Lacessit Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 32 minutes ago, kingofthemountain said: From the OP first post ''Hi folks, I don’t know how to say this but it straight out of Dear Deidre Column for folks who are familiar. i married a Thai girl last year, she is really kind and lovely. Before I met her, she was doing massage....'' You're right, my bad. Although I could have sworn he used the term GF in the initial OP, maybe he's gone back and edited it. Quite a few responses pointing out the GF? can't claim title to the condo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BangkokReady Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 16 hours ago, fangless said: So why does she "need" another condo in "her" name? Her friends and family explained to her that if the condo is in his name, she can't keep it when it all goes to <deleted>. She has to stay with him to stay living in it and that doesn't fit in with her plan to get rid of him in the near future. One of the repeating themes with these types of relationships is that the girls clearly see it as a short term con, for whatever reason, and try to get as much as possible as early as possible. Possibly they have no faith in the guy, or they are so repulsed by them that they don't want to play the long game. They want to get in, get as much as they can and get out. There are obviously some long-gamers that are happy to stay with the man long-term and be supported. Presumably they are slightly more balanced mentally or they are more into the guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nees Shah Posted March 14, 2021 Author Share Posted March 14, 2021 1 hour ago, kingofthemountain said: From the OP first post ''Hi folks, I don’t know how to say this but it straight out of Dear Deidre Column for folks who are familiar. i married a Thai girl last year, she is really kind and lovely. Before I met her, she was doing massage....'' Thank you for pointing that out. But then again, I am just ignoring the unnecessary jibes from certain folks. I have made a stupid mistake but I was in a bad place when I met her and she did pick me up. I would still like to think she will see sense. I also understand everyone needs money but pressing your husband to depart with 3m is not the right way. It’s going to be difficult for me mentally to get over her. I do love Thailand and planned to retire there but am worried about the loneliness it will bring. I can never trust a Thai person ever anymore. Worst case I will sell the condo and stay here in Blighty. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nees Shah Posted March 14, 2021 Author Share Posted March 14, 2021 1 hour ago, OneMoreFarang said: Maybe give 1 million THB to a young and beautiful lady. Basically you saved 2 million and you will have a young and beautiful girlfriend. Why would you give 3 million to an old women who gives you headache everyday? She is lovely but I am 55 years of age. Why would she ever want to be with a loser like me ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
expatjustice Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 (edited) 19 hours ago, Nees Shah said: I love her and still do.. she says she loves me a lot too but why does money have to be Centre of this ? Because you married a prostitute. That she does massage is just the excuse, anyone offering the right amount of money to her gets to f… the s…. out of her… Now I am not here to laugh at you, but to make you realize that you are loving someone who couldn’t care less about you, they only care about your money. The moment the money stops, they would put a bullet in your head if they knew they could get away with it. DO NOT send her a single more Baht, recover your condo, and lastly forget her! (and make sure to wish her good with a nice <deleted>… You….!) Then you can enjoy your life and find a girl who actually values what you give her and IS NOT a prostitute. You tell the girl that if she burns your stuff, you will pay some random Somchai to give a nice beating up to her dad and send him 1 month to the hospital. Stand your ground, and threaten back whenever you get silly threats to scare you. Edited March 14, 2021 by expatjustice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BangkokReady Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 13 hours ago, RichardColeman said: Being stuck away I can really only send her about 23,000 baht to support her and our daughter She doesn't even earn enough to support herself? You might want to reconsider whether she's good with money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ehs818 Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 Just cut your losses. She's only into you for your money. That must be painfully clear to you by now! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irwinfc Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 19 hours ago, Nees Shah said: I love her and still do.. she says she loves me a lot too but why does money have to be Centre of this ? isn't it. lear enough fhat she needs your money more than she needs you. 3M or she walks. duh! just run the other way, and fast! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BusyB Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 21 hours ago, Pilotman said: Another made up post. A waste of TVF memory. Belongs in the Farang Pub ... joined less than a day ago and 26 posts including this atrocious ludicrosity. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 1 hour ago, Nees Shah said: She is lovely but I am 55 years of age. Why would she ever want to be with a loser like me ? It seems you think about spending 3 million on a woman who constantly give you headache. I am sure you will find lots of young and beautiful girls who would be delighted to make you happy for a lot less than that. And if you are smart then you don't give them all the money up front. Just employ them monthly. Good service, good salary. Bad service, find another one. In Thailand it's as simple as that. And for the amounts of money which you mention you should get Grade A. It's up to you if you settle for less. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farang63 Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 kick her ass and send her back to do massages and sleep in the dilapidated room where she was, and that is her environment, you take a Thai woman out of where she lives, but you will never be able to take her away from her environment where she wants to live Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
farang63 Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 I kicked two asses off, after buying a house and supporting the parasite and her family for years, now they're back in the barn where they lived, and I'm out of that <deleted> 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThailandRyan Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 Many expect and want the good life, without ever having truly worked for it. Expecting someone to pick them up and change their life and that of their family without truly understanding what a job and saving truly is. The Sugar Daddy system is what I call it, and once they get a taste of the good life and a better lifestyle they want more and cast one aside to get to the higher ground. However, after they have attained what they thought they wanted they are still unhappy, because they were happy with nothing but never realized it was and always will be their life. You can not get yourself wrapped around the axels and become the knight in shining armor to rescue someone who is only in it for themselves and could care less about using someone to get what they think they want. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Brick Top Posted March 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted March 14, 2021 I have been there and cut loose when the demands carried on for a car after I spent 500,000 on making her a house it will never end and it was a lesson for me . Believe me if they sincerely do love you , they wont ask for anything , after I met another one who wanted nothing. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonray Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 1 hour ago, Nees Shah said: She is lovely but I am 55 years of age. Why would she ever want to be with a loser like me ? She's got a lot of reasons to want you.. 3 million to be exact Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aomelia Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 Dump her immediately too soon to be begging 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aomelia Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 48 minutes ago, farang63 said: I kicked two asses off, after buying a house and supporting the parasite and her family for years, now they're back in the barn where they lived, and I'm out of that <deleted> Smart Man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Pilotman Posted March 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted March 14, 2021 59 minutes ago, BusyB said: Belongs in the Farang Pub ... joined less than a day ago and 26 posts including this atrocious ludicrosity. but isn't it rather amazing that some on here are treating him, and it, as a genuine story? Odd that. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mr mr Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 22 hours ago, Nees Shah said: What do I do ? I feel like a mug but it is what it is. give me half the money. let me kick you in the groin and we call it even. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dlclark97 Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 22 hours ago, Nees Shah said: I have made mistakes folks. I was having to skip my daily meals to support her 40000 a month so as to save money and give her a good life. ????.. how can someone do this to another human being ! Now that your eyes are open to the reality, RUR FOREST RUN! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aomelia Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 2 hours ago, expatjustice said: Because you married a prostitute. That she does massage is just the excuse, anyone offering the right amount of money to her gets to f… the s…. out of her… Now I am not here to laugh at you, but to make you realize that you are loving someone who couldn’t care less about you, they only care about your money. The moment the money stops, they would put a bullet in your head if they knew they could get away with it. DO NOT send her a single more Baht, recover your condo, and lastly forget her! (and make sure to wish her good with a nice <deleted>… You….!) Then you can enjoy your life and find a girl who actually values what you give her and IS NOT a prostitute. You tell the girl that if she burns your stuff, you will pay some random Somchai to give a nice beating up to her dad and send him 1 month to the hospital. Stand your ground, and threaten back whenever you get silly threats to scare you. My ex would come up with all that love you so much <deleted> it was a script repeated daily Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nees Shah Posted March 14, 2021 Author Share Posted March 14, 2021 58 minutes ago, BusyB said: Belongs in the Farang Pub ... joined less than a day ago and 26 posts including this atrocious ludicrosity. Doesn’t someone need to join at some point and start with their first post ? Or is it you that decides now who can post their personal issues or not. I am going through a serious issue right now which I am seeking help for. What’s wrong with that. I have come across some wonderful people here in the last 2 days that have been a great help to me for my issue. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dlclark97 Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 21 hours ago, kingofthemountain said: In a couple love needs to be a shared feeling or it doesn't work on the long run. I am sorry for you but it's obvious she has 0 love for you she is just trying to take advantage of you and milking you of all your money Money is number 1 in Thailand all the society is organised around this the girls like your ''wife'' usualy come from a poor family and they have no education or relation, their only chance to climb the social ladder and to build up some assets is to catch someone like you. You need to urgently open your eyes or you will be soon left with nothing at all The above sums it up nicely. Love from the female you have fallen for is only as deep as your pockets. I repeat, RUN FOREST RUN! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThailandRyan Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 2 minutes ago, Aomelia said: My ex would come up with all that love you so much <deleted> it was a script repeated daily Yes, when you tell yourself repeatedly or do something over and over again it becomes routine and they start to believe what they are saying or doing, and make you believe its so. They are experts sort of like a person practicing drawing a gun from a holster and shooting a target, after the repetitive motion is done over and over you can become quick. However, there is always something or someone better down the road, and with a flick they are off and onto the next millionaire, but truly never satisfied. Lets keep feeding the story which may or may not be true....how many pages can it span. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
malibukid Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 the penis triumphs once again over the brain 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aomelia Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 3 minutes ago, ThailandRyan said: Yes, when you tell yourself repeatedly or do something over and over again it becomes routine and they start to believe what they are saying or doing, and make you believe its so. They are experts sort of like a person practicing drawing a gun from a holster and shooting a target, after the repetitive motion is done over and over you can become quick. However, there is always something or someone better down the road, and with a flick they are off and onto the next millionaire, but truly never satisfied. Lets keep feeding the story which may or may not be true....how many pages can it span. The hand holding , cuddling and then when I go home back to Thai bf Oscar winner Best Actress 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pilotman Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 175 posts replying to a made up story, unbelievable. Some people really do need to get out more. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smiggley Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 Send me her address and I will go and have a talk to her. On your behalf of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThailandRyan Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 Just give her a Bitcoin you must have, that's worth 2MThb. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hobobo Posted March 14, 2021 Share Posted March 14, 2021 22 hours ago, Blue Muton said: He can't. What she really wants is a hansum man. Agree with you in all respects except I think she wants several hansum men Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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