when go out weddings or any event the girls seem to want to come around you it makes me feel out of place and want to leave

is it only because i look different or hansom man or have large nose means something to them

They just want to check, if farang smells as bad as it had been rumoured before your arrival!!

Moved to Pub.

opalred, the OP ...

What is your Nationality?

How many 'weddings' have you gone to?

Where do you 'go out'

So many questions, before we can define a reply ...

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Hmm! I always get the old border-line insane people attracted to me at weddings

How ugly are they ?

Give positive signals towards their advances, have secret affairs with them, juggle those girls between each other.

its the opposite for me , when i go out with 6 or 7 Thai girls in the UK, many men will not leave them alone. They get stupid remarks from male idiots and the odd female.

Yo cuz, given it a little thought and come to the only possible conclusion, I think: it's your nose, definitely, your nose, cuz.

Touch their bums.

They either move away, or you're in.

Touch their bums.

They either move away, or you're in.

Using this technique, over the years, what do think your conversion rate is?

Is it a random touching, or do you get some kind of signal first?

Asking ... not telling.

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Touch their bums.

They either move away, or you're in.

Using this technique, over the years, what do think your conversion rate is?

Is it a random touching, or do you get some kind of signal first?

Asking ... not telling.

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If she gives a positive signal beforehand its usually north of 50% in thailand, much lower in the west tho.

Touch their bums.

They either move away, or you're in.

Using this technique, over the years, what do think your conversion rate is?

Is it a random touching, or do you get some kind of signal first?

Asking ... not telling.

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If she gives a positive signal beforehand its usually north of 50% in thailand, much lower in the west tho.

Yep,

Thailand 80% (Thai women have usually decided, yes, before they get close)

USA 5% (American women, I haven't a clue what's going on in their heads)

Give positive signals towards their advances, have secret affairs with them, juggle those girls between each other.

Don't listen to lukean, he's a troll.

What does the wife think of this?????

Flirt with them....joke with them.....make them feel attractive.....in a friendly manner......stay light hearted - you're the center of attention......

Sometimes they just want to be noticed by a farang or are very curious about you.......

A lot depends on you and your wife's lifestyle......have fun with it - you may have a few pleasant surprises in store - maybe including your wife's outlook - talk about the situation....she's the one that has been chatting you up to her friends - and they share everything .....

Give positive signals towards their advances, have secret affairs with them, juggle those girls between each other.

Don't listen to lukean, he's a troll.

I just wrote what I'd do in that situation

A lot depends on you and your wife's lifestyle......have fun with it - you may have a few pleasant surprises in store - maybe including your wife's outlook - talk about the situation....she's the one that has been chatting you up to her friends - and they share everything .....

Are you suggesting group sex

everything [/u].....

Are you suggesting group sex

I'm suggesting take a lighter hearted approach to it....what happens from there "up to you".....

and they share everything .....

Your monthly allowance too ?

Edit to add......does she have many male friends ?

What does the wife think of this?????

Flirt with them....joke with them.....make them feel attractive.....in a friendly manner......stay light hearted - you're the center of attention......

Sometimes they just want to be noticed by a farang or are very curious about you.......

A lot depends on you and your wife's lifestyle......have fun with it - you may have a few pleasant surprises in store - maybe including your wife's outlook - talk about the situation....she's the one that has been chatting you up to her friends - and they share everything .....

I would say your situation is rather unique if your wife approves... All I can say is that in similar circumstances and having acted as you suggest, I was dealing with a very jealous GF at the end of the evening...

What does the wife think of this?????

Flirt with them....joke with them.....make them feel attractive.....in a friendly manner......stay light hearted - you're the center of attention......

Sometimes they just want to be noticed by a farang or are very curious about you.......

A lot depends on you and your wife's lifestyle......have fun with it - you may have a few pleasant surprises in store - maybe including your wife's outlook - talk about the situation....she's the one that has been chatting you up to her friends - and they share everything .....

I would say your situation is rather unique if your wife approves... All I can say is that in similar circumstances and having acted as you suggest, I was dealing with a very jealous GF at the end of the evening...

That's why I posed the question in the first sentence....ultimately she is the ground rule setter. . When I suggested light hearted banter I was not suggesting hitting on them....

always looking to upgrade at a moments notice

Hmm! I always get the old border-line insane people attracted to me at weddings

The farangs?

Touch their bums.

They either move away, or you're in.

Only works for me when I have a 1,000 baht note hanging out of my shirt pocket.

I think i'd get a poke in the eye

Touch their bums.

They either move away, or you're in.

Well said, DLT

Try for a gleesome threesome or even an awesome foursome. Sometimes better than a gruesome twosome.

Maybe your wife/GF is trying to palm you off to one of her friends.

OP:

Define "come around you."

I think you may be misreading things. Every Thai woman I've ever known is very respectful when it comes to being flirtatious with someone else's husband, especially in front of his wife.

Perhaps trying to make you feel "included", thinking you might feel left out.

However, some get "off" on trying to nab someone else's companion - look at the number of mothers, sisters or brothers who get it on with their relatives' spouses/girlfriends LOL!