This ones for the married guys, are you still happily married ?

[SkyFax]

Not married but, any time the conversation has gotten around to taking her (not seriously -- no English) back to USA, I just say:

You're too hot -- they'd never let you in.

[kingstonkid]

8 hours ago, worgeordie said:

32 years now,and not a moment too long,she looks after me,

the house,is a good worker,saver,does not drink or smoke,

honest as the day is long,and faithful,all things my first UK

wife was not.

regards worgeordie

This lady deserves sainthood for putting up with you so long LOL 

[paulsingle]

5 years since we got together and 2.5 years since we married and it just gets better and better. She is an ex-bar girl and a country girl from Isaan.

She never drinks alcohol and frequently makes excuses not to join the Thai wives in our town when they get together for parties.

We're in the UK now and she works full time for the local council and works part-time some weekends and evenings.

She pays a contribution to our bills and sends money home to her family.

As well as working as much as possible, she puts me first in everything. She does all the cooking, cleaning, housework etc. She asks me not to wash up my coffee cup because she says that's her duty. She gets up early every morning to make sandwiches for me to take to work.

If I want sex with her at any time, I only have to mention it and she not only willingly and lovingly performs but she enjoys it too.

All my friends and most of my family love her to bits. She is always willing to help them with anything and make Thai food for them.

She makes me smile and laugh most days with her cute sense of humour.

She gets upset when she sees any kind of suffering, human or animal. Recently she took to giving food to some of the rough sleepers and beggars in our town.

I love that she still prays to Buddha every night before going to sleep and her Buddhist faith is as strong as ever.

I love her very, very much and hope this continues until I die. I'm 62 now and fit and well so looking forward to a good few years more.

[Mangkhut]

Why ruin a great relationship with marriage???

[Thingamabob]

Together 35 years, married 30 years, couldn't be happier. Met in a bar, been good ever since.

[NYDawgPound]

20 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I've been happily married twice, but apparently neither of my wives were.

Met my UK wife in a bar (had to wait 2 weeks to bang her), met my Thai wife in a bar (had to wait 2hrs to bang her).

Why the Wait?  Mandatory Cooling off period?  Too Busy?

[CH1961]

Yes, more than 30 years ... but not with the same ????

[khunPer]

"This ones for the married guys", so I presume that I'm not allowed to post here...

[sipi]

1 hour ago, sipi said:

My wife and I are happily married.

I'm happy and she's married.

That was a joke by the way.

[muffy]

Yes, but she is from Burma.????????????

[4MyEgo]

28 minutes ago, khunPer said:

"This ones for the married guys", so I presume that I'm not allowed to post here...

Married can mean defacto, so there's your green light......your in ????

 

[GreasyFingers]

I have an absolutely wonderful wife who does everything for me as many have mentioned above.

 

But we are now doing the extreme relationship test of doing extensions to an old house. I warned her before we started that many couples get divorced over building houses (my experience back home) because of all of the decisions that need to be made and each having their own opinion.

 

Half way through and very bumpy. She was a farm girl and has trouble when a (superior) Thai (builder) tells her something even though I know it is BS or a try on.

[rickb]

In 1996, while I was working in Singapore, I came to Thailand as a tourist and met my now wife.  I was introduced to her by a friend of mine.  We married in 2002 and have been very much in love and happy ever since then.  She moved with me back to the USA when my work in SE Asia was finished in 2002.  I have always trusted her with anything I have.  She has taken care of me always and has never given me a problem.  Our love for each other has grown steadily over the years.  In 2007, we jointly decided that I would retire and we would move back to Thailand to live.  That was the best decision we ever made together.  Now that I am wheelchair bound, I don't have the ability to take care of things around the house.  So, each month, I give her all of the money from my Social Security and pension funds and she takes care of everything.  She has never used any of our money wrongfully.  If anything, she is too much of a cheapskate (ha, ha).  After reading many posts on TV, I realize I am a very fortunate man to have met and fallen in love with my wife.

[Scouse123]

Never married but this year is 23 years together. Ups and downs but mostly ups!

 

I have no plans for that to change and neither does my other half.

 

My relationship with the UK wife lasted 6 years.

[thesetat2013]

Going on 8 years now and wish I had met my wife before my previous 3 divorces in the USA. Met her online in thaifriendly app. Took me a few months before she actually met me and had sex. But she is such a good wife to me. Good mother as well to our kids. 

Her salary is in the high end so she doesn't demand money from me. She doesn't complain to me if I want to take a few days in Pattaya. And doesn't question my whereabouts or bitch if I don't answer her call immediately. She works hard and works hard at home also. She does complain to me if I buy something expensive. Like the pool I just bought for our home and kids. However it's all for show because once we actually begin to use what I buy. She is all smiles. 

Her family doesn't ask me for anything and even refused to accept the sinsodt shown for our wedding. 

[BobinBKK]

23 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I've been happily married twice, but apparently neither of my wives were.

Met my UK wife in a bar (had to wait 2 weeks to bang her), met my Thai wife in a bar (had to wait 2hrs to bang her).

Is she all stretched out? Do you have to strap a 2x4 to your backside so you don't fall in every time you make love to her?

[Bundooman]

Yes.

Eleven years on but still not married though.....

[Number 6]

Together ten years. She has a great disposition 24/7. Great companion. Minds her money, never asks for any of mine. Decent in-laws, can plan an international trip, thrifty. Takes care of the drowndry weekly. Genuinely nice person.

 

Could dust the place a bit better haha.

 

I never tire of her company.

 

She gets amused when we're out and my eye catches some girl. Sometimes I get a laugh, sometimes I get a snack, then a laugh. She's still attractive but can't say my thoughts don't wander, it's Bangkok dear Lord.

[khunPer]

1 hour ago, 4MyEgo said:

Married can mean defacto, so there's your green light......your in ????

Never been married, but had girlfriends in my home country, one even lasting 15 years, but no children.

 

Met a Thai girl in the nightlife in 2003, she has been a lovely girlfriend since, and she also gave me an heir.

 

We all have a past, but it's the future that matters. My experience is that "you can – successfully – take the girl out of the bar". A lasting relationship is a matter of looking forward, and balance and compromises. Different culture and age gap – we have 32 years between us – makes the right weights on the balance even more important, but a long term happy outcome is certainly possible.

 

We are all different, so what might work well for one couple, might not work as well for another, but a succesful relationship require something from both parts. It has probably helped us that I already had planned to settle for early retirement in Thailand, so we never had to settle abroad, our time together there was merely an experience for my girlfriend, and a way to learn about Europe; for me it was used as part of her education and insight about the mysterious Western lifestyle.

 

I believe we overcome the age gap with me still being "young in mind" and love to get out for both music, events, and dance – only minus I can think is when I'm spending too much time with Thaivisa forum... – however, we also give each other freedom, so we don't need to do everything together. I don't get bored alone in corner when a group of Thai girls are chatting in their native language or dialects; and my girlfriend don't get bored if I'm having a talk with other farangs.

 

To be honest, "taking the girl out of the village" might require little more effort than "the bar", a mat on the floor still has equal importance as table and chairs, however depending of the guests...????

[Isaanbiker]

"If someone bumps into the guy that made that statement, pull him aside and slap him across the face twice for me, as his saying is totally wrong."

 

If you want to meet me, please choose the location. You can indeed take a girl out of a bar, but the bar will always be in her brain.

 

Imagine, you're a girl/woman who has to take drugs to be able to sleep with old, fat and ugly foreigners, just because they pay good money?

 

Would such a girl/woman still attract you?

 

After # 1,265, or earlier, they do not see a guy as a human being, they only see him as the guy who pays for sex, no matter how perverted his "extraordinary wishes" are. 

 

 And it must be a lot of fun to have an 87-year-old Opa on Viagra, and the prostitutes' task is to make him feel comfortable.

 

My dinner wants to come up now...

 

If she doesn't do it, the guy can bring her back to the bar and complain about her.

 

Unfortunately, do many foreigners believe that you can do all to a prostitute because you pay for it? 

 

I know a guy I'd call the "backdoor man" who believes that he can do all he wants to a prostitute, forgetting that she's a human being too. 

 

When a prostitute denied his "wishes," he raped her from behind. But he's too dumb to understand that. 

 

  A side note. I wouldn't want to have sex with a girl/ woman who had "relationships," is it short, or a long-time gig, with half of Pattaya's foreigners.

 

And I'd feel embarrassed when half of Pattaya's male population had sexual interaction with my "beloved wife." 

 

And I'm in no way somebody who looks down at prostitutes.

 

I use them, treat them well and pay them, but I'd never marry one.

 

 

 

     

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited January 21, 2020 by Isaanbiker

[worgeordie]

5 hours ago, kingstonkid said:

This lady deserves sainthood for putting up with you so long LOL 

Your absolutely right.

regards worgeordie

[PAWNEESE]

I would consider marriage/long term gf if I could find one with the same interests as me.

 

A) TV sport B) Bars C) Lusting after girls.

 

Still looking.

[SteveInBKKandMAUI]

Aloha, we met on Thai Love Links (Thai Cupid now) 5 years ago.  Brought her to Maui, Hawaii on K1 Fiancee' VISA.  Married on Maui.  Spend time in BKK (condo near BTS Saphan Khwai) and Maui both.  She is an Internation Currency Trader and daily SET trader. Love Her To Pieces.

 

We struggle with FOOD.  

 

GO ASIAN.  YOU WON'T GO BACK!

[Enki]

17 hours ago, GinBoy2 said:

Yeah, still very happy with my Thai wife, not a ex bar girl so so didn't have that dynamic going on.

But we've been together over 10 years, in Singapore where we met, Thailand and now back in the US. Actually just doing the math, it's closer to 20 years, dammit, it's 20 years in 2024

 

But I also have a very close relationship with my ex wife, close enough that we can all spend holidays together with our kids my ex wife and her current boyfriend, my American daughters and Thai son, plus the bf's son and daughter

 

I don't think that kind of figuring things out, is as rare as people would believe

Before Christians ruined everything that was supposed to be the norm in human life.

[White Christmas13]

Well every body here seem to complain about Farang women, let me tell you

I was happily married to my first wife (Farang) for 30 years and I broke up the 

relationship not her. Got married again to a Thai women, for 15 years still

married but separated now, so it is not just the fault of farang women.

Yes I do admit I love Asian women but never blame farang women. 

Edited January 21, 2020 by White Christmas13

[Enki]

5 hours ago, Isaanbiker said:

"If someone bumps into the guy that made that statement, pull him aside and slap him across the face twice for me, as his saying is totally wrong."

 

If you want to meet me, please choose the location. You can indeed take a girl out of a bar, but the bar will always be in her brain.

 

Imagine, you're a girl/woman who has to take drugs to be able to sleep with old, fat and ugly foreigners, just because they pay good money?

 

Would such a girl/woman still attract you?

 

After # 1,265, or earlier, they do not see a guy as a human being, they only see him as the guy who pays for sex, no matter how perverted his "extraordinary wishes" are. 

 

 And it must be a lot of fun to have an 87-year-old Opa on Viagra, and the prostitutes' task is to make him feel comfortable.

 

My dinner wants to come up now...

 

If she doesn't do it, the guy can bring her back to the bar and complain about her.

 

Unfortunately, do many foreigners believe that you can do all to a prostitute because you pay for it? 

 

I know a guy I'd call the "backdoor man" who believes that he can do all he wants to a prostitute, forgetting that she's a human being too. 

 

When a prostitute denied his "wishes," he raped her from behind. But he's too dumb to understand that. 

 

  A side note. I wouldn't want to have sex with a girl/ woman who had "relationships," is it short, or a long-time gig, with half of Pattaya's foreigners.

 

And I'd feel embarrassed when half of Pattaya's male population had sexual interaction with my "beloved wife." 

 

And I'm in no way somebody who looks down at prostitutes.

 

I use them, treat them well and pay them, but I'd never marry one.

 

 

 

     

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You are watching to many american movies ....

[4MyEgo]

9 hours ago, Isaanbiker said:

I use them, treat them well and pay them, but I'd never marry one.

Um, so your unhappily married ?

[4MyEgo]

4 hours ago, White Christmas13 said:

Yes I do admit I love Asian women but never blame farang women.

I think that when you compare "most" farang women to Thai women, the difference is so wide and ranging hence the reason "most" men are happily married to Thai women.

 

For me it's the simplicity, e.g. my wife is happy to stay home and do her gardening most days, some house chores, the kitchen, she absolutely loves, me too, and she has no intention of stressing out the relationship to work or start a business as with 4 kids she has a full time job as it is, being the school bus driver in our pick up while I laze around, my roll in all of this is to be the loving ATM (husband), or as she says, broken ATM ????

 

My experience from farang women is that they are a faulty product, i.e. they are emotionally damaged and use sex as if it's a weapon, whereas Thai's except it as a release, a make you and me feel good tool for our relationship, you know, get on honey, giddy up ????

[GinBoy2]

14 hours ago, sirineou said:

You are a lucky man. 

I have a close relationship with my ex-wife also, We have a daughter together and we are both very active in our Daughters life, and as such we are in constant contact,  see each other on holidays, B-days etc. 

Thai wife feels very threatened by her, and would be happy if I had nothing to do with my ex. She just does not get it that even though we are not married, we can still be friends.  

 Anyway, other than that, and a few other things, LOL, Being together 13 years and married 10 years. don't get me wrong. we do have our moments, but I could not imagine a life without my Thai wife. Other than my Daughter, best thing that ever happened to me.

My wife grew up in the US as a teenager so she 'gets' Western culture.

 

She has often said to me one of the problems a lot of Thai ladies experience when they move to the West is that the whole concept of Mia Noi just doesn't exist, and it's confusing.

 

That can and I fear does lead to a lot of resentment of what may be ex wives, or just female friends, since they view them from a Thai cultural perspective.

[Peterw42]

9 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

My experience from farang women is that they are a faulty product, i.e. they are emotionally damaged and use sex as if it's a weapon, whereas Thai's except it as a release, a make you and me feel good tool for our relationship, you know, get on honey, giddy up ????

I would agree, Its somthing I have noticed, sex isnt used as currency in the marrige as it would be back in the west. No sex because you didnt mow the lawn,  no sex because we are arguing etc.

It doesn't matter whats going on, food, sex, manicures are a separate transaction.