Popular Post BritManToo Posted January 9, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2022 (edited) 11 minutes ago, Hummin said: And what kind of attitude do you have ???? Man, jeeez every girl is not a feminist even back home where we come from. It is more to a relationship than having a 20 year old girl on your lap, They all seem to want your house and pension when they get tired of you. Which is more of a problem for me than their political views. Women with access to the western legal system are just too expensive IMHO. Just not worth the risk of asset stripping and false accusations, possibly arrest and jail.. Edited January 9, 2022 by BritManToo 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 20 minutes ago, BritManToo said: They all seem to want your house and pension when they get tired of you. Which is more of a problem for me than their political views. Women with access to the western legal system are just too expensive IMHO. Just not worth the risk of asset stripping and false accusations, possibly arrest and jail.. Man, it is universial, and I do not share your experiences, I might had other priorities and other experiences with woman, but I have learned something of everyone I have met, and still do. Life is good now, and that is the most important thing. Whats happening in the future, I can either prevent, or let it happen, and I think we all can control our future to minimize a coming catastrophe if you are willing to pay attention and learn. Nothing comes out of the blue, at least my experience. But as said, we all have different expections, different paths, and different experiences. Listen, open your eyes and see whats going on around you is hard sometimes but in the long run it can pay off one way or another. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 (edited) 9 hours ago, KhunLA said: Every country has lovely women, but how approachable are they ? Not talking about P4P. Didn't come to Thailand because of the women, as have those in USA. Though they are a nice plus here. More availability of younger gals, though wasn't a problem in USA, just less selection. I had a Dodge Ram Cummins 3500 dually in Texas. Never had issues getting laid with any girls' approachability. Edited January 9, 2022 by NanLaew 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 47 minutes ago, NanLaew said: I had a Dodge Ram Cummins 3500 dually in Texas. Never had issues getting laid with any girls' approachability. Nice rig - that would've worked here too.... Wish they had them here (but basically too much truck for TH).... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post SAFETY FIRST Posted January 9, 2022 Author Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2022 11 minutes ago, pgrahmm said: Nice rig - that would've worked here too.... Wish they had them here (but basically too much truck for TH).... I've seen a few of those at the JetSki World Cup over the years. Come on down to Pattaya this week for the event, there's heaps of awesome cars/pickups on the kerb to look at. I saw a GLE63 last year, the rich Bangkokian's and Superstars drive them down, loads of proper cars to look at, always a few Ferrari's and Lamborghini's parked up. Even the mobile homes/motor homes/RV's the JetSki riders sleep in are nice to look at. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted January 9, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2022 1 hour ago, Hummin said: And what kind of attitude do you have ???? Man, jeeez every girl is not a feminist even back home where we come from. It is more to a relationship than having a 20 year old girl on your lap, and being a teacher I like cute nice girls who are feminine and best case never heard of feminism. And I like the traditional role model that I earn the money and she takes care of the house and cooks and makes me happy. If some guys prefer that they do half the housewife work that is obviously up to them - just not what I like. In Thailand there are many girls who like to be at home and take care of their man. In western countries not so much. 6 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted January 9, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2022 1 hour ago, Hummin said: Whats happening in the future, I can either prevent, or let it happen, and I think we all can control our future to minimize a coming catastrophe if you are willing to pay attention and learn. No! That is exactly the point. What happens with a relationship in the future can't be controlled. And in the west, or at least in many countries over there, you don't even have to be married to be treated legally as if you are married. Lots of guys pay a lot of money for their ex and they have no chance to just walk away from that. I understand that if people were married for some time and the woman has to take care of small kids that she and the kids need support. But what in many western countries happens is just ridiculous. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 7 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: I like cute nice girls who are feminine and best case never heard of feminism. And I like the traditional role model that I earn the money and she takes care of the house and cooks and makes me happy. If some guys prefer that they do half the housewife work that is obviously up to them - just not what I like. In Thailand there are many girls who like to be at home and take care of their man. In western countries not so much. Me and my gf shared when we both where working or when my gf study at university and my work schedule was 2 weeks offshore 4 weeks home, I did most of the cooking and housework as outside. I did not mind at all, now my tg will not let me do anything, and garden farm work I really do not want to do, so we have workers doing what they can do, and what I know they can't do, but still say they can do I do. My gf do not clean, so we got somebody to come and clean for us to, but she is an excellent chef, and happy with that. The best thing she do not work, and we can travel whenever we want. As said before it is all about preferences for each and one, and also out of necessity. I could not have a gf here in Thailand who was working 40 hours or more a week, and on Thai holiday schedule. It have been more important for me to find someone I can live with, who can live with me, have chemistry, also got bone in the nose to tell when she had something to adress, and we can talk. Language is important as well life experiences and what they have learned and not learned. And of course no kids 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted January 9, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2022 (edited) 17 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: No! That is exactly the point. What happens with a relationship in the future can't be controlled. And in the west, or at least in many countries over there, you don't even have to be married to be treated legally as if you are married. Lots of guys pay a lot of money for their ex and they have no chance to just walk away from that. I understand that if people were married for some time and the woman has to take care of small kids that she and the kids need support. But what in many western countries happens is just ridiculous. I ended my love of my life because I realized we where in different tracks with different goals in life! So, my experience I could hold on to her, or let her go, and I choosed to let her go. Today, she got 4 kids, bacame Dr in biotechnology and married to a lawyer. I saw this coming way before she finished university. Not the life I wanted, so had to set her free, or maybe set myself free before it would destroy both of us Edited January 9, 2022 by Hummin 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Adumbration Posted January 9, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2022 7 hours ago, spidermike007 said: I can walk around a Tesco in the provinces, and I see one gorgeous gal after another. In Bangkok, it is ridiculous. I have been here for a long time. The two most beautiful girls I have ever seen were: 1. Pumping gas at a PTT in Phuket 2. Riding on the back of flat bed with 20 other building laborers If either of those girls lived anywhere in the west they would have a vapor trail of guys following them around constantly. I chatted at length with the girl at the gas station. She was farm fresh from Nakon Nowhere. It is worth noting that she was working there for just 4 days...and then she disappeared. Into the underbelly of Patong I assumed. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grecian Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 45 minutes ago, Adumbration said: I have been here for a long time. The two most beautiful girls I have ever seen were: 1. Pumping gas at a PTT in Phuket I chatted at length with the girl at the gas station. She was farm fresh from Nakon Nowhere. It is worth noting that she was working there for just 4 days...and then she disappeared. Into the underbelly of Patong I assumed. Weren't you tempted to ask her out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 1 hour ago, Adumbration said: I have been here for a long time. The two most beautiful girls I have ever seen were: 1. Pumping gas at a PTT in Phuket 2. Riding on the back of flat bed with 20 other building laborers If either of those girls lived anywhere in the west they would have a vapor trail of guys following them around constantly. I chatted at length with the girl at the gas station. She was farm fresh from Nakon Nowhere. It is worth noting that she was working there for just 4 days...and then she disappeared. Into the underbelly of Patong I assumed. That reminds me of a very cute and innocent girl in a restaurant. I didn't dare to ask her out. Next time I saw her a month later or so she smiled at me from a gogo-stage... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 18 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: That reminds me of a very cute and innocent girl in a restaurant. I didn't dare to ask her out. Next time I saw her a month later or so she smiled at me from a gogo-stage... and ? Did you ask her out then? Or still did not ,,,,,,,,. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 15 minutes ago, Hummin said: and ? Did you ask her out then? Or still did not ,,,,,,,,. That was a long time ago and I don't remember too many details. But as far as I remember she was already occupied with another guy. And on my next visits to the bar she was gone. Most innocent cute girls don't last long in those places... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
overherebc Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 9 hours ago, BritManToo said: They all seem to want your house and pension when they get tired of you. Which is more of a problem for me than their political views. Women with access to the western legal system are just too expensive IMHO. Just not worth the risk of asset stripping and false accusations, possibly arrest and jail.. And people ask me why I had my nuts cut before I got married in UK. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted January 9, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2022 14 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: That was a long time ago and I don't remember too many details. But as far as I remember she was already occupied with another guy. And on my next visits to the bar she was gone. Most innocent cute girls don't last long in those places... I met a girl on an Island many years ago, and promised to come back to her. It took 6 months longer than planned, asked her to go with me to Philippines. She could not, and I ended up going alone, but met a fantastic girl there I hanged out with for two months. Then I see the Island girl got a new bf, and checked his profile, and guess what? He used to be together with the one I was with in Phil? Small world huh ???? She happily married in Europe now, and is one of those you regret slipped through your fingers. Good girl, fun, god joy, and hard working, and looking better than ever. Still carrying my neckless once and awhile from what I see from pictures. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Adumbration Posted January 9, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2022 5 hours ago, Grecian said: Weren't you tempted to ask her out? Very. The fact I did not is still a regret. At the time I was already living with a lass. Quite happily. And in a house just up from the gas station. But it turned out she was not different.... 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
richard_smith237 Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 6 hours ago, Adumbration said: She was farm fresh from..... Cringe with a dash of rohypnol...... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kinnock Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 12 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: In Thailand there are many girls who like to be at home and take care of their man. Agree ..... and here's the view from my kitchen table .... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JensenZ Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 On 1/7/2022 at 11:07 PM, BangkokReady said: This is largely irrelevant when discussing attraction, as the subconscious mind generating the desire/urge doesn't know you aren't actually impregnating anyone. Best you go back and respond to the person I was replying to as it was not the point of my reply. If the discussion was about spreading genes, then we'd have to discuss the higher risk of old men producing babies as there's a higher risk of gene changes or genetic mutation in older sperm. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JensenZ Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 13 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: I like cute nice girls who are feminine and best case never heard of feminism. And I like the traditional role model that I earn the money and she takes care of the house and cooks and makes me happy. If some guys prefer that they do half the housewife work that is obviously up to them - just not what I like. In Thailand there are many girls who like to be at home and take care of their man. In western countries not so much. You can find boys, girls or transgender more than happy to take care of you at home, provided the money is sufficient. If that money becomes scarce she won't be smiling as she is in the photo. You like them young, so we'll call them boys or girls in your case. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alwaysthailand Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 They look good but personality of wall paper paste compared to Philippines. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted January 9, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2022 3 hours ago, Kinnock said: Agree ..... and here's the view from my kitchen table .... Nice socks. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 3 hours ago, JensenZ said: You can find boys, girls or transgender more than happy to take care of you at home, provided the money is sufficient. If that money becomes scarce she won't be smiling as she is in the photo. You like them young, so we'll call them boys or girls in your case. I leave the boy and transgender and whatever to others. Believe it or not, some girls are happy with guys who are significantly older then they are. Maybe it's the fact that the older guys don't want to or aren't able to f@$& 3 times a day. Or maybe the fact that many of those older guys are happy to have one girlfriend at home and they don't go out drinking and f@$#ing around like some younger guys. There are many possible reasons and not just money. Money might be a reason but reality tells us there are lots of other reasons why couples stay together. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Travis179 Posted January 9, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 9, 2022 On 1/8/2022 at 1:04 AM, The Hammer2021 said: Yep. Even the LadyBoys, as above, are more feminine and graceful than Western women. Definitely true of the females in my US city. Most I wouldn't touch with a 10' pole! 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post thaibeachlovers Posted January 10, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 10, 2022 22 hours ago, Hummin said: Man, it is universial, and I do not share your experiences, I might had other priorities and other experiences with woman, but I have learned something of everyone I have met, and still do. Life is good now, and that is the most important thing. Whats happening in the future, I can either prevent, or let it happen, and I think we all can control our future to minimize a coming catastrophe if you are willing to pay attention and learn. Nothing comes out of the blue, at least my experience. But as said, we all have different expections, different paths, and different experiences. Listen, open your eyes and see whats going on around you is hard sometimes but in the long run it can pay off one way or another. No idea if that is a promo for western women, but considering at least 50% of marriages fail, seems to me that marriage is not a good gamble, especially for men, as IMO they usually end up with the dirty end of the stick. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted January 10, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 10, 2022 3 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: No idea if that is a promo for western women, but considering at least 50% of marriages fail, seems to me that marriage is not a good gamble, especially for men, as IMO they usually end up with the dirty end of the stick. 50% fail, and the other 50% continue in misery. Either way the guy ain't getting any sex. 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 10, 2022 Share Posted January 10, 2022 3 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said: No idea if that is a promo for western women, but considering at least 50% of marriages fail, seems to me that marriage is not a good gamble, especially for men, as IMO they usually end up with the dirty end of the stick. How many of the asian woman stay in the relationship and suck up becaue they have to? Is that a good thing? If the Asian woman was independent, and had choices, how many of the western guys would still be in a relationship or married in Asia? I like to think I give my gf a choice by giving her trust when I have the land and the houses in her name. It gives her security, and it gives her a choice to leave me if she wants to. Im not spoiling her or her parents on daily basis, and I know she could find a man who was willing to spend more money on them than me, as some other falangs do I know of as friends, or in the village. It is silly amount of money they are willing to spent not only on land, or houses, but monthly transfers to to their family, and they do not even live in the village. It makes it a competition in the small rural villages who getting more than the others, and my gf is often asked how much I pay her by month. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted January 10, 2022 Share Posted January 10, 2022 6 minutes ago, Hummin said: I like to think I give my gf a choice by giving her trust when I have the land and the houses in her name. It gives her security, and it gives her a choice to leave me if she wants to. Sounds a bit stupid to me. Mine has her own farm and forest, no need for land from me. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted January 10, 2022 Share Posted January 10, 2022 (edited) 10 minutes ago, BritManToo said: Sounds a bit stupid to me. Mine has her own farm and forest, no need for land from me. It might be, but thats how I see it. If she wants to milk me, use me and then ditch me, I will know sooner than later, and if so, I can look back at it as a little bit expensive rent and salery. It is not more than I can walk away from. After 5 years, I can call it a good leasing deal with a brilliant chef and 24 hours service. And if it lasts, you can call it love that survived the test. Edited January 10, 2022 by Hummin 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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