Popular Post JeffersLos Posted October 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 12, 2021 2 hours ago, wtfracing said: How would you react to this I'd probably add a question mark. 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liverpool Lou Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 2 hours ago, wtfracing said: My wife was contacted by her ex husband asking her to go guarantee on a loan for a truck for 2 million baht over 4 years. Now he works for a government service but has outside business for which vehicle is for. He says he can't get any one else to do it and house would have to be used as security. How would you react to a situation like this? With horror if it was my house, obviously, but I suppose it depends on who owns the house! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Liverpool Lou Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 2 hours ago, BangkokReady said: If his business goes under then you lose your house. His house? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post vinci Posted October 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 12, 2021 she's your wife now, you take control of the situation, no right minded wife would do such a thing, if she refuse i would question her loyalty 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tgw Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 Just now, vinci said: she's your wife now, you take control of the situation, no right minded wife would do such a thing, if she refuse i would question her loyalty this 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
473geo Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 This is easy, difficult for a Thai to just outright refuse, so she asks you, expecting a firm no! Then goes back to ex telling him she asked but you refused. Face saved no guarantee. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WhiteBuffaloATM Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 If True, this “request” comes from the school of Unbelievable Brass Neck or college teaching All Farangs Are Rich Idiots Just Waiting to Handover Money in Scams. Only or Best Recommended Response is Loud Sustained Raucous Laughter in Face of Conspirator Wife. Not worthy of any Verbal Response….. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doctor Tom Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, DrPhibes said: How long has he been an "ex-husband"? It surely doesn't matter how long, the fact is he is 'ex'. Absolutely no, and if she agreed to it he should be mightily suspicious of her motives. Edited October 12, 2021 by Doctor Tom 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stigar Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 My exwife let her "uncle"borrow 750.000 bath.Thats why shes my exwife. Her "uncle"was her lover.11 years marrige was over in a minute. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WorriedNoodle Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 (edited) 2 hours ago, wtfracing said: He says he can't get any one else to do it and house would have to be used as security. How would you react to a situation like this? If it was me I'd ask myself who's house is it and why haven't I explained this in the o/p to get a better answer? I'd then wonder why my wife is getting me involved with this in the first place and why I married her? If both answers are not looking good, I'd pack my bags and gtfoot. Edited October 12, 2021 by WorriedNoodle 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 Maybe she's still involved with the ex husband 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomyami Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 once that question was asked she is already ur exwife 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mvdf Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 Do it and you'll live to regret it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chuang Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 Tell her ex to fly kite ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 47 minutes ago, 473geo said: This is easy, difficult for a Thai to just outright refuse, so she asks you, expecting a firm no! Then goes back to ex telling him she asked but you refused. Face saved no guarantee. Difficult to say NO. Well yes, but not if the response is 'sorry I/we have no money.' On the other hand was she openly bragging to her family about having big money in the bank? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ukrules Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 Never Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
473geo Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 8 minutes ago, scorecard said: Difficult to say NO. Well yes, but not if the response is 'sorry I/we have no money.' On the other hand was she openly bragging to her family about having big money in the bank? Thread is not about loaning money is about being a guarantor 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tubby johnson Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 Tell her to say YES unreservedly! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtfracing Posted October 12, 2021 Author Share Posted October 12, 2021 8 hours ago, Hamus Yaigh said: You don't say what house? Is this one you are living in by chance? Yes is our current house and my first words were no f---hi g way 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbko Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 9 hours ago, wtfracing said: He says he can't get any one else to do it The fact he can't get a family member or anyone else to co-sign on his loan is a huge red flag. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post seajae Posted October 12, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 12, 2021 my wife went guarantor for her cousin to get 20,000 baht of tyres/wheels for his car, he actually worked for her at the business she manages. He traded the car in a couple of weeks later on a newer model and no one has seen him since plus he never made any repayments on the new car or the tyres/wheels, you cant even trust your own family let lone an ex husband, only a total fool would sign for an ex husband 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wtfracing Posted October 12, 2021 Author Share Posted October 12, 2021 9 hours ago, WhiteBuffaloATM said: If True, this “request” comes from the school of Unbelievable Brass Neck or college teaching All Farangs Are Rich Idiots Just Waiting to Handover Money in Scams. Only or Best Recommended Response is Loud Sustained Raucous Laughter in Face of Conspirator Wife. Not worthy of any Verbal Response….. Absolutely true and not a troll post but in her defense she came and asked me what I thought as soon as she received the message. I too think ex is trying to stay in the picture butting for him to learn ex means ex after 4 years. He only contacts when he wants to talk about their adult kids which is not very often but I'm waiting to see what unfolds over next week or so as to if I could have to change my plans and situation. Thanks for all the replies I was curious as to what others thought. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WhiteBuffaloATM Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 btw there should be NO such contact and NO such wife forwarding action. in what other ways are they “contacting” each other…… these actions alone for me would be grounds for immediate Separation & Divorce. let alone the clear scam conspiracy by wife…..and insult to intelligence….. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RichardColeman Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 The fact that the bank wont bankroll his purchase speaks volumes about the consistency and viability of his business in my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
inThailand Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 She's doing you a favor by leaving. Don't miss this golden opportunity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nip Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 16 hours ago, RafPinto said: And why would he pay back his loan. Someone else guaranteed the loan. Absolutely true and as another poster mentioned could this be a done deal already? I'd be down to the land office to check the land Chanote and all your bank accounts. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
473geo Posted October 12, 2021 Share Posted October 12, 2021 6 hours ago, WhiteBuffaloATM said: btw there should be NO such contact and NO such wife forwarding action. in what other ways are they “contacting” each other…… these actions alone for me would be grounds for immediate Separation & Divorce. let alone the clear scam conspiracy by wife…..and insult to intelligence….. Very narrow minded, selfish, inconsiderate post where there are children from a previous marriage involved. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andyfez Posted October 13, 2021 Share Posted October 13, 2021 No way. Im suspicious of any wife who wants to help an ex-husband 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RJRS1301 Posted October 13, 2021 Share Posted October 13, 2021 People become your "EX" for a reason Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skeptic7 Posted October 13, 2021 Share Posted October 13, 2021 No eff-in' way. Extreme caution dealing with Thai men. Keep distance and in no way get further involved. Dangerous, untrustworthy and unstable. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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