3 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

Have you helped him yet ...you keep saying you will ?

I noticed your posts are similar to Ralf's ....twins perhaps?

 

Darlin if your going to be 2 posters at least change the punctuation on one of the posting  names 

He hasn't found a place that will accept him and therefore I can't help him pay for it. I actually called places trying to find a place but none would accept him without a passport.  What have you done Champ? 

 

You can definitely dish out insults as most losers can but reflection is not a strength of yours apparently.  Your situation in life is sad but you are the only person that can change it. 

 

Best of luck and maybe ditching the fake persona might help.

21 hours ago, Patong2021 said:

why would the bank call the police. They do not enforce visa rules.

Slightly off topic but needs to be said:  Recently, I had to get a new bankbook, ibecause my Passport had changed - it took almost 3 hrs at SCB Jom Tien because they check every little thing about you, previous bankbooks, withdrawals, took pictures of Visa, Arrival stamps, called Immigration (I understand enough Thai to know what they were asking)   Once all that was done, I had to sign a dozen places on forms, copies or every little facet of my Life in Thailand (even a semi-large Lottery win 14 years ago)    No, maybe they don’t enforce Visa rules, but they made sure I knew even the smallest discrepancy, they would close the account.  I have had this account 24 years - the Banks are under a lot of pressure from Thai Govt about Bank Accounts/money laundering etc etc.   I walked out with a new bank card, bankbook, and now waiting for my Visa card to be mailed to me.  Luckily I had copies of my last 3 expired Passports………computer said the picture didn’t look like me about 10 times, yes I have lost 65lbs in past six years or so, luckily my Snazola hasn’t changed a bit and that saved me.

6 minutes ago, connda said:

A non-consensual divorce?  To the best of my knowledge it takes three years separated

 

No, it generally takes a few months.  It is pretty quick and you are reading the document incorrectly.  Being seperated for 3 years is one of many reasons the divorce will be granted.  Not a long process but can be expensive and it sounds like the OP wasn't prepared.  

2 minutes ago, atpeace said:

No, it generally takes a few months.  It is pretty quick and you are reading the document incorrectly.  Being seperated for 3 years is one of many reasons the divorce will be granted.  Not a long process but can be expensive and it sounds like the OP wasn't prepared.  

Section 1516. Grounds for Divorce

Grounds of action for divorce are as follows:

1. the husband has given maintenance to or honored such other woman as his wife, or the wife has committed adultery, the other spouse may enter a claim for divorce;
2. one spouse is guilty of misconduct, notwithstanding whether such misconduct is a criminal offence or not, if it causes the other:
   1. to be seriously ashamed;
   2. to be insulted of hated or account of continuance of being husband or wife of the spouse having committed the misconduct; or
   3. to sustain excessive injury or trouble where the condition, position and cohabitation as husband and wife are taken into consideration; the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
3. one spouse has caused serious harm or torture to the body or mind of the other, or has seriously insulted the other or his or her ascendants, the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
4. one spouse has deserted the other for more than one year, the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
   1. (4/1) one spouse had been sentenced by a final judgment of the Court and has been imprisoned for more than one year in the offence committed without any participation, consent or in the knowledge of the other, and the cohabitation as husband and wife will cause the other party sustain excessive injury or trouble, the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
   2. (4/2) The husband and wife voluntarily live separately because of being unable to cohabit peacefully for more than three years, or live separately for more than three years by the order of the Court, either spouse may enter a claim for divorce;
5. one spouse has been adjudged to have disappeared, or as left his or her domicile or residence for more than three years and being uncertain whether he or she is living or dead;
6. one spouse has failed to give proper maintenance and support to the other, or committed acts seriously adverse to the relationship of husband and wife to such an extent that the other has been in excessive trouble where the condition, position and cohabitation as husband and wife are taking into consideration, the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
7. one spouse has been an insane person for more than three years continuously and such insanity is hardly curable so that the continuance of marriage cannot be expected, the other may enter a claim for divorce;
8. one spouse has broken a bond of good behavior executed by him or her, the other spouse may enter a claim for divorce;
9. one spouse is suffering from a communicable and dangerous disease which is incurable and may cause injury to the other, the latter may file a claim for divorce;
10. one spouse has a physical disadvantage so as to be permanently unable to cohabit as husband and wife, the other may enter a claim for divorce.

3 minutes ago, connda said:

Section 1516. Grounds for Divorce

Grounds of action for divorce are as follows:

1. the husband has given maintenance to or honored such other woman as his wife, or the wife has committed adultery, the other spouse may enter a claim for divorce;
2. one spouse is guilty of misconduct, notwithstanding whether such misconduct is a criminal offence or not, if it causes the other:
   1. to be seriously ashamed;
   2. to be insulted of hated or account of continuance of being husband or wife of the spouse having committed the misconduct; or
   3. to sustain excessive injury or trouble where the condition, position and cohabitation as husband and wife are taken into consideration; the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
3. one spouse has caused serious harm or torture to the body or mind of the other, or has seriously insulted the other or his or her ascendants, the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
4. one spouse has deserted the other for more than one year, the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
   1. (4/1) one spouse had been sentenced by a final judgment of the Court and has been imprisoned for more than one year in the offence committed without any participation, consent or in the knowledge of the other, and the cohabitation as husband and wife will cause the other party sustain excessive injury or trouble, the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
   2. (4/2) The husband and wife voluntarily live separately because of being unable to cohabit peacefully for more than three years, or live separately for more than three years by the order of the Court, either spouse may enter a claim for divorce;
5. one spouse has been adjudged to have disappeared, or as left his or her domicile or residence for more than three years and being uncertain whether he or she is living or dead;
6. one spouse has failed to give proper maintenance and support to the other, or committed acts seriously adverse to the relationship of husband and wife to such an extent that the other has been in excessive trouble where the condition, position and cohabitation as husband and wife are taking into consideration, the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
7. one spouse has been an insane person for more than three years continuously and such insanity is hardly curable so that the continuance of marriage cannot be expected, the other may enter a claim for divorce;
8. one spouse has broken a bond of good behavior executed by him or her, the other spouse may enter a claim for divorce;
9. one spouse is suffering from a communicable and dangerous disease which is incurable and may cause injury to the other, the latter may file a claim for divorce;
10. one spouse has a physical disadvantage so as to be permanently unable to cohabit as husband and wife, the other may enter a claim for divorce.

Exactly what I was saying.  You forgot the part above what you pasted 🙂 Only "one" of the following has to be met.

 

It generally takes a few months.

1 hour ago, atpeace said:

Yep and it happens all the time.  It is common in Farang/Thai relationships.  Lawyers get involved and it gets ugly and expensive.  In his case it seems they went through their little cash during the legal aspects of the divorce and were only left with the home.  The court gave the home to his wife to raise the kids. That's my guess.

You and the Op almost sound like the same person.  Related?  Live in the same neighborhood?  

1 minute ago, connda said:

You and the Op almost sound like the same person.  Related?  

 

OP is one of georgieboi's logins... 100%.

 

Not sure who Atpeace is yet, might be same same.

1 minute ago, connda said:

You and the Op almost sound like the same person....

You seem like the type that always needs to be correct.  Chill out. You were wrong about non-consensual divorces taking three years and now your lashing out.  Not cool- chill dude.

Just now, Ralf001 said:

 

OP is one of georgieboi's logins... 100%.

 

Not sure who Atpeace is yet, might be same same.

I actually was thinking GG and OP might be the same.  As for me being the same, that is Conada being frustrated that he was called out on a silly post.  He has anger issues 🙂

3 minutes ago, atpeace said:

You seem like the type that always needs to be correct.  Chill out. You were wrong about non-consensual divorces taking three years and now your lashing out.  Not cool- chill dude.

 

1 minute ago, atpeace said:

I actually was thinking GG and OP might be the same.  As for me being the same, that is Conada being frustrated that he was called out on a silly post.  He has anger issues 🙂

  <laughs> 

1 minute ago, atpeace said:

I actually was thinking GG and OP might be the same.  As for me being the same, that is Conada being frustrated that he was called out on a silly post.  He has anger issues 🙂

Yeah I don't peg you as being a GG login.

10 minutes ago, connda said:

You and the Op almost sound like the same person.  Related?  Live in the same neighborhood?  

I don't know him he doesn't know me as well.

For tonight a guy will let me use his sofa in his internet game room. I bought some food for him. Tomorrow is another day.

1 hour ago, Ralf001 said:

 

OP is one of georgieboi's logins... 100%.

 

Not sure who Atpeace is yet, might be same same.

You have 3 aliases on here?

Strange how they all reply to each other almost immediately 

7 minutes ago, georgegeorgia said:

You have 3 aliases on here?

Strange how they all reply to each other almost immediately 

Do I ?

What are they.... go on , indulge me.... then we can ask a moderator to confirm.

Lets also confirm yours at the same time.

1 hour ago, Lorente said:

For tonight a guy will let me use his sofa in his internet game room. I bought some food for him. Tomorrow is another day.

As I was walking home to gather my things, bus stopped and it was a driver on the Pattaya-Phuket route I've known for years. I explained the situation to him, and he offered to let me sleep on the bus.

On 12/25/2025 at 9:54 AM, BritManToo said:

Yep, they will inform on you.

Not to mention they won't provide any banking services without a photocopy of your valid VISA.

I've never been asked to show my immigration status in a vank, other than when I opened my account 10 years ago.

 

 

1 hour ago, georgegeorgia said:

You have 3 aliases on here?

Strange how they all reply to each other almost immediately 

And those 3 are ?

What are they.... go on , indulge me.... then we can ask a moderator to confirm.

Lets also confirm yours at the same time.

GG, staying with me (in Laos) is a bit difficult just now, since I was arrested by the Lao police on Christmas Day, (and luckily released after a 'Mexican Standoff'). But  I can ask if there is space in the cells for your friend...

5 hours ago, connda said:

Section 1516. Grounds for Divorce

Grounds of action for divorce are as follows:

1. the husband has given maintenance to or honored such other woman as his wife, or the wife has committed adultery, the other spouse may enter a claim for divorce;
2. one spouse is guilty of misconduct, notwithstanding whether such misconduct is a criminal offence or not, if it causes the other:
   1. to be seriously ashamed;
   2. to be insulted of hated or account of continuance of being husband or wife of the spouse having committed the misconduct; or
   3. to sustain excessive injury or trouble where the condition, position and cohabitation as husband and wife are taken into consideration; the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
3. one spouse has caused serious harm or torture to the body or mind of the other, or has seriously insulted the other or his or her ascendants, the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
4. one spouse has deserted the other for more than one year, the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
   1. (4/1) one spouse had been sentenced by a final judgment of the Court and has been imprisoned for more than one year in the offence committed without any participation, consent or in the knowledge of the other, and the cohabitation as husband and wife will cause the other party sustain excessive injury or trouble, the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
   2. (4/2) The husband and wife voluntarily live separately because of being unable to cohabit peacefully for more than three years, or live separately for more than three years by the order of the Court, either spouse may enter a claim for divorce;
5. one spouse has been adjudged to have disappeared, or as left his or her domicile or residence for more than three years and being uncertain whether he or she is living or dead;
6. one spouse has failed to give proper maintenance and support to the other, or committed acts seriously adverse to the relationship of husband and wife to such an extent that the other has been in excessive trouble where the condition, position and cohabitation as husband and wife are taking into consideration, the latter may enter a claim for divorce;
7. one spouse has been an insane person for more than three years continuously and such insanity is hardly curable so that the continuance of marriage cannot be expected, the other may enter a claim for divorce;
8. one spouse has broken a bond of good behavior executed by him or her, the other spouse may enter a claim for divorce;
9. one spouse is suffering from a communicable and dangerous disease which is incurable and may cause injury to the other, the latter may file a claim for divorce;
10. one spouse has a physical disadvantage so as to be permanently unable to cohabit as husband and wife, the other may enter a claim for divorce.

My mad ex #2 had committed the majority of those conditions 🙂

Certified as insane, violent, adultery, druggie, harming me physically and mentally blah blah blah...

 

Apart from that, she was ok.... 🙂

3 hours ago, youreavinalaff said:

I've never been asked to show my immigration status in a vank, other than when I opened my account 10 years ago.

 

 

What bank do you have?

 

Krungsri and BKK Bank I updated my info now when I renewed my visa, and when you want new bank cards, you have to show your PP with proof of legal stay as well. 

13 hours ago, Lorente said:

And I have no problem to meet you or/and your wife.

 

Can you really be trusted to meet with his wife if he's not around?

 

Is this for real ? Some things from OP don’t make sense to me. It’s at least a very unusual combination of problems.

somebody mentioned it could be a test. A Xmas compassion test.

maybe the op is a bitcoin billionaire and whoever let him stay will receive one bitcoin? 🥳

 

 But it kind of brought up some memories of a similar situation, when I was desperately looking for a room in Pattaya at New Year’s Eve almost 30 years ago. When Pattaya bar scene was busy 24/7 and in the morning the first patrons would meet the ones from previous night. Back then I travelled quite frequently and never pre booked a room. Was so easy to find a room just walking in some hotel I knew. But I’ve never been over new year and this was a different story. All my usual places fully booked. Pre-handphone-google-booking.com-Airbnb times. Very different world. 

 

I arrived like 10pm by car, tired, desperate for a shower and a drink. After unsuccessfully checking like 10 hotels I went with my little suitcase  to a bar I think soi seven or eight. Funny ladies who jumped out on the street and pulled me in. Had some drinks, chatted with them also about my problem. Turned out ‘younger sister’ of the girl I was interested in, was happy to take me to her room for the night. Priorities. Problem solved. Did stay a couple of nights with her and then found a hotel room. Big tip for her, really cuddly lady and great company.

oh I miss these times.

4 hours ago, Hummin said:

What bank do you have?

 

Krungsri and BKK Bank I updated my info now when I renewed my visa, and when you want new bank cards, you have to show your PP with proof of legal stay as well. 

Kasikorn

14 hours ago, georgegeorgia said:

You have 3 aliases on here?

Strange how they all reply to each other almost immediately 

And those 3 are ?

What are they.... go on , indulge me.... then we can ask a moderator to confirm.

Lets also confirm yours at the same time.

10 hours ago, simon43 said:

GG, staying with me (in Laos) is a bit difficult just now, since I was arrested by the Lao police on Christmas Day, (and luckily released after a 'Mexican Standoff'). But  I can ask if there is space in the cells for your friend...

What happened?  I do enjoy Laos but there seems to be no real laws or rules that are enforced with any type of consistency.  Last trip someone decided to start charging motorcycles to park in a mud patch at a public market and everybody was forced to comply. I like the adventure but it is so random.  Weird place...

22 minutes ago, atpeace said:

What happened?  I do enjoy Laos but there seems to be no real laws or rules that are enforced with any type of consistency.  Last trip someone decided to start charging motorcycles to park in a mud patch at a public market and everybody was forced to comply. I like the adventure but it is so random.  Weird place...

I am likely to arrest, (and have been twice now), for the offence of having a (legal) ham radio antenna in public, something for which the local big wig police guy has a severe allergy to....

 

Others not displaying their antenna should be fine 🙂

4 minutes ago, simon43 said:

I am likely to arrest, (and have been twice now), for the offence of having a (legal) ham radio antenna in public, something for which the local big wig police guy has a severe allergy to....

 

Others not displaying their antenna should be fine 🙂

He probably thinks you are spying on his illegal activities

29 minutes ago, simon43 said:

I am likely to arrest, (and have been twice now), for the offence of having a (legal) ham radio antenna in public, something for which the local big wig police guy has a severe allergy to....

 

Others not displaying their antenna should be fine 🙂

I bet if you brought him some donuts he would never bother you again.  Sure you thought of this type of thing but just saying 🙂 I have no clue about how triggered the guy gets.

50 minutes ago, simon43 said:

I am likely to arrest, (and have been twice now), for the offence of having a (legal) ham radio antenna in public, something for which the local big wig police guy has a severe allergy to....

 

Others not displaying their antenna should be fine 🙂

 

Given it was Christmas you might have been able to disguise it as a large set of antlers.