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Do you have a gik?

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I've been having massage at a shop since February. Solid-built woman, mid-forties, average looks. When she was forced to close up by government order, I gave her some money to tide her over, saying she could work it off in massages when she re-opened. She is open now, in a closed-up kind of way, and she has done two massages since, free.

On the second massage, she astounded me by saying she wanted me as her gik. She knows I have a girlfriend. She says she has no husband or boyfriend. I am not handsome. I am elderly, and one woman is enough for me. Reasonably fit for my age bracket, still have regular sex.

I am just wondering if she is pre-menopausal horny, or looking to supplement her income with sexual services. While I think it's more likely to be the latter, I'd like comments from people who have had a gik based on lust alone, and those for whom it is a commercial arrangement. Call it my insatiable curiosity.

 

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    You know! PS. Not much danger of disease from a hand job, and your gf will be assuming you get those in the massage anyway. PPS. Mid-40s ........ I'd ask her if she has a daughter.

  • No money, no honey. She sees you as generous and wants to extrapolate that generosity. I have several gik's (or sideliners) and simply pay them for each entertainment. If you like her pay her, if you

  • A 'gik' is a 'friend' and that presupposes a relationship. Having two relationships may be the norm for Thai guys and women, but why wade into those waters if you have a functioning relationship.

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No money, no honey. She sees you as generous and wants to extrapolate that generosity. I have several gik's (or sideliners) and simply pay them for each entertainment. If you like her pay her, if you love your GF stay away. Personally I dont have GF's only sideliners - life's easier that way and I don't want Cheese Pizza every night.

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1 minute ago, BobBKK said:

No money, no honey. She sees you as generous and wants to extrapolate that generosity. I have several gik's (or sideliners) and simply pay them for each entertainment. If you like her pay her, if you love your GF stay away. Personally I dont have GF's only side liners - life' easier that way and I don't want Pizza every night.

The pizza has been pretty tasty for the last 7 years, with no STD worries. But I do understand what you are saying. Variety is the spice of life.

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16 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

looking to supplement her income with sexual services.

You know!

PS. Not much danger of disease from a hand job, and your gf will be assuming you get those in the massage anyway.

PPS. Mid-40s ........ I'd ask her if she has a daughter.

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18 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Solid-built woman, mid-forties, average looks.

Why would you even consider having sex with her? You are in Thailand, correct?

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7 hours ago, BritManToo said:

 

PPS. Mid-40s ........ I'd ask her if she has a daughter.

You wanting a 3 some.....:clap2:

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22 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

she wanted me as her gik. She knows I have a girlfriend. She says she has no husband or boyfriend.

Think about what might happen if she becomes your gik. And then you have a misunderstanding. She knows your girlfriend and she might use that in a way you don't like.

It's so easy to have sex in Thailand with someone who does not know the wife/gf. Which makes the situation so much easier.

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7 hours ago, Lacessit said:

 But I do understand what you are saying. Variety is the spice of life.

Even the older plain ladies need some loving...go for it and ask her how much she can pay you beforehand....

The older girls don,t tell

The older girls don,t swell

But the older girls are as grateful as hell.....:thumbsup:

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5 minutes ago, petermik said:

You wanting a 3 some.....:clap2:

2's company 3's pleasure 

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13 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

I'd ask her if she has a daughter.

Thank you, I just spewed coffee all over my keyboard laughing...lol (sound advice by the way)

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A 'gik' is a 'friend' and that presupposes a relationship.
Having two relationships may be the norm for Thai guys and women, but why wade into those waters if you have a functioning relationship.

Limit your exposure to women other than your girl-friend/spouse to business.  You pay the lady for a massage. She needs more money?  Pay her to wash your car, etc.  Keep it strictly business.  :wink:

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In the same area? you must be joking or you must wanna die, I get plenty of offers being vely hansum the amount of people who know my wife where we live Ive even had stories invented about where I've been them poo ying can be nasty, Stay away

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does she kno whwere you live? there s another thread today about a foriegner who got blackmailed for 1.5 mill. Worth thinking about!!

20 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

You know!

PS. Not much danger of disease from a hand job, and your gf will be assuming you get those in the massage anyway.

PPS. Mid-40s ........ I'd ask her if she has a daughter.

She needs more money?  Pay her to wash your car.  Wax on, wax off, wax on, wax off, on, off, on, off, onoffonffonoffonoff...........!!!!

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3 minutes ago, connda said:

A 'gik' is a 'friend' and that presupposes a relationship.
Having two relationships may be the norm for Thai guys and women, but why wade into those waters if you have a functioning relationship.

Limit your exposure to women other than your girl-friend/spouse to business.  You pay the lady for a massage. She needs more money?  Pay her to wash your car, etc.  Keep it strictly business.  :wink:

Exactly - rent not buy (and you get to change models) but if you are happy who cares?  just tread carefully

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There is a new movie out about Lorena Bobbit.

Apparently she did Bob it.

15 minutes ago, nikmar said:

does she kno whwere you live? there s another thread today about a foriegner who got blackmailed for 1.5 mill. Worth thinking about!!

Blackmailed?? The OP only has a girlfriend, not a wife who he has kids with etc. I doubt he'd pay Bt 1,500 in 'blackmail' money, let alone 1.5 mil. You gotta laugh.

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My understanding of a 'gik' is that's is like 'friends with benefits' or a 'f%%k buddy'. I don't have one. The trouble I see with this type of relationship is that it's not just about the money but has an awkward 'friendship/relationship' aspect that could get quite messy. It's not like just paying for it outright where you can do the deed and forget, there's a long-term aspect to it that can go sideways on you. 

3 minutes ago, jadee said:

My understanding of a 'gik' is that's is like 'friends with benefits' or a 'f%%k buddy'. I don't have one. The trouble I see with this type of relationship is that it's not just about the money but has an awkward 'friendship/relationship' aspect that could get quite messy. It's not like just paying for it outright where you can do the deed and forget, there's a long-term aspect to it that can go sideways on you. 

Gik to me was always as you say friends with benefits, on a more serious note Mia Noi thats another story but was quiet accepted in Thai society

1 hour ago, BobBKK said:

 I have several gik's (or sideliners) and simply pay them for each entertainment...Personally I dont have GF's only sideliners ...

What's so remarkable about that, everyone has access to prostitutes, including the pros you use. 

 

"Giks and sideliners"?  You're having a laugh, call a spade a spade.

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I only came here to read NCC's comment but he must be busy.

Every time when the locals asks me if i have a wife/gf i tell them i have a gik and they giggle under their breath they must think i'k very funny/clever or something...

A the end of the day you have 4 questions you have to ask yourself:

 

1. What is the best thing that can happen?

2. Whats the worst thing that can happen?

3. What do you think will happen?

4. Is the juice worth the squeeze?

 

Good luck with all of that and choose wisely ???? 

The bible is very clear on this.

 

No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other, Ye cannot serve God and mammon.

 

Matthew 6:24

3 minutes ago, Logosone said:

The bible is very clear on this.

 

No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other, Ye cannot serve God and mammon.

 

Matthew 6:24

Who's mammon?

I'd suggest reading today's story on TV about the 1.5 mil baht just ripped off by a Thai woman claiming she would tell his family about their affair before continuing

2 hours ago, Lacessit said:

I am just wondering if she is pre-menopausal horny, or looking to supplement her income

Haha, I wouldn't entertain her proposition. She'll come at you with a two-pronged attack. She certainly needs money right now, and at her age, she certainly has her needs.

 

Upon first coming to Thailand years ago, I'll admit I was thinking with the small head, and went after the 20-somethings. I soon found that other than their looks I was getting a raw deal. For the serious action, one must double their target age. ???? But to stay in a committed relationship, stay away from them.

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