How are the women in Vietnam?

[brubakertx]

I have a job offer in Vietnam.

I love all these Thai ladies, and have a couple girlfriends here, not including several other friends with benefits. (not bragging, just saying)

I'm 49 years old white man, but look younger, and I don't have a problem finding women in Thailand. Easy. (not talking about bargirls)

Soooo....my question is...How are the women in Vietnam?

Easy to meet and date for white men?

Easy or difficult for sex?

Differences between Thai and Vietnamese women?

Do they have bad reputation like some Thai women regarding money, scamming, etc.?

What about bargirls?

etc.?

Just like to get some information. I did not see much information on the internet, or youtube.

Thanks.

[Skint]

It's just like full metal jacket. $5

[LaraC]

They will praise you as a God.

[Naam]

How are the women in Vietnam?

mostly female.

[cgphuket]

The women are easier and sexier in Vietnam. You should go today, as fast as you can.

[Will27]

Seeing as you have no difficulty in attracting Thai women (you must be a great catch),

why the need to ask?

I'm sure they will flock to you in Vietnam as well.

[Carib]

Childish question for a 49 year old.

[ezzra]

Almost no English there and difficult to make contact on a daily bases,

but if you cover your self with a 100,000 dong banknotes, I'm sure language

will not be a barrier....

[Braddockrd]

By now, thanks to the magic of the internet, chances are they already heard about your coming, so you are going to be more popular than Justin Bieber when you arrive to the airport. Just make sure to bring lots of cash! Oh, they prefer USD over there....

[spidermike007]

One of the biggest differences there, is there is a very powerful taboo against western men being with a local woman. Very unlike Thailand. So, you will find the woman will not even be willing to be seen in public with you. If she does, loads of scorn will be heaped on both of you. Vietnamese are largely a very cold, distant, closed minded people. They do not carry the level of fulfillment and happiness that the Thai people manage to manifest on a daily basis. Sometimes, it feels like each soul there is carrying the burden of the last two centuries on their shoulders. Not a happy lot by any stretch of the imagination. And I have been there several times, in both the north and the south, though I will say the south is infinitely more pleasant than the north, where an oppressive pall hangs in the air constantly.

[BlueSkyCowboy]

Nice girls in Ha Noi do get married first. Don't know about the south. I spent time with two girl 22 and 27, both very elegant. No problems with local population

Edited May 8, 2014 by BlueSkyCowboy

[monkeycountry]

I'm sure they all need a teacher

[ChangMaiSausage]

By the sounds of it you are a SEXY man and will not have any trouble attracting the attention of the Vietnamese female species. I can just picture you, a full head of hair and the body of adonis, I'm so jealous.

If the job offer is good take it. Go see Vietnam, if its no good then come back to Thailand. I'm sure your also very good at your job so finding a new one will not be a problem.

Seriously mate your post makes you sound like a right t*sser

I'm sure your friends with benefits will all be at the airport saying Sawadee tilac.

Good luck.

[smotherb]

The major problem with the Vietnamese female are the anatomical dissimilarities. For example, what is normally vertical is horizontal.

[Mangkhut]

Its a "hairy" difference for what I have noticed..... Some might like it some might not....

[Naam]

The major problem with the Vietnamese female are the anatomical dissimilarities. For example, what is normally vertical is horizontal.

and it has teeth... i was told

[losworld]

It's just like full metal jacket. $5

After having another look at the scene if this isn't the worst written and staged scene in the history of movie making I really don't know what is. Her accent is pathetic probably found her in a coffee shop in London. Remember this movie was shot in southern England. The dialogue is so stereotypical and inaccurate. I saw this movie when it came out and liked it but I will have to have another look after reviewing this scene lol.

Just google on youtube:

Full Metal Jacket - Hooker Scene

[NanLaew]

The major problem with the Vietnamese female are the anatomical dissimilarities. For example, what is normally vertical is horizontal.

and it has teeth... i was told

But not half as bad as the snapper organs of the Maduran women of Indonesia.

[JO1973]

First off, in terms of what Spidermilk said about women not wanting to be seen in public with a foreigner, don't believe that for a minute. Unless you live in some small village or some shi**hole part of town, women will be more than happy to be with a foreigner.

As far as them "carrying the burden of the last two centuries on their shoulders", this is 2014, Vietnamese are more concerned about getting wealthy than caring about the past. What women do have to shoulder is the responsibility of their families and if they come from a deadbeat family it can be burdensome, but which is also a reason why they want to meet a foreigner (and also a reason why you need to be wary).

I lived there for years, mainly in the south, and I can honestly say that some of the sexiest women I have ever seen -- even just walking down the street, in a bank, coffee shop, or wherever -- were in Vietnam. Women go to a great extent to look beautiful and there's a great emphasis on always looking good (they prefer older guys too). Some may not agree with me but I've lived in numerous countries in Asia for years and will say that Vietnamese women rank pretty high on the beauty scale.

BUT -- and I can't emphasize this enough -- you have to be careful because for every pretty girl looking for a nice guy there's a pretty girl waiting to bleed you dry. Vietnamese women make Thai girls look like a bunch of amateurs in this regard, they really, really, can.

[Naam]

The major problem with the Vietnamese female are the anatomical dissimilarities. For example, what is normally vertical is horizontal.

and it has teeth... i was told

But not half as bad as the snapper organs of the Maduran women of Indonesia.

many rainy seasons ago i had a girlfriend (gymnast) who could have competed with the Maduran ladies.

http://indonesiaexpat.biz/featured/the-big-squeeze/

[SLESQ]

No further proof is needed beyond this string that most of the posters know nothing, or just like to tease and fool around here for want of anything better to do.

Yup, it's when I am bored that I come to these pages, hence my small number of posts.

As for brubakertx, he writes like high school idiots who brag too much: a loaner with a 2" _oner who will be shunned there just as here.

[phuketandsee]

Many cultural similarities with Thai women but IMHO much more beautiful and gentle. They genuinely love sex and will often indulge without there being monetary strings attached. The main difference is, as has been noted above, the attitude of others to foreigner/local relationships. It is illegal for unmarried mixed couples to stay in the same room and many hotels (certainly 4 and 5 star) will insist you book separate rooms. Also there is no bar scene like there is in Thailand (where is there?). There are obviously hookers in most hotel bars and there are several bars in Saigon (called "bier hom") where you can go upstairs for a BJ or take the girls home if you wish. You can also get happy endings (and sometimes more) in massage parlors.

Best starting point is Vietnamcupid.com

Don't believe the crap about them not being "a happy lot." While they have every reason to be downcast given their history and circumstances they are extremely resilient and friendly and respond very well to foreigners, especially away from the big cities - same as most countries.

Edited May 8, 2014 by phuketandsee

[mzford]

I live in Bangkok, I have been here for less than 2 years, I travel about 70% of the time within Australasia for my job. So you may conclude Bangkok is primarily my bedroom community. I love the food, the airport and the friendliness of the Thai people. I have several important clients in both Hanoi and Saigon and I travel there minimally 6 times a year. I can only speak from my experience. Here are my observations and opinions which will be different to those of others.

1) Generally, I personally have learned not to trust Thai women. It is sad how often their mothers use them to fetch money for them. They might not be working as bone fide prostitutes, but in many ways their families prostitute them by encouraging them to marry or date a farang with money. The Thai people in general are egocentric and do not easily fall in love in the true sense as much as they look for material security, and this has been verified by social psychologists who have researched Thai culture. Read Suntaree Komin, Ph.D. on the internet. She is a Senior Fulbright Scholar and a member of the Thai Royal Educational Patronage Society. She is Internationally respected and the leading expert on the psychology of the Thai people. Dr. Komin is Thai.

2) In, general, Vietnamese women are more traditional and conservative. Again in general, they are less likely to quickly get involved sexually with their boyfriends. They value marriage much more than the Thai women and ad in general are more loyal. They are not as greedy as Thai women. Also they are not as egocentric.

3) If you are looking for recreational sex, Thailand is the place to be. If you are looking for a wife and starting a family, I personally recommend you look in Vietnam. Now my statements are only a comparison between Thailand and Vietnam. Furthermore it is based on my personal observation and experiences.

[QualityTouristNumberOne]

Is it just me or are there a load of Troll posts on Thaivisa lately?(I mean more than usual),

"I'm 19 and my bargirlfriend is pregnant"

"we've been together 3 weeks but we're so in LURVE",

etc,

all from people with low post counts,

not pointing the finger at the OP,

if you're deluded-convinced that you're 49,much younger looking and a real catch then run Forrest run!,go get em Tiger!

the Vietnamese bargirls will love you as much as your "real Thai girlfriends" and "katoeys-friends with benefits do".

while you're at it go to Cambodia and smuggle back a load of Ket,but make sure to post about it on facebook first.

[chickenslegs]

The major problem with the Vietnamese female are the anatomical dissimilarities. For example, what is normally vertical is horizontal.

and it has teeth... i was told

But not half as bad as the snapper organs of the Maduran women of Indonesia.

many rainy seasons ago i had a girlfriend (gymnast) who could have competed with the Maduran ladies.

http://indonesiaexpat.biz/featured/the-big-squeeze/

That explains the veins in your forehead.

[Krataiboy]

The major problem with the Vietnamese female are the anatomical dissimilarities. For example, what is normally vertical is horizontal.

and it has teeth... i was told

Unlikely, with gums like that.

[JesseFrank]

How are the women in Vietnam?

mostly female.

That's a huge difference with Thailand then, as here many of the women are third gender.

[ggt]

You will not have a problem meeting quality women in Vietnam...attractive...friendly...many with good educations...

[lostinisaan]

I have a job offer in Vietnam.

I love all these Thai ladies, and have a couple girlfriends here, not including several other friends with benefits. (not bragging, just saying)

I'm 49 years old white man, but look younger, and I don't have a problem finding women in Thailand. Easy. (not talking about bargirls)

A couple of girl friends that are not bar girls. Harr Harr. Are you a transgender?

[stickylies]

Crash course in Vietnamese:

Boom Boom - sex with a prostitute

Boom Boom Girl - A prostitute

Bic - Vietnamese for understand

No bic - No understand

Beaucoup - Many

KIA - Killed In Action

Good luck and avoid KIA!