What should I do if I no longer find my wife attractive?

[bob smith]

mrs. smiths body aint what it used to be, putting it mildly.

I am already visiting girls on the side regularly but I do kinda feel bad about it.

It's not her fault after all. well it kind of is actually, she eats like a pig and ive told her that but every time i mention she just keeps on eating, almost in spite...

She is also very moody these days. Snaps at the smallest thing.

she says she still loves me though and could never leave me.

 

what should I do?

I still like her personality a bit but i dont find her sexually attractive anymore.

We sleep in seperate bedrooms and thats the way i want it.

 

Should I continue getting my kicks on the side, possibly think about trading her in for a younger model, or should I just accept my lot in life and try to make my woman happy?

[thaibeachlovers]

You bought her ( tied the knot ). Unless she does something bad enough to divorce her you owe her to stay married.

However, if she won't do it with you, then I see no reason not to have some on the side.

 

Seems that commitment and integrity are vanishing at a rapid rate these days.

[LaosLover]

If they ever re-make The Sixth Sense, you can reprise the Bruce Willis role of a guy who's dead but doesn't know it. You're already gone, let your ghost drift to where it needs to go.

[bob smith]

1 minute ago, thaibeachlovers said:

However, if she won't do it with you, then I see no reason not to have some on the side.

she wiill do it with me. I just dont wanna do it with her.

 

a sack of spuds i believe is the saying.

[JBChiangRai]

Bob, you are a fine figure of a human being.

 

True inspiration to us all.

 

Your moral compass is exceptional.

[thaibeachlovers]

Just now, bob smith said:

she wiill do it with me. I just dont wanna do it with her.

 

a sack of spuds i believe is the saying.

If that's how you feel, you shouldn't have got married then. Did you think she was going to stay the same her entire life?

I got divorced, because my wife became the screaming hagbitch from hell and wouldn't make love. Doesn't sound like that is your wife.

 

[LaosLover]

5 minutes ago, bob smith said:

 

 

a sack of spuds.

Still better than what would have sex with you back home.

[2baht]

A blow up rubber doll, Bob. They don't eat, don't get fat, don't nag, could be just the thing for you!

[LaosLover]

Are we yet in the realm of more Chins than a Chinese phone book?

[KannikaP]

7 minutes ago, JBChiangRai said:

Bob, you are a fine figure of a human being.

 

True inspiration to us all.

 

Your moral compass is exceptional.

Now, look in a mirror.

[2baht]

Just now, LaosLover said:

Are we yet in the realm of more Chins than a Chinese phone book?

Maybe he wang the Wong number!

[bob smith]

4 minutes ago, 2baht said:

A blow up rubber doll, Bob. They don't eat, don't get fat, don't nag, could be just the thing for you!

you may be onto something there. 

 

do they sell em on lower sukhumvit? ????

[JBChiangRai]

2 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

Now, look in a mirror.

I try to avoid that, in my minds-eye I am still a handsome 21 year old, the mirror destroys that illusion.

[Dan O]

19 minutes ago, bob smith said:

she wiill do it with me. I just dont wanna do it with her.

 

a sack of spuds i believe is the saying.

Have you looked in the mirror lately? 

[marin]

12 minutes ago, bob smith said:

i obviously knew she was going to age eventually. but what i didnt know was she was going to eat 7 meals a day.

 

the fat git is constantly stuffing her face. she's like a dustbin! 

Something makes me wonder if you are the problem.

[2long]

This thread is attention-seeking clickbait, and not the first one recently. But it works on here!

Could it be that the OP is not perfect, and that some productive and positive stimulation or inspiration could get things back on track? A lot of fat people eat because they're depressed, and they're depressed because they're overweight. It's similar with drinkers.

[nikmar]

time for a sit down and a chat. Similar issues with mrs Nik. We both made an effore and things are good between us, albeit with the occassional bump. We had a date night last week - Oppenheimer at the cinema and dinner at Wine Connection. Wonderful day. 

Nothing beats communication to make a relationship work.

[bob smith]

Just now, nikmar said:

Oppenheimer at the cinema and dinner at Wine Connection. Wonderful day. 

i watched that alone last week. I know the story inside out so to see it on the big screen was a bit boring.

 

I thought about taking the mrs with me but i would have had to pay for the extra large seats. saved my money for popcorn instead..

[tomazbodner]

33 minutes ago, bob smith said:

what should I do?

I still like her personality a bit but i dont find her sexually attractive anymore.

We sleep in seperate bedrooms and thats the way i want it.

Get castrated.

[gargamon]

I don't find your wife attractive any more either. Could you please tell her to stop coming to my house when you're 

[OneMoreFarang]

31 minutes ago, bob smith said:

possibly think about trading her in for a younger model

How would you do that?

Do you think there is a younger model out there who wants to stay with you?

And just in case you find one, then maybe let her read your posts in this forum so that she understands you before she makes a commitment.

In the previous thread you made it clear you don't want a woman who is interested in money.

 

I advise stay with your current wife and be happy that there is one woman out there who wants to live with you. You found her. 

 

[bob smith]

2 minutes ago, tomazbodner said:

Get castrated.

bit harsh dont you think? do you want me to sound like joe pasquale?

[bob smith]

1 minute ago, OneMoreFarang said:

I advise stay with your current wife and be happy that there is one woman out there who wants to live with you. You found her. 

there might be another out there though!

 

You never know whats over the neighbors fence until you take a look, do you!!

[OneMoreFarang]

20 minutes ago, bob smith said:

the fat git is constantly stuffing her face. she's like a dustbin! 

Maybe she knows that is the best way to ensure you don't want to have sex with her.

Win/win for her. 

[blackshadow]

get another there are plenty of fish in the sea !!!!!

[OneMoreFarang]

16 minutes ago, JBChiangRai said:

I try to avoid that, in my minds-eye I am still a handsome 21 year old, the mirror destroys that illusion.

There is an easy modern solution. Girls use it all the time.

Use a phone and switch on some filter and then look at you. You look great!

 

[Shop mak]

Create a collective cohabitation with

@GammaGlobulin

You have a lot in common  

 

The old missus I can't help with.

[roo860]

According to my 150kg wife, eating is a substitute for sex!

[ArnieP]

35 minutes ago, bob smith said:

she wiill do it with me. I just dont wanna do it with her.

 

a sack of spuds i believe is the saying.

I feel sick reading this :(

[jvs]

Another day,another troll.