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Not married but, any time the conversation has gotten around to taking her (not seriously -- no English) back to USA, I just say:

You're too hot -- they'd never let you in.

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8 hours ago, worgeordie said:

32 years now,and not a moment too long,she looks after me,

the house,is a good worker,saver,does not drink or smoke,

honest as the day is long,and faithful,all things my first UK

wife was not.

regards worgeordie

This lady deserves sainthood for putting up with you so long LOL 

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20 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I've been happily married twice, but apparently neither of my wives were.

Met my UK wife in a bar (had to wait 2 weeks to bang her), met my Thai wife in a bar (had to wait 2hrs to bang her).

Why the Wait?  Mandatory Cooling off period?  Too Busy?

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1 hour ago, sipi said:

My wife and I are happily married.

I'm happy and she's married.

That was a joke by the way.

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28 minutes ago, khunPer said:

"This ones for the married guys", so I presume that I'm not allowed to post here...:unsure:

Married can mean defacto, so there's your green light......your in ????

 

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I have an absolutely wonderful wife who does everything for me as many have mentioned above.

 

But we are now doing the extreme relationship test of doing extensions to an old house. I warned her before we started that many couples get divorced over building houses (my experience back home) because of all of the decisions that need to be made and each having their own opinion.

 

Half way through and very bumpy. She was a farm girl and has trouble when a (superior) Thai (builder) tells her something even though I know it is BS or a try on.

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Never married but this year is 23 years together. Ups and downs but mostly ups!

 

I have no plans for that to change and neither does my other half.

 

My relationship with the UK wife lasted 6 years.

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23 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I've been happily married twice, but apparently neither of my wives were.

Met my UK wife in a bar (had to wait 2 weeks to bang her), met my Thai wife in a bar (had to wait 2hrs to bang her).

Is she all stretched out? Do you have to strap a 2x4 to your backside so you don't fall in every time you make love to her?

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Together ten years. She has a great disposition 24/7. Great companion. Minds her money, never asks for any of mine. Decent in-laws, can plan an international trip, thrifty. Takes care of the drowndry weekly. Genuinely nice person.

 

Could dust the place a bit better haha.

 

I never tire of her company.

 

She gets amused when we're out and my eye catches some girl. Sometimes I get a laugh, sometimes I get a snack, then a laugh. She's still attractive but can't say my thoughts don't wander, it's Bangkok dear Lord.

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"If someone bumps into the guy that made that statement, pull him aside and slap him across the face twice for me, as his saying is totally wrong."

 

If you want to meet me, please choose the location. You can indeed take a girl out of a bar, but the bar will always be in her brain.

 

Imagine, you're a girl/woman who has to take drugs to be able to sleep with old, fat and ugly foreigners, just because they pay good money?

 

Would such a girl/woman still attract you?

 

After # 1,265, or earlier, they do not see a guy as a human being, they only see him as the guy who pays for sex, no matter how perverted his "extraordinary wishes" are. 

 

 And it must be a lot of fun to have an 87-year-old Opa on Viagra, and the prostitutes' task is to make him feel comfortable.

 

My dinner wants to come up now...

 

If she doesn't do it, the guy can bring her back to the bar and complain about her.

 

Unfortunately, do many foreigners believe that you can do all to a prostitute because you pay for it? 

 

I know a guy I'd call the "backdoor man" who believes that he can do all he wants to a prostitute, forgetting that she's a human being too. 

 

When a prostitute denied his "wishes," he raped her from behind. But he's too dumb to understand that. 

 

  A side note. I wouldn't want to have sex with a girl/ woman who had "relationships," is it short, or a long-time gig, with half of Pattaya's foreigners.

 

And I'd feel embarrassed when half of Pattaya's male population had sexual interaction with my "beloved wife." 

 

And I'm in no way somebody who looks down at prostitutes.

 

I use them, treat them well and pay them, but I'd never marry one.

 

 

 

     

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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5 hours ago, kingstonkid said:

This lady deserves sainthood for putting up with you so long LOL 

Your absolutely right.

regards worgeordie

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I would consider marriage/long term gf if I could find one with the same interests as me.

 

A) TV sport B) Bars C) Lusting after girls.

 

Still looking.

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Aloha, we met on Thai Love Links (Thai Cupid now) 5 years ago.  Brought her to Maui, Hawaii on K1 Fiancee' VISA.  Married on Maui.  Spend time in BKK (condo near BTS Saphan Khwai) and Maui both.  She is an Internation Currency Trader and daily SET trader. Love Her To Pieces.

 

We struggle with FOOD.  

 

GO ASIAN.  YOU WON'T GO BACK!

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17 hours ago, GinBoy2 said:

Yeah, still very happy with my Thai wife, not a ex bar girl so so didn't have that dynamic going on.

But we've been together over 10 years, in Singapore where we met, Thailand and now back in the US. Actually just doing the math, it's closer to 20 years, dammit, it's 20 years in 2024

 

But I also have a very close relationship with my ex wife, close enough that we can all spend holidays together with our kids my ex wife and her current boyfriend, my American daughters and Thai son, plus the bf's son and daughter

 

I don't think that kind of figuring things out, is as rare as people would believe

Before Christians ruined everything that was supposed to be the norm in human life.

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Well every body here seem to complain about Farang women, let me tell you

I was happily married to my first wife (Farang) for 30 years and I broke up the 

relationship not her. Got married again to a Thai women, for 15 years still

married but separated now, so it is not just the fault of farang women.

Yes I do admit I love Asian women but never blame farang women. 

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5 hours ago, Isaanbiker said:

"If someone bumps into the guy that made that statement, pull him aside and slap him across the face twice for me, as his saying is totally wrong."

 

If you want to meet me, please choose the location. You can indeed take a girl out of a bar, but the bar will always be in her brain.

 

Imagine, you're a girl/woman who has to take drugs to be able to sleep with old, fat and ugly foreigners, just because they pay good money?

 

Would such a girl/woman still attract you?

 

After # 1,265, or earlier, they do not see a guy as a human being, they only see him as the guy who pays for sex, no matter how perverted his "extraordinary wishes" are. 

 

 And it must be a lot of fun to have an 87-year-old Opa on Viagra, and the prostitutes' task is to make him feel comfortable.

 

My dinner wants to come up now...

 

If she doesn't do it, the guy can bring her back to the bar and complain about her.

 

Unfortunately, do many foreigners believe that you can do all to a prostitute because you pay for it? 

 

I know a guy I'd call the "backdoor man" who believes that he can do all he wants to a prostitute, forgetting that she's a human being too. 

 

When a prostitute denied his "wishes," he raped her from behind. But he's too dumb to understand that. 

 

  A side note. I wouldn't want to have sex with a girl/ woman who had "relationships," is it short, or a long-time gig, with half of Pattaya's foreigners.

 

And I'd feel embarrassed when half of Pattaya's male population had sexual interaction with my "beloved wife." 

 

And I'm in no way somebody who looks down at prostitutes.

 

I use them, treat them well and pay them, but I'd never marry one.

 

 

 

     

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You are watching to many american movies ....

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9 hours ago, Isaanbiker said:

I use them, treat them well and pay them, but I'd never marry one.

Um, so your unhappily married ?

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4 hours ago, White Christmas13 said:

Yes I do admit I love Asian women but never blame farang women.

I think that when you compare "most" farang women to Thai women, the difference is so wide and ranging hence the reason "most" men are happily married to Thai women.

 

For me it's the simplicity, e.g. my wife is happy to stay home and do her gardening most days, some house chores, the kitchen, she absolutely loves, me too, and she has no intention of stressing out the relationship to work or start a business as with 4 kids she has a full time job as it is, being the school bus driver in our pick up while I laze around, my roll in all of this is to be the loving ATM (husband), or as she says, broken ATM ????

 

My experience from farang women is that they are a faulty product, i.e. they are emotionally damaged and use sex as if it's a weapon, whereas Thai's except it as a release, a make you and me feel good tool for our relationship, you know, get on honey, giddy up ????

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14 hours ago, sirineou said:

You are a lucky man. 

I have a close relationship with my ex-wife also, We have a daughter together and we are both very active in our Daughters life, and as such we are in constant contact,  see each other on holidays, B-days etc. 

Thai wife feels very threatened by her, and would be happy if I had nothing to do with my ex. She just does not get it that even though we are not married, we can still be friends.  

 Anyway, other than that, and a few other things, LOL, Being together 13 years and married 10 years. don't get me wrong. we do have our moments, but I could not imagine a life without my Thai wife. Other than my Daughter, best thing that ever happened to me.

My wife grew up in the US as a teenager so she 'gets' Western culture.

 

She has often said to me one of the problems a lot of Thai ladies experience when they move to the West is that the whole concept of Mia Noi just doesn't exist, and it's confusing.

 

That can and I fear does lead to a lot of resentment of what may be ex wives, or just female friends, since they view them from a Thai cultural perspective.

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9 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

My experience from farang women is that they are a faulty product, i.e. they are emotionally damaged and use sex as if it's a weapon, whereas Thai's except it as a release, a make you and me feel good tool for our relationship, you know, get on honey, giddy up ????

I would agree, Its somthing I have noticed, sex isnt used as currency in the marrige as it would be back in the west. No sex because you didnt mow the lawn,  no sex because we are arguing etc.

It doesn't matter whats going on, food, sex, manicures are a separate transaction.

 

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