Famous Bargirl Lies

[NextG]

26 minutes ago, Rayafa said:

I can keep writing for a long time.

The conclusion is this. If you think that your Thai girl loves you and that you are alone with her, never believe it.

You are just a source of money for her, and she can have several dozen like you. You are just her job.

But at the same time, Thai girls do their job very well. They give the highest level of service if she likes you at least a little and pays well. You will never get such service even from a real wife.

On your final sentence, we disagree…. and to be frank, quite a bit of the rest of what you wrote. If you don’t pay, you are not a source of money. That doesn’t mean they won’t get money from someone else. 
100% I get better ‘service’ from the people who actually like/love me. 
Speak for yourself. 

Edited May 6, 2023 by NextG

[scottiejohn]

47 minutes ago, Rayafa said:

The Chinese have small penises.

please provide the reference and relevance please!

[onthedarkside]

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[Confuscious]

On 1/7/2023 at 8:52 PM, OneMoreFarang said:

Don't give her money, and don't promise her any money. Talk to her, walk with her in the park for an hour like lovers do that. Does your favorite girl do that? Does she even show up if you don't promise her money?

Well, .................................................

Is that not exactly how 99,99 of the ASEANNOW members meet their wives.
99,99% of the AASEANNOW members are married to PHD degree or CEO of an important industry in Thailand and some of them also abroad.

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[KhunHeineken]

3 hours ago, NextG said:

If you don’t pay, you are not a source of money.

I've known a few guys over the years that will look me in the face and say they do not pay their Thai lady for sex, yet admit to buying her the latest phone, new motorbike, and sending money to the family in the village for some house repair that doesn't really exist etc. 

 

Money, money money. Paying, paying, paying, but never for the sex. 

 

Whatever reconciles it for them in their own head, they fool no one, only themselves. 

[NextG]

4 hours ago, KhunHeineken said:

I've known a few guys over the years that will look me in the face and say they do not pay their Thai lady for sex, yet admit to buying her the latest phone, new motorbike, and sending money to the family in the village for some house repair that doesn't really exist etc. 

 

Money, money money. Paying, paying, paying, but never for the sex. 

 

Whatever reconciles it for them in their own head, they fool no one, only themselves. 

Sounds like quite the existence. If they can do that and live long healthy and happy lives, then we can say that it works for some. 

[Danderman123]

7 hours ago, KhunHeineken said:

I've known a few guys over the years that will look me in the face and say they do not pay their Thai lady for sex, yet admit to buying her the latest phone, new motorbike, and sending money to the family in the village for some house repair that doesn't really exist etc. 

 

Money, money money. Paying, paying, paying, but never for the sex. 

 

Whatever reconciles it for them in their own head, they fool no one, only themselves. 

Since the topic is Bar Girl lies, I should mention one very common Bargirl lie: 

 

"I no give my boyfriend money".

 

This is a lie that Bargirls believe. Even when they are handing their boyfriend cash. 

 

One lady I know sometimes has an emergency and hits me up for small amounts of cash. Its not like she didn't know she was short of cash, its because her Thai boyfriend needs money when she is broke.

 

 

[Danderman123]

3 hours ago, NextG said:

Sounds like quite the existence. If they can do that and live long healthy and happy lives, then we can say that it works for some. 

This always crashes down when reality hits. A bargirl can have a relationship with a customer for years, and then walk away with zero warning.

[NextG]

1 hour ago, Danderman123 said:

This always crashes down when reality hits. A bargirl can have a relationship with a customer for years, and then walk away with zero warning.

Most refuse to listen, in the hope that their situation will be different. It’s like a running joke that is not at all funny. 
I’ve met girls who would do most anything for me, but understood that I would not ever allow myself to bond with them. If I would not consider such a girl in my home country, it would be even more ridiculous to consider in another. But that did not stop me from treating them as I would want to be treated. So I got to see another side. I would even be sitting there whilst they met potential suitors. I would hope for the best for both of them… I know of only one couple who have been successful. But they moved away from Thailand. I make a point of not getting involved with any of their relationships, even if they write. I keep everything above board. These are my standards. I know a lot, but I don’t get involved. 


 

[KhunHeineken]

6 hours ago, NextG said:

Sounds like quite the existence. If they can do that and live long healthy and happy lives, then we can say that it works for some. 

It works, until the money runs out, or a wealthier guy comes along. 

[BritManToo]

7 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

This always crashes down when reality hits. A bargirl can have a relationship with a customer for years, and then walk away with zero warning.

Same deal with my Brit wife.

Except she had me escorted away and kept my home.

The sudden exits are a woman thing, not a hooker thing.

 

When I see the 'bargirls bad' posts, I think to myself this guy never managed a LTR in his home country.

Edited May 7, 2023 by BritManToo

[Danderman123]

On 5/6/2023 at 7:10 PM, NextG said:

On your final sentence, we disagree…. and to be frank, quite a bit of the rest of what you wrote. If you don’t pay, you are not a source of money. That doesn’t mean they won’t get money from someone else. 
100% I get better ‘service’ from the people who actually like/love me. 
Speak for yourself. 

You guys who get freebies from bargirls are exceptional. 

[BritManToo]

17 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

You guys who get freebies from bargirls are exceptional. 

I think you mean delusional.

Same as the guys who married Thai women that support them.

 

Never met any man that actually got free sex, but met plenty who claimed it.

Don't know why so many men want to pretend it's free.

Does anyone believe them? Not me!

 

Edited May 9, 2023 by BritManToo

[NextG]

1 hour ago, Danderman123 said:

You guys who get freebies from bargirls are exceptional. 

Freebies offered or otherwise(sometimes one baht), I am not interested. 

One girl who offered for one baht, told she was living in an apartment in Jomtien provided by her ‘boyfriend’. 
When the cat is away….

Who needs the stress of needing to have a check up after every encounter? Good girls are more fun. When I look around at what is on offer in Pattaya, I can say that being tempted is not an issue. I guess you need to be really drunk or just not care. 
 

[NextG]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

I think you mean delusional.

Same as the guys who married Thai women that support them.

 

Never met any man that actually got free sex, but met plenty who claimed it.

Don't know why so many men want to pretend it's free.

Does anyone believe them? Not me!

 

You don’t need to believe and I don’t need to lie; it’s an anonymous forum. 
“Free” has not ever been an issue for me, especially since I’m not in a hurry. It’s not as if every woman is running after me. Who would want that anyway? It’s possibly that I value myself more than to pay someone to force themselves to be with me. If they don’t want, they don’t want. If they do, we can talk about it, but me giving them money for their participation is out of the question. Usually it’s them wanting to buy gifts etc Flattering but it won’t make me stay with someone not suitable. If I stay it will usually  be for a reason not financial. 

[jacko45k]

18 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Never met any man that actually got free sex, but met plenty who claimed it.

Never came across one who didn't want the money personally!

[Hummin]

7 hours ago, jacko45k said:

Never came across one who didn't want the money personally!

Those who invest in you, deny money, happened several times, but I was a bit younger and hansume back in the days. Now I have no idea.

 

One caddie travelled from Hua Hin to visit me on Koh Phangan, before meeting her bf at Koh Samui, did not want any travel money or anything.

 

Same happened a few times. All depending on who you are. Also seen younger bg girls running away with younger falang boys just for fun, not claiming bar fee or anything.

[NextG]

27 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Those who invest in you, deny money, happened several times, but I was a bit younger and hansume back in the days. Now I have no idea.

 

One caddie travelled from Hua Hin to visit me on Koh Phangan, before meeting her bf at Koh Samui, did not want any travel money or anything.

 

Same happened a few times. All depending on who you are. Also seen younger bg girls running away with younger falang boys just for fun, not claiming bar fee or anything.

It’s weird to me that some are incredulous that this happens. In fact your post reminded me of the times it happened that I had forgotten and I still chose to not take advantage and they still were in the case afterwards. 
One of the reasons I think is that they saw me alone every day and perhaps decided that they wanted to be the one. 
But I also met girls who claimed that they just came down from Bangkok/Wherever  to have ‘fun’ anonymously. They could pick and choose in a way not available to

them where they lived.  Another girl told me that her father was a high ranking policeman/military(don’t remember exactly) and that she was also down for the fun. 
It’s not the same for everyone….

 

[BritManToo]

9 hours ago, jacko45k said:

Never came across one who didn't want the money personally!

Never came across an attractive one that didn't want the money.

[NextG]

15 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Never came across an attractive one that didn't want the money.

You’d be surprised….verily. Even if I showed you pics, you would then doubt something else. 

[Danderman123]

14 minutes ago, NextG said:

Why would it not???

Most people tend to post on topic, which is "Famous Bargirl Lies", not "Famous Customer Lies".

[hotandsticky]

18 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Never came across an attractive one that didn't want the money.

 

I never came across an ugly one who didn't want the money!  ????

 

"Thai lady have to earn the money" - said my missus, and many others.

[Danderman123]

Just now, hotandsticky said:

 

I never came across an ugly one who didn't want the money!  ????

 

"Thai lady have to earn the money" - said my missus, and many others.

To be fair, some bargirls will go with a young hansum Farang for free.

[BritManToo]

6 minutes ago, NextG said:

Your bitterness is shining through. There’s a whole world out there of which you have apparently not ever experienced. 

If you're so great, why are you in Thailand (Land of easy women)?

[BritManToo]

On 5/7/2023 at 6:35 AM, Danderman123 said:

This always crashes down when reality hits. A bargirl can have a relationship with a customer for years, and then walk away with zero warning.

Sounds to me like a golden opportunity to get a new younger one.

The trick is never to part with your assets.

 

Don't get me wrong, I love my woman.

But I also loved the previous one, and I will love the next one.

Edited May 11, 2023 by BritManToo

[NextG]

1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

If you're so great, why are you in Thailand (Land of easy women)?

It has a lot more to offer than easy women ☺️
When I first arrived, I stayed at a beach bungalow a few metres from the water’s edge. Was a paradise that few wanted to leave. My life isn’t that different now. 
Not everyone came for the girls and to be honest, 99% of them weren’t my type. I mostly met western women in the capital and the islands. Travel was to broaden my horizons. In fact most of my peers were appalled at the sex tourism. But then it was limited to certain enclaves. It was more like a kind of funny zoo to us. The sex tourists would describe us as ‘dirty backpackers’ whilst trying to convince themselves that they were somewhat better than us. 
Then came a wave of ‘chavs’ who discovered that ‘cheap sex’ was available and sex tourism began to encroach other areas.  
So please believe me… there is a whole other world outside your imagination. 

[NextG]

26 minutes ago, Danderman123 said:

Most people tend to post on topic, which is "Famous Bargirl Lies", not "Famous Customer Lies".

I have posted on-topic, if you care to take a look back. It can happen that the conversation expands… That’s the nature of conversation. 

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[hotandsticky]

4 hours ago, Danderman123 said:

To be fair, some bargirls will go with a young hansum Farang for free.

 

Never happened to me!  ????

[jacko45k]

21 hours ago, hotandsticky said:

I never came across an ugly one who didn't want the money

Considering your moniker, no further detail required.