I understand that this is a delicate question to ask the forum.

But I have read so many topics on TVF about wives or g/f’s and husbands or b/f’s cheating their partners with people from the opposite sex or even with people from the same sex.

It would be interesting and may be beneficiary to us to discuss this subject.

Personally, I haven’t got any grounds to suspect my partner, but my eyes and ears are always alert and I never dismissed in my mind that this can happen one day.

But even if it happens, as I said before in my posts, there are plenty of other alternatives out there to console my grief.

I hope I will never come to face this situation.

What about you?

Do you trust your partner?

Do you ever have doubts or even thoughts that your partner will be cheating you one day?

Did you ever think of how you are going to face this situation if ever arises?

I know, I’m not asking for much………but let’s try to be sincere with ourselves and the others and not try to hide behind our little finger.

Ps, Sorry, can't edit the header......it's Your and not Tour......if any mod could be kind enough and change it .....I will appreciate it.

Simple for me really Costas.

100% trust , both me to her and her to me. Been like that the 10 years weve been together.

trust her not to steal my house ...... 0%

trust her not to have sex with someone else ...... 0%

trust her not to steal from my wallet ...... 0%

She's a great s&%g though!

Simple for me really Costas.

100% trust , both me to her and her to me. Been like that the 10 years weve been together.

no doubts

Simple for me really Costas.

100% trust , both me to her and her to me. Been like that the 10 years weve been together.

no doubts

Nope never ,

Guess were just happy together .

That said im not nieve to know that it may come crashing down at some time , but to this point yup 100%

Simple for me really Costas.

100% trust , both me to her and her to me. Been like that the 10 years weve been together.

Ditto in everything.

Simple for me really Costas.

100% trust , both me to her and her to me. Been like that the 10 years weve been together.

Ditto in everything.

Crossy, Thank you for your answer, but can you please change the header to Your and not Tour?

I will really appreciate it.

Topic title edited.

Thank you, Jai Dee.

Simple for me really Costas.

100% trust , both me to her and her to me. Been like that the 10 years weve been together.

Same here.

Mind you I can't trust her to be on time!

Call me cynical, but I made a prenup with my first wife even though I trusted her. Saved me a lot of money.

I trust my wife now too but I still make sure I am protected.

trust is a relative thing, i have always looked at it in the light, if no one is hurt or are unaware of a little misplaced trust it is not worth the worry/thought. i admit to a lie/indisgration now and again, but make sure tracks were covered and none of my actions were potential desasters to a relationship. i have always expected the same from wife/partners and told them this up front.

sometimes both can abide by this line of thought, sometimes not. in the latter case, live with it or find another house/room mate. if i have been married or been partners with a 100% truthful woman/lady i would be surprised, but then i never went looking for the little things and the big ones ended the relationship post hast

Simple for me really Costas.

100% trust , both me to her and her to me. Been like that the 10 years weve been together.

Ditto in everything.

I agree with N47HAN and Crossy 100%.

I have known my wife 21 years and been married to her for 16 years this April.

Simple for me really Costas.

100% trust , both me to her and her to me. Been like that the 10 years weve been together.

Ditto in everything.

I agree with N47HAN and Crossy 100%.

I have known my wife 21 years and been married to her for 16 years this April.

I can beat that with ease,

I trusted my wife with everything I had for 30 years, then she took everything I had (if you wanna include dating, make that 32 years).

My Canadian pal trusted his wife with everything he had for 35 years, after that she also took everything he had.

You trusting guys make me laugh.

(in a sad and knowing sort of way)

trust her not to steal my house ...... 0%

trust her not to have sex with someone else ...... 0%

trust her not to steal from my wallet ...... 0%

She's a great s&%g though!

I trusted my wife with everything I had for 30 years, then she took everything I had (if you wanna include dating, make that 32 years).

My Canadian pal trusted his wife with everything he had for 35 years, after that she also took everything he had.

Maybe it's you and the company you keep.

Maybe it's you and the company you keep.

You probably think yours is different

A relationship can end as quick as it started, anyone who thinks otherwise is deluded.

Everything in the garden may well be rosy right now but it can change very fast and anyone with a degree of common sense would make arrangements to protect themselves if it all turned sour.

As the guy was heard to say as he fell off the roof of a tall building, on every floor they heard him say "so far so good"

So do you have a parachute or just "hope" you wont hit the floor ?

Mutual respect and trust 100%, 15 years we've put up with each others sh1t - so I guess were stuck with each other...

But as above except time keeping, in fact even 15 minutes can become an hour or more. The only part of her time keeping I trust is in the fact that she'll be late.

As far as I can throw them... and even that is sometimes too far...

100% either way. Any more questions?

I might even add that my wife often looks over my shoulder when I am on this forum and sees these bloody annoying advertisements that keep popping up about single women.

She doesn't ask, has no reason to, and I don't tell.

Absolutely nothing for either of us to hide.

Never had trust issues with Thai women as there wasn't any. Had absolutely no assumption that I could trust anyone in Thailand, and I have been happily proven wrong on many occasions. Stil, am very careful and limit my exposure.

I trust her enough to leave her days at a time when I travel for work. if I didn't I wouldn't stay with her.

Life is too short to entertain doubt.

A relationship can end as quick as it started, anyone who thinks otherwise is deluded.

Everything in the garden may well be rosy right now but it can change very fast and anyone with a degree of common sense would make arrangements to protect themselves if it all turned sour.

As the guy was heard to say as he fell off the roof of a tall building, on every floor they heard him say "so far so good"

So do you have a parachute or just "hope" you wont hit the floor ?

Oh yes, this is a hurtful lesson I learnt from my farang wife.

Am I the only one here who gives his wife a polygraph test every six months?

Why be with her, or he, if you have no trust.... Once trust is gone, time to move on in my books.. Who ever us worried about loosing $$$ Homes, partners sleeping with others, hmmm, well its gonna be a hard life.. I know someone who has no trust in his lady and he's newly wed... Funny part is, his ex and English lady, had no idea he was visiting hookers for over 2 years.. But he condones what he done, for being unhappy.. go figure..

Be happy if you can trust your partner. Don't worry yourself silly about what you may do if................. Worry about it only when it happens (if at all). Life's too short, Enjoy it whilst you can

I trust my lassie since I have known her for almost 4 years.

If my love to her dies down one day I told her already I will walk away and I expect the same from her. So far so good.

As far as I can throw them... and even that is sometimes too far...

What is them?

As far as I can throw them... and even that is sometimes too far...

What is them?

humans?

(I was gonna say women, then thought about it, and decided I don't trust men all that much either)

100% Trust

I believe that there can be no real Partnership if there is no Trust and we are now together in our 15th year.