 

Most Thais assume every man pays for his wife.

And most Thai women expect to be paid by their man.

It's their culture!

 

55 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Most Thais assume every man pays for his wife.

And most Thai women expect to be paid by their man.

It's their culture!

Oh goodness me! The way it used to be in Farangland LOL

 

In most Western nations, men are giving up on dating women. It's too difficult.

22 hours ago, ColeBOzbourne said:

The OP has an interesting question followed by a lame survey. Why did  you only list negative and insulting options in the survey? Did you actually want to gather information, or just state your own biased opinions in the form of a fake survey?

If you don't like my poll?  Make your own! 

2 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Most Thais assume every man pays for his wife.

And most Thai women expect to be paid by their man.

It's their culture!

In Thailand companionship is fungible.  Everyone in Thai culture understands that.  
In the West the women will tell you it's all about love, but "love" is fungible in the West as well.  It's the money, honey.  No money, no honey.

52 minutes ago, connda said:

In Thailand companionship is fungible.  Everyone in Thai culture understands that.  
In the West the women will tell you it's all about love, but "love" is fungible in the West as well.  It's the money, honey.  No money, no honey.

The only reason you think that is because you've never experienced true love from a Thai woman, and you probably never will. Just go on purchasing your love, if that's what makes you happy.

 

Trying to make your point by saying everyone understands it is lame.

2 hours ago, connda said:

If you don't like my poll?

Is that a question? Now I see why your poll is so lame. 

What bar girls? do they have bar girls in Thailand? and what do you do with them?

I'm here for the high standard of people, classy manners and education.

On 12/2/2025 at 2:41 AM, JensenZ said:

It's a problem on this forum too, where know-it-alls assume that every member with a younger partner or wife has bought her. 

One cannot change human nature. 

On 12/1/2025 at 12:59 PM, ColeBOzbourne said:

The OP has an interesting question followed by a lame survey. Why did  you only list negative and insulting options in the survey? Did you actually want to gather information, or just state your own biased opinions in the form of a fake survey?

Yep, why do they even care? A bit sad. I don’t partake (or need to) but don’t understand why some people get bent out of shape in what others do or don’t do. They might think it harmless or a bit of fun but it’s also got racial undertones. The op seems to have a problem with white people specifically. A weird topic all round really. 

On 12/1/2025 at 11:57 AM, Gandtee said:

And sex. I'll be 92 next week and I'm not obsessed with bargirls, or sex. 😉

s..t, im 90 and im on viagra ,im very careful only pick the ones who have chanderlrears on the ceiling