Borzandy Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Congratulation, you have found the perfect girl----friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lormakmak Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 she sounds like a spoiled little brat and is treating you like her Daddy whose told her she can't have another ice cream..... does she stamp her feet and hold her breath till she turns blue? Mind you the fact she knows you are not faithful and will use that against you for the rest of your remaining years.... time to bolt!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DLock Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 You joined over a year ago and this is your first post? Congratulations making it this far without asking for advice on TV, because in all honesty, from this post, I am truly surprised you made it this far. Dump the psycho. Move on...today. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Phoenix1312 Posted April 30, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 30, 2014 Sounds. To me that she is getting over you but hasn't found someone to replace you yet. You are obviously annoying her with everything you do. I used to get agitated at my ex husband for nothing. I realised it was because I didn't want to be there anymore. Watch to see if the finances are disappearing. I also don't blame her if you slept with someone else. Why on earth do you think that she is okay with that? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoenix1312 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 (edited) Hmmmmm Edited April 30, 2014 by cheated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Showbags Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Sounds. To me that she is getting over you but hasn't found someone to replace you yet. You are obviously annoying her with everything you do. I used to get agitated at my ex husband for nothing. I realised it was because I didn't want to be there anymore. Watch to see if the finances are disappearing. I also don't blame her if you slept with someone else. Why on earth do you think that she is okay with that? You mean they're not ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoenix1312 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Sounds. To me that she is getting over you but hasn't found someone to replace you yet. You are obviously annoying her with everything you do. I used to get agitated at my ex husband for nothing. I realised it was because I didn't want to be there anymore. Watch to see if the finances are disappearing. I also don't blame her if you slept with someone else. Why on earth do you think that she is okay with that? Time to move on. There are plenty of others that would love to take her place Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoenix1312 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Sounds. To me that she is getting over you but hasn't found someone to replace you yet. You are obviously annoying her with everything you do. I used to get agitated at my ex husband for nothing. I realised it was because I didn't want to be there anymore. Watch to see if the finances are disappearing. I also don't blame her if you slept with someone else. Why on earth do you think that she is okay with that? You mean they're not ? Well I don't think so haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 OP move on, believe me worse is to come. Sorry but true............I am three times divorced in farang land. I cannot take that shit. My LOS wife now loses it now and again, but guess what, she neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeever does with her family, including her low life daughter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brit1984 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 sounds like she has severe NPD... my ex-wife had the same... not nice to live with... highly recommend to give her ultimatum for professional help or end relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crazydrummerpauly Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Laugh, cry, or yawn - it's a tough one; no it's not YAWN..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ezzra Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Yes she dose, so I sent her flying back home to where she can vent out on the local water buffalos.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
circusman Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Yes, I have had that happen to me. I just give her a kiss and 20,000 for a shopping spree and she is good as new. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steveyinasia Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Been with my wife over 8 years and the first time any of this behaviour surfaced, very early on, I plainly said that I don't need to stand for that kind of treatment...there is the door, you are free to leave. 8 years later never had a problem and never a harsh word between us. We have respect for each other, we give each other our free time, she goes out with her friends and I don't annoy her with texts all night, I go out with my friends and I don't get a text either. Thats what an adult relationship is about...I am 53 now and wife is 33. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A1Str8 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Don't worry about it. She is going to do it only as long as you let her do it. I would rather spend the rest of my life with prostitutes than to be with a woman who regularly abuses me instead of showing love and being an angel in general. Sent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Been with my wife over 8 years and the first time any of this behaviour surfaced, very early on, I plainly said that I don't need to stand for that kind of treatment...there is the door, you are free to leave. 8 years later never had a problem and never a harsh word between us. We have respect for each other, we give each other our free time, she goes out with her friends and I don't annoy her with texts all night, I go out with my friends and I don't get a text either. Thats what an adult relationship is about...I am 53 now and wife is 33. I don't think you fixed it. A weeee bit of common sense on her behalf sort of fixed it for her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
realenglish1 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 I get the same shit from my Girlfriend of 7 years. Days ago she started again and I told her " Your an A**** Hole So she go mad and left Good for me because I dont have to listen to this and she knows it . They do not bridle their emotions They do not take it out on their parents so sometimes they think a man can take it I don't and she knows it. Better she cools off then when she wants to be with me she is nicer Simple Don't accept it 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kinmaew Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Lets engage Woody Allen and make a movie with all this great material (In New York of course so we don't have to piss around with Thai bureaucracy) As George Costanza said "It's not a lie if you believe it" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAceFace Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 After 10 years of marriage and 2 kids, I find a simple nod, wink and smile followed by my own silent treatment works wonders 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somchaismith Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Get her tested for yaba. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
how241 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Sounds like it's time to move along.... +1...Too much drama unless your in true love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krataiboy Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Why put up with a nasty one when there are lots of nice ones around? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estrada Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 1. She is a control freak. 2. She is with you for the money but she hates the job 3. Tantrums are designed to make you feel small and fear that you might lose her so that you give her money and presents to keep her happy. My ex-Thai partner 20 years ago in the UK crashed her BMW on purpose because she didn't like the colour and made me buy another one in red. Advice: Ditch her. I ditched mine and have been married for 20 years to a really nice Thai Woman who I also met in the UK 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Traveling Sailor Posted April 30, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 30, 2014 All I can say is, you have two choices. 1. You can stay and continue to put up with the crap. If this is your choice than you will probably never be happy. 2. You can leave. After a while the trauma will subside and you will be happy you left. You said she is your girlfriend, not your wife. You have no obligation to stay and allow the abuse to continue. Tell her you must go back to your home country on business, just for a month or so. Pack your bags and say goodbye. If you enjoy Thailand, purchase a return ticket to a different Thai airport. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brit1984 Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 Why would you stay with someone who treats you like shit? sometimes when people treat you like shit, you start to think you are shit this happened to me with my ex, and OP needs to avoid same scenario Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
art vandelay Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 why. are. you. in. this. relationship? do you have low self esteem? lack confidence with women? enjoy being disrespected? man, get a life! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kennypowers Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 This has nothing to do with her being Thai. You are a victim of domestic abuse. She bullies you and is causing you stress and unhappiness. You won't leave because she has mentally beaten you so badly you feel weak and unworthy. The problem here is that we tend to think such abuse only occurs from man to woman, but it doesn't. Millions of men are stuck in abusive relationships and end up depressed, turning to drink, drugs and even suicide. She treats you worse than an animal. I strongly advise seeking professional help to get your self-esteem and confidence back so that you can leave her and find someone who respects you. Perhaps someone on here knows of a service that could offer you this help. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DLP Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 I feel sorry for you, i hope you dont live in a condo with a balcony. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ozyjon Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 I read two sentences, if it was me i would like another poster said, "i'm just going to the toilet" and never come back, are you a man or a dog ? Think about it and don't be treated like one, be a man, you are putting me to shame, you are letting the side down, chin up (wallet hidden) and walk like a man not a snag, tell her where to go, and stand up for yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank James Posted April 30, 2014 Share Posted April 30, 2014 It's clear she does not respect you, and it is not going to get better. But maybe I'm wrong. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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