Thailand, the most beautiful girls in the world.

[thaibeachlovers]

10 minutes ago, Hummin said:

How many of the asian woman stay in the relationship and suck up becaue they have to? Is that a good thing? If the Asian woman was independent, and had choices, how many of the western guys would still be in a relationship or married in Asia? 

 

I like to think I give my gf a choice by giving her trust when I have the land and the houses in her name. It gives her security, and it gives her a choice to leave me if she wants to. 

 

Im not spoiling her or her parents on daily basis, and I know she could find a man who was willing to spend more money on them than me, as some other falangs do I know of as friends, or in the village. 

 

It is silly amount of money they are willing to spent not only on land, or houses, but monthly transfers to to their family, and they do not even live in the village. 

 

It makes it a competition in the small rural villages who getting more than the others, and my gf is often asked how much I pay her by month. 

I just wanted sex from my marriage. Had I wanted "companionship" and all that, but without sex, I could have married a western women in home country.

My mistake was not giving my Thai wife  enough incentive to keep her attention on her husband, and that was it. First the sex went, then the attention went, and finally the marriage went.

 

Whatever mistakes I made though, I never built her a house, or gave the goodies to her family, though in the end they just stole as much as they could from me.

 

Anyway, lesson learned and will never ever marry again, even if I had the opportunity. Not much out there at my age, and I ain't having a relationship with someone looks like a grandmother.

[thaibeachlovers]

14 hours ago, Hummin said:

I met a girl on an Island many years ago, and promised to come back to her. It took 6 months longer than planned, asked her to go with me to Philippines. She could not, and I ended up going alone, but met a fantastic girl there I hanged out with for two months. Then I see the Island girl got a new bf, and checked his profile, and guess what? He used to be together with the one I was with in Phil? Small world huh ????

 

She happily married in Europe now, and is one of those you regret slipped through your fingers. Good girl, fun, god joy, and hard working, and looking better than ever. Still carrying my neckless once and awhile from what I see from pictures.

 

 

LOL. I still think about the cute ones I didn't take out. Then there was the most beautiful one I ever had that was fantastic in bed and I messed up- never saw her again.

[Hummin]

21 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I just wanted sex from my marriage. Had I wanted "companionship" and all that, but without sex, I could have married a western women in home country.

My mistake was not giving my Thai wife  enough incentive to keep her attention on her husband, and that was it. First the sex went, then the attention went, and finally the marriage went.

 

Whatever mistakes I made though, I never built her a house, or gave the goodies to her family, though in the end they just stole as much as they could from me.

 

Anyway, lesson learned and will never ever marry again, even if I had the opportunity. Not much out there at my age, and I ain't having a relationship with someone looks like a grandmother.

I never had your experiences, even I had my struggles and downs in my life, I always tried to analyze what happend, where did it go wrong, and what can I do to prevent it happen again. I always try to keep an open mind, and I am not perfect either. So many things that have to tick the boxes to make things work out for two people, and not to forget you are in Thailand, and the family have to tick the boxes to. 

 

I realize everthing I spend on my gf and her family, and the land I bought, the houses I built, or maybe I should say we? Do not forget what you guys do together, what you aggree on, and how thing comes together. You will know if something is wrong, and if it goes wrong, you already knew it from the beginning. At least that is my experience. Anyway, got little bit lost there, but Im ready to leave everything behind if it doesnt work out, but I like to give trust, and see how everything unfolds and prove if it is something we want for the future. We are more equal now I feel, since we both have something to loose if we do not try our best, and not just one sided story. 

 

Another thing, is to lift your head, and look at the horizon up there, and not behind you. Bring your experiences with you, but do not live in the past. 

 

 

Edited January 10, 2022 by Hummin

[thaibeachlovers]

1 minute ago, Hummin said:

You will know if something is wrong, and if it goes wrong, you already knew it from the beginning. At least that is my experience. 

I knew my marriage was doomed long before it ended, but I carried on in hope that a miracle would happen. It didn't.

[OneMoreFarang]

17 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

LOL. I still think about the cute ones I didn't take out. Then there was the most beautiful one I ever had that was fantastic in bed and I messed up- never saw her again.

Sometimes it's better to dream about them and dream about how wonderful it could have been.

A long time ago I met one girl on a night out in Pattaya, absolutely stunning. It was in a disco and she wanted to party until early morning. Then she joined me in my hotel room. I had a shower and waited for her in bed. Then she had a shower or maybe she was only sitting in the bathroom, I don't know. Maybe an hour later she came out of the bathroom, she looked at me and said: Your still awake, I thought (hoped for) you were sleeping. We had sex after that, but it was about the worst I ever had.

I should have continued to dream about her in that disco...

[Hummin]

6 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Sometimes it's better to dream about them and dream about how wonderful it could have been.

A long time ago I met one girl on a night out in Pattaya, absolutely stunning. It was in a disco and she wanted to party until early morning. Then she joined me in my hotel room. I had a shower and waited for her in bed. Then she had a shower or maybe she was only sitting in the bathroom, I don't know. Maybe an hour later she came out of the bathroom, she looked at me and said: Your still awake, I thought (hoped for) you were sleeping. We had sex after that, but it was about the worst I ever had.

I should have continued to dream about her in that disco...

Ah, she just had second thoughts because she was chatting with her bf

Edited January 10, 2022 by Hummin

[Lacessit]

6 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

 

Believe it or not, some girls are happy with guys who are significantly older then they are. Maybe it's the fact that the older guys don't want to or aren't able to f@$& 3 times a day. Or maybe the fact that many of those older guys are happy to have one girlfriend at home and they don't go out drinking and f@$#ing around like some younger guys.

There are many possible reasons and not just money. Money might be a reason but reality tells us there are lots of other reasons why couples stay together. 

My GF is 23 years younger than me. IMO she likes the security of knowing I don't go out drinking at bars, and would never be violent towards her. Unlike her former Thai husband, who drank, gambled and was abusive.

Sure, money is part of our relationship, but there is also mutual respect and playfulness. No problem for her if I get under her feet occasionally.

[thaibeachlovers]

1 minute ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Sometimes it's better to dream about them and dream about how wonderful it could have been.

A long time ago I met one girl on a night out in Pattaya, absolutely stunning. It was in a disco and she wanted to party until early morning. Then she joined me in my hotel room. I had a shower and waited for her in bed. Then she had a shower or maybe she was only sitting in the bathroom, I don't know. Maybe an hour later she came out of the bathroom, she looked at me and said: Your still awake, I thought (hoped for) you were sleeping. We had sex after that, but it was about the worst I ever had.

I should have continued to dream about her in that disco...

That reminds me of the soapy massage I had at one of the huge places in Bkk on new year's eve. Didn't see her for ages after going to the room and then she rushed the "massage" as she wanted to get outside to the big party the place put on for the girls.

I learned all my lessons in LOS the hard way.

 

In the case of the beauty, she really was everything dreams are made of, but I made a huge mistake and that was over. Still have regrets.

Then there was the DDG dancer in The G Spot at Nana, that sat next to me completely naked ( I hadn't bought her a drink- it was just where she sat between dances ). I passed on her at the time, to my everlasting wonder if she might have been the real thing.

 

Then there was the real cute girl that I had my eye on, but was too slow. The guy that took her out must have thought she was the real thing because she never came back to the bar the rest of my visit, though I went there every night afterwards.

 

However, most of the time, the really good looking ones were disappointing, so in the end I never bothered with the DDG ones. Good decision.

[OneMoreFarang]

22 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

My GF is 23 years younger than me. IMO she likes the security of knowing I don't go out drinking at bars, and would never be violent towards her. Unlike her former Thai husband, who drank, gambled and was abusive.

Sure, money is part of our relationship, but there is also mutual respect and playfulness. No problem for her if I get under her feet occasionally.

I like how she points her fingers: You stay down there and don't move until I tell you! ???? 

[OneMoreFarang]

20 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

Then there was the DDG dancer in The G Spot at Nana, that sat next to me completely naked ( I hadn't bought her a drink- it was just where she sat between dances ). I passed on her at the time, to my everlasting wonder if she might have been the real thing.

I remember the "reflections" dance floor in that bar. The good old times.

[thaibeachlovers]

36 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

That reminds me of the soapy massage I had at one of the huge places in Bkk on new year's eve. Didn't see her for ages after going to the room and then she rushed the "massage" as she wanted to get outside to the big party the place put on for the girls.

I learned all my lessons in LOS the hard way.

 

In the case of the beauty, she really was everything dreams are made of, but I made a huge mistake and that was over. Still have regrets.

Then there was the DDG dancer in The G Spot at Nana, that sat next to me completely naked ( I hadn't bought her a drink- it was just where she sat between dances ). I passed on her at the time, to my everlasting wonder if she might have been the real thing.

 

Then there was the real cute girl that I had my eye on, but was too slow. The guy that took her out must have thought she was the real thing because she never came back to the bar the rest of my visit, though I went there every night afterwards.

 

However, most of the time, the really good looking ones were disappointing, so in the end I never bothered with the DDG ones. Good decision.

Found this photo of the beauty at Railay in '99. Just for old time's sake.

 

My Thai Aphrodite emerging from the sea.

 

 

[thaibeachlovers]

and sometimes I really wish I had left them as a memory.

 

Met an absolutely delightful girl at Nana, back when Hollywood Royal was the cheese. Not so delightful without her clothes on though. Worst stretch marks I ever had the misfortune to see in my life. Couldn't take her out again, which was a pity as she really was the nicest girl I ever met in LOS.

Edited January 10, 2022 by thaibeachlovers

[Tippaporn]

On 1/5/2022 at 8:13 PM, talahtnut said:

British ladies on the other hand, do have a certain subtle charm.

I've heard squeezing them is like squeezing a bag of softened butter . . . 

 

Edited January 10, 2022 by Tippaporn

[thaibeachlovers]

52 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

My GF is 23 years younger than me. IMO she likes the security of knowing I don't go out drinking at bars, and would never be violent towards her. Unlike her former Thai husband, who drank, gambled and was abusive.

Sure, money is part of our relationship, but there is also mutual respect and playfulness. No problem for her if I get under her feet occasionally.

I never visited Thailand without the pleasure of a SYT walking on my spine and pushing all the misaligned vertebrae back into position.

I'd never be brave enough to ask a western woman to do that though, as probably end up paralyzed.

[Tippaporn]

On 1/5/2022 at 7:17 PM, OneMoreFarang said:

Come on guys, we need pictures in this thread!

Best idea I've heard all day.  Nice pic but sorry about the slight hint of camel toe.

[bojo]

7 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

There are many possible reasons and not just money. Money might be a reason but reality tells us there are lots of other reasons why couples stay together. 

Maybe, but not in the case of 'dirty old men'.........................................

[Tippaporn]

On 1/6/2022 at 5:24 AM, CG1 Blue said:

Reminds me of when I was a newbie in Thailand, around 2001. I love the dark skinned Thai women so I was like a kid in a sweet shop. I was befriended by the security guy at my resort and one evening he started saying he can set me up with a beautiful lady he knows (yes, I know they all say that but I was a newbie). It sounded quite appealing, until he described her. Good family, well educated, white skin, nose like a European etc etc. The complete opposite to what I like! I politely declined. 

 

But I like the fact Thai men tend not to like the dark ones. It's like sharing a box of chocolates with someone who prefers the ones with orange or marzipan fillings. 

Chocolate with marzipan filling.  Like killing two birds with one stone . . . living in the best of both worlds.  The one item missing from Thailand which would make this a true Heaven . . . marzipan 

[thaibeachlovers]

7 minutes ago, bojo said:

Maybe, but not in the case of 'dirty old men'.........................................

There's always one ????

[bojo]

3 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

There's always one ????

Is it possible to book that slot in advance?!!

[Tippaporn]

Only in Thailand . . . 

 

[Tippaporn]

It's surprising how Thailand has so many lovely ladies who are adept pool players.  No grander feeling than sinking one into the hole . . . 

 

[SAFETY FIRST]

14 minutes ago, Tippaporn said:

Only in Thailand . . . 

 

Don't you love it. 

No helmets, no license plate, so more than likely no tax and insurance. 

Lots of Smiles, lovely though, beautiful. 

 

The sadest moment for me is when I'm off to the airport going to work for the month is seeing a beautiful young lady on her scooter, one of the sexiest sights for me, you never, ever see that in Australia. 

[KhunLA]

22 minutes ago, Tippaporn said:

Only in Thailand . . . 

 

and most other Asian & economically depressed countries around the world.

[Tippaporn]

9 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Don't you love it. 

No helmets, no license plate, so more than likely no tax and insurance. 

Lots of Smiles, lovely though, beautiful. 

 

The sadest moment for me is when I'm off to the airport going to work for the month is seeing a beautiful young lady on her scooter, one of the sexiest sights for me, you never, ever see that in Australia. 

Yup, I used to travel from Huai Khwang to Samut Prakarn daily.  Countless dangling sexy skirted legs sitting side saddle on motorcys going to work.  The reminiscence makes one miss working.

 

Edited January 10, 2022 by Tippaporn

[Tippaporn]

1 minute ago, KhunLA said:

and most other Asian & economically depressed countries around the world.

I forgot to insert "beautiful girls" in that sentence.

[thaibeachlovers]

10 minutes ago, Tippaporn said:

Yup, I used to travel from Huai Khwang to Samut Prakarn daily.  Countless dangling sexy skirted legs sitting side saddle on motorcys going to work.  The reminiscence makes one miss working.

 

Lucky to even see a female wearing a skirt these days, but given what they weigh, it probably doesn't matter.

[KhunLA]

9 minutes ago, Tippaporn said:

I forgot to insert "beautiful girls" in that sentence.

They're all over the world also ... ????

[Lacessit]

57 minutes ago, thaibeachlovers said:

I never visited Thailand without the pleasure of a SYT walking on my spine and pushing all the misaligned vertebrae back into position.

I'd never be brave enough to ask a western woman to do that though, as probably end up paralyzed.

Spot on, she's usually hovering around the 40 - 42 kg mark. A Western woman at that body mass would be anorexic.

[big dendrobenaes]

HAVE you not been to the Philippines ???????????????!!!!

[OneMoreFarang]

1 hour ago, thaibeachlovers said:

back when Hollywood Royal was the cheese

Now that was a looooooong time ago.