People talk of all the randy older guys chasing fresh young girls.

What about women chasing younger guys, nuffin wrong with it, but rarely spoken about.

How many cougars in TV?

I admit to being a fella who was once a sugar daddy on the prowl...... hehe

Celebrity cougars

Demi Moore

Her husband, Ashton Kutcher, is 16 years her junior.

Madonna

Currently dating 23-year-old Jesus Luz (Madonna's 51).

Mariah Carey

Eleven years older than her husband, Nick Cannon.

C'mon girls, wannabe cougars, fess up.

Intersting related site.

http://www.findsomeone.co.nz/magazine/page.asp?id=18

You're game Pete.

They're all cougars on this forum, and they bite!

You're game Pete.

They're all cougars on this forum, and they bite!

True, and they bite worse than the ones in my back yard...

I don't hold anything against older women.

Nothing at all.

Edit: Morituri te salutant

You're game Pete.

They're all cougars on this forum, and they bite!

True, and they bite worse than the ones in my back yard...

You must need an f$$%^&ing big bowl of milk for that thing..............

The problem isnt always (or, i could say usually) older women chasing younger men. Often its the men chasing the women. In the case of demi moore, she was very against the relationship forming..but ashton pursued her relentlessly. Its likely the case with the other women as well.

When i was 23 an 18 year old guy pursued me. He didnt let up. I told my friend there was no way id get involved, but with all his efforts she said i should give him a shot and stop worrying about the age difference. We ended up being together for nearly 8 years. It was a great 8 years in fact, but a personal tragedy tore us apart. Had that not happened, im sure we would still be together. We had a lot of love passion and affection for each other.

These days I still get guys much younger hitting on me. I actually actively seek older men. I cant help that younger guys are attracted to me. Im told i look a lot younger than my years, many pegging me at early 30's..so maybe thats why too..not sure.

But if i were to date one of those younger guys who are interested, I wouldnt call myself a cougar. Im not the one doing the hunting.

It's all a game of bantering anyways, eek. We just like teasing each other. If we don't like someone we just ignore them. If someone is interesting then age doesn't matter. I have lady friends from 19 to 90. Some of my dearest lady friends were bright, intelligent women in their eighties. My cousin was one such woman. She just died last year at 93, and right up until she was 90 we would have long conversations that lasted for hours. I really miss her. I liked her better than my own mother. When you are truly fond of someone you hardly even notice the physical part of them.

[you must need an f$%^&ing big bowl of milk for that thing..............

The litter box is the kid next door's sand pit

CB

. I have lady friends from 19 to 90. Some of my dearest lady friends were bright, intelligent women in their eighties.

This reminds me of the off stated line "hey some of my best friends are gay" It is used to put up a quasi disclaimer that they didn't mean the gay joke to be offensive.

To honest Ian having read many of your threads and posts of bar girls almost invariably young enough to be your daughter or grand daughter I find your post to be laughable but not because it is funny.

CB

mrs tigerfish is 8 years my senior.

in our eyes the age difference is totally irrelevant as far as how the relationship works. we both bring something different to the table aswell as our own personal and cultural traits.

always thought id end up with someone older than myself and im glad i did! she always knows how to pull me into line and get the best out of me, something i dare say a woman of younger age wouldnt be able to do (knowing the kind of person i am). weve had our up and downs over the last 10 years of being together, but i love her as much if not more than the first time i set eyes on her. although not the most important aspect, she puts most women i know back in my own country to shame as far as her looks and her body go for her age. the most important thing for me though is that we are each others best friend, companion, closest of soul mates and i love her to bits for that. i thank my lucky stars that someone must be looking down on me, i couldnt ask for anything more in a woman.

is she a cougar? lets just say i like it when she get her claws out and wants to play.

young and old mature connoisseurs prefer older women. PERIOD! :jap:

young and old mature connoisseurs prefer older women. PERIOD! :jap:

Older than Ian?

There are some young gardeners that were cutting the trees and bushes outside my window, as i type.

We've been having a heat wave and they are shirtless. Needless to say my trip to the bank and shops has been curtailed for about an hour. They are now on their lunch break so I shall run down to the bank and shops and be back again for when they start work.

I like to look, but don't know if i would touch. I did meet a nice young man a few months ago, but we had not much in common and parted as friends. He thought i was 36!! He was 32.

Lets get real here. What is the difference between a woman between the ages of 25 and 40. Or a man for that matter. Who cares? No one. Any go go tonight in Pattaya you will see women dancing between the ages of 25 and 40. Some with a very strong family resemblance. 40 is not an old woman. 40 is a young woman. 40 is not an old man. 40 is a young man.

65 is old.

So guys lets get real. How many 65 year old women have you slept with in Thailand?

Aren’t all the derogatory threads about old men about 65 year old plus men cavorting around with 18 year old women?

Call a spade a spade. I would invite all the 65 year old women here to post their experiences with young men.

I would also ask Nam who likes older women to tell us what it is like to sleep with a 65 year old woman.

All the ladies might also want to tell us old guys about the joys of having sex with 65 year old women.

I am always honest. I have never been to bed with a 65 year old woman. So I don’t know. I am only asking for information. Maybe I should try it. Maybe that conversation at dinner is worth the difference between an 18 year old hard body and a seasoned woman of 65. Tell me, tell me. I really want to know!

when I was 16 y.o. in Bolivia my girlfriend was 5 years older...she managed to persuade me that she was 18 as the age difference was stretching the acceptable local age difference boundaries...a sister of a uni friend of my cousin...

crazy-assed passion and she got pregnant...there's me shufflin' and mumblin': 'well, I'll marry ye if ye like...'

there were violent episodes and we scandalised the local community and she had a fiance in America...

she was a local beauty and known for being impulsive and crazy...people previously unknown to me were hissing with personal disapproval; one of which was a high school instructor who threatened to ruin me academically: I figured out later that he was in love with her...

sheesh...16 y.o an' wantin' t'mind me own business...

mark one question you failed to ask is "ask any woman what its like to have sex with a 65 year old man"

. I have lady friends from 19 to 90. Some of my dearest lady friends were bright, intelligent women in their eighties.

This reminds me of the off stated line "hey some of my best friends are gay" It is used to put up a quasi disclaimer that they didn't mean the gay joke to be offensive.

To honest Ian having read many of your threads and posts of bar girls almost invariably young enough to be your daughter or grand daughter I find your post to be laughable but not because it is funny.

CB

Why? There you go making assumptions again without knowing me. I don't have sex with old women and I don't have long conversations with 20 year old Thai bar girls. But, for many years my home in Canada has been open to back packers of all ages and both sexes. We stay in touch and send e-mails back and forth. There are no age restrictions when it comes to interesting people. I help out with a friend's travel club when he has elderly visitors who need a place to stay. With some of them I've become good friends, and with the others they just fade away. It all depends on people's interests. And, although it may be difficult for you to understand, there are many young people who enjoy my company just as I have enjoyed the company of women much older than myself. Are we sleeping together...no, but we do have good times together. And, occasionally, I have been surprised at the attention I get from young women (not bar girls) a third my age.

But, the conversation was about cougars, the euphanism for middle age women on the prowl looking for sex. Never having been a woman, I don't have a clue what their feelings are. I can only guess that they are no different than men who find young women attractive. My second ex was a stuningly beautiful woman at 40, and probably still is at 60, but I haven't seen her in 14 years. I do know her boyfriends were younger than her after we split.

The situations with the well known female movie stars dating much younger men is an anomaly... but an understandable one. The women were beautiful to start off with and have maintained their looks with strict diets, lots of exercise and plastic surgery.

mark one question you failed to ask is "ask any woman what its like to have sex with a 65 year old man"

It depends on the woman and the 65 year old man. I've never had any complaints from the younger women I've been with. I get lots of freebies and they all have a smile on their face when they leave. But, it might be entirely different if the woman was repulsed by the looks of the man she is with. And, that is no different than the man who is repulsed by the looks of a woman, except the man would not be able to have sex with her for physical reasons.

These days I still get guys much younger hitting on me. I actually actively seek older men. I cant help that younger guys are attracted to me. Im told i look a lot younger than my years, many pegging me at early 30's..so maybe thats why too..not sure.

When I met you I thought you were about 26.

Grrrrr

I would also ask Nam who likes older women to tell us what it is like to sleep with a 65 year old woman.

as far as "65" is concerned my experience is limited to one occurence many rainy seasons ago when i was a young man. but it is impossible to describe "what it's like" except that i still remember every detail of it. you might ask me again for more details in six years as the lady i married 31 years ago is "only" 59.

and now i am waiting patiently for the next questions, e.g. "how is it possible that a man is married for such a long time to one woman?" and i will submit at least a dozen reasons.

Grrrr

. I have lady friends from 19 to 90. Some of my dearest lady friends were bright, intelligent women in their eighties.

This reminds me of the off stated line "hey some of my best friends are gay" It is used to put up a quasi disclaimer that they didn't mean the gay joke to be offensive.

To honest Ian having read many of your threads and posts of bar girls almost invariably young enough to be your daughter or grand daughter I find your post to be laughable but not because it is funny.

CB

Why? There you go making assumptions again without knowing me.

On a forum such as this we can only form impressions based on what we read from the posts. I have met many posters on the forum and in most cases they are very similar in reality to their on line style. What makes me wonder about you is that from some of your posts you appear to have had a long, varied and interesting life. I enjoyed looing at the photographs of the wild life that come to your house in Canada. I enjoyed your stories (perhaps somewhat embellished) of your days in logging camps etc. These are stories worth sharing and normally make me want to meet with you and discuss further over a beer or two. However what prevents that is your unhealthy obsession with sex. Your relationship exploits contain constant references to young bar girls who despite your statement to "getting plenty of freebies" are having sex with you for money. Get it in your head they are not doing it for free, there is always a pay off, either direct (cash on the bedhead) or indirect (you take care of them).

In conclusion, you aren't "Ian the interesting guy from Canada" but rather just another pathetic old brothel creeper, living out a sad existence exploiting poor, ignorant bargirls for sex.

mark one question you failed to ask is "ask any woman what its like to have sex with a 65 year old man"

I didn’t pose the question, “what is it like to have sex with a 65 year old man” because 1. The thread is about old women. 2. Of the 2.8 million prostitutes in Thailand roughly 2 million already know. Therefore I assumed it was common knowledge.

But if you really want to know I will assume your interest is roughly the same as a middle aged Issan farm lady who has had two children.

You see I know about a lot about middle aged Issan farm women who have had two children.

The first question they ask any woman back from the big city with a 65 year old white guy as a boyfriend is, Hum Yi (is it big)? I don’t know about other Thai women but Issan farm girls have a thing about size. The questions about hardness, smell and length of love making are all asked about with the same frequency after the one about size. Strangely these questions are all asked before any questions about money or good hearts.

If you really have a question about 65 year old men having sex there are a number of bars on Soi six in Pattaya where you may watch any afternoon. Message me for the details.

The most frequent answer I hear are, hum Yi, hum wan, 30 minutes and twice a day.

Cougars in Thailand. How many? There are hundreds of thousands of old men having sex with young women in Thailand. It is not an event worthy of taking notice of. It is an everyday occurrence.

In six years in Thailand visiting all kinds of places in different locations to include clubs, bars, swinging venues and the like I have only run across two women over 65 having sex. One was a German lady and the other Thai.

The German lady was entertaining as she sang opera while ………

Am I going to the wrong places? Are there more 65 year old women having sex than I am aware of in Thailand. Most Thai women I know stop having sex in their 50’s.

I admit to not being an expert in this area. Nam can’t help. He is happily married. For which I congratulate him.

Does anyone know anything about old women having sex with young men? Remember, I mean old and not young or middle aged.

Your misogyny is poking through Mark. Its always amazing to me how daft some of you men really are. Demi Moore is now an old lady? Cougar under the definition is not usually an old lady. Look it up.

. I have lady friends from 19 to 90. Some of my dearest lady friends were bright, intelligent women in their eighties.

This reminds me of the off stated line "hey some of my best friends are gay" It is used to put up a quasi disclaimer that they didn't mean the gay joke to be offensive.

To honest Ian having read many of your threads and posts of bar girls almost invariably young enough to be your daughter or grand daughter I find your post to be laughable but not because it is funny.

CB

Why? There you go making assumptions again without knowing me.

On a forum such as this we can only form impressions based on what we read from the posts. I have met many posters on the forum and in most cases they are very similar in reality to their on line style. What makes me wonder about you is that from some of your posts you appear to have had a long, varied and interesting life. I enjoyed looing at the photographs of the wild life that come to your house in Canada. I enjoyed your stories (perhaps somewhat embellished) of your days in logging camps etc. These are stories worth sharing and normally make me want to meet with you and discuss further over a beer or two. However what prevents that is your unhealthy obsession with sex. Your relationship exploits contain constant references to young bar girls who despite your statement to "getting plenty of freebies" are having sex with you for money. Get it in your head they are not doing it for free, there is always a pay off, either direct (cash on the bedhead) or indirect (you take care of them).

In conclusion, you aren't "Ian the interesting guy from Canada" but rather just another pathetic old brothel creeper, living out a sad existence exploiting poor, ignorant bargirls for sex.

Anyone that would have sex with me is ignorant. So I guess I have a choice of exploiting

A. Ignorant bar girls.

B. Ignorant farm girls.

C. Ignorant university girls.

D. Ignorant store clerks.

E. Ignorant nurses.

F. Ignorant doctors.

G. Ignorant high school principals.

H. Ignorant karaoke bar owners.

I. Ignorant Thai Visa moderators (I‘ll never tell).

You want to have sex with Crowboy?

Your misogyny is poking through Mark. Its always amazing to me how daft some of you men really are. Demi Moore is now an old lady? Cougar under the definition is not usually an old lady. Look it up.

Just when I think you may have made the leap from women’s rights advocate to person you come up with a clichéd libber attitude word like misogyny. Oh well.

I think for a fair comparison of like to like with all the negative vibes about old men sleeping with young women there is room for some talk about old women.

Although I realize old women don’t sleep with young men. Old women don’t sleep with people they sleep with cats or dogs or stuffed animals or something. That’s the point.

If old women had the same sex drive as old men you would not have old men coming to Thailand.