NextG Posted May 6, 2023 Share Posted May 6, 2023 1 hour ago, Rayafa said: I want to tell you how I first checked my girlfriend for a lie. It was very easy to do this. Earlier I wrote that my girlfriend said that she works in a beauty salon and rarely freelances after work and goes with clients only for a short time 1-3 times a week due to lack of money. The first time we met intermittently. I gave her 1500 baht for the meeting. And one day she arrived with the smell of alcohol. I was surprised that an employee of a beauty salon drinks alcohol at work. I met her on the site thaifriendly, her profile said that she was looking for a friend for a serious relationship. So I opened two additional questionnaires. One for my friend who was also in Pattaya at the time and lived in Protarmak. He is very ugly and very fat. And I opened a second fake profile, with someone else's photos of a handsome athletic guy, 45 years old, who supposedly lives in a hotel next to me. After that, I began to correspond with my girlfriend at the same time from three profiles. She answered all three willingly. And immediately agreed to meet for a short time both with men and with my friend and fake. I agreed with my fat friend and he agreed to meet her for 1500 baht. And from his profile, I signed up for 3 pm. And from my profile, I made an appointment with her at 5 pm. At three o'clock in the afternoon she was with my friend at the hotel. At half past five, half an hour before meeting me, I wrote from the second fake profile of the guy that he was ready to meet now for 1200 baht for a short time. And if you like everything, then for a long time for 2000 baht. My girlfriend immediately agreed. She texted me that she would be two hours late because she urgently needed to go shopping. And she went for a fake to a nearby hotel. When she arrived at the hotel, the fake apologized and wrote to her that he could not meet. Since his plumbing broke down and a specialist mechanic came into the room. Beloved girl immediately joyfully wrote to me that she had already arrived. I asked why so early?? After all, she had plans to go to the store. She replied that she had postponed everything, because she loved me very much and wanted to meet as soon as possible. We had sex and I suggested that she stay the night and give 3,000 baht for a taxi in the morning. She agreed. But I immediately wrote to her from a fake profile that the mechanic had done his job and the client was free. And that he is willing to pay 2500 baht for a night with my girlfriend. And she immediately remembered that she had some urgent business and she could not stay with me for the night. She took 1500 baht from me and went to a fake client. Haha. ???? An interesting report nonetheless…???? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rayafa Posted May 6, 2023 Share Posted May 6, 2023 I can keep writing for a long time. The conclusion is this. If you think that your Thai girl loves you and that you are alone with her, never believe it. You are just a source of money for her, and she can have several dozen like you. You are just her job. But at the same time, Thai girls do their job very well. They give the highest level of service if she likes you at least a little and pays well. You will never get such service even from a real wife. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NextG Posted May 6, 2023 Share Posted May 6, 2023 (edited) 26 minutes ago, Rayafa said: I can keep writing for a long time. The conclusion is this. If you think that your Thai girl loves you and that you are alone with her, never believe it. You are just a source of money for her, and she can have several dozen like you. You are just her job. But at the same time, Thai girls do their job very well. They give the highest level of service if she likes you at least a little and pays well. You will never get such service even from a real wife. On your final sentence, we disagree…. and to be frank, quite a bit of the rest of what you wrote. If you don’t pay, you are not a source of money. That doesn’t mean they won’t get money from someone else. 100% I get better ‘service’ from the people who actually like/love me. Speak for yourself. Edited May 6, 2023 by NextG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scottiejohn Posted May 6, 2023 Share Posted May 6, 2023 47 minutes ago, Rayafa said: The Chinese have small penises. please provide the reference and relevance please! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onthedarkside Posted May 6, 2023 Share Posted May 6, 2023 A foreign language video has been removed. Foreign language phone screenshots removed. Some of the posts discussing specifics of prostitution in Thailand also removed: Please note forum rule: 29. You will not discuss the specifics of prostitution. Although Thailand has a visible sex industry and acknowledgement of that fact is not forbidden, ASEAN NOW is not the place to seek or give information on this topic. ASEAN NOW seeks to protect children and other at risk groups from exploitation on the internet. Any content that appears to be inappropriate or exploitative will be removed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Confuscious Posted May 6, 2023 Share Posted May 6, 2023 On 1/7/2023 at 8:52 PM, OneMoreFarang said: Don't give her money, and don't promise her any money. Talk to her, walk with her in the park for an hour like lovers do that. Does your favorite girl do that? Does she even show up if you don't promise her money? Well, ................................................. Is that not exactly how 99,99 of the ASEANNOW members meet their wives. 99,99% of the AASEANNOW members are married to PHD degree or CEO of an important industry in Thailand and some of them also abroad. ........................................................................................... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KhunHeineken Posted May 6, 2023 Share Posted May 6, 2023 3 hours ago, NextG said: If you don’t pay, you are not a source of money. I've known a few guys over the years that will look me in the face and say they do not pay their Thai lady for sex, yet admit to buying her the latest phone, new motorbike, and sending money to the family in the village for some house repair that doesn't really exist etc. Money, money money. Paying, paying, paying, but never for the sex. Whatever reconciles it for them in their own head, they fool no one, only themselves. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NextG Posted May 6, 2023 Share Posted May 6, 2023 4 hours ago, KhunHeineken said: I've known a few guys over the years that will look me in the face and say they do not pay their Thai lady for sex, yet admit to buying her the latest phone, new motorbike, and sending money to the family in the village for some house repair that doesn't really exist etc. Money, money money. Paying, paying, paying, but never for the sex. Whatever reconciles it for them in their own head, they fool no one, only themselves. Sounds like quite the existence. If they can do that and live long healthy and happy lives, then we can say that it works for some. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danderman123 Posted May 6, 2023 Author Share Posted May 6, 2023 7 hours ago, KhunHeineken said: I've known a few guys over the years that will look me in the face and say they do not pay their Thai lady for sex, yet admit to buying her the latest phone, new motorbike, and sending money to the family in the village for some house repair that doesn't really exist etc. Money, money money. Paying, paying, paying, but never for the sex. Whatever reconciles it for them in their own head, they fool no one, only themselves. Since the topic is Bar Girl lies, I should mention one very common Bargirl lie: "I no give my boyfriend money". This is a lie that Bargirls believe. Even when they are handing their boyfriend cash. One lady I know sometimes has an emergency and hits me up for small amounts of cash. Its not like she didn't know she was short of cash, its because her Thai boyfriend needs money when she is broke. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danderman123 Posted May 6, 2023 Author Share Posted May 6, 2023 3 hours ago, NextG said: Sounds like quite the existence. If they can do that and live long healthy and happy lives, then we can say that it works for some. This always crashes down when reality hits. A bargirl can have a relationship with a customer for years, and then walk away with zero warning. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NextG Posted May 7, 2023 Share Posted May 7, 2023 1 hour ago, Danderman123 said: This always crashes down when reality hits. A bargirl can have a relationship with a customer for years, and then walk away with zero warning. Most refuse to listen, in the hope that their situation will be different. It’s like a running joke that is not at all funny. I’ve met girls who would do most anything for me, but understood that I would not ever allow myself to bond with them. If I would not consider such a girl in my home country, it would be even more ridiculous to consider in another. But that did not stop me from treating them as I would want to be treated. So I got to see another side. I would even be sitting there whilst they met potential suitors. I would hope for the best for both of them… I know of only one couple who have been successful. But they moved away from Thailand. I make a point of not getting involved with any of their relationships, even if they write. I keep everything above board. These are my standards. I know a lot, but I don’t get involved. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KhunHeineken Posted May 7, 2023 Share Posted May 7, 2023 6 hours ago, NextG said: Sounds like quite the existence. If they can do that and live long healthy and happy lives, then we can say that it works for some. It works, until the money runs out, or a wealthier guy comes along. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 7, 2023 Share Posted May 7, 2023 (edited) 7 hours ago, Danderman123 said: This always crashes down when reality hits. A bargirl can have a relationship with a customer for years, and then walk away with zero warning. Same deal with my Brit wife. Except she had me escorted away and kept my home. The sudden exits are a woman thing, not a hooker thing. When I see the 'bargirls bad' posts, I think to myself this guy never managed a LTR in his home country. Edited May 7, 2023 by BritManToo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danderman123 Posted May 9, 2023 Author Share Posted May 9, 2023 On 5/6/2023 at 7:10 PM, NextG said: On your final sentence, we disagree…. and to be frank, quite a bit of the rest of what you wrote. If you don’t pay, you are not a source of money. That doesn’t mean they won’t get money from someone else. 100% I get better ‘service’ from the people who actually like/love me. Speak for yourself. You guys who get freebies from bargirls are exceptional. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 9, 2023 Share Posted May 9, 2023 (edited) 17 minutes ago, Danderman123 said: You guys who get freebies from bargirls are exceptional. I think you mean delusional. Same as the guys who married Thai women that support them. Never met any man that actually got free sex, but met plenty who claimed it. Don't know why so many men want to pretend it's free. Does anyone believe them? Not me! Edited May 9, 2023 by BritManToo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NextG Posted May 9, 2023 Share Posted May 9, 2023 1 hour ago, Danderman123 said: You guys who get freebies from bargirls are exceptional. Freebies offered or otherwise(sometimes one baht), I am not interested. One girl who offered for one baht, told she was living in an apartment in Jomtien provided by her ‘boyfriend’. When the cat is away…. Who needs the stress of needing to have a check up after every encounter? Good girls are more fun. When I look around at what is on offer in Pattaya, I can say that being tempted is not an issue. I guess you need to be really drunk or just not care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NextG Posted May 9, 2023 Share Posted May 9, 2023 1 hour ago, BritManToo said: I think you mean delusional. Same as the guys who married Thai women that support them. Never met any man that actually got free sex, but met plenty who claimed it. Don't know why so many men want to pretend it's free. Does anyone believe them? Not me! You don’t need to believe and I don’t need to lie; it’s an anonymous forum. “Free” has not ever been an issue for me, especially since I’m not in a hurry. It’s not as if every woman is running after me. Who would want that anyway? It’s possibly that I value myself more than to pay someone to force themselves to be with me. If they don’t want, they don’t want. If they do, we can talk about it, but me giving them money for their participation is out of the question. Usually it’s them wanting to buy gifts etc Flattering but it won’t make me stay with someone not suitable. If I stay it will usually be for a reason not financial. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jacko45k Posted May 9, 2023 Share Posted May 9, 2023 18 hours ago, BritManToo said: Never met any man that actually got free sex, but met plenty who claimed it. Never came across one who didn't want the money personally! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 7 hours ago, jacko45k said: Never came across one who didn't want the money personally! Those who invest in you, deny money, happened several times, but I was a bit younger and hansume back in the days. Now I have no idea. One caddie travelled from Hua Hin to visit me on Koh Phangan, before meeting her bf at Koh Samui, did not want any travel money or anything. Same happened a few times. All depending on who you are. Also seen younger bg girls running away with younger falang boys just for fun, not claiming bar fee or anything. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NextG Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 27 minutes ago, Hummin said: Those who invest in you, deny money, happened several times, but I was a bit younger and hansume back in the days. Now I have no idea. One caddie travelled from Hua Hin to visit me on Koh Phangan, before meeting her bf at Koh Samui, did not want any travel money or anything. Same happened a few times. All depending on who you are. Also seen younger bg girls running away with younger falang boys just for fun, not claiming bar fee or anything. It’s weird to me that some are incredulous that this happens. In fact your post reminded me of the times it happened that I had forgotten and I still chose to not take advantage and they still were in the case afterwards. One of the reasons I think is that they saw me alone every day and perhaps decided that they wanted to be the one. But I also met girls who claimed that they just came down from Bangkok/Wherever to have ‘fun’ anonymously. They could pick and choose in a way not available to them where they lived. Another girl told me that her father was a high ranking policeman/military(don’t remember exactly) and that she was also down for the fun. It’s not the same for everyone…. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 9 hours ago, jacko45k said: Never came across one who didn't want the money personally! Never came across an attractive one that didn't want the money. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NextG Posted May 11, 2023 Share Posted May 11, 2023 15 hours ago, BritManToo said: Never came across an attractive one that didn't want the money. You’d be surprised….verily. Even if I showed you pics, you would then doubt something else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danderman123 Posted May 11, 2023 Author Share Posted May 11, 2023 14 minutes ago, NextG said: Why would it not??? Most people tend to post on topic, which is "Famous Bargirl Lies", not "Famous Customer Lies". 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotandsticky Posted May 11, 2023 Share Posted May 11, 2023 18 hours ago, BritManToo said: Never came across an attractive one that didn't want the money. I never came across an ugly one who didn't want the money! ???? "Thai lady have to earn the money" - said my missus, and many others. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danderman123 Posted May 11, 2023 Author Share Posted May 11, 2023 Just now, hotandsticky said: I never came across an ugly one who didn't want the money! ???? "Thai lady have to earn the money" - said my missus, and many others. To be fair, some bargirls will go with a young hansum Farang for free. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 11, 2023 Share Posted May 11, 2023 6 minutes ago, NextG said: Your bitterness is shining through. There’s a whole world out there of which you have apparently not ever experienced. If you're so great, why are you in Thailand (Land of easy women)? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 11, 2023 Share Posted May 11, 2023 (edited) On 5/7/2023 at 6:35 AM, Danderman123 said: This always crashes down when reality hits. A bargirl can have a relationship with a customer for years, and then walk away with zero warning. Sounds to me like a golden opportunity to get a new younger one. The trick is never to part with your assets. Don't get me wrong, I love my woman. But I also loved the previous one, and I will love the next one. Edited May 11, 2023 by BritManToo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NextG Posted May 11, 2023 Share Posted May 11, 2023 1 minute ago, BritManToo said: If you're so great, why are you in Thailand (Land of easy women)? It has a lot more to offer than easy women ☺️ When I first arrived, I stayed at a beach bungalow a few metres from the water’s edge. Was a paradise that few wanted to leave. My life isn’t that different now. Not everyone came for the girls and to be honest, 99% of them weren’t my type. I mostly met western women in the capital and the islands. Travel was to broaden my horizons. In fact most of my peers were appalled at the sex tourism. But then it was limited to certain enclaves. It was more like a kind of funny zoo to us. The sex tourists would describe us as ‘dirty backpackers’ whilst trying to convince themselves that they were somewhat better than us. Then came a wave of ‘chavs’ who discovered that ‘cheap sex’ was available and sex tourism began to encroach other areas. So please believe me… there is a whole other world outside your imagination. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NextG Posted May 11, 2023 Share Posted May 11, 2023 26 minutes ago, Danderman123 said: Most people tend to post on topic, which is "Famous Bargirl Lies", not "Famous Customer Lies". I have posted on-topic, if you care to take a look back. It can happen that the conversation expands… That’s the nature of conversation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pink Mist Posted May 11, 2023 Share Posted May 11, 2023 Posts talking about prostitution have been removed as well as a personal attack. 29. You will not discuss the specifics of prostitution. Although Thailand has a visible sex industry and acknowledgement of that fact is not forbidden, ASEAN NOW is not the place to seek or give information on this topic. ASEAN NOW seeks to protect children and other at risk groups from exploitation on the internet. Any content that appears to be inappropriate or exploitative will be removed. Standards of Conduct 1. Do not respond to insults with more insults. Instead use the report button to report inflammatory posts. 2. Do not post off-topic responses as they can often hijack the topic. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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