Popular Post webfact Posted June 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 2, 2022 When one is in a potentially abusive relationship, there will inevitably be an incident that raises a red flag. And if one sees a sign, the best reaction is to try to get help and walk away from an abusive partner. (Photo by Anete Lusina) OPINION | By Veena Thoopikrajae The courtroom drama between Johnny Depp and Amber Heard offers food for thought for Thais, should a famous Thai man and his former partner ever go head-to-head before the judges and in the full glare of the media. Thailand may reach that point one day, although for now, it’s a far-fetched scenario. Getting a free and fair trial with lots of experts from various disciplines taking the stand is even more remote. Depp and Heard had to allow the public to look into parts of their lives that they might not be proud of. As they recalled their life together including unfavorable and painful sentiments, they had to face not just the conventional Court but the Court of Public Opinion. The “juries” were not just in the courtroom but also on social media. Keep up to date with all things Thailand - Join our daily ASEAN NOW Thailand Newsletter - Click to subscribe Here are what we can learn from this case before their day comes. Document any and all abuse wisely and reach out for help immediately It is important that a victim of domestic abuse documents the incidents in the form of photos, medical records, expert opinions, and where possible, audio or video. Some abusive behaviors are beyond the average person’s expectations, and others are not physical but mental. Victims may need to present this evidence in court to seek justice. Full story: https://www.thaipbsworld.com/what-can-we-learn-from-depp-heard-case/ -- © Copyright Thai PBS 2022-06-03 - Cigna offers a range of visa-compliant plans that meet the minimum requirement of medical treatment, including COVID-19, up to THB 3m. For more information on all expat health insurance plans click here. Easiest way to own a car in Thailand - click here to find out more! 1 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted June 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 2, 2022 I had just started a new relationship when the lady tried to snap my phone out of my hands, and yelled at me when I snapped it back from her, and accused me to have something to hide. I slept on my side on her bed that night, and checked out early and flew back home. This was in Norway, and I had no tolerance and still do not have for any kind of bullpie like that. I believe that have saved me for alot of trouble living by the qoute “If you are not sure, you are sure”! My skyding teacher teaching us when we should cut away the main parachute and pull the reserve. 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post scubascuba3 Posted June 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 2, 2022 We learnt that women (Heard) can lie and make up stories so yes taking photos and audio is a good idea, proves someone isn't lying 10 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geisha Posted June 2, 2022 Share Posted June 2, 2022 What we can learn, is not to lie in court for a start. The good lawyers will catch you out. I think it’s a good idea not to adopt this kind of practice in Thailand, because the court rooms would be saturated in 48 hrs. I had neighbors who made my life hell, screaming, fighting, breaking things ( ring a bell ?) the next day all love and smiles again. There is a big difference between this sort of behavior to verbal/ physical abuse , violence , rape.I also knew a lady who when she hit the bottle, smashed the place up a bit and end in tears. Both her , sober, and her husband were really lovely people. People like that need medical help, not court. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post daveAustin Posted June 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 2, 2022 What can we learn from Depp-Heard case Just because they’re pretty, doesn’t mean they don’t lie. He should’ve set up some video of the witch in action, but guess he’s too chilled for all that. 12 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jacko45k Posted June 2, 2022 Share Posted June 2, 2022 1 hour ago, daveAustin said: What can we learn from Depp-Heard case Just because they’re pretty, doesn’t mean they don’t lie. He should’ve set up some video of the witch in action, but guess he’s too chilled for all that. He doe come across as a pretty cool dude doesn't he! Some cash went up in smoke over all this dirty linen. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Laughing Gravy Posted June 2, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 2, 2022 What can we learn from Depp-Heard case Both are drama queens and don't mind airing their 'dirty linen' in public. Personally I found the whole saga nauseating. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sammieuk1 Posted June 3, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 3, 2022 What I leant was they are both actors ???? 8 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted June 3, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 3, 2022 3 hours ago, webfact said: Here are what we can learn from this case before their day comes. Don't pretend people are guilty only because someone accuses them. If person A thinks person B assaulted them then person A should go to the police, preferably right away after it happened. If there is evidence then person B will be prosecuted. And if there is enough evidence then person B will be punished. And until there is a verdict then stay with the long tradition that someone is innocent until proven guilty. The current drama, and many others, wouldn't exist if people would look at facts and not just accusations. If Amber had evidence that Johnny hit her then she should have told the police. But that is not what she did. Instead she told everybody what a bad guy he is and the media reported it and Johnny was suddenly the bad guy and he lost his jobs and his income. All because of accusations. It's time to reverse this crazy trend that accusations are enough to ruin someone else life - without any consequences for the accuser who makes up these accusations. And additionally it's time that some people, especially feminists, learn, that there are male and female abusers and victims. It should be obvious but it seems many feminists still think if they just repeat often enough that all women always tell the truth that we should somehow believe them. If those feminists want to move forward and if they want to be takes seriously in the future then I suggest they publish something like this: Amber obviously lied. She is guilty. Some woman do lie. Don't believe all of them. Listen to people who claim they have been abused, encourage them to go to the police. And let the justice system do it's job. 7 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jcmj Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 Stay away from Hollywood news. It’ll truly waste your time. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted June 3, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 3, 2022 5 minutes ago, sammieuk1 said: What I leant was they are both actors ???? One a good actor and one a terrible and deluded actor. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sammieuk1 Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 2 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: One a good actor and one a terrible and deluded actor. But who played who? ???? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted June 3, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 3, 2022 20 minutes ago, Laughing Gravy said: Both are drama queens and don't mind airing their 'dirty linen' in public. Personally I found the whole saga nauseating. This court cases wouldn't have happened without her wrong accusations. He lost his jobs and income because of her baseless accusations. I am sure Johnny is not proud of everything he did in his life and I am sure he would have been happier not to see all this in court. But it was his only chance to clean his name and to be able to continue a "normal" life again. 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted June 3, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 3, 2022 1 minute ago, sammieuk1 said: But who played who? ???? She played the victim who never did anything wrong. And she failed miserably. He didn't have to act. 8 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kenchamp Posted June 3, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 3, 2022 For far too long in western countries it has been assumed that men are the aggressors and poor little women should be taken care of and nasty, violent men be condemmed. Horrible feminist women have taught women to say the words, frightened and violent in order to get their way. My ex-wife manipulated the pro-women system to get at me when in truth i was the victim. Lets hope this case at least shows that some/a lot of women lie 8 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Excel Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 What an we learn ? What a strange question as surely when it comes to actors they have spent a lifetime pretending to be someone else and playing many parts, and of course their number one rule is any publicity is good publicity. so what is there to learn other perhaps than to ignore such trifle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsari Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 Learnt that Johnny Depp has a good sense of smell . 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sammieuk1 Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 7 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: She played the victim who never did anything wrong. And she failed miserably. He didn't have to act. You appear to have superior knowledge of the case and I close my defense ???? 2 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BangkokReady Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 3 hours ago, Hummin said: “If you are not sure, you are sure”! It's amazing how the human mind can keep us hanging around in situations that are not good for us. I like "If it isn't an enthusiastic yes, then it's a no". 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post spidermike007 Posted June 3, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 3, 2022 In the hyper PC, overly woke world we now live in, accusations need to be proven. Many men have been taken down by women who would not and could not prove anything they accused the man of. Cancel culture is alive and well in the West. I am not saying bad thing don't happen by bad men. But there needs to be a burden of proof on the women making those accusations. 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laughing Gravy Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 34 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: But it was his only chance to clean his name and to be able to continue a "normal" life again. Personally I don't think he ever can clean his name , especially after all that brought up. I am no star follower, so I don't give a rats about him or her but you are entitled to have a picture on your wall of either of them????. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spidermike007 Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 4 hours ago, Hummin said: I had just started a new relationship when the lady tried to snap my phone out of my hands, and yelled at me when I snapped it back from her, and accused me to have something to hide. I slept on my side on her bed that night, and checked out early and flew back home. This was in Norway, and I had no tolerance and still do not have for any kind of bullpie like that. I believe that have saved me for alot of trouble living by the qoute “If you are not sure, you are sure”! My skyding teacher teaching us when we should cut away the main parachute and pull the reserve. True that. Doubts are often an ally. You were wise to walk away. Life is way too short to spend it with women who are neurotic, possessive and unworthy. Heard proved that theory! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wombat Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 That it's better to be gay? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted June 3, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 3, 2022 25 minutes ago, sammieuk1 said: You appear to have superior knowledge of the case and I close my defense ???? I watched part of the court case and I listened and watched. You could still try the same. The videos are out there. The conclusion should be obvious. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koolkarl Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 Stay single. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted June 3, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 3, 2022 This is a nice summary 6 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 3 minutes ago, wombat said: That it's better to be gay? Don't they have their share of drama queens? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klauskunkel Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 4 hours ago, webfact said: should a famous Thai man and his former partner ever go head-to-head before the judges and in the full glare of the media That would be a wet dream for any Thai judge 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boomer6969 Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 (edited) What is the Depp-Heard case? Edited June 3, 2022 by Boomer6969 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted June 3, 2022 Share Posted June 3, 2022 3 minutes ago, Boomer6969 said: What is the Depp-Heard case? https://gprivate.com/5zdu0 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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