Bar girl

[wgdanson]

Not ANOTHER newbie troll.

[marin]

4 hours ago, Sanmiguel5 said:

I've only ever had serious girls before from like 7eleven and the kind.

Sadly you dont have a clue and wont until you spend more time here. Some never find out as they dont venture out of the culture that breeds this type of woman and the whole experience you are going through. Think with your northern rather than your southern brain...

[rumak]

2 hours ago, neeray said:

1) I don't automatically assume every NEWBY to be a troll. I give the benefit of doubt.

2) I don't read "madmen" posts as they are usually drivel and a waste of time.

i too believe in the "benefit of doubt".   But if you look at these newbie posts they are always long and then you never see them post again in the future.   But ok, you never know.

 

thank you for at least not saying I am full of drivel        my gf wipes it away from time to time

[BritManToo]

5 minutes ago, rumak said:

i too believe in the "benefit of doubt".   But if you look at these newbie posts they are always long and then you never see them post again in the future.   But ok, you never know.

 

thank you for at least not saying I am full of drivel        my gf wipes it away from time to time

This is a paid post, mods are trimming the replies ........ so they know.

Edited November 26, 2019 by BritManToo

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, RichardColeman said:

OK, look, you quite obviously know what this girl is, and what she is doing. Move on.

 

That said. we all laugh and joke about your situation, but nearly all of us have had a similar experience in our early days. Probably as we come from nations where women are a little more honest and reliable and we want to believe that they are what we want them to be. 

And then comes the time when we realize that sometimes it's much nicer not to hear the truth.

[Isaanbiker]

 

    She can't pick up her phone when with another customer or on stage at a go go.

 

Do you really have to ask people on a forum about some obvious lies of a prostitute?

 

  If you read Leatherman's book, you'll find plenty of answers to your questions.

 

Would you fall in love with a prostitute back in your country, or just enjoy the time you've paid for?

 

   https://nordbo.me/files/private-dancer.pdf

 

 

 

 

 

  

 

[Yinn]

She is a sex worker. 

I not understand why farang like to have sex worker love?? Crazy.

You should try “dating”. Like normal guy.

 

But if you really like the sex worker is so easy to know if she lie about the factory job. 

Ask the name of the factory, where the factory, and what the factory make. Google it, get phone number. 

Your dad live in Thailand right? Ask you dad thai friend to call the factory and ask “can speak to ...... please?” 

 

So simple way.

 

Nobody on TVF know if she lie or not. Only imagine. Not have the real answer. 

[samsensam]

 

another one of those 'newbie' click bait posts, dont fall for it.

[stephenterry]

As my ex says about males - brain in dick.

[Isaanbiker]

17 minutes ago, Yinn said:

She is a sex worker. 

I not understand why farang like to have sex worker love?? Crazy.

You should try “dating”. Like normal guy.

 

But if you really like the sex worker is so easy to know if she lie about the factory job. 

Ask the name of the factory, where the factory, and what the factory make. Google it, get phone number. 

Your dad live in Thailand right? Ask you dad thai friend to call the factory and ask “can speak to ...... please?” 

 

So simple way.

 

Nobody on TVF know if she lie or not. Only imagine. Not have the real answer. 

A great way to find out that she's still doing what she did when she met the 22 year old "Farang".

 

  Don't you think it's obvious that the factory is one that shows "meat" to those who might be interested to rent her?

 

    Yinn, there's an old saying. " You can easily get a girl out of a bar, but you'll never get the bar out of her brain."

 

   In addition, who'd like to be number 10 + on a particular busy day?

 

   Perhaps a 22 year old who never had a serious relationship before?

[Yinn]

26 minutes ago, Isaanbiker said:

A great way to find out that she's still doing what she did when she met the 22 year old "Farang".

Simple way. 

 

 

26 minutes ago, Isaanbiker said:

 

  Don't you think it's obvious that the factory is one that shows "meat" to those who might be interested to rent her?

99% IMO. 

But I not know.

if want to know, he must call the factory.

 

26 minutes ago, Isaanbiker said:

 

    Yinn, there's an old saying. " You can easily get a girl out of a bar, but you'll never get the bar out of her brain."

If start work in the bar, need the special brain. IMO

i think a lot because Yaba.

is a sad life.

 

 

26 minutes ago, Isaanbiker said:

 

   In addition, who'd like to be number 10 + on a particular busy day?

Terrible “job.”

 

26 minutes ago, Isaanbiker said:

 

   Perhaps a 22 year old who never had a serious relationship before?

Maybe. 

 

sanmigueul5 You girlfriend before?

Maybe you should watch this movie.

 

 

 

[neeray]

1 hour ago, Yinn said:

She is a sex worker. 

I not understand why farang like to have sex worker love?? Crazy.

You should try “dating”. Like normal guy.

 

But if you really like the sex worker is so easy to know if she lie about the factory job. 

Ask the name of the factory, where the factory, and what the factory make. Google it, get phone number. 

Your dad live in Thailand right? Ask you dad thai friend to call the factory and ask “can speak to ...... please?” 

 

So simple way.

 

Nobody on TVF know if she lie or not. Only imagine. Not have the real answer. 

But maybe the factory treats their staff like slave workers and wouldn't allow an incoming call.

But if the call was made, she might realize that she's being stalked, and then ...... "You check up on me, I no wuv you anymore".

[Kwasaki]

7 hours ago, Sanmiguel5 said:

This situation is pretty much turning on all of my red flags but I just can't wrap my head around this situation.

[Sanmiguel5]

Wow, thanks for all the comments! Didn't expect this many hehe. Well just to clarify a few things for those who are Still interested.

No I'm not a troll. This is the first time I post here. I don't expect her to tell me about her customers. It would just be nice if she admitted that she is in fact working. I don't automatically see all working girls as bad and that I am good. What I meant was that when I am with someone I don't sleep with anybody else and I would like to hold my partner accountable for that as well. Now I know that a thai hooker could never do this which is why I call them "bad". Since you all have confirmed my suspiciouns I won't get a bad conscious if I sleep with another woman. I guess I knew all along what I was getting into but maybe I just needed to blow of some steam on the internet. Maybe I just needed 20 sour men with more experience than I do to confirm my many suspiciouns. Anyhow, I'm thankfull for all the comments. 

 

For those of you calling me a troll.. Really?! You would expect a troll to write a half essay about some girl he met just for sh!ts and giggles? Get over yourself. People aren't that bored. If you see a post you don't like, don't read it. Wow who knew it could be that simple to get out of net trolling?

Edited November 26, 2019 by Sanmiguel5

[wgdanson]

10 hours ago, Sanmiguel5 said:

I've only ever had serious girls before from like 7eleven and the kind. 

So tell us which is best, 7-11, Familymart, Tops, Tesco, Big C or Macro.

[jastheace]

op should ask batman what he thinks

[thaibeachlovers]

On 11/26/2019 at 9:07 AM, Sanmiguel5 said:

If she wanted to scam someone I would be the worst farang in Pattaya. But it makes no sense to me why she would want to get serious with me.

Simplest explanation is that she likes screwing a young man, and when she is working she only screws old fat men. 

Enjoy, use a condom and don't fall in love with her.

[thaibeachlovers]

21 hours ago, wgdanson said:

So tell us which is best, 7-11, Familymart, Tops, Tesco, Big C or Macro.

LOL. Swenson's in the Airport Mall, Chiang Mai used to have the most delightful young lady working there. I'd have tried with her if I hadn't been married at the time. After she left it wasn't the same buying ice cream there so I didn't any more.

[wgdanson]

5 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

LOL. Swenson's in the Airport Mall, Chiang Mai used to have the most delightful young lady working there. I'd have tried with her if I hadn't been married at the time. After she left it wasn't the same buying ice cream there so I didn't any more.

Cool !   555

[metempsychotic]

On 11/26/2019 at 6:11 AM, Skallywag said:

Really? I pay 3 baht a minute to call the USA from Thailand.  Can add up ...$6 an hour

And there is the aphorism "time is money" ... She is taking the time

Perhaps it's time you explored the potential of the Interwebs. 

 

International communication is free with any decent data plan or wifi connection. 

[NoshowJones]

On 11/26/2019 at 5:40 AM, Pravda said:

OP is control freak. 

 

You meet a bargirl and then you are annoyed because she needs to make money, God forbid. 

 

Newsflash, you are with a prostitute! You're not paying. Cool! She's with the customers and you don't like it? Well, get an office girl or something. Even a guy like me in late 40s can get a student on tinder. 

 

Are you ugly? 

Facial hair and tattoos. ????

[Nakmuay887]

My only question is how come nobody ever told me that the good girls are at 7-11? I've been wasting these several months shopping at my village market I guess 

[sirineou]

17 minutes ago, Nakmuay887 said:

My only question is how come nobody ever told me that the good girls are at 7-11? I've been wasting these several months shopping at my village market I guess 

Because most of the girls at the 7-11s have penises. 

 

what's up with 7-11s and ladyboys working there?

[Pravda]

39 minutes ago, sirineou said:

Because most of the girls at the 7-11s have penises. 

 

what's up with 7-11s and ladyboys working there?

 

Yea... I got fooled. Some of them are model material.

[sunnyboy2018]

Its a game. Thai BGs have a magic and give you a RGFE but if you forget that its a game you will get hurt and hurt her.

[Colabamumbai]

Visiting Thailand since 15, cause your dad lives there......Didn't he teach you anything.

[Chazar]

On 11/26/2019 at 6:21 AM, Skallywag said:

This real "civilian" may have been "servicing" her husband 5-20 times a month, but at least she wasn't a prostitute! 555

Just how I look at the absurdity of love and relationships (for some - not all)

yeah but at least that 19 times  less  chance of picking up something nasty.

[globalspark]

Buy the book "private dancer" Every day people like you arrive and every day people leave.same stories wake up.

[jesimps]

On 11/26/2019 at 3:32 AM, Sanmiguel5 said:

Champers, exactly why would I be more generous? Then all the ones that are after money would flock to me. That is exactly what I don't want. Usually when I meet a bar girl I am done with her after one night. I've only ever had serious girls before from like 7eleven and the kind. So what I basically wanted to know was if this one is worth getting serious with or if I should find a new girl that has an ordinary job.

Seeing that you aren't living here permanently and are such a young age, I wouldn't get serious about any girl here, bargirl or otherwise. Up to you, but if it were me, I'd just get a new one (or several) each time I visited. If you aren't the one-night-stand type, you could just hire one for the time you're here. It's cheaper by the month. 

[kingstonkid]

Hey If you like the girl and you have fun with her when you are here then by all means enjoy it.  Just make sure you use a glove lol.  

there is  nothing wrong with dating a bar girl just remember that she is a bar girl also you may have to pay for the bar fine,  

If that is the case it is up to you.

 

Just do not get serious and do not send her money when you are at home.  I would however, buy her nice things and treat her like a real girlfriend while you are here not like a lot of the old guys.